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brianjooboi 012
Yo to all people Women nd Men . i was just curious to what reactions concerns or feelings u guys were going thru and experience when going to a strip club for the first time. Did u feel weird. were u extremely happy and excited.Did u feel like u kno what u wee doing or getting urself into? were the girls professional or just plain ugly or trashy? felt sick or just anything that comes to mind. Maybe even a significant story would be awesome.
zantac_2
i was asked by one of the 'hostess' to go up stairs for some fun and to my embarassment i answered 'whats up stairs?'. needless to say everyone laughed at me.

that was my most memorable experience first time in a strip club.
HERMIT
Just be prepared to have plenty of bills on you to properly tip them.
My first time I was totally clueless and forgot to hit the bank beforehand.
And oh yes, attempting to swipe your ATM card down a stripper's butt cheeks is a total no-no.
specitanium
I was persuaded with a group to go to this.... cheap strip club. I learned why it was so cheap. It's true. You get what you pay for.

I ended up thinking like a scientist in a laboratory setting analyzing because I was totally surprised at some of the moves. Anyways, I was paying not because I was enjoying it but because I was feeling sorry for the women there.
MeriendaTime
I was actually really excited to go.

Two girls I went to middle school with work as strippers and I hadn't seen them since then, so a long time friend of mine and I decided to drop by for a visit.

I always thought that strippers were incredibly hot/flawless etc, but there were some chubbies with cellulite and stretch marks. IDK, maybe it was because the place was a little run down. I haven't visited another one since.

fossilain
It was a good experience, and not something I'd go back to many times, but I went with a lot of friends and we had a lot of fun. About half of us were single but we were a mixed group. I ended up talking to one and found out she was in one of my classes at school. It was kinda cool and a bit shocking, but a good experience.
Pogichinoy
QUOTE (specitanium @ Mar 30 2009, 12:19 PM) *
Anyways, I was paying not because I was enjoying it but because I was feeling sorry for the women there.

I'm sure thats what everyone thinks as well.
longbong
totally not worth it.

its like watching 4 hours of softcore japanese gravure dvd, but you are not allowed to fap.
minie
big waste of time n money... i was expecting the girls to be 'working it' like the movies but they were all lazy and didn't do much dancing or tricks. they just took off their clothes and got of their hands and knees. i guess most guys didn't care as long as they were nude... Oh one of them was so lazy that she just took off her clothes and kinda stood there.... we left after 20 mins....
boka
I've never been to a strip club. I suppose it's just not "my kind of scene".
e00z
1st time i went with my buds. when we were sat down, we noticed that one of us was missing already, one of my friends had already been lured away by one of the girls. my other friend got ripped off by only getting half a song for the price of 2 songs LOL. he looked like he was about to cry afterwards. and then we found out one of the strippers went to my friend's high school during the same years lol. good times..
kerupi
QUOTE (HERMIT @ Mar 29 2009, 08:11 PM) *
And oh yes, attempting to swipe your ATM card down a stripper's butt cheeks is a total no-no.


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Hermit, I swear your replies crack me up as I skim the 20s+ thread - thank you for the laughs! biggrin.gif

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Did u feel like u kno what u wee doing or getting urself into? were the girls professional or just plain ugly or trashy? felt sick or just anything that comes to mind. Maybe even a significant story would be awesome.

My first time? Yep! I knew what I was doing at the time smile.gif

The guys were professional, attractive and entertaining biggrin.gif

I felt certain emotions from start to finish. At first before entering I felt a bit nervous, anxious yet excited and curious at the same time hehe Once I was in the club I was in awe and grinning from ear to ear biggrin.gif I left the club grinning from ear to ear too! laugh.gif

My first was memorable because of a female companion who did something innocent yet cute while we sat at a cubicle directly in front of the runway. Some other stuff happened too, to make it memorable biggrin.gif

I was young, curious and I had a fun time. The club was clean, stylish, well controlled and was on the main strip. It was some of the female clientele that were a little off huh.gif
lehuakim4
1st time i went was with my ex bf lol/.... it was fun... i knew he wanted to get a lap dance so i told him to go ahead haha but he thought i was just playin when i said dat... I dont mind as long as I still had his heart lOL
deridex
What state are you in? Strip clubs vary due to the state laws. For example some are just topless, some are full nude, some are bikini clubs, and some are "really" full nude (like in Oregon). I know when I was in Virginia, the state passed a law that made it illegal for stripper to take off their clothes. So all the strip clubs became bikini bars. From what I have researched, the problem was that these clubs were 21+ and served alcohol and there were problems with drunk people getting too frisky. I live in Seattle and the strip clubs here are 18+ so no alcohol and that is why they allow full nude.
aznkc
my first stripclub was in mtl at supersex a lil after i turned 18..it waas exciting to see whats up and the type of girls there..i was having fun caus of friends and entertainment but kinda feel weird at the same time..i wouldn't go to stripclubs anymore tho unless a lot of friends go
PristineNyte
My ex boyfriend went before and he said it was awful, HAHA. He said they were all ugly girls and it was just annoying. He said you just go there to get a boner you can't do anything about, lol.

