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NikeHoops23
So, i got over my ex and now im moving on and i find this one girl really "interesting". She goes to my school, she is a freshmen while im a sophmore. I don't know how to talk to her because i dont have any class...

The only way i kind of know her (Not at all) is from my cousin which said "Vote "her name" for Freshie Prez" to me on AIM. So the next day im walking to my class and i see a poster of her. She litterally took my breathe away. I decided to come back and find her on facebook..Added her...and sent her a message[See below]. She started replying etc. UNTIL the last two days....

Question: How shall i talk to her because i find me going up to her and her friends out of nowhere is weird and say "Hi im the guy ur talking to on facebook."

Message:

Me: Heys :]
Her: Hi smile.gif
Me: Im "name" ...I go "school" Class of 2012...<<Such a gay intro -.-
Her: hahah! well heyy, i'm "her name". i also go to "school". i'm a freshman. what's goood ?

-Skipped some of it, NEXT DAY :] -

Me: How was skewl today?
Her: it was funn ! i totally crashed in 6th period thoughh.
Me: Lols mr lyon aint fun... Whts u have for 6th..? Heck yahhe was we did all those stupid mini cooper and all i lrearned was MLA format [talking about how pinkberryy our comp teacher was last year, that she currently have]
Her: thats only cause you dont have him with my classs smile.gif
PristineNyte
It looks like you're doing a pretty good job of making small talk with her, she doesn't seem pained to respond to your messages at all, maybe find out what time she takes lunch (and I guess since you're in HS I assume?) see if you have the same lunch period as she does, if you do, maybe ask if she'd like to have lunch sometime, she's a freshman so she'd probably be kind of willing to meet new people and have more friends.
NikeHoops23
QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Nov 5 2009, 12:53 AM) *
It looks like you're doing a pretty good job of making small talk with her, she doesn't seem pained to respond to your messages at all, maybe find out what time she takes lunch (and I guess since you're in HS I assume?) see if you have the same lunch period as she does, if you do, maybe ask if she'd like to have lunch sometime, she's a freshman so she'd probably be kind of willing to meet new people and have more friends.



Yes, we are in high school and we both have the same lunch period. I don't see her during passing periods because our lockers are in different wings and she doesn't have any of my classes
shern
well she looks like she's enjoying texting with you.
ElectroHime
Hmm well doesnt she know what you look like?
When you see hear at school, just say hi, pretty sur she's know you're the guy from facebook.
Dont worry so much, keep making small talk, ask questions (it would be great if you had similar interests so when you see her you can ask her about that) and let things flow.
It'll go naturally when you actually say HI to her in school.
Say something casual.
It would help if you had friend connections(hang out as a group after school/lunch/ etc).

Do your best ~
DailyMelody
If you're still a little insecure about going straight towards her and have a convo
start small. A gentle smile, a little wave followed by a 'Hi' is good enough sometimes.
Small talk ! Hi, how are you and such things. And as she is a freshman you could always
ask 'how are things going at school?' and 'I could help you with that.'

You'll be fine. :]
Nine
Find her during lunch and ask to sit with her, then just slowly get to know her.
lakai_goodnights
YO lil buddy,
just try talkin a lil bit more on facebook. find out a lil more bout eachother. You gotta learn somethings about her other than her picture and that u guys go to the same school. Get a sense of what she likes thru questions plain and simple. Now Im not talking months or weeks of this but a couple times maybe even just 2 ofa lil chat and then, you gotta be mad
"JIK JYEOP" wit it. (direct) Straight up be like "hey if you got some time lets hang" ( idk how u kids talk these days) but something along the line of that.


If she keeps talking says okay, then cool go with it take it easy and be self assured. be yoself and dont be scared about it.
Girls dont like scared guys
Now keep mind people make up about 40%+ of their mind whether or not they are interested in someone off of 1st impression. So if she iggs u or cold responses dont sweat it. There are like 70,000,000,000,000,000,000,,000,0,00,0,,0 ,0, people in the world. u will find another girl. However i wish u all the best and hopefully u'll pul it off.
-Victory
kcn_
QUOTE (lakai_goodnights @ Nov 6 2009, 06:47 PM) *
70,000,000,000,000,000,000,,000,0,00,0,,0 ,0, people in the world.


say WHAAAA?!

to OP
keep up the small talk, greet her with a smile whenever you see her
and when you bump into her "coincidentally" strike up a convo in person
I use this method a lot myself tongue.gif
AngelsWhisper
pshh what are you worrying about. just don't over think no mores =] cuz you talk just fine.
myxo
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Question: How shall i talk to her because i find me going up to her and her friends out of nowhere is weird and say "Hi im the guy ur talking to on facebook."

Seriously, don't do that. She should recognize u from ur FB photos if she ever runs into u at school. AND. if for whatever she doesn't, well isn't that sort of a clue?? And honestly, u just got over ur ex and u find this girl "interesting" because her photo blew u away? Lovely.
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