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XangelXtranX
First of this is my first time posting a topic in here. I tried to search for a topic like this but there were none. so anyways
I'm terrible at making topic but I'll try my best to keep you entertained huh.gif



So basically I feel lonely =/ ... I no longer have that one guy whom I could talk to or talk until 4-5 am. Our relationship drifted away as school year started couple weeks ago. I liked him and he 'sorta' liked me but the possibility of me and him ..together is 0.99 % to none. And I'm not going into details. but lately I feel so lonely, I see these couples at school and it makes me sad. I've never been into a 'real' relationship so I'm not even sure how to be a good girlfriend. I got people who are interested in me but I don't feel the same way toward them so after a brief time getting to know me, they tend to lose interest.
I guess I'm too picky mellow.gif but seriously, I want a boyfriend who I could hug and hold hand and to tell him everything. I miss ( guy's name ) so much. sad.gif

I know that my time will come eventually ( Hopefully ... ph34r.gif ) but It seems so unrealistic atm. Have you ever feel this way? And if your single tell me bout your story?


( PS. sorry if theres grammar error )[font="Book Antiqua"][/font]
Mr. Chan
No, I do not want a boyfriend.
lovemelody.
story of my life, haha.
damyoungji
I feel this way these days because my first relationship ended back in 2007 and ever since then, I only had one crush - who I am no longer interested in. I was fine with being lonely at first, but most of my friends are in relationships, and some of them are married (my older friends). I am the only one who is single at work, too, so all the talk at school and work kind of makes me feel like I'm too picky, not good enough or something along those lines. Being in a program where there is only like three guys does not help either. I switched schools and I don't have a any male friends there T.T
twix0rz
Sometimes i would have those feelings, but they only last for a day and then i am good again. I just tell my sister everything...hahaha...so i don't need a guy to do that. lol. I feel having a bf would be a hassle but i never had one so i wouldn't know the other side.
Guys were interested in me but i wasn't in them...so nothing happened. I am not the type that would say yes to any guy just to be in a relationship..you know.

Good luck with finding your guy, i bet he will come in time. ^o^
wendaYYY
Back 2 years ago, I was friends with this guy who was a complete sweetheart; he wasn't just a much-around dikhead like the rest of the guys I knew. I mean, he was cultured, sensitive and philosophical (I was the funny one), so it sort of worked out.

We were really good, until he kept bombarding me with "I love you". At that point, I got really annoyed and cut off ties with him.

Funny now because I miss him so badly and keep reminiscing about the good old days and what could have been.
I HATE REGRET!!!
112233
Yes, I want a boyfriend. I miss someone in my life and it's not that I don't try. I just meet the wrong guys and have bad timing T_T.
Jrock~Kitty
I just want Him to be my boyfriend. I don't want anyone else sad.gif
xo_sugar_ox
i feel the same way too tongue.gif i always either end up getting rejected or i attract the ones i don't have feelings for =/
emceej
yes i want a boyfriend atm.
ironically, i rejected a guy like 2 weeks ago.
though, i had no feelings for him & the personal attraction wasn't there yet.

life isn't fair. i always attract people that i don't like =/
sad sad life.
mandoo*
Sometimes, when you're a single person, you get sick of seeing couples everywhere and that brings out the hopeless romantic in us. Once you're in that stage, you're as good as a desperate person.
babiloveyoo
Nope, I don't want a boyfriend I'm fine being single.
sixth.
back in high school i used to always feel that way... a boyfriend was on the top of my wish list.
but nowadays, if i'm single i make the most of it.
alucard454
Yeah, sometimes I got envious when I see a girl and a guy holding hands.
I'm thinking to myself, "Wow. It must be nice to have a boyfriend."
I want one, but I'm scared of getting hurt.
rasppery
i want.
especially when i get to know nice guys...
Painterlyy
I don't need a man to make me happy smile.gif
B0SS
Why BOYfriend, huh?
What is this? As a straight male I refuse to place my input in a sexist thread where I'm unappreciated. D=<
Ida
QUOTE (B0SS @ Sep 27 2009, 12:01 PM) *
Why BOYfriend, huh?
What is this? As a straight male I refuse to place my input in a sexist thread where I'm unappreciated. D=<


What is this...feeling left-out? Your feeling is hurt? laugh.gif Okay, I'll leave to cry in your little corner.

