so yur very first relationship with someone

was it a complete disaster ?? or are you still with that person



my first one wasnt much of one hahahs

young and stupid i have to say i kinda even avoided him cuz i put my friends before him Ahem

funny when you think back to it though ... but yeahs... xDD lasted a couple of week xDD



so i was wondering how were yur first experiences

this cycle is easily broken by becoming emo.

very first..
puppy love. we were both so into each other for like a month and after that lost interest ahaha

went out with him to see what it was like to have a boyfriend.. lasted 2 weeks.

It was okay. Went for a bit over six months.

it lasted... about half a year?? lol

went down the toilet in the last month we were together. too much drama.

It lasted a good 6 months. Elementary school relationship.

Still with him and its almost two years

I'm still with him now, almost 2 years

My first relationship taught me a lot about love and just relationships in general. Lasted for almost a year.

My first relationship lasted for 4 good years and ended up broking up and not even knowing who she really was as a person.

it was bad
we dated for about 2 years with a lot of ups and downs
after he dumped me i found out that he also cheated on me

7 years age gap, bout with cancer, life-threatening surgery, arranged marriages, love, hope, infidelity, 4 years before breakup

It lasted about a year. Pretty long for an elementary school relationship, but it wasn't real. Just experimenting I guess.

My very first wasn't much of anything. It was freshmen year and it lasted two months... It was retarded, pointless.

I envy all of you. Two years, half a year. So long for your first relationship.

Anyway, I don't remember it that much. It was around Junior High School. Eighth grade I think.
We went out for like a week and then we crashed and burned. Whatever, I sort of don't count it
as a relationship, but eh.

Not so good. Otherwise we'd still be together now wouldn't we?

My first relationship was in grade 7. It lasted about 11 months, then we kind of grew apart, but we're still friends.

wasn't that good. didn't even last a month. i think i won't count it as a relationship because i still felt single. hey i was young and stupid at this time. lol
anyway the first "real" relationship lasted about...well i don't actually know. lol. eh, i think i won't count that as a relationship either since it has no end. we hate each other now. keke

okay so i've been through 2 relationships, but they weren't all that real. to me, a relationship has a beginning and an end and you would have to feel taken, not single.. =/

i was young, stupid, naive
(maybe i still kind of am)
really kind of pointless
we still talk occasionally though
and yeah, no other comments.

Well, I'm still in my first relationship, and it's still quite new.
So, I can't say much yet...
We've had our ups and downs, but what can I say? That's life, right?
Nonetheless, it's been great and I love my bf.

hmm. lasted for about, 8 months.

i guess you can say it was okay in the beginning? despite myself feeling neglected all the time. he had kind of a wuss personality, and i didn't realize this until AFTER he broke up with me. i managed to overlook all the weird and stupid things he did because i thought i "loved" him, which i kind of did, and kind of didn't...i kind of hated how he said "i love you" so fast into the relationship -- i remember i said it back to him, but i didn't really mean it at that point in time.

i tried breaking up with him twice before he finally broke up with me. the end was..ugly. fighting, silent treatments, etc.

but, whatever, i'm over him. i kind of wish he wasn't my first "love", but, i gotta start somewhere.

It was a fail lol
dont talk anymore
o.o
he was too immature.. and not very bright..
only liked him for looks =S
LOL very very stupid of me.

Well, mine was disaster in a sense that we don't talk anymore. He doesn't acknowledge my existence, but I guess it's for the better. I was young and didn't really know what to do.. I let it drag on A LOT longer than I should have. But I learned a lot though (:

our relationship can be classified as lust :x
it only last for 2 months
we didn't talk to eachother for about 1-2 years, then we began talking again last year.
so i guess it wasn't all that bad
we both weren't familiar with the relationship,
since i was his first gf and he was my first bf as well

i was in middle school -____-
and he was annoying as hell
broke up with him a month later XD

yeah same here, young and not in "love" .. immature etc.

ugh it sucks i hated the mushy crap and in 2 days i ended it

oh man. my first.... in middle school
he was an amazing guy but we broke up a year later.

he sent me on a path of hell.

