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FusionGT2
So there was a thread about girls who smoked. But since majority of this place is girls, I'd like to ask what you girls think of guys that smoke? Does it depend on how much they smoke or do you just hate/love guys that smoke period? Lets hear it.
shooting_stars
Smoking is a huge turn-off. I don't want to die, and I certainly don't want the guy I like to die.

I thought there was a thread like this already blink.gif
aymei
I just don't like anyone who smokes around me. period dry.gif
honeylove
I don't like chain smokers. Smoking once inawhile if they really want/need to is fine with me.
It's not like i'll break up with them for smoking, but i'll try to tell them to cut down.
Cus my boyfriend smokes like atleast 8 a day sleep.gif
I can't really do anything about it though..
It's their decision to quit or not cus they ain't gon do it for nobody else but themselves.
& he said he's gonna quit by his 18th birthday, which is in november.
So i'm just hoping he's sticking to that.
But that's the case for cigs.


For weed, as long as they're not a pothead, it's okay.
Cus i've smoked up w/ my bf before & it's just whatever.
I don't care as much for weed for some reason, lol.
xt1naaa
I don't like guys who smoke. ph34r.gif
novemberbaby
My nose is very sensitive, so I can't stand anyone who smokes.
s k y .

I don't like guys who smoke.
&teekayy;
Don't like it. ESPECIALLY if it's just smoking like just cigarettes...
I'd rather have my guy smoke weed.

Weird, but the truth.
FusionGT2
QUOTE(&teekayy; @ Aug 23 2007, 03:35 PM) *
Don't like it. ESPECIALLY if it's just smoking like just cigarettes...
I'd rather have my guy smoke weed.

Weird, but the truth.


really now lol..thats weird. but i heard weed isnt as bad as regular cigarettes. i wouldnt kno tho im no smoker mellow.gif
ashleyx
I'd rather them not, but I won't break up with them for smoking.
It's not like the things they do makes up for who they are.
JJM
My bf is a smoker and I would like him to quit for his health, but I love him regardless. He treats me well and that matters more than his smoking.

I disagree with the weed. All toxins you put into your body is bad. I just think pothead sounds worse than smoker.
honeylove
QUOTE(FusionGT2 @ Aug 23 2007, 01:44 PM) *
really now lol..thats weird. but i heard weed isnt as bad as regular cigarettes. i wouldnt kno tho im no smoker mellow.gif

actually i heard that weed has 4x the tar. lol. but idk if it's true.
tarochan
Smoking is a no no. I don't care what he's smoking, weed, cigarettes, a cheeto, I just really don't like smoking.
Gah~ I knew people who smoked nonstop and I seriously had the urge to slap them. Smoking makes me tear up and.. can't breathe.. So no no.
angelcadex
I went out with a guy and he told me later on he smoked.
I don't know why he told me because I didn't expect it at all.
Anyway I felt disappointed afterwards.
Such a wonder why we broke up =P


In general, no thanks.
saysjessi
i always said that smoking was a major turn-off for me....lo and behold...i actually met a smoker i was attracted to.
but it didn't last...i still can't stand it.
Incise Soul
My ex wasn't a heavy smoker, but he did smoke before. I was disappointed and told him to never smoke again. I don't think it's a good quality in a guy, or a girl for that matters. It's weird though. He HATES girl who smokes but he used to smoke too o_o; kind of contradicting.
Miky.
It's a turn off for me, maybe because my dad smokes a whole lot.

But I wouldn't judge the guy completely just due to the fact that he smokes. Who knows, maybe he's the kind of guy that'll smoke less or even quit for a girl.
Carmen.
Definitely a turn off.

I don't want him smelling like cigarettes whenever I'm around him, or his clothes to smell like it too.

And besides, he's just slowly killing himself too, and if I'm around him a lot, I could put myself at risk for second hand smoke too.
Steph*
isn't 1 joint equal to like 5 cigarettes?
i don't mind because i smoke myself.
joolee.
There's better ways for him to die than from cigarettes.

I hate guys who smoke and if they were to smoke, I'd rather not date them and find somebody else. It's a huge turn off and that's that.
Trishyang248
QUOTE(FusionGT2 @ Aug 23 2007, 02:44 PM) *
really now lol..thats weird. but i heard weed isnt as bad as regular cigarettes. i wouldnt kno tho im no smoker mellow.gif


it is true casue weed is natrual (like its just a plant)...not something a with like a whole bunch of chemical.......also some doctor reccomend weed.........

but on the "Girls, Your Opinion On Guys That Smoke?".......i don't mind...unless u smoke around me then i have a problem...but i do know it helps keep ur never down and keep you relax so yea.....
megan92
i wouldn't like to date a guy who smokes. all i would think about is how it harms them.
maybe it's because both grandparents on my dad's side died from health issues related to smoking. i was young so i barely knew them, but i was sad i never had that chance to know them cause of smoking.

if i really liked someone who happened to smoke, i would probably date them anyway.




and constantly beg them to quit hahaha.
he'd probably break up with me for being annoying and asking them to quit before i break up with him for smoking in the first place. haha. so yeah i'd rather date somebody who does NOT smoke. =)
mamajama x3
i dont let any of my boyfriends smoke. eventually they do it when we break up, but as of now.. my current bf used to smoke squares once in awhile.. now he doesnt anymore. he even asks me if he can lol! but i always say no. tongue.gif
YOURS2ENVY
eh
some guys look good smoking some guys don`t
hate that they can die from smoking
& hate that they spend so much money on cigarettes
decent smokes around here $12.95 a pack
most people smoke bout a pack a week
$600 a year you can give to charity or your parents

w/e though
i don`t wanna be a hypocrite and say i don`t want my boys smoking










maybe off topic but primetimes smell AND taste so freaking good ph34r.gif
x__nga
i don't like either boys or girls to smoke
it sad that people realize what smoking does to them and they still do it.
its like a no brainer.
if they do it b/c its "cool" well ITS DEFINATELY NOT COOL in my dictionary.

