XangelXtranX
Sep 26 2009, 11:00 PM
Mr. Chan
Sep 27 2009, 01:10 AM
No, I do not want a boyfriend.
lovemelody.
Sep 27 2009, 01:12 AM
story of my life, haha.
damyoungji
Sep 27 2009, 01:19 AM
I feel this way these days because my first relationship ended back in 2007 and ever since then, I only had one crush - who I am no longer interested in. I was fine with being lonely at first, but most of my friends are in relationships, and some of them are married (my older friends). I am the only one who is single at work, too, so all the talk at school and work kind of makes me feel like I'm too picky, not good enough or something along those lines. Being in a program where there is only like three guys does not help either. I switched schools and I don't have a any male friends there T.T
twix0rz
Sep 27 2009, 01:57 AM
Sometimes i would have those feelings, but they only last for a day and then i am good again. I just tell my sister everything...hahaha...so i don't need a guy to do that. lol. I feel having a bf would be a hassle but i never had one so i wouldn't know the other side.
Guys were interested in me but i wasn't in them...so nothing happened. I am not the type that would say yes to any guy just to be in a relationship..you know.
Good luck with finding your guy, i bet he will come in time. ^o^
wendaYYY
Sep 27 2009, 01:59 AM
Back 2 years ago, I was friends with this guy who was a complete sweetheart; he wasn't just a much-around dikhead like the rest of the guys I knew. I mean, he was cultured, sensitive and philosophical (I was the funny one), so it sort of worked out.
We were really good, until he kept bombarding me with "I love you". At that point, I got really annoyed and cut off ties with him.
Funny now because I miss him so badly and keep reminiscing about the good old days and what could have been.
I HATE REGRET!!!
112233
Sep 27 2009, 06:42 AM
Yes, I want a boyfriend. I miss someone in my life and it's not that I don't try. I just meet the wrong guys and have bad timing T_T.
Jrock~Kitty
Sep 27 2009, 06:52 AM
I just want Him to be my boyfriend. I don't want anyone else
xo_sugar_ox
Sep 27 2009, 07:41 AM
i feel the same way too

i always either end up getting rejected or i attract the ones i don't have feelings for =/
emceej
Sep 27 2009, 08:12 AM
yes i want a boyfriend atm.
ironically, i rejected a guy like 2 weeks ago.
though, i had no feelings for him & the personal attraction wasn't there yet.
life isn't fair. i always attract people that i don't like =/
sad sad life.
mandoo*
Sep 27 2009, 08:42 AM
Sometimes, when you're a single person, you get sick of seeing couples everywhere and that brings out the hopeless romantic in us. Once you're in that stage, you're as good as a desperate person.
babiloveyoo
Sep 27 2009, 08:46 AM
Nope, I don't want a boyfriend I'm fine being single.
sixth.
Sep 27 2009, 08:52 AM
back in high school i used to always feel that way... a boyfriend was on the top of my wish list.
but nowadays, if i'm single i make the most of it.
alucard454
Sep 27 2009, 09:02 AM
Yeah, sometimes I got envious when I see a girl and a guy holding hands.
I'm thinking to myself, "Wow. It must be nice to have a boyfriend."
I want one, but I'm scared of getting hurt.
rasppery
Sep 27 2009, 09:06 AM
i want.
especially when i get to know nice guys...
Painterlyy
Sep 27 2009, 09:21 AM
I don't need a man to make me happy
B0SS
Sep 27 2009, 10:01 AM
Why BOYfriend, huh?
What is this? As a straight male I refuse to place my input in a sexist thread where I'm unappreciated. D=<
Ida
Sep 27 2009, 10:09 AM
QUOTE (B0SS @ Sep 27 2009, 12:01 PM)

Why BOYfriend, huh?
What is this? As a straight male I refuse to place my input in a sexist thread where I'm unappreciated. D=<
What is this...feeling left-out? Your feeling is hurt?

