i posted in the love&relationships, and i realized the best therapy for me is music.
know any songs for my situation? i am breaking it off with the boyfriend of 3.5 years. i love him and cant cant cant see myself without him..but i have to for my own good. i need to make sure he is / isn't the one..

i am heartbroken, i feel so, so sad. please help me.

BoA - My Prayer

It always gets me in a state of mind where I'm not quite happy or sad, but a bit neutral and mroe stable.

Bob Marley - No Woman, No Cry
Usher - Seperated
Tamia - Smile
Aaliyah - At Your Best (the song is real soothing)
Allure & 112 - All Cried Out
Blaque - When The Last Tear Drop Falls
Christina Aguilera - The Voice Within
Ginny Owens - If You Want Me To
India.Arie - I Am Not Your Average Girl
Jon Bon Jovi - Love Hurts
Oasis - Wonderwall
R. Kelly - The World's Greatest
R. Kelly - The Storm's Over Now
Tasha - As Time Goes By
G.O.D. - 2 Heart
J - Not Words Of Love
J - Erase The Days
1TYM - Without You
1TYM - One Love

Guns n roses - november rain

i don't know if this helps but,

true - ryan cabrera

i just loooooove that song.

Anything that's upbeat and happy-like for me.

Lauryn Hill - Ex-Factor

have you ever- brandy
too little too late- jojo
whats left of me - nick lachey
ashley parker angel- let u go

nick lachey - resolution

A couple of those songs actually might make her more sad.

Anywayz, I Will Survive

for me i find Jrock most soothing (call me crazy) but it makes me forget and it just makes me feel better...

other than that i also listen to dancey...upbeat songs, gets me in the mood to be happy.

listen to s club 7

i dont know if it helps.... but here..
lifehouse-blind
dishwalla-coral sky