I tried to go this year for my 22nd birthday, just because I'm curious, but there was a $15 cover and we just KNEW it wouldn't have been worth the money.
yaoming11
I remember the first time i went to a strip club i was actually 18 a couple years back. the strip club had lik no bouncer but the girls were actually really hot and they were all really touchy and allowed touching which i didn't know till lik 5 min into the lapdance...needless to say my hands were all over the second girl. yea...that was the first and last time i've been to a strip club
mkshftjnky
lol i was trashed and without even thinking.. made out with one of the strippers on the pole. turned on my friend of course..

of course.. i never went to another one after that cuz.. i duno.. never had a reason to. the first time i went was because my friends and i were really just THAT bored. literally.
love.lila
I was 20 and it wasnt worth it.. I didn't even want to go but my ex at the time (while we were together!@$@R@) wanted to go with all his friends and their gfs including me >..<<<< ugh i hated it I was mad and was like IM NOT GOING TO PAY TO GO IN THERE haha and it was only 18+ so no alcohol or anything.

The other 2 girlfriends I went with were ok with it though. Anyway it was kind of degrading to watch, plus it was kind of a cheap strip club. Maybe 2 out of 7 girls knew what they were doing. Then it was so bad the DJ actualy gave me and the other 2 girls money to give one of the strippers while she was on stage... a bunch of cheap guys that didnt tip were upthere i guess... and the room was probably 20 other people not including the 9 ppl i went with. From this one dance, where the dj gave us the $3, the girl actually only had.... $3 in tips >.< by the time she was done!!!!
THEN we went to the vip room where I saw girls do things with $1 that I don't want to remmeber >.< completely naked too so I have been pretty grossed out with the $1 bills since lol
contro
I went with a couple of my filipino friends my one friend went for the lap dance while I kept on denying the approaches from girls as they offered me one. 2nd time I went was for my friends b-day everyone got a lap dance that night including me I still think it's a waste of money and rather spend the money taking a female out to eat instead.
aznjeff07
To make a long story short I was in vegas with friends for the first time and it took us 4 hours of walking through ghetto vegas, getting harassed by hobos, getting lost, getting stuck in front of a train that just stopped on the tracks to go to deja vu a totally nude bar. It was ok, but man there was a really hot waitress that only cleaned the poll and served drinks and also another girl who did all this matrix shiet-it was awesome.

Next night went to saphires......best experience ever. The girls were the most pretty girls i've seen in person literally 10/10's everywhere. The girls don't ever stop harrasing you, but some of them are nice, not too pushy, and give it their all during lap dances...My friends and I always text each other saying we miss vegas mainly because of saphires; that's how great it was for us
Elleberry
^That is a unique experience because most of my guy friends say it's not that great. The girls look sort of..."tired" I guess? and the guys end up feeling sorry for them. Not too sure why since we don't live in a country where it's one of the few choices of occupation for a woman.

The first time I went I was actually 18, for a co-workers birthday party. I was one of two girls of the group and the other chick I didn't know. It was awkward for me for the most part. The girls looked really off close up and the guys just ended up getting really drunk and spending A LOT of money. Near the end of the night they tried to get me and the other chick to make out. Whoo hoo. I guess while being there they thought they were in a world where all girls are hot and/or experimental and willing.

But still it was fun to tell my friends the story.
koreanballads
Here's how it works:

Bouncer/Doorman will stiff you with the cover, try to get it reduced: if you're in a group, threaten that your group will leave unless he brings it down. $30 ----> ~$20/15

Some places will require a coat check - $5. Just pay it.

Expect overpriced drinks (all $10+), questionable food, and depending on the quality of the joint, decent to legit 10s.

Lap dances will run you $20 - standard. Usually for the duration of a song. Don't bother trying to touch the girls or you'll quickly find yourself being thrown out...headfirst.

Don't bother trying to pick up the girls; to them, you're just another money dispensing schmuck. If it's your first time, don't be too excited and throw all your money away at once. Shoot the shiznat with your buds, enjoy whoever is on stage, and try to make the girls work for their money. Lastly, never pay for time in the VIP room. You wont get any "special favors". You will, however, end up overpaying for unnecessary bottle service and a little extra time.
Sophbot
the first time i went,
my friend ended up on stage half naked with the girls ahha.
It was after gogo dancing and we both had our tiny panties on (ones you wear under swimsuits so that you cant see them). One of the strippers pulled up my friends skirt and saw her panties and yelled out "YOU HAVE STRIPPER PANTIES!"

They then dragged her onstage ahha.
She was ok with it cuz shes used to it
She worked at a strip club as a bartender before.

It was hilarious ahaha
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