Okay, I'll leave to cry in your little corner.
--------------------------------------
Anyway, truthfully the idea of having one is not that bad of an idea. But thinking about it, I am too broke to afford one.
-ida
triple555soul
Sep 27 2009, 11:06 AM
QUOTE (B0SS @ Sep 27 2009, 11:01 AM)

Why BOYfriend, huh?
What is this? As a straight male I refuse to place my input in a sexist thread where I'm unappreciated. D=<
Yous a BOSS, don't pinkberry! D:<
,astrolicious
Sep 27 2009, 11:10 AM
QUOTE (wendaYYY @ Sep 27 2009, 02:59 AM)

Back 2 years ago, I was friends with this guy who was a complete sweetheart; he wasn't just a much-around dikhead like the rest of the guys I knew. I mean, he was cultured, sensitive and philosophical (I was the funny one), so it sort of worked out.
We were really good, until he kept bombarding me with "I love you". At that point, I got really annoyed and cut off ties with him.
Funny now because I miss him so badly and keep reminiscing about the good old days and what could have been.
I HATE REGRET!!!
That was me last week but I realized whats over is over.
And plus, trust me, if you were to get back together, what would be different?
Hm, I want him to be my boyfriend.
But I'm scared of messing up again : ) I tend to do that.
And the big question is, does HE want me to be his girlfriend?
Geez, don't you hate one-sided feelings. ._.
why are things so complicated
c[:
Sep 27 2009, 11:10 AM
hell nooo. i don't want comittment to hold me down.
imaviet
Sep 27 2009, 11:14 AM
QUOTE (Painterlyy @ Sep 27 2009, 10:21 AM)

I don't need a man to make me happy

Took the words right out of my mouth (:
bear474
Sep 27 2009, 11:21 AM
i don't need one, so not really, no. maybe i'd be missing out on some stuff, but, meh.
my friend is telling me a lot that she wants a boyfriend these days though.
XangelXtranX
Sep 27 2009, 12:23 PM
QUOTE (Painterlyy @ Sep 27 2009, 12:21 PM)

I don't need a man to make me happy

Lol yea a lot of people say that, its true. But don't you want a person to love and be loved

And I'm not talking bout family lol
QUOTE (B0SS @ Sep 27 2009, 01:01 PM)

Why BOYfriend, huh?
What is this? As a straight male I refuse to place my input in a sexist thread where I'm unappreciated. D=<
Lol I changed the tittle hope you feel a little better...a lil more appreciated
linuhhparkk
Sep 27 2009, 12:32 PM
this is like...the story of my life.
i've never had a boyfriend before D:
i feel like the guy i like, maybe likes me back, but i'm not sure.
and i'm definitely not gonna go out and ask him myself, because...yeah
haha.
ugh, i had hc last night, and when there were slow songs playing, i felt so...alone.
and yeah. i had my guy friends and whatnot, but i didn't want it to be awk.
so yep.
i wish i had a bf. D:
Mr. Chan
Sep 27 2009, 02:05 PM
Since you changed the title. yes, it'd be nice if I had a girlfriend right about now. It's getting pretty boring.
blackjackVip
Sep 27 2009, 04:29 PM
awwww.....
me 2.
lol
ayah07
Sep 27 2009, 07:47 PM
ive nevr been into a real one.
so,i dont really know what im mssin out on.
but,like when i read fics and stufff..
i cant help but wish that i have one.
anyhoo,im cntented with life now.
kinda...
monkeybutt16
Sep 27 2009, 08:18 PM
......I always tell my friends that I don't need a guy in my life. It's too much trouble. But if i honestly didn't need one, I wouldn't be writing in this thread. I'm in denial. I've had my fair share of unrequited feelings, unfaithful guys, as well as being the girl that guys can count on as a sister or friend, but never a girlfriend. Maybe it's because I enjoy arm wrestling, rough housing, horror movies, and Halo or Call of Duty on my PS3 and i'm not...romantic...or affectionate enough.
As much as I deny needing or "wanting" a guy in my life, I do get extremely lonely and cynical. Most of my mains are in a relationship. I'm the one that is left with my hand ....not held....or going to sleep without a "I love you." I do get my advantages being single. Because I highly doubt there will be a guy that is willing to work with my busy schedule. I do put family and personal goals first...before anything else. It's hard to find a guy close to my age that is mature and understanding enough to put up with me.
But....even after all that...my god...do I wish I can love and care about some guy that can return those feelings too.
danielluv
Sep 27 2009, 08:21 PM
I didn't have that feeling after breaking up with my ex, until I met this certain someone. However, there's school, work, life, future, that I just can't be spending that much of my time focusing on these yearnings for him. Seriously they are extremely distracting.
fuublue
Sep 27 2009, 10:01 PM
i never had a boyfriend before, and there are times when i wish i had...i totally understand your feeling. there have been so many bad timings. and there are people that like me who i don't have the same feelings for, or the other way around.
but then if i date a person i don't like (just for the sake of having a bf), there will be no meaning to having a relationship. enjoy being single now! it will eventually come =)
BRS_
Sep 27 2009, 11:24 PM
i feel weird when i see couples walk down the streets. i know im jealous of them but i never try to go and look for one. strange. everytime i see a good looking guy and we make eye contact, i always either stare him down or look away. i get intimidated easily by good looking people and cant stand those concieted fobs.
-sigh-
this is why im single. but i have friends and that's enough..for now ^^
elissayoo
Sep 27 2009, 11:24 PM
yes yes yes i dooooooooooooooooooooooooo
so many of my friends and people that i know hav bf's/gf's