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Anyway, truthfully the idea of having one is not that bad of an idea. But thinking about it, I am too broke to afford one.

-ida
triple555soul
QUOTE (B0SS @ Sep 27 2009, 11:01 AM) *
Why BOYfriend, huh?
What is this? As a straight male I refuse to place my input in a sexist thread where I'm unappreciated. D=<


Yous a BOSS, don't pinkberry! D:<
,astrolicious
QUOTE (wendaYYY @ Sep 27 2009, 02:59 AM) *
Back 2 years ago, I was friends with this guy who was a complete sweetheart; he wasn't just a much-around dikhead like the rest of the guys I knew. I mean, he was cultured, sensitive and philosophical (I was the funny one), so it sort of worked out.

We were really good, until he kept bombarding me with "I love you". At that point, I got really annoyed and cut off ties with him.

Funny now because I miss him so badly and keep reminiscing about the good old days and what could have been.
I HATE REGRET!!!



That was me last week but I realized whats over is over.
And plus, trust me, if you were to get back together, what would be different?


Hm, I want him to be my boyfriend.
But I'm scared of messing up again : ) I tend to do that.

And the big question is, does HE want me to be his girlfriend?
Geez, don't you hate one-sided feelings. ._.
why are things so complicated
c[:
hell nooo. i don't want comittment to hold me down.
imaviet
QUOTE (Painterlyy @ Sep 27 2009, 10:21 AM) *
I don't need a man to make me happy smile.gif


Took the words right out of my mouth (:
bear474
i don't need one, so not really, no. maybe i'd be missing out on some stuff, but, meh.

my friend is telling me a lot that she wants a boyfriend these days though.
XangelXtranX
QUOTE (Painterlyy @ Sep 27 2009, 12:21 PM) *
I don't need a man to make me happy smile.gif


Lol yea a lot of people say that, its true. But don't you want a person to love and be loved tongue.gif And I'm not talking bout family lol

QUOTE (B0SS @ Sep 27 2009, 01:01 PM) *
Why BOYfriend, huh?
What is this? As a straight male I refuse to place my input in a sexist thread where I'm unappreciated. D=<


Lol I changed the tittle hope you feel a little better...a lil more appreciated tongue.gif
linuhhparkk
this is like...the story of my life.
i've never had a boyfriend before D:
i feel like the guy i like, maybe likes me back, but i'm not sure.
and i'm definitely not gonna go out and ask him myself, because...yeah

haha.

ugh, i had hc last night, and when there were slow songs playing, i felt so...alone.
and yeah. i had my guy friends and whatnot, but i didn't want it to be awk.
so yep.
i wish i had a bf. D:
Mr. Chan
Since you changed the title. yes, it'd be nice if I had a girlfriend right about now. It's getting pretty boring.
blackjackVip
awwww.....
me 2.
lol
ayah07
ive nevr been into a real one.
so,i dont really know what im mssin out on.

but,like when i read fics and stufff..
i cant help but wish that i have one.

anyhoo,im cntented with life now.kinda... wink.gif
monkeybutt16
......I always tell my friends that I don't need a guy in my life. It's too much trouble. But if i honestly didn't need one, I wouldn't be writing in this thread. I'm in denial. I've had my fair share of unrequited feelings, unfaithful guys, as well as being the girl that guys can count on as a sister or friend, but never a girlfriend. Maybe it's because I enjoy arm wrestling, rough housing, horror movies, and Halo or Call of Duty on my PS3 and i'm not...romantic...or affectionate enough.
As much as I deny needing or "wanting" a guy in my life, I do get extremely lonely and cynical. Most of my mains are in a relationship. I'm the one that is left with my hand ....not held....or going to sleep without a "I love you." I do get my advantages being single. Because I highly doubt there will be a guy that is willing to work with my busy schedule. I do put family and personal goals first...before anything else. It's hard to find a guy close to my age that is mature and understanding enough to put up with me.
But....even after all that...my god...do I wish I can love and care about some guy that can return those feelings too.
danielluv
I didn't have that feeling after breaking up with my ex, until I met this certain someone. However, there's school, work, life, future, that I just can't be spending that much of my time focusing on these yearnings for him. Seriously they are extremely distracting.
fuublue
i never had a boyfriend before, and there are times when i wish i had...i totally understand your feeling. there have been so many bad timings. and there are people that like me who i don't have the same feelings for, or the other way around.

but then if i date a person i don't like (just for the sake of having a bf), there will be no meaning to having a relationship. enjoy being single now! it will eventually come =)

BRS_
i feel weird when i see couples walk down the streets. i know im jealous of them but i never try to go and look for one. strange. everytime i see a good looking guy and we make eye contact, i always either stare him down or look away. i get intimidated easily by good looking people and cant stand those concieted fobs.

