Well I already posted a topic on breaking up with my recent ex but the story still continues!

First off I'd like to ask everyone a psychology question;

This one girl's mom just died and she's at her mother's funeral and she meets this really, really
cute guy and they start talking and she pretty much falls in "love". The funeral ends and he leaves
and she realizes she didnt ask for his number or name or anything so how does she contact him?
The very next day she kills her sister.

Why?

You're wondering why I'm asking this and how it has anything to do with anything, well i'll explain.

Okay so I broke up with my recent bf and in summary, he is a big fat liar and a thief. Now before you judge
and tell me, why would I be with someone like this in the first place, let me tell you I honestly did not know. He is
a master of manipulation. His lies are so well constructed and even if he is caught out he will make the
biggest scene and go through such lengths that you start to question yourself and then feel guilt that you accused
him. I know its incredibly hard to understand and i'll try to give examples but theres just so darn much!!

He stole my friends money and was so slick about it, he even looked around for her and then went to all the places
she has been to and asked to check cameras and yell at all those people accusing them of stealing it when he
was the one who stole it in the first place.

He keeps clinging to me and showing up everywhere iam and always asks me where im going and then he still
tells everyone im his girlfriend, not to mention he keeps threatening suicide if I leave him which makes me think
he never really loved me, he's just way obsessed because I was his first.

He made one of his friends pretend to be a "gangster" and go up to his dad and force him to give him money and then
afterwards his friend has to give it to him. WHO DOES THIS?? I'm so afraid that he will steal from my parents
and me now that he can steal from his family. What if one day he gets over me and decides to rob my parents
store?

There are sooo many other things he's done that are so out there its not even..possible. So i honestly don't
know what to do with him I think there is something wrong with his head and I'm going to ask him that question
and depending on his answer will tell me if he is a psycho or not.

If you guys want to know the psycho answer i'll tell you after everyone tells me what they think =))

She kills her sister in hopes of the guy coming back again for her sister's funeral.

lol ^ you read that somewhere didn't you?

I never ever guessed it right until I saw the real answer, like it was totally unexpected.
My friend got it right a few years ago. It freaked me out.


I should have totally asked this q to my ex, considering he was a psycho .

I was thinking for the answer to be something like, her sister went out with that guy and she got jealous =__=

Am I the only one who thought the answer to that was glaringly obvious first time I saw it?

It sounds like you need to get a personal protection order against this creep ASAP!!!! Also, you should go to your local police precinct, and file charges. Charges like harassment, stalking, etc. Wow some guys take what they have for granted. Even thought I don't know you it needs to be said that you look great, I'm sure you have a good mind set, and you don't deserve this. This sort of reminds me of a friend of mine who got out of an abusive relationship.

LOL, nope, you're not the only one.
but point is, i don't think asking him that question would help any, esp since you seem to think he's already pretty crazy (and that's what he sounds like to me too, quite honestly)... so it's just kind of like. why bother?
and it's not really accurate either.. actions speak louder than...cognitive abilities.

but wow, seriously go to the police if you're afraid. 'cause that's straight up ridiculous.
don's got the right idears.

I read the question before and had gotten the answer right. But I am pretty crazy...

Anyway, looks like you're in a really tough situation. I don't know what to say but to slowly get away from him. If you suddenly block him out of your life, he'll most likely feel really offended and do something crazy just out of anger. Make yourself so busy that you'll essentially have no time for him.. and hope that he'll move on.

Darn it! U beat me to it. My friend asked me that question before cuz he thought I was loony. Seriously though, that question isn't enough to gauge whether someone is really psychotic or not. It's really just for fun.

Back on topic, ur ex seems more than loony to me. I don't see the point of asking that question when the fact is right before ur eyes: this guy will do whatever to get what he wants. U can usually tell how a person is by how he/she treats his/her family. Well, now u know. It's best to try and distance urself from him as much as possible. Get help from legal authorities if need be, but don't let this guy manipulate his way back in ur heart.

The riddle was posted on soompi before.
It said if you got it right, you have a mind of a murderer. (around those lines)

Yeah.. your bf seem to have issues... big ones
Aren't you're afraid he's gonna go crazy if you ask him that?

That question is suppose to see if you're psychotic? i thought it was obvious too...

you need to alert your parents and the authority if he does anything that might threaten you guys' safety. It's not your job to cure him so don't take things into your matters, I also don't know whether talking about this with him is wise since he is obviously in denial and might get angry at you.

Play his game. Have your male friends scare him. Or pay some tough looking guys to do it. Few slaps in the back alley should do it. Legal ways are usually too slow.

Avoid him. Catch his acts on tape or video and bring it to the police. Etc.

Wow I didn;t know so many people would have gotten it right! I thought long and hard
and could only come up with answers like; maybe the sister was the guy's gf or
knew him but didnt tell her sister his phone number ='(

Yeah I know it probably wont be able to tell if he actually is crazy or not just from one question
but i'm tempted just to see what he says haha.

The thing is he's really very pitiful, he has no friends and his family isn't really around here anymore
they moved to asia and my parents really hate him because he's lied to them as well, so I
feel really bad for him. Its not like he has never ever done anything for me so I guess
I can only slowly drift away from him...which is kind of hard considering he knows where I live
and work and all my friends information as well and even if I had a restraining order put on him
I don't think that will really stop him.

Also he's really big and tough so most of my guyfriends probably won't be able to do anything to him,
sadly which makes it even scarier!

