QUOTE (jae!fany @ Apr 30 2008, 09:17 AM)

[color="#8B0000"]I'm not saying anything about your friend, but honestly, how would she know? Unless she is their girlfriend or is close friends with them, and heard it from the boys themselves, this is a rumour. We'll never know if the boys have girlfriends, and as it has been stated many times before, it's not our business to know. Why depress yourself with it? It's not like we REALLY have a chance with them anyways, so why don't we enjoy them as the Dong Bang we know, WITHOUT girlfriends?
Of course, as a fangirl, I get sad, jealous, all that jazz, (yes, i felt a bit of T__T after i read your post) everytime I see them with other girls, but really, why do we do this to ourselves? I'm sure if they boys DID have girlfriends, the reason they don't announce it to the public is because they love their fans and they KNOW we'd be sad. Meaning, they'd like us to enjoy them as we know them, again, WITHOUT girlfriends.
And really, no one should believe stuff like this unless you hear it from the boys themselves, or if you see it with your own eyes. I know it hurts to see or think about your favorite boys with other girls, but if we don't even know for sure that they have girlfriends, why fret over it? Why waste your time being sad over something that might not even be true?
I agree with what u said..At first, I feel sad too when I found out about this (Micky's x-girlfriend)..but after sometimes, I thought it may not necessarily be true because we never know about it...For example before this we really thought for a long time that Micky's tattoo is TVXQMATE but it's actually TVXQMYC or TVXQMUC..and before this we thought that AVEX is selfish as they didn't release the purple line video and we give a whole lot of comment about it but the video turn out to be for their korean version actually!..after experiencing this sort of thing, I can rationalize better (we are really really confident that we are right but actually we are totally wrong)..We are so silly, we thought that we knows everything but there are some things that we don't know..Furthermore, the boys never mentioned anything about it and in some interviews when asked whether they have girlfriends or not, they say "NO" and they don't seem to be lying about that..We never know it is real unless they speak it for themselves, like before this Jae mentioned that he wants to quit smoking in 2008, then it is confirmed that he did smoke..although there are some mushi mushi pics of micky with that girl, maybe it's because they're really close friend or something...or even if she WAS his girlfriend, we really doesn't have much right to say anything about it because they're normal human and they're BOYS..they deserve to be happy just like normal people..but for me, I prefer if the boys are couple with personalities that I already know and like...like for some reasons I like it if micky are couple with chonmu stephanie..hehe..(but stephanie is more popular with u-kow)..and it's cute if micky is with boa too..Besides this whole issue, just enjoy being their fans for many more reasons that you can find..for me, I enjoy being their fans for their personalities, friendships and of course their music!..They give more happiness in my everyday life..