My first relationship lasted about a month (just a day before our "official" one monthiversary).
I liked him for the first two weeks, but stopped liking him right after, and just sucked it up til I dumped him.
It pretty much sucked, and I wasn't attracted to him. I only dated him cuz I was curious about what it felt like to be in a relationship, and because I was trying to forget about my exbestguyfriend who I was "in love with" for the longest time... ><;

mine lasted almost 2 years. things went well in the first year. but in the 2nd year, my views towards certain things changed. i knew he wasnt the right one for me. we remained friends after, but then I found out that we couldnt be good friends without other people assuming we would get back together. So I sort of distanced myself now. I learned a LOT from the relationship though.

ahhh my first relationship.
we stayed together for about a year and a half
we met through our mothers who signed us up for the same track team
and at first it was his little brother that had a crush on me
then he started like me we dated for a while and then he started having problems at home
and decided he was running away to like Georgia or something(i forget)
he came to see me before he "left" and told me he'd call me as soon as he got to where he was going
It was like two and a half months before he called and let me tell you I was MESSED UP!!!
depression, anger management, skipping school
anything a 14-15 year could do at that time I did it
then one day out of the blue he popped back up
needless to say I was PISSED...and we broke up
yeah that's how my first relationship went
BOO!

My first love was when I was 15. It had a 'complicated' beginning...with a 'complicated' ending too.
It lasted for 2.5 years, I thought it was going to be forever...naive. I don't regret it and I still cherish it till this day even though I've got someone new, but he'll always be my boo (sort of thing). I mean we learnt a lot about 'love'...but it was cause we were young, still finding our "true" selves that I agree that when we broke up, it was like he was someone I completely didn't know ever. It was weird. But like I said to him, I just want him to take me as his stepping stone so he can go further and be stronger...like how I have vice versa.

There was also lots of coincidences that happened in our relationship, that just made me think he was the one...like signs sort of. It's been 2 years since we broke up and we still haven't managed to become 'friends' but we're in the 'greeting each other when we see each other' stage...which is really good because usually I'd just try to avoid eye contact with him. He's grown into someone I don't even know but he's still a gorgeous human being which I'm glad, I want him to be happy but I know I'd be a little hurt when I find out he has a new girl (he still hasn't found someone after 2 years). LOL it sounds like I'm not over him, but I am...if I were to date him again (if I were single) it'll be like starting a new relationship with a stranger all over again though.

it's still going on

Ha.. um.. i was in 8th grade... he had lots of depression issues.. most of the time just to get attention though. like he'd call me and tell me he wanted to have sex with me and wen i tell him no. he started crying. and call back 2 hours later declaring he'll commit suicide.... and by the 4th time i got tired of "talking him out of it" so i told him to go and do it if he has the guts. he hung up on me. and wen his friend try to call him. his phone is on but he hangs up after the 3rd ring. it was so obvious he wanted attention, coz if i was mad i would have just turned off my phone. he also posted bulletins saying he's going to "end it all" and guess wat? the day after he was fine untouched. and still alive til today.

I understand the depression and stuff but he shouldnt say that to get people worry knowing he isn't going to do it. I was a naturally happy girl so after 5 months of feeling extremely suicidal (more like suicidal and wanting to bring him down with me) i broke up with him. and he broke into this tantrum and wanted to beat me up but my friend andrew lived right next door so he came to the rescue. He started telling me I'm a wh*re. and about 1 month after the break up he still trashes me when people actually listen.

And wen i got a new boyfriend he IMed me and said he wanted to be friends so i agreed. i wasnt mad to start with just afraid of him. But wen i complained about school he told me i complain too much and that i just wanted attention and i'm conceited and rotten.... i let him finish talking and then blocked him. and that was hte very last time i spoke to him. We still pass each other in the hall way sometimes.

my second relationship lasted 2 years.... he cheated on me.

i swear to god i'm cursed with some bad relationships curse.