Seriously I got that question right the first time I heard it from
a movie and I was only 8. The movie said only psychos gets it right and I kept thinking I was psychotic when I was a kid, now that I think back you have to be retarded not to get this

my friends asked me that a few years ago
and i told them straight out she wanted to see the boy at the sisters funeral
then they were all shocked n called me a psycho killer lolz

i means its logical rite?

neways for ur personal life
i think u should stay away from him
tel ur parents bout him so if nething happens ... they would be aware

n just stop contact\

Lol. Everyone's caught up with the 'killing sister' question.

I think this guy's psycho. Not just a random speculation, but it sounds like something my grandfather was describing when he said my uncle was psychotic(manipulating and lying).

This one girl's mom just died and she's at her mother's funeral and she meets this really, really
cute guy and they start talking and she pretty much falls in "love". The funeral ends and he leaves
and she realizes she didnt ask for his number or name or anything so how does she contact him?
The very next day she kills her sister.

^ D: I got a different version, I heard it last year from my brother.
He said there was a funeral and and this the two daughters attended. Their mother had had died and there was a lot of people there. One sister saw some guy sometime into the funeral. The next day, her sister dies, why did she die?

Your version makes it sound so much easier D:
I seriously couldn't get anything from my version, the closet guess I got was that she liked the guy or something.

Anyways back on topic. You know he's not right in the head if he got his friend all dressed up and made him rob his own father.

IRT the psycho funeral question, I don't think you need to be psychotic to get it, I just think you need to have a really basic understanding of how plot-arcs work.

IRT the OP, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Use it as a learning experience and don't become one of those girls who goes from one crazy relationship to the next because they begin to crave the drama/excitement/etc. that being with someone who is socially deviant brings.

SaintPink, first thing I have to ask is how old are you? Judging from your picture, you should be at the age where you can take care of yourself.

I had a girl friend who had a LOT of trouble breaking up with her bf because the guy kept threatening to release her secrets and tell lies about their relationship. Basically he kept her stuck with her for over a year before he accepted that they weren't together anymore. The guy was being super immature about it and always made a scene...etc.

You have to CHOOSE the right guys. I'm gonna make a lot of assumptions here, but I think that the guy you dated was probably a guy who wears a lot of white or black, wears a baseball cap, bagging jeans, and acts gansta. If I'm wrong, then I apologize. Maybe that's the kind of guy you want to date, but you also have to think of the consequences of getting with a guy like that.

^dude some people aren't what they seem. They can be sweet at the start, then somewhere after the first month all so, bits of their real personality start to emerge.

Just cos a guy dresses gangster doesn't mean he acts like a douche lol.

Well I feel uneasy when you described your ex. man, if I were you, I'd try to get him sent off to jail before he cracks.

Your psychological question won't get you the answer you are looking for. Guy's a pathological liar, a behavior of compulsive or habitual lying. They usually do this to make themselves appear, and feel better about themselves. Pathological liars have low self-esteem, and are depressed about their lives. If you confronted a pathological liar, they'd likely have an emotional breakdown when they are faced with the reality they are trying desperately to avoid. This is basically the Pathological Liar checklist, it's in my textbook and found many other places too:

* They change their story all the time
* They will exaggerate and lie about everything, the smallest and easiest things to tell the truth about and the big serious things
* A mindset of what ever you do, they can do it better.
* They often don’t value the truth, and can often live in their own type of reality.
* They will act defensively when questioned or challenged, they see their lies as not hurting anyone
* They lie for sympathy or to seem better
* They usually never own up to the lies
* They contradict what they say, they lose track of the many lies told
* They lie because they are insecure

I have a friend like this. My other friends get tired of his behavior. I, on the other hand, find it interesting. I can't help him though, because he doesn't believe there is anything wrong with himself. Thus, he neither wants or seeks help. Only way they are going to get better is if they have some kind of life-changing event. Even then it's a maybe. Most of the time with pathological liars, once the problem is identified, it is usually far too late to be corrected.

He never acts gangster although there are times when he mentions things like that
but I brush it off as just another lie but in the first 6 months of dating he was the sweetest
and I didnt find anything wrong, he seemed like a dependable guy who valued his family
and had a job and super devoted and faithful.

Things change though and i don't know and probably will never know if everything was a lie
comming from him from the very beginning and I'm thinking he did most of the lie because
he was incredibly insecure and thought I would leave him if he didn't lie. I told him though
that he should tell the truth and i'd forgive him but he couldnt do it so I ended it.

Its hard to "choose the right guy" many people are so decieving and the person who looks
perfect in everyway, personality, job, morals, etc. can turn out to be a serial killer.

JinEnjuice - yeah...that pretty much describes him, he is a pathological liar is there no way
to help? maybe a shrink or something?

I thought that, too. XD And to all who said you have to be retarded to not get it... Um, that's not very nice. Is there are non-retarded way of thinking? I think not.

Anyway, I think you definitely need to tell someone about your situation. Make sure you have backup if anything's wrong. Try to distance yourself from him subtlely... Do things that could make him see you as less attractive... Like, don't dress up really nicely anymore. That tends to work. : | I hope all goes well. *hugs*

lol a friend asked me that years ago and i got the answer on the first try. surprised myself. xD
the way you asked it made it so obvious though. you stressed too much on the guy, haha.

The only way you can remotely help is to confront him about the problem; he will either believe you or he won't. As I said before, to help someone with an issue, they first need to realize they have a problem, and they have to WANT to be helped. Otherwise, nothing can be done, and no shrink would be able to help. Really, the best way of dealing with pathological liars is not to.