Ladies, do you have some questions or things you ponder about the fellas?
Why the fellas play video games all night?
Why men try to keep their mate close?


Post your thoughts and 40 of us guys that post on the reg in this forum will try to answer lol

y'all can post if you like

I'll ask this one just for you...


Why, oh why?!

Your up late, there's nothing good on tv, your not really interested in looking at a movie.
Turn on that playstation 2 and let it rip because its entertaining, a lot of games take a while to beat (so your focus on beating the game), great for passing the time.

Why do SOME guys try to embarass you infront of their friends? Lol.

because they are not comfortable having you around there friends. Guys usually joke around with new guys coming into the group so they feel they should do the same with girls.

why cant guys make up their minds when it comes to girls~?!? O.o

Because his friends influence him with his choice in women. You can do anything about this, most guys care what his friend think about the girl he is dating.

I just spent last night playing video games with my friends so allow me to tackle this question.


Dear question-asker,

There is no ONE answer that will explain why us guys piss away a perfectly good night to sleep to play game. For me and my friends, it started out as a fun thing to do to kill time. Then we get to the more difficult levels to beat and harder bosses to kill and suddenly it's no longer just a fun thing, it became a challenge. We also compete to see who has higher scores. That makes game playing a lot more fun, and consequently, addictive.

coz its fun saying "gg no re"

games to guys = clothes/shoes to girls?

I have one, why don't guys call when they say they will, and instead call a week after?

those particular guys are jerks.

Oh okay that makes sense haha Thanks, glad to know it's not typical guy behavior.

its cuz its in the book of men rules

i believe its rule # 581 dont seem desperate. call few days after gettin the fone number

guys play games to relax from their stress.
well at least i do haha. not to the extent of 4am and eyes are bleeding from starring at the 22" lcd.

Do guys ever cry infront of girls because of emotional problems and do guys just act tough around girls, or are they the same when with their friends as well?

This significantly depends on the guy. For the most part, most of us men don't want to be constantly tearing up in front of our girlfriends, especially if it's not a very serious relationship yet. Lots of guys don't try to act impressive, but they don't want to give off a sense of weakness.

Stupid, I know, from a girl's P.O.V, but many things go both ways. I've only ever cried to my g/f over the phone; it better be something huge for me to CRY in front of her.

how would you know if a guy ever truley loved/loves a girl?

this is an unanswerable question.

Do guys like blunt girls? I'm curious on this one.

ahahah i knewww you cant tackle that question....i think no one can o.O?

It depends on which way the girl is blunt. If a girl is blunt because she is confrontational and egotistic, then people, not just guys, won't really favor her. If a girl is blunt because she says it like it is (much like me), then why not like her?

ooh! i like this topic. hmmz why do u flirt with other girls in front of ur gfs?

is "beautiful" a word guys use on any girl he thinks is attractive?

depends. the guy can be a flirty guy so its his nature. or could be he's lost intrest in the current gf. or could be he's trying to make his gf jelous lol.
there a few other reasons too. just look at the situation and figure out which one it is.



no.
i find cute girls attractive but they dont have to be "beautiful" yeah kno?

to be "hot" or "beautiful" is completly different from being attractive. attractivenes can be to someone who isnt as good looking but there personality is exacly what you like. so its preferance too.

and i cant spell

Why does guy, even when they have a girlfriend, always tease a girl? Truthfully, this always happen to me. When I ask this one guy, who was dating one of my friend, why he always tease me, he said that it is because I am his cousin. Now, that is a stupid reason cause i never see him teasing his other cousin who is also a friend of mine.

And then, as for the other dude, he always tease me too when we talk to each other. He is always saying stuff like "you're stupid" or "you're so koreanish", etc. He has a girlfriend already and we are in no way related.

And before you said that what is happening is flirting, I don't really think so. Cause all there teasing are rude and cruel. And I never back down from saying something rude back to them. So, we always have these non-serious banter. However, the way I see it, we're just joking around and having a grand time. (but sometimes, with my loud voice and exaggeration, i don't think people tend to see things the way i see it). However, as one of my friend said to me, the two guys are always mean only to me and no one else. I have no idea why....you think you can help me understand better?

So how do you look at girls without getting caught? Girls check out guys by making eye contact and turning their heads when they walk by, but I heard guys just look straight ahead and only their eyes move. Is that true?

yeah like scribbz said from my experience n mostly among my guy friends they do this to make their gf jealous.
It's because most guys don't want to cling and rather want the other way around so they feel like they have more control in the relationship

would a guy lie to a girl he loves?

