Due to the mess in the forum, I've decided to start a thread directory for general L&R themes that often pop up. Please check this directory before you start a thread - it will be updated regularly. Any duplicates or similar topics will be merged. If you start a thread that's similar to the ones already listed in this directory, please don't add "some sort of personal problem" to avoid having your thread merged - I will issue warnings if this gets out of hand.
Please read through the guidelines on the directory. Make sure you obey all L&R and soompi rules before starting or replying to a thread.
L&R THREAD DIRECTORY
GUIDELINES:
- Use Ctrl + F to find a topic.
- Only general L&R themes are listed here, personal problems and polls are not.
- Do not ask for your thread to be listed here.
- Do not ask for a new category to be created.
- Threads that reach 1000 pages will be closed.
- No spamming in threads.
- Duplicates or similar topics will be merged.
- If you feel topics are similar enough to be merged, you may PM me (with links) to request merging.
- If a topic should not be listed here, PM me with the reason for exclusion.
! THREADS YOU SHOULD USE AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE
- whenever you feel like asking "Girls, what do you think of xxx"? or "Guys, I need your opinion", you should post in these two threads. If you start a thread with that sort of content, it will be merged with either of these two threads, so don't give yourself grief.
Ask the Fellas
Ask the Ladies
AGE DIFFERENCES
Does age really matter? - post all problems/questions about age differences here
CONFESSIONS
Do you regret not confessing?
What did you do when someone confessed to you? and vice versa
What's wrong with confessing to your crush online?
DATING & PROM
Date Ideas - post all ideas/questions/suggestions/etc for dates and other things to do here
Parents that prohibit dating
The Ultimate Prom thread
Your first date
Your first relationship
GENERAL
Are you cynical at love?
Ever received a love letter?
Feeling you hate most
First love, first heartbreak, first break-up
How many real friends do you have?
Late bloomers
K-drama moment?
Parents who prohibit dating
Personality v physical attraction
Quiet people
Religion and relationships
What is love?
When did you feel most loved?
Who do you miss?
Who's your number one?
Your Ideal Girl
Your Ideal Guy
KISSING & MAKING OUT
First Kiss
First makeout session
How to kiss someone
Never been kissed?
MESSAGES & DEDICATION
Anything that makes you smile in your heart today
Anything that makes you wanna cry in your heart
Couple items
Cute love pictures
Cute/sweet text messages/voicemails you've received
Heartbroken quotes
Korean Love Quotes
Love quotes or sayings that took your breath away
Make a wish and see if it comes true
Prayer requests
Secret crush shout-out
Song thread
The sweetest thing someone has said to you
OPPOSITE SEX
60 things girls don't know about guys
Accents
Annoying things girls do
Annoying things guys do
Biggest turnoffs
Biggest turnons
Creative ways to ask a girl to be your gf
Crush on a soompier?
Cute things guys/girls have done for you
Dating people who smoke/do drugs
Dreams about bfs, crushes, exes
Embarrassing things you've done in front of your crush
First thing you notice about the opposite sex
Five types of girls I'm scared of
Getting dumped online
Happiest/saddest moment with your crush
How to get over a rejection/break-up
Men who whistle, honk, verbally assault you
Pick-up lines
Weird things guys have done or said to you
Women like guys who can cook?
Worst rejection/breakup ever
Your minimum requirements
SENSITIVE ISSUES
Coming out of the closet
Encounters with a stalker
Ever been molested and can't tell anyone?
Possibility of being gay or bisexual?
SIGNIFICANT OTHERS & EXES
Bf/Gf feeling you up
Cute nicknames
How did your S/O confess?
How do you feel if your boyfriend's kinda girly?
How long did you wait to say I Love You?
Jealousy
Meeting your S/O's parents (and vice versa)
Sweetest thing your S/O gave/did for you
Things your ex said that crossed the line
Worst thing you did to your S/O
Would you marry your S/O if they asked you right now?
Would you mind if your S/O isn't a virgin?
SINGLEHOOD
Hate being single?
Never been in a relationship?
Why are you single?