I'm a person that gets VERY easily jealous, but i try to not show it, because i'm scared he might think i'm some kind of psychotic girlfriend that wants him all for myself, you know?

i want to hear your opinions, do you like it when your s/o gets jealous of you? do you show that you're jealous or do you hold it in and hope that its nothing?

and should you tell him/her about your jealousy?

It's okay, i think alot of people are the same way. they just know how to control it more i guess..
And its normal to want your boyfriend all for yourself. i know i get mad or very jealous when other girls talk to my boyfriend.

i actually told my boyfriend. but he's kind of different, very understanding type of guy.. he says it's all attachment. And you shouldn't be worried about him thinking your a psychotic girlfriend or something. it's just your protective. but..haha idk, sorry i kinda just babbled on but yeah basically i think you should confront him or try and control your jealousy

Jealousy can go both ways:

She likes me (positive)
She's obsessed with me (..........negative.....)

I find it essential to be a little jealous, rather than not. My baby is the super dupercrazyjealous type. Everytime I get a text/call/msg he immeadiately asks who it is and how I know them. Then he made me cut off all the guys/friends that used to like me. He wanted me to change my number so that one of my dongsengs wouldn't be able to contact me. He got mad that I chatted with male customers at work... that's TOO MUCH. I'm sure you didn't mean it in this context.

Be a little jealous, just not like this. If you act apathetic than that can just kill the relationship. I drifted away from my exes because they gave me too much space. I also find it cute when he gets a little jealous, it just shows he still loves and cares about me. But I did approach him about going overboard and he tries hard to give me a little room to breathe.

We just got out of an intense fight and I told him he had a choice: I can pretend total indifference or I will be the psycho jealous girlfriend who will go through his phone and computer (I have every right after what he did and NO he didn't cheat on me). He demanded the latter. So it's ok to be jealous, it's like being concerned not just about him, but about you TWO together.

i dont get jealous easily lol cause i can usually decipher between what we have and his socializing. but even when i'm jealous i might just act like nothing happened or talk to some other guy if i know he's doing it on purpose

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omg . .
i get so jealous so easily too .
sometimes i feel like somethings gonna happen . .
i dont know why! i try not to , kus i know he loves me .
but i guess it's the girls i dont trust .
wouldn't you get jealous too if your boyfriend is about to high-five some girl , but before doing so asks you ? or before he plays a song for talent show for some other girl , he asks if you're okay with it . BUT , he freely pokes this one girl in the stomach constantly ?
the same girl that he ditched you to walk home with . .in the rain . .with him holding the umbrella for her ?
this was a while ago , but ever since those things ive been drifting away from her .
we were so close , wifeeys . but my jealousy got over me . .
however right now , me and him are so close . .
&its just amazing ,
but whenever he asks something like "oh where's ___? at soccer?" afterschool.. it feels like something really sharp just poked me in the heart .
):

^ Wow you're a control freak..., obsessive and clingy. That's probably one of the most annoying things to deal with... ,a controlling s/o, I mean if I had that I'd probably just turn and walk out on her. Its alright to feel a little jealous... and you shouldn't go and tell him you get jealous about everything.. thats... weird.

read boldfaced print. intense jealousy is a sign of low self-esteem and/or high dependency issues. similarly stalkers tend to have these same issues.

yeah i get jealous pretty easily too. i'm really trying not to b/c we're just friends. i don't really need to tell. apparently i can't hide my emotions and so he knows and apologizes. LOL. it's weird.

so i guess he's really careful not to mention her infront of me? like and when i see them around, i try not to be jealous or anything (although it feelsl ike something just stabbed my heart) and turn away b/c i mean, i know that if I have guy friends and i hang out with them, he's allowed to have his share of girlfriends too.

i guess it's just weird b/c i don't see him with other girls except me and this one other girl. xp.

I think its creepy and very psycotic as you stated.


But hey, at least you KNOW that you easily get jealous and aren't in Denial.


nice one! you're one step ahead of all the other easily jealous people.

I hardly ever get jealous=] but my bf get jealous all the time...& I hate it a lot, because i'm a friendly person so I talk to everyone.

I don't find it scary or anything...scary is when your partner threaten you.

I think I get jealous pretty easily .
My boyfriend knows it too ><"
So whenever I'm about to get jealous over something very little,
he'd hug me really tight & say "HEY I LOVE YOU ! No one else .."

i like it better when they're not jealous. i feel less restricted that way.

jealousy can ruin the relationship. I was always very jealous and always get mad over lil things and now thinking about it i feel selfish the girls liked me but i had issue with that..

it should be normal to get jealous o.0
well, I get jealous but..I don't really show it or talk about it
but if it REALLY bothers me/ is big then I guess I talk about it..

I find it funny ? Cause they tend to over-react alot, and it cracks me up, but in the end .. I feel bad

I get pretty jealous easily, but I keep it to a minimum. My boyfriend tells me he gets jealous sometimes too.

A little jealousy is always nice because it goes to show that somebody's afraid to lose you.

i find it cute when he gets jealous cause he oftens looks off somewhere and pouts haha

I'm one of those girls who gets jealous easily too. I admitted it and so he knows. I swear he does things on purpose to get that reaction out of me. I try to hold it in but he always notices somehow. I don't think it's a bad thing as long as you don't go overboard with it. But yeah, it's always kind of nice b/c it shows you care.

