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DailyMelody
It's so frustrating when people ask me if i'm mad or angry just because of my facial expression.
It seems that i always look 'angry/serious/mad' when i'm just putting on my neutral face. People
who i don't even know go like: "You can smile if you want to you know?"

My mom has the same thing
When i see her sit infront of the tv she has this angry/serious expression on her face and it goes like
Me: "Is something bothering you?"
Mom: "No... why?"
Me: "You look so mad."
And than she gives me the biggest (obvious) fake smile.

Anyway, has this ever happened to any of you guys?
It makes me wonder what people think of me when they see me for the first time, huh.gif.
It's not like i'm a negative person or anything, i'm happy most of the time...
Ramie.v
Maybe you got a b-t-h face.
Anyways, that never happened to me, then again, people says I always look like I have quirky smirk on my face.
MangaPanda
I'm so sorry for lolling so hard. X"""D .. but yea, even I ask you if there's something wrong with you... laugh.gif
But, no, I never had people asking me if I were mad/angry. The thing is, according to them, I look sad. I'm not sure if this is an insult though .__.
Mannosuke
Maybe it's your eyebrows, cause eyebrows say everything.

Sort of like this.
GreenStuff
I've been told many times that I should smile more often. It gets annoying when ppls try to tell me what I should do with my face. My neutral face always looks like I'm mad and ppls do ask me if I'm mad when I'm not..
Mr. Chan
I have an intimidating face, so people think I'm also pissed.
sung yuri
same here! My friend keeps on saying that I looked like pissed or something plus they always blame me whenever we start fighting that I'm the one who started it all..wtf!!! and it is just because of my usual face..what do they want us to do..have a face surgery?!LOL
Hwan
People who doesnt know me always think Im pissed off,
I guess its something about the natural position of your eyebrows..

or when the sun shines, u tend to lower ur eyebrows abit because of the shiningness xD
When I do that my friends always say; why are u angry?

That is one more reason why I like winter more than summer xD
del32
Yeah, I have this permanent scowling face [my bestfriend's words] laugh.gif that eventhough I'm a friendly person someone could mistaken me otherwise when they first met me
joogrlpekaun
Yeah, that's been the story of my life. Once you actually talk to me I tend to smile a lot in conversations, but when I'm just going around doing my thing, I look like I'm pissed off. I've gotten people telling me to smile more and making exaggerated smiley faces at me to "demonstrate" my whole life. My mom used to get mad at me and say "Don't you look at me like that!" when I wasn't looking at her in any negative way to my knowledge. A couple of my friends told me that when they first saw me, they were actually afraid to talk to me because they thought I would punch them or something. Siiigh.

The most annoying would have to be the vice principal of one of my elementary schools, though. I had to go down this one hall to get to class every morning, and every morning he would stand in the middle of it and say things to students. Every freaking morning for years he would clap me on the back and say "Smile!" which just made me actually as annoyed as I looked.
wildbunnies
ugh i get this alot. i'm just sitting there, and someone i know always asks me if i'm okay. i get caught off guard and say yeah and they're like, oh you look mad...i have yet to find out what it is but its darn annoying
XangelXtranX
They never ask me if I'm mad or angry. They asked if I'm sad. Smile they would say. I dont know lol ..
My neutral expression is sorta sad and determined kinda way... FLSJGLSJSHKSHFK
chrissatinee
There was a thread just like this before..

Anyway I get that at times, Idk why either and Im sure it's not my eyebrows (refer to few posts above)
Rainity
yeah, some people keeps thinking i'm mad at them but really i'm not. gets so )(@*&#@*& annoying lol.
King.Triton
I hate it as well. I'd just be walking into the kitchen and my mother
would give me this "Wtf is your problem?" look. And in return, I just
ask, "What?" And she just goes on about me having an attitude. My
sisters say the same thing about me always looking like a boy with
my ugly, angry face. Lol. People at school never ask because I'm
just a bit happy there. When home, I'm just emotionless. Don't really
understand why people have to know what's wrong with me. It's my
business. >>;
deeism
its annoying and i dont understand why people have to ask (especially when they don't actually 'care'). im not going to smile and laugh at everything... lol. though i do tend to giggle a lot. and it's just the way my face relaxes? blah.
RYUUSEi
I'm the same, except people say I look mean and not angry which is even worse lol. It gets so annoying to hear people comment on it all the time though, it's like, what's your point, smartass?

I'm friendlier and nicer than I look, I promise. sad.gif
jiyongfighting
haha, get that all the time.

I'm daydreaming and someone will ask me

"are you sad?"
"what's wrong" or
"are you mad?'


I just smiled and reply no.
daniMIAMI
QUOTE (XangelXtranX @ Oct 18 2009, 09:04 PM) *
They never ask me if I'm mad or angry. They asked if I'm sad. Smile they would say. I dont know lol ..
My neutral expression is sorta sad and determined kinda way... FLSJGLSJSHKSHFK


LOL, mine is too. HAHA am not liking my neutral expression very much so I do this face with bloated cheeks. Makes me look goofier 'cause I usually have this really serious face... it's because of the eyes. ~.~
shern
ahhh, haha it happens to me too. and i don't like it.
spiral_flare
OH MY GOD

YESSSS!!!!

Every single day at school, whenever I have an expression OTHER than smiling, friends always ask me "are you OK?"