i feel left out
randykiyoshi
Sep 28 2009, 01:53 PM
I don't need a girlfriend. If I have a girlfriend, I'd probably have to spend money on her. Then if we have kids, I'd have to spend money on the kids.
rachilde
Sep 28 2009, 02:16 PM
No. I'm just not at that time in my life where I need or want one. Maybe one day I will. But for today I'm glad to be free.
junkers
Sep 28 2009, 02:21 PM
No. I want friends with benefits. At least two.
triple555soul
Sep 28 2009, 03:21 PM
QUOTE (junkers @ Sep 28 2009, 03:21 PM)

No. I want friends with benefits. At least two.

Sounds like we have the same goals. ;D
inyeon.
Sep 28 2009, 03:43 PM
I don't want a boyfriend, but I at least want to go on a date! ): ahaha.
adaytodiefor
Sep 28 2009, 03:48 PM
Sometimes I feel like I want a bf just to have someone with me.
Then again... I'm better off single for now.
XangelXtranX
Sep 28 2009, 04:41 PM
QUOTE (BRS_ @ Sep 28 2009, 01:24 AM)

i feel weird when i see couples walk down the streets. i know im jealous of them but i never try to go and look for one. strange. everytime i see a good looking guy and we make eye contact, i always either stare him down or look away. i get intimidated easily by good looking people and cant stand those concieted fobs.
-sigh-
this is why im single. but i have friends and that's enough..for now ^^
Hmm... Somehow I feel the same =/ ...I always think lowly of myself whenever I see a good looking asian and sorta popular I always have this thought of wanting to get to them but then I feel intimidated when I'm near them. Also whenever I like someone or I know that someone is interested in me I always try to point out their flaws >< ....D:
aRaMi
Sep 28 2009, 04:43 PM
yes i want!.. but just the person i love! noone alse U_U
too bad im invisible to him!
WallaceJiang
Sep 28 2009, 04:47 PM
I want her! But trying to take my time with it...
I don't even think she wants me back.
I'm just a normal good friend.....
mizzyunna
Sep 28 2009, 05:25 PM
of course i do.
i just want "him" to be my boyfriend then i'm fine :]
YESUNGHWAITING!
Sep 28 2009, 06:27 PM
Yeahh, I feel that way all the time.
It sucks seeing everyone around you all lovey dovey and schtuff.
Our time will come, don't worry.
They say the best things come to those who wait.
But gosh darnit, I'm tired of waiting, aren't you?
"/
XangelXtranX
Sep 28 2009, 07:05 PM
QUOTE (YESUNGHWAITING! @ Sep 28 2009, 08:27 PM)

Yeahh, I feel that way all the time.
It sucks seeing everyone around you all lovey dovey and schtuff.
Our time will come, don't worry.
They say the best things come to those who wait.
But gosh darnit, I'm tired of waiting, aren't you?
"/
Lol
-They say that if you believe and have faith, then it will come to you,
but at this point, I dont even know what to believe anymore...I'm losing my faith I need a hug and not from a girlfriend :x
mz simmonz
Sep 28 2009, 08:03 PM
Sure, I want one but for the first time in a long time, I am also happy to be single..but I do admit, it gets lonely.
I want a boyfriend, but I am not willing to just settle to get rid of my boredom/loneliness..I know a lot of people who do that..just date someone for the sake of having a date on Saturday night and I admit, I've done it too, but this time around..I'd rather not..I'll be patient.
B0SS
Sep 28 2009, 08:29 PM
Thanks for changing the title. =)
Anyway, I don't really want a girlfriend... just a squeeze lol.
I'm horrible, yeah.
stjapo46
Sep 28 2009, 08:39 PM
I feel like my life is missing something so yeah, I do want a boyfriend haha.
I see my friends with their BFs and I just feel left out and kinda lonely.
Well that's my fault since I'm not interested in anyone atm. Like someone said, "the time will come."
That time better be soon

haha.
lynaz
Sep 29 2009, 06:47 AM
i havent been in a relationship for 4 years. i forgot how it feels like being in a relationship. so yes i want a boyfie.
Mr. Chan
Sep 29 2009, 07:04 AM
I retract my statement.
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