Everyone's a jealous person. Just at different jealously levels. I'm a pretty jealous person, so is my boyfriend. Sometimes his jealously is cute because it shows that he really cares for me and wants me to himself. >w<

it's like, extremely annoying at times cuz i can't do anything. but i know he's just trying to protect me & stuff. and i guess it makes me feel loved more, a bit, lol. but i wish he would lessen it a bit sometimes.

I think its cute when he gets jealous because he ends up looking down at the floor so I just go to him and give him hugs after it. xD

well if he is then it assures me that he still loves me...
and well i do get jealous too but its only if i have to...
usually i'm oks though

I think it's cute if they get jealous once in a while, not all the time.

When I was dating my husband, I was a VERY jealous person. Although I trust him, I still get jealous. He knows that the reason why I'm a jealous person is because I love him. Now that we're married, I don't get jealous as much because he comes home to me everynight & he has nothing to hide.

But when I was dating before my husband, I was NOT a jealous person.

I think it's cute to a certain extent.

i think i get jealous easily..but its only if they
constantly want to hang out with them and ditch me =PP
or...they want to talk to other people instead of me when i wanna talk to him..or something..
but i can always control or hide my jealousy haha

you know... i think its sweet if its just a LITTLE bit of jealousy.

but as soon as he starts keeping me from doing what i like to do, or my friends...

its got to go.

I'm the type that gets jealous really easily and a lot. A little jealousy is fine b/c it shows the other person that you care but if you go overboard then issues of trust and independence comes up. If you get suspicious or blow-up over every little thing then it shows you don't trust the other person and what's a relationship with shaky trust? Also it'll make the other person feel like they have no space and that doesn't contribute to a healthy and loving relationship. I know it's really hard b/c like I stated I'm a jealous type too. It takes a lot of work since obviously you can't stop the way you feel but you can control the way you act towards the other person.

a little bit is alright, but too much is creepy imo.
i don't really get jealous unless the guy gives me a reason to be jealous.
what's important is that he's yours or you're his, whats the point in getting jealous?
:]

I get jealous easily and every time I'm about to get jealous, my bf pinches my cheeks and calls me stupid. Other times he yells at me

mmmm i think i am a jealous freak, not the obsession kind tho..
cause we've been through a lot in our relationship and we are still having problems
it's not that i dont trust him, but there's so much buildup that really makes me can't trust him.

i admit i can be overly jealous at times, but i am working on it now
is there any way to lessen the jealousy??

I am truly a jealous person but I'm not the jealous kind where I want him all too myself. =] I give him some space once in a while. If he is smart enough not to be loyal to me, then nothing will happen. But I am overprotective like 'get off him b.tch' gf when I'm out with him. lmao.
Yeah, its quite obvious that I'm jealous. I try to hide it but then I blurt it out or my action shows it in someway. =]

aww i think its cute when my bf is a little jealous
it shows he really does care XD
but if he gets overly jealous (which he hasn't..yet..)
that would be kind of irritating -.-
i get jealous though, and i hate it.
HATE HATE HATE IT.

haha i think it's cute, sometimes i do it on purpose and then i kiss him but w.e, anyway when i get jealous, cuz he attracts a fair number of girls (this one girl called me a pinkberry cuz he was my bf T_T) i just ignore it, or i pretend i'm mad at him so he'd ask what wrong.

I did in my last relationship, probably because I felt really insecure and all of that stuff. However, now I'm never jealous and he isn't either so there is nothing to worry about

i prefer when my s/o has a jealous streak, it shows that he really does like me a lot and wants me to only himself ^^
so cute.

I think jealousy is alright, to a certain extent. I get jealous and I try not to show it, but it's hard =( HAHA. But yeah, jealousy shows that the other person cares enough and/or wants you to him/herself. I'd prefer a jealous boyfriend than a guy who's totally care-free with whatever I do. (:

a lil bit of jealousy is alright,makes me feel loved lol
but too much..well its just too much xD
Although i shouldnt be talkin cause i get jealous easily . (not in a obsessive way though)
i try not to show it usually cause i dont want to be a very jealous person
i cant help i am -___-

I guess I'm pretty honest about it, but I find small ways to show it more than talk about it... thats only really when it comes to ex-girlfriends really. I don't make a huge deal about it because I don't want him to think he's not allowed to talk to his exes.

As for him, he gets jealous pretty easily and usually hides it well. He'll sometimes tell me after the fact, but I wish he'd tell me more. For me, it's kind of weird. It does make me feel loved. Even though pretty much everything else he does also makes me feel loved so it doesn't make sense

I think some jealously is good and even endearing, but too much can seem clingy, restrictive, and creepy

some jealousy is nice , makes me feel wanted

but i try not to get my gf jealous too much, or she'll get really mad and wont talk to me for sometime, which i deff dont want to happen hahah

and i hope she doesnt get me too jealous either, cause then i get stupid thoughts

My bf never gets jealous O_O maybe he does but he never shows it .__.
I get jealous at times, depends on who the girl is xD

i think its cute when he gets a little jealous.
but too much jealously can hurt the relationship because it'll seem like one of you has trust issues...

Some people like it when their s/o gets jealous, shows that they care.
I don’t have a problem with it, I actually like it xD
But I don’t like it when they overdo it “

I get jealous really easily like really easily but I don't show it and I just act cool about it ..
I wouldn't tell him cuz I have a feeling that my bf will use it against me ..

it's cute if he's slightly jealous,
but if he's gonna go as far as checking my e-mails,
cell phone, etc. then bye byee =]