Okay so here's the story:

Not sure if anyone can relate but I'm sure someone can...haha. Has anyone every read up on someone famous and find yourself totally attracted to that person? Like, yeah the looks drove you to like that person, but at you read and watched videos, you find yourself in love? Don't get me wrong, I'm not really in love with "him" but instead in love with how I portray him in my head. (I think that makes sense...) Well, anyways I was lying in bed and thinking to myself.

"Man, I'm thinking about this person like crazy and his smile can make me in such a better mood... Just thinking about his smile and makes me so much more happier. ... But it doesn't matter anyways because as much as I think about him, he doesn't even know I exist." T-T *Broken heart*

So I was wondering, if anyone has ever felt like this (not just to someone famous, but can be anyone), and what did you do to change that? What would you do to get this person to realize your existence?

Sound's like you're wasting your time.

What's the point of thinking about him if he doesn't even know you exist? You want this one way relationship ... well technically not a even a relationship lol, he doesn't even know you.

Why don't you do something about it? The sheer anxiety and curiousty would have motivated me to go up and talk to the other person at least.

Instead of lying there thinking about what COULD happen, how about just go up to him and make yourself known?

WTF is this crap? Really? If you are a soompi forum member it's a given that you are a fan girl/boy or were a fan girl/boy at some point and time. Fricken ridiculous.


Re-read the part where she talks about him being famous. She's just a fan girl. So lame. I thought I was gonna deal with some real life sh*t.


Re-read her post. She's just a fan girl.

Hardcore fans would do anything to even get to see their idols in person, and she sounds like a hardcore fan to me.

I'm pretty sure it's normal.
many people like famous celebrities and these celebs most definitely don't know they exist
but if its a real person you're talking about e.g. from school, go talk to him/her.

Post pictures of yourself so we can determine the situation.

Yeah, I thought I was totally in love with Gackt, too.
Then I turned 12 and grew out of it.

well things will change after time goes by so i think its okay

just like me i used to like some singers but then as time goes by

and i got bored at them i would just forget about them(hehe...)

I would STOP daydreaming about that person who doesn't even know that I exist. Or, I would gather all my guts and go tell that person that I'm insanely in love with them endlessly.

And I thought this was going to be something serious with a person irl...from the sound of things, waste of my time reading and replying to this..lawl... I'm betting you're barely even old enough to know what "love" is..It's a phase, it'll go away...just stop daydreaming about him/her/it...and try to move on.

your reply to everything ...

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yes i can relate to you, his name is PARK JAEBEOM
but of course my love is purely that of a fan girl

Whoa there, I'm thinking about you all the time, also.

^ LOL.

well, sometimes it did happen to me too. in my case, i didn't try to make a change for myself by wanting him to know my existence. i will just- you know keep on going with my crush but in a way that will decrease my feeling towards him or maybe find a new crush. haha. that's what i do since i don't really like to waste my time in guys- and for now i am officially not an admirer to anyone, except taecyeon. it would be better right? obviously ok taecyeon doesn't know me and i'm not sad of it.

haha sounds like typical stranger crush or fangirl.


IS IT YAMAP? hahah have you been watching too many YAMAP vids? ;D (btw Im a P fan )
*cute Nobuta wo Produce YamaP & Maki icon btw.

If you're a fangirl, "in-love" with a celebrity, normal.
you dont actually have to DO ANYTHING to make it go away/change how you feel etc.
Go ahead and admire and like him even if you can never reach him.
That's what a fangirl is .

If it's someone famous, dont bother trying to somehow do crazy tings to get that person's attention.
Unless somehow , you're destined to meet that guy sometime in the future , fall in love with each other etc. , dont do anything crazy to make him recognize your existence XDD

If it's a regular person...obvious answer? GO BE HIS FRIEND.

I pray you're not another JaeJoong teenybopper.

LOL

it's ok, keep dreaming about him, then one day you will grow out of it. I thought I was going to be single forever when I heard Hyde got married. ...yea.... good times.

Fangirl moment, nothing wrong with that.

haha, thanks for your comment. If there was someone who you didn't know say, it was a "love at first sight" kinda of thing, and every time you saw that person... wouldn't you want to make a great impression on that person? So like, what kind of impression would you go for?



hehe, I like how you phased this. ^^ What would you do to make a good first impression?



Wahhh, you make fangirls sound so bad. ><;; But I guess it's your opinion so alrighty. ^^ I know I'm a fangirl, but I respect his privacy. d=

Anyways, I meant for this to be applied to real life. I'm sorry if my example was a poor choice. T-T



LOL. Yes, indeed most of my friends will call me hardcore. d= Honestly, I wouldn't do anything crazy to get his attention but at the same time... You never know what you will do in the heat of things. hehe. d=

Thanks for your post.