ALWAYS.
It's so annoying because I keep telling them "why? does everyone just normally smile the whole time? do you want me to just sit here and smile for no reason?". That shuts them up but they ask the same thing again the next day.
lizelle
YES! oh my gaaash.
it's so annoying when people think i'm angry when i'm not.
i hate how people try to read my facial expressions gaaaaahd!
it's sooo annoying.
Redux-Analogy
I get that A LOT. I just have one of those faces that look mad sometimes. tongue.gif I'm usually in a pretty good mood most of the time too. It's not really annoying when people ask if I'm angry or not, but it makes me a tad uncomfortable sometimes. Who wants to look like they're angry all the time? :/
NPB-XK
I think that having a horny face is pretty unique to not look mad, sad, etc... But then people don't see the difference with a horny face and a "being high" face... I guess you get to be born with whatever you have on your face unless you do something about it (get punched a lot in the face, surgery, etc).
junchan
My friends ask me that if i'm sad
or something?
B'cuz when i'm so expressionless, my
friends guess that i have a problem
that make me sad...
Actually...naaaahhh... laugh.gif
Pottish
so sort of like Pink the singer? it's a face with personality!
yuki526
I'm glad they don't dare to ask laugh.gif I'm more of a, don't-mess-with-me facial expression tongue.gif
jsp
I get it all the time.


From what people tell me, I'm somehow both baby-faced and scary looking huh.gif
FraZZLE
Shoot, I have a similar problem. But instead, people ask me if I'm sleepy. WTF, apparently I always look tired.
Xyeun
I look bored some days so friends, etc. think I`m mad, but I`m really not which I find rather funny. As a result, when I am mad no one realizes it unless I beep lol.
mizzxangie
my friend constantly asks me if i'm 'okay' just because i zone out a lot,
especially when we're around her other friends that i don't like.
so i just have a blank face, doesn't mean i'm upset or anything.
it does get annoying after a while, she should've gotten to point after all this time lol.
am i expected to smile 24/7? o.o; i used to get comments like that all the time,
(looking mean/angry/sad) but i think i look more cheerful lately haha
iyagi
I've been told I look kinda sad...but that's my normal face? ): lolidk

most of the time I'm just kinda thinking. Not sad thoughts, just thinking so... yeah LOL
Shaneira
LOL
my best friend asks me the same question ALL THE TIME.
Pandiiebear
im always asked if im sad :/
its like my neutral face.
it gets frustrating when other dont actually believe that im NOT sad =.=

i have a friend who looks like shes mad when shes netural :)
its kinda wacked but it fits it as well.....since shes prettty g
Lavender.Sky
yeah it happens to me too
im just sitting there and then someone goes lk: are you pissed??
>__>
Jx3
Omgsh YES! LOL. Lots of ppl are too scared to approach me cuz i have a cold btchy face going on. I'm sorry.. my face was born like this sleep.gif
VictoryxLove
EVERYDAY my friends or my mom ask me "are you okay?" and then I say "yea. why?" and then they tell me that I look depressed and sad. I can't help it. my NORMAL face is just depressed looking and I don't want to smile 24/7 just because of that reason.
`ANITA
OMFG. YES. I get asked that a lot. I also get asked if I'm pissed at a certain person because I look at them in a "certain way." But I wasn't even! I was looking at him/her like how I look at any other person. -__-"
iH3eartXD
Yeah sometimes this happens to me.
My friends go like "are you mad at me or something?". Then I go like "no!".
My natural face looks more like I'm depressed though....
~It's not that I'm depressed it's cuz I'm tired!~
KeHAEa
I don't think it happens to me because of my neutral face, but it happened once because someone did something that they thought I didn't like, and so they asked me later, while my face was neutral, whether I was mad. xD Purely coincidental~
vivientww
Yeah like once cause my face always looks like I'm pissed off or Imma cut someone ROFL. biggrin.gif
ching22194
people say i look strict, that they're reluctant to approach me.
every time i think about it, i relaxed my face a little bit. sometimes its
really annoying coz its just the way it is. its weird to smile while walking
they might thought im going crazy.
l-almo
Yes they ask me if I'm either mad/sad but I'm really not. -__-" I guess I can have a serious expression sometimes.
Oh but when I am feeling mad/sad they don't notice sometimes. LOL
xxxong
hhahha, i got asked that question everyday.

"Are you mad?"

My neutral face is said to be looked mad. I agree.
ionely
Oh my gosh! I have this situation a lot! People always think I am a pinkberry because I have this face structure and thinks that I am mad becuase I do not smile much!
HC.

they dont really ask, they just already feel I'm cold on the outside, although most of the times, I'm not exactly mad/angry. When I really am, it's really obvious~ tongue.gif
mandoo*
LOL, I get this alot. Usually from people who don't know me. It's cause when I'm not smiling and jumping up for joy like I usually do, my neutral face seems like a 'hey-you-im-a-total-conniving-beotch' lmfao. or so they tell me x_x
Courtknee
My neutral face is basically this face ---> o_O or basically a "wtf" face.
And people I know would always look at me and say "... why are you looking at me like that?"

When I'm serious, I look mad. And I'm serious most of the time. When I walk in the halls at school, I think I intimidate people. LOL.
eledoremassis02
Hahaha I thought I was the only one!!

Every time I have natural face people think I'm always mad/sad. Maybe because I smile too much?

But it's like:

Some guy: Are you mad?
Me: Not until you asked me....biggrin.gif
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