Lasted around 10 months. From last year until a couple months ago.
We were in love. I seriously loved him. Then ended up with a broken heart thanks to that jerkface. Too bad he was my first love, but you learn from your mistakes :] We broke up because we ran out of things to say to each other and he gave up on us.

I confess I guess I haven't really been in a relationship...sort of ridiculous since I'm 21 but there was this one guy I saw off and on for 2 years but I have a hard time communicating my feelings in a relationship so it ended with him seeing someone else, he didn't tell me, I guess he just decided not too...it was weird I totally thought he would've at least told me. Some friends said its because guys are too scared to tell girls that. It hurt plenty I couldn't explain it to my friends b/c any relationship details stuff things we did, things he did, what we would say to each other I never divulged to anyone, a personal rule I suppose I follow b/c I don't think 'real' relationships work like that. I guess I figure if you're going to marry them one day and you get in a fight what are you going to do? Tell the whole neighbourhood? Tell all your friends? You'd probably end up painting them badly and regretting it later. I prefer to skip the childish routine from the beginning. If its two people in the relationship there should only be two people to resolve the problems too. I don't know though, ever since its like I've had no interest in anyone since and the idea of a relationship turns me away. Oddly enough I am thankful to him b/c I learned a lot about men and myself, the experience wasn't numbing but it was every bit bittersweet.

it was bad haha XD but luckily my current bf picked up the pieces and saved me

my first one was horrible. he cheated on me with one of my close friend. gosh when i think about it, i totally regret all the tears i cried over him. but like you said i was yound and stupid. x] its a lesson well learned.

my first first first relationship
it lasted 2 yrs but he broke up wit me on our 2 yr
but we still secertly

The girl basically said she liked someone, so i guessed everyone in our grade... and then it was me.
So like, we dated for 2 monthes and then i had to move~~
it was sad, but quite the experience.

'twas eight grade
he asked me during this school fair (i no longer actually went to the school though...)
lasted a week
he called me everyday
it got tiring
and i found out my friend liked him

I guess you can say I gain a lot from the experience. My first was really a emotional, sensitive guy, really butt hurt, but very loving and sweet at the same time, and too fast for my taste. Pretty much had to baby him. I went along since it was my first, didn't know what I was doing, but definitely wasn't his. He completely made me fall for his sweet talking, but I was stupid for doing so. Last pretty long, but I killed it cause I told him I hated him for neglecting me, pretty much, but he took it the coward way out, didn't want to work it out and broke my heart. After breaking up he was pretty scared of talking to me, had a friend do for him. He moved on pretty quick. But I know his mind games he play, does to every girl he meets, he wants girls to pity him, which is pathetic. He made me into a stronger, blunt person and speak my mind, stopped being so shy. I pretty much don't fall for all the sweet crap things, because pretty much it's BS. Puppy love was all it was.

close to the sixth month, but i was naive.

i stopped talking to him even before the break up, guess he gave up LOLS.

he wasn't worth the heart-ache though. nor was he worth the tears.

Same for me. Except mine started 2 weeks ago haha
dont know how long it would last.... =\

It lasted for almost 2 years.
The "post-relationship" taught me more than during the relationship =x

wasn't exactly a total disaster, but one that makes me cringe, haha.
nonetheless i learnt a lot from it though. so i don't regret it.

Umm my first relationship was kinda like sweet. Like i loved her alot and we'd used to stay back after school like nearly all the time and just lie on each other and like talk and take naps; play a bit of music together...and yesh it was pretty wonderful. .

- Lasted for a month? since he's living "FAR FAR AWAY"from me...seemed like it was Love at First Sight.
I've learnt that Long-Distance relationships dont really work out. but im trying to move on but cant, because he keeps telling me that he still loves me, even though he's dating someone else. But i do like him still.

My very first relationship was in 8th grade. It was okay, I guess. We were together for a month. The thing was that we use to talk so much before going out, but after going out, we barely talked so we both felt that we should just stay friends so we both broke up on the same day (as in me & him wanted to break up on the same day, same time). Afterwards, we started talking again, haha.