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Ahh >< I accidentally posted on on beauty and fashion section... -embarrassed-

I know that some of my friends are going to read this sleep.gif sigh* Ah well.


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There this problem...
I don't know if I'm even in a relationship with this guy...most likely not?


so...

At the beginning...
Starting around September I had this dream about him
where I confessed to him and he returned the feeling
When I woke up I thought, 'Ehhh that was weird...Oh well leave it's just a dream'
I never talked to him last year and he was in two of my classes and I never really noticed him
I only saw him as my friend's crush's friend. =P LOL

When school started and we were getting our schedules, first thing on my mind was 'Must find him'
However, I was sad that I couldn't find him
After school I told my friend what happened and she told me 'Maybe you like him'
'Maybe you like him' was stuck on my mind for a week
I ended up having a little crush on him

Then when October came laugh.gif Something happened
he started talking to me on msn just out of the blue
First it started as talking few times the first week
After the first week we started talk to eachother more and more
ended up talking to eachother on msn EVERYDAY from when we got back from school and until we had to go to bed
I started liking him more and more

Around the 3rd week of October we were joking around on msn
and I proposed to him.
surprisingly he said yes
I called him my wife so he called me his husband Haha smile.gif

That night I was talking about how I too physical (like kicking and hitting people but i do it lightly), and think too much and end up overracting and I should change that about myself
he replied saying I don't do those things and "You're prefect the way you are"
I was really touched smile.gif I was smiling like an idiot

We started talking more during school
We would call eachother words of endearment (at first it was weird but got used to it)
We switched roles too so now i'm the wife and he's the husband


--end-- (I'm sorry if it's confusing >< I'm horrible at explaining)



I'm dense about these things so I found out he liked me too a few days ago haha
He gave me tons of hints too XD

Should I just go up to him at school and just tell him that I like him or something else?
I'm too embarrassed just to say "HEY YOU! Are we in a relationship?"


Thank you (:
donporkuloin@yahoo.com
Definitely tell him how you feel, and ask him if you're not in a relationship can we make it official.
xDMufffins
ASK HIM OUT. BE THE MAN laugh.gif
jho
As far as I'm concerned there isn't anything to be worried about. If you know he likes you too then don't prolong this anymore... Ask him out =) Can't be much worse than asking him to be your wife hahahaha.
kariiquacks
I literally LOL-ed at the end of that. "HEY YOU, ARE WE IN A RELATIONSHIP" haha smile.gif

I agree with xDMuffins ; I've asked guys out myself, or rather made the first move.

But it didn't seem like anything was wrong. From that little story there, I thought you guys were ALREADY in a relationship. But you're making it seem like it's sort of, not.. OFFICIAL yet. haha idk what I'm saying. D:<

Well, bottom line, you should discuss this with him. For me, I'm having sort of the same problem with a guy. He's been hinting a LOT and I'm about 90% sure he likes me but can't tell me. You know, a girls got good instincts when she picks up hints. wink.gif
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