-sigh-

this is why im single. but i have friends and that's enough..for now ^^
elissayoo
yes yes yes i dooooooooooooooooooooooooo blush.gif
so many of my friends and people that i know hav bf's/gf's sad.gif

i feel left out sad.gif
randykiyoshi
I don't need a girlfriend. If I have a girlfriend, I'd probably have to spend money on her. Then if we have kids, I'd have to spend money on the kids.
rachilde
No. I'm just not at that time in my life where I need or want one. Maybe one day I will. But for today I'm glad to be free.
junkers
No. I want friends with benefits. At least two. biggrin.gif
triple555soul
QUOTE (junkers @ Sep 28 2009, 03:21 PM) *
No. I want friends with benefits. At least two. biggrin.gif



Sounds like we have the same goals. ;D
inyeon.
I don't want a boyfriend, but I at least want to go on a date! ): ahaha.
adaytodiefor
Sometimes I feel like I want a bf just to have someone with me.
Then again... I'm better off single for now.
XangelXtranX
QUOTE (BRS_ @ Sep 28 2009, 01:24 AM) *
i feel weird when i see couples walk down the streets. i know im jealous of them but i never try to go and look for one. strange. everytime i see a good looking guy and we make eye contact, i always either stare him down or look away. i get intimidated easily by good looking people and cant stand those concieted fobs.

-sigh-

this is why im single. but i have friends and that's enough..for now ^^


Hmm... Somehow I feel the same =/ ...I always think lowly of myself whenever I see a good looking asian and sorta popular I always have this thought of wanting to get to them but then I feel intimidated when I'm near them. Also whenever I like someone or I know that someone is interested in me I always try to point out their flaws >< ....D:
aRaMi
yes i want!.. but just the person i love! noone alse U_U
too bad im invisible to him!
WallaceJiang
I want her! But trying to take my time with it...
I don't even think she wants me back.
I'm just a normal good friend.....
mizzyunna
of course i do.
i just want "him" to be my boyfriend then i'm fine :]
YESUNGHWAITING!
Yeahh, I feel that way all the time.
It sucks seeing everyone around you all lovey dovey and schtuff.

Our time will come, don't worry.
They say the best things come to those who wait.
But gosh darnit, I'm tired of waiting, aren't you?
"/
XangelXtranX
QUOTE (YESUNGHWAITING! @ Sep 28 2009, 08:27 PM) *
Yeahh, I feel that way all the time.
It sucks seeing everyone around you all lovey dovey and schtuff.

Our time will come, don't worry.
They say the best things come to those who wait.
But gosh darnit, I'm tired of waiting, aren't you?
"/


Lol -They say that if you believe and have faith, then it will come to you,
but at this point, I dont even know what to believe anymore...

I'm losing my faith I need a hug and not from a girlfriend :x
mz simmonz
Sure, I want one but for the first time in a long time, I am also happy to be single..but I do admit, it gets lonely.

I want a boyfriend, but I am not willing to just settle to get rid of my boredom/loneliness..I know a lot of people who do that..just date someone for the sake of having a date on Saturday night and I admit, I've done it too, but this time around..I'd rather not..I'll be patient.
B0SS
Thanks for changing the title. =)
Anyway, I don't really want a girlfriend... just a squeeze lol.
I'm horrible, yeah. sad.gif
stjapo46
I feel like my life is missing something so yeah, I do want a boyfriend haha.
I see my friends with their BFs and I just feel left out and kinda lonely.
Well that's my fault since I'm not interested in anyone atm. Like someone said, "the time will come."
That time better be soon mad.gif haha.
lynaz
i havent been in a relationship for 4 years. i forgot how it feels like being in a relationship. so yes i want a boyfie.
Mr. Chan
I retract my statement.
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