Isn't it... perplexing though? (For lack of better word...) Being a newbie star and then something bigger later in life... Never knowing how much someone will be thinking of you... haha. Even though it's just fans, you always have someone cheering for you to succeed. ^^



LOL!!! How will that determine this? haha. I'm anonymous since I have some real life friends on here...



hehe, Gackt is so beautiful! hehe, I like how you said, "Then I turned 12 and grew out of it." haha, funny thing is even though I am 22, I still find myself gushing at certain stars... haha. I'll admit, although I am an adult, I can still squeal like a teeny bopper. haha. d=



haha, sadly that is soo trueeee. Especially when studying is "suppose" to be a higher priority. hehe.



What's the ... most you would do to get someone to notice you? Well, not really notice you, but to get a good impression...?



hehe, sorry if this didn't seem to apply to real life. My intention was to hear cute stories of first impressions and what not. My apologies for a poor choice of example. T-T

&&Although I can't say I've experience the "love" that portrayed in movies... or what our parents may have experienced, but I have fell in love. I do know the meaning of love. ^^

LOL. <3fangirl. hehe. What would you do if you got a chance to meet him? Do you think it's really crazy to try to get him to know you exist?



I feel ya! I just got out of a relationship and I'm pretty content with being single for now. My fangirl crush is all the satisfy me for the time being. Haha. At least until classes are done... ><;;


hehe, thank you! I forget where I got this icon but I love it!!
And yes, I am a Yamapi fangirl too. hehe, but at the moment I'm currently crushing on someone else. lol. d=
I hope Yamapi isn't jealous. (They are actually look-a-likes...)

The thing about being friends, is that... guys tend to not change that status. Friends usually stay friends... T-T



LOL!!! No I am not. d= I'm actually not a teenybopper neither. haha. d=


LOL. Married = </3 I don't want to think of that!! LOL, I'm just kidding. hehe



hehe, yeshhh, someone who doesn't think being a fangirl is bad. Thank you! <3

awww.... as u can probably tell, in my siggy and avatar...i'm a fangirl
oh, how i love to be with Gdragon and taeyang of big bang...or just even meet them in person would be awesome ^^
i think, it's just a crush...not really "love" since u haven't met that person yet, and u haven't been with that person yet, u can't experience "love" in my opinion.
so yeah, we fangirls will always just be a non-existant person to them...as sad as it might sound. T_T
but that's fine, i know time will fade ur admiration to that person, and u will find ur "real" true love. <3

I can so relate to you hahah..i daydream about this person a lot..and he doesn't know that i exist.just for fun and when i have nothing else to do. It not bothering with my life so i see no harm in it...and it not like im trying to get with him becuse i know its impossible. hehe

Yeah been through it but I care more about playing stupid games.

You can't make him realise your existence if he's just a character you portray in your mind, love. But if you're talking about the dude who you're in love with, hmm I've got no advice which would work :/

You'll meet someone, soon.

its a phase
sumthin else will become more impt as u get older

No offence, but this is ridiculous. @_@;

I know how you feel there was a time where I thought I couldn't live without Kim Jaejoong *shivers*
But one day I woke up and slapped myself and realized that I have no chance with him so why waste my time on him when I can find someone who I really love and can be with? What I'm saying is no matter how much you think you love your idol you're just in a typical fan girl state and you'll get out of it like I did. Don't worry you'll look back at it and laugh so for now just continue to fan girl over your idol and forget what anyone else says. It's a part of life

I don't really understand fangirls...what do they 'fangirl' about? o.O. It's always some celebrity who's handsome, nice, can do this, can do that, blah blah. It's just a regular person who got famous, ok? I don't think celebrities are any more handsome or talented than that guy/girl sitting in my commerce lecture per se, but because they are famous, their talent seems amplified, whereas a non famous person is probably talented in some area too, but not alot of people know about their talent, hence doesn't as talented as a celebrity.

Yeah . I totally love G-Dragon , my friends say I'm obsessed with him , but it's probably just because I'm such a big fan girl . (: Don't worry about it , we all know most of us won't be able to be with someone famous .. :l

I know how you feel. n___n

Especially when no one you know attracts you in real life, you can't help but go gushy over an ideal person in your head or portrayed on a higher pedestal by the media. ;__; They're not completely unattainable. Of course anything is possible - but all that shizz I seriously leave up to God. He knows best.

Even though I admire a couple of celebrities, I won't let it stop me from having relationships with the people I know personally. I think relationships in real life, rather than a relationship that is a figment of the imagination, is far more important to invest in. If you find that you're getting distracted by this 'crush' - do something about it, even if it means get over it / talk to him / stop thinking about it. Jeopardising your real life over a make-believe one is a definite no-no. Living in the land of 'what if's' is a huge waste of time.

U seem like u are a big fan of a FAMOUS person. Actually, I felt that way. I like my classmates but we never talk to each other. So, he never know that " I'm here! ", hehe

LOLOLOLOLOLOL hahahaha