Depends on what kind of lie, but everyone lies to everyone. There's no escaping that.

because jealousy bring competitions and you know boys love to watch competition. Plus it makes you want us more.


because you make yourself an easy target to get pick on.


guys that cant hold eye contact with girls are wusses, dont even worry about them. And your second questions, they use there peripheral vision.

I think I already know the answer to this, but thought I might as well ask...lol

When a guy wants to get back together with an ex and he says he's changed, how often is that true?

never

i have a question!!

when a girl (you don't know) stares into your eyes do you get a message that the person likes you?
lol cuz i love to stare at people.. but i think i send WRONG message by looking guys in the eye.

most of these questions depend on the guy
and a lot of these can be said about girls too

Do guys need the attention that they give us?

no

Some girls get pissed if their boyfriend looks at other girls.

But would a guy get pissed if the girl started looking at guys?
(I'm guessing no... but Just wanna make sure)

my bf is mad at me for not telling him that i have talked to the friend that he doesn't like again. i didn't tell him because 1. he was sick that day 2. he would kinna overract =/ now he told me straight up that he doesn't like that friend of mine so should i completely stop to that friend??

I wouldnt get mad, but I cant say the same for every other guy out there. If I could look at other girls, then it should work both ways.


dont go behind our backs because it only shows us the amount of respect you have for us.

This thread is helpful.

If a guys teases/jokes around with a girl a lot, but doesn't give a lot of other girls that kind of attention, does it necessarily mean that he thinks she's cute or pretty?

First part, w3rd. I wouldn't get mad unless her jaw was dropped and drool was running down the side of her mouth. I mean, I can't help but look at other attractive girls.

And to the second part, yeah, disrespect is never a good thing (goes for both genders), but as much as he hates you talking to that other person, he's just going to have to deal with it. Unless that other person's legitly ruining your relationship, I don't see why you'd have to stop being friends.

in a way yes.

i don't think i really went behind his back thoughh. but again he found out himself and yea he said he doesn't really trust me completely but i deserve it T__T but its so hard telling him everything!! and yeahh he wants to know mostly everything..but uhh i'm use to keeping things to myself unless i feel like i need to tell him..but i did promise him i will tell him everything.

And to the second part, yeah, disrespect is never a good thing (goes for both genders), but as much as he hates you talking to that other person, he's just going to have to deal with it. Unless that other person's legitly ruining your relationship, I don't see why you'd have to stop being friends.



i dont think its ruin our relationship. my bf just said that he is a bad person to talk to and i shouldn't stress myself over that foo..

I have a couple questions but I suppose not all is about relationship/behaviour, I hope that's alright? If not, you can ignore but here goes

1. My boyfriend's friends bashed me through msn because they had a fight about some discussion. Boyfriend lives in Canada and his friends are in europe. They don't even know me, haven't seen me (in life only on display pictures), and yet they've called me a whor*, small-chested, small, not intimate enough, ugly body, etc. Why would friends bash their friend's girlfriend?

2. Do guys not like it if their adam's apple is touched? Because my boyfriend doesn't like it.. and said that most people don't. Like it's the one part of his body that I'm not allowed or at least shouldn't touch

3. If you were 'feeling up' your girlfriend, do you expect that she's clean shaven/waxed down south? Would you care if she doesn't or strongly prefer that she does?

4. Do you mean it when you call someone beautiful?

Thanks in advance

hmm, do guys like being sweettalked or not?
or does it depend on the guy?

A retailiation tatic. By getting through to you and make harsh comments to you, they know that that will have an affect on your bf.



no we dont like it when people touch our adam's apple.



it's a matter of preference. I like clean and shaved.


beautiful, cute, pretty, etc.. are all just words. If we say something, we mean it.


depends on the guy.

1.) why do guys suddenly start to ignore their ex in the halls, when they are cool and everything? and they didn't used to do that , even after the break up
2.) why do guys always jump to conclusions? like...when you're just hanging out with a good, kinda close friend..and he shows up at your lunch. your friend just touches your backpack for a while and stuff..why does he get soooo mad?!?

why do guys pick on girls?
its like calling you fat, ugly, &mean.
when you actully seriously ask them
"do u really mean it? "
they go "you're stupid. "

hahaha i have a few questions
[1] are you guys aware that yur girl tells everything (yeah.. EVERYTHING) to her best friend?
(gosh... i hope my besties BF isnt reading this- erck!)
[2] what would you do if her best friend hated you... with a freaking passion?
[3] do outgoing, kinda loud, confident girls appeal to you more than shy, quiet girls?
[4] how does one (girl/guy) stay out of the friends zone?