my dad use to smoke, but after 5th grade watching that D.A.R.E program about smoking
it sadden/scared me that my dad could become one of those people who die early of lung cancer
or that hole in their throat, so i persuaded him everytime i see him smoke to not too.
now he stopped. probally got tired of me nagging happy.gif
AngelsKiss
Personally i really dont like guys that smoke.
The smell itself makes me back off a meter and hold my breath. lol
Lillieee
I don't like people who smoke at all...When I'm walking with friends and we see a guy and yea were like OMG hes cute/hott w.e but when we see them smoking were just like phsttttttt!!
xTxHoAx
yeah...i think it's a major turn off. I really can't stand the smell...i like start coughing and stuff sleep.gif i always have to hold my breath/cover my mouth/nose when i walk by someone that smokes.
520Shawn
i really dislike it when guys smoke....
Because it's bad for him as well for me.
Well my bf stopped smoking bc of me......that's good ^^
he used to smoke a pack a day
xpiyo
huge turn off. i don't want to smell it and have lung cancer! ><
Cin De
i think its such a turn off when i guy smokes
wannabe cool =-=
DECIPHER
I hate guys who smoke. It's like, dude, you just shorten your life span. Congrats.

Not to mention, they smell bad, have bad breath and yellow teeth. sleep.gif
monchichi
I don't really like guys that smoke, however it wouldn't stop me from dating them. I'd just ease them out of the habit later on.
aliceee
Of course I'm not going to judge or treat him differently because he smokes, but I'd much rather he didn't. My boyfriend quit smoking cigarettes for the most part but he still smokes a cigar every now and then... it's just so bad for your health and I really wouldn't want him doing such a thing to himself or anyone doing it to themselves for that matter.
whitedloud
I can't breathe when I smell smoke. I start hacking and coughing. It makes me nauseous and gives me headaches. Even if the guy isn't smoking, but he still smells like smoke from a cigarette he had hours ago ... I can't stand being around him.

So I guess it's safe to assume that my guy had better not smoke because I would not be able to touch him without feeling sickened, quite literally.

And I hate the act of smoking. I hate thinking about all the health risks because I remember pleading, crying for my dad to stop smoking after seeing this health commercials that warned the risks that come with smoking.
x0_saturn_0x
Guys who smoke are a huge turnoff. First off, they smell bad. XD
Second, they're ruining their lungs and slowing killing themselves internally. o__o
Third, if I actually hung around the guy for a long time, I'd enhale quite a bit of second hand smoke which would affect me as well.
aibaloveR
i dun think i like guys who smoke...
second hand is more serious.LOL.
in.side
i don't really care if they smoke or not..
i just don't them smoking like.. IN MY FACE..
like being all rude and blowing the smoke in my face...

and i can't exactly STOP/FORCE them from smoking...
but i can be like.. hello?! secondhand smoke?!?!

haha i think i'm the only girl saying i don't care..
because i'm used to it because my dad smokes in front of me a lot..
Bamidele
this is what pops up into my head: gross, disgusting, bad breath, cancer, dirty, yellow, tar, retarded, nasty, unappealing.....does that sound like someone you'd want to date? A big no-no for me!!!
YUNA!
I'm okay with them, as long as they dont smoke near me, or attempt to kiss me.
xm1chelle
i think its hot for like celebrities to be smoking in movies (ex. kwon sangwoo in donggabnaegi) but other than that its a turn-off when guys smoke...it smells disguisting
TygrrLilly
I honestly don't care. I had an issue with it like when I was younger, but really it doesn't matter to me.
Echoe
I think I'm the odd one out here.

I find males who smoke horribly sexy.

Something about the way they light up.
forgottenmemories
I really don't like people who smoke. Its a huge turn-off.
skittles*
QUOTE(xm1chelle @ Aug 23 2007, 08:18 PM) *
i think its hot for like celebrities to be smoking in movies (ex. kwon sangwoo in donggabnaegi) but other than that its a turn-off when guys smoke...it smells disguisting

AGREED.

Smoking is disgusting. I wouldn't want to kiss a mouth like that.
thisisapigg
personally, i find a guy who can run really attractive.
but smoking kills your lungs = kills your ability to fun long-distances.
so yeah, it's a turn off.
plus it smells bad.
j i w o n.
i personally hate the smell of smoke. it burns my nose
and if a guy smokes... gah ew -__-;

but... if it's one of those once in a while smoking, away from me. and with me the guy doesn't semll like smoke, it's okay
but honestly, guys shouldn't smoke, it's bad for their health.
+Chique+
I don't like it when guys smoke. But if I really like him and he does smoke, I'd still go out with him but he should know not to smoke before me. My ex smokes and at times he goes 'Are you disturbed by it? You want me to stop?' I'd say 'Yes I'm disturbed by it but it's not my decision for you to stop, I won't be the type to pester you cause it's your choice'

Yeah =/ I still really dislike guys who smoke though -__-;;
keke
i hate it when guys smoke and they think their so cool.......it pisses me off
YOURS2ENVY
QUOTE(keke @ Aug 23 2007, 09:46 PM) *
i hate it when guys smoke and they think their so cool.......it pisses me off


assuming you're in middle/high school, that's the only place you'll see it
and maybe those guys that just barely got through puberty in college

i just remembered
LOL you girls say you wouldn't kiss a guy who tastes like smoke, is it really that bad? i mean, i love the taste compared to like... cabbage, =X
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