[Korowa]

most people would complain about having too much work to do, but I can't believe that I have nothing to do for like the past couple of days!

Man I feel so useless.

[EYJAYJAY]

lol... i have 4 big papers to write, one of which is 20 pages. ALL due this month. pretty much one paper a week aside from the regular 4 or so journal entries.. big test each week (between neuroscience and anatomy) AND i just got a new job. wonderful x.x

[ptaj83]

okay i need to let off some steam concerning my mom and the rest of my family * i am filipino*

i am sooooooooooo sick and tired of my mom and the rest of my aunts being on my case about my weight!!! i'm 5'4 and weigh about 140-145, but i don't look overweight. i am tired of my mom and aunts nagging me about losing weight (may i say something prior, when i was in my teens i weighed about 90-100 lbs, and i had to starve to do soo)... and i hate it when they use the excuse of it's for your health, cause seriously i'm an inch closer to telling my mom to check her weight as well * i wasn't the only one who gained weight in the past 6 years* and add my aunts too that.

i have a younger sister and she's considered the beauty of the family * i am the lazy smart one* and being compared to her in the looks dept sucks!!! okay going off topic but come on, it took me 23 years to get to a point in my life where i am happy and content in the way i look, yes i am tubby in certain areas but i'm happy and content... i have no known health issues just crappy genes from both sides of my parents, but none have been found in me yet.. one of the reasons for the 5-10 lbs weight gain the past year had to do with depression about something * hurts to talk about*

i got married two years ago and my husband likes the way i look, because i am happy. i know i should work out more and eat less but i like to bake when i'm stressed, hence the blueberry muffins today when my mom gave me another lecture. i'm a married adult and still she loves to dictate to me.

i'm sorry i just needed to let this out...

[HERMIT]

^
I hear ya.
I've been known to hit Conching's Cafe and having one too many Halo Halo specials.
But really, chalk it up to the Filipino culture. We're all too quick to feed you, yet at the same time criticize our physiques. *sigh*
You're an adult now, and moreover - married as well. At this point, if your husband accepts you as you are, then perhaps that should be all that matters, health concerns notwithstanding.

[LucasBunny]

I hate people taking credit for things other people invented

That's really irking my nerves at this very moment.

[PurpleRain]

i feel sad,useless and hopeless today.. why life doesn't goes my way??wae?wae?...WAE *&^%$#@ phew >_< .
KOROWA- i understand how u feel..exactly in ur shoe now ..

[shiwi]

how does one relieve grief?

[Laxntiga]

how does one relieve grief?

Well whatever happened, you cant make it un-happen. There is no use for crying over spilled milk.

Learn from whatever incident, try to avoid it again. If it happens, confront it, take charge, dont allow it to follow through.

If... someone died, its part of life. Babies are born and the eldery pass away, if they didn't this world would explode. You have to feel sorrow in order to know what joy feels like.



Now... my turn to rant. WTF is wrong with the people in the love and relationships forum? Like.... did you see the "i cry for him" thread? some IM-chatted hopped up girl thinks she's in love with a guy she probably never met on soompi and is sad that another girl wrote something on his profile and cries, then she wonders if he knows.............. WHAT?

Dam this internet, why dont people go outside? walk, take a hike, take the stairs, talk? mingle? be sociable? I swear this internet thing only increased anti-social disorder, obesity, laziness, etc. ten fold. If your ugly and no guys want to talk to you in real life..... then work out and get surgery or be weeded out by natural selection! By putting up PS'd or Haduri pictures inflates your self-esteem and the 411 thread might stroke your ego but caaaaamaaaan!!!

If people said to each other, yes you are not the best looking, yes you could loose a few pounds, yes your breath stinks..... then wouldn't people be more inclined to change and better themselves? Do people just not say anything and keep silent inorder to keep the less physically attracive people the way they are and to make themselves look better as prospective mates? I dont know where im going, im just fed up and taking out anger out on these ASJKLFLDS keys, im going for a run.

[rochinipark]

i like to rant abt my lazyness or rather my procrastinating off my studies.got exams for my 1st year in university,2nd sem next week yet i've been onlinin,watchin kdrama lovers,anythg but studying.

its not like i dislike studying but i rather do this.if my mom knows tis she'l flip.good thg i'm quite far frm her.hometown abt 6hrs away on bus frm whr i'm currently am.

the course i'm taking is business management.its not like i dislike it though i chose it for career opportunities over my interest which are languages,history & politics.not an expert persay on tis topics but it interest me more that wat i'm currently studying.dare not chANGE as it'l disappoint my parents & job opportunities.i hate my life.

only shimering light or saving grace is watching all my tv shows english & korean.love csi's,supernatural,smallville,heroes,ghost whisperer,kdrama just finished lovers abt to watch thankyou,the devil & hello miss.my another sense of escapism is looking forward to manchester united games(football).i love it.i'm alwiz alone in tis side of thgs.though i hv frens but i hv yet to find 1 who love all my interest of tv shows,football,sports...so lonely life.mu gona win tis season.

[JJM]

Why can't it be Friday already? It's been such a long Thursday morning and it's only 10:30.

I hate moving. I hate packing and unpacking. Please just don't let it rain the weekend we move.

[JF21©]

Now... my turn to rant. WTF is wrong with the people in the love and relationships forum? Like.... did you see the "i cry for him" thread? some IM-chatted hopped up girl thinks she's in love with a guy she probably never met on soompi and is sad that another girl wrote something on his profile and cries, then she wonders if he knows.............. WHAT?

Dam this internet, why dont people go outside? walk, take a hike, take the stairs, talk? mingle? be sociable? I swear this internet thing only increased anti-social disorder, obesity, laziness, etc. ten fold. If your ugly and no guys want to talk to you in real life..... then work out and get surgery or be weeded out by natural selection! By putting up PS'd or Haduri pictures inflates your self-esteem and the 411 thread might stroke your ego but caaaaamaaaan!!!

If people said to each other, yes you are not the best looking, yes you could loose a few pounds, yes your breath stinks..... then wouldn't people be more inclined to change and better themselves? Do people just not say anything and keep silent inorder to keep the less physically attracive people the way they are and to make themselves look better as prospective mates? I dont know where im going, im just fed up and taking out anger out on these ASJKLFLDS keys, im going for a run.

and now you see why i go in the L&R thread as little as possible. because if you say something realistic, you're bashing. most of the forums with users 13-17 years of age are full of insecure attention seekers who, at the slightest show of opposing views will have their self esteems crumble.

the L&R
the H/B/F
the K-music
the Performers
and a couple more are the areas where you must wear kid gloves and handle with care, or you will be seen as a big meanie who just bashes other members.

really it's kinda pathetic. i remember once in the L&R a girl (GF)was having troubles with her BF allegedly hooking up with a known ''wild'' girl(WG)....of course her BF denied it, while the WG said it was true....when i pointed out that why would the WG have to lie about her BF (the girl had evidence too lol) and the GF just refused to believe it and ''just knew her bf was telling the truth''...when i pointed out some pretty hard evidence (which btw, the GF told us) she got upset at me...LMAO it was crazy....i felt bad for the GF at first, but after going back and forth with her...i lost all sympathy. she was one of those who just wanted to be in love it seemed to me (regardless if that love was degrading to her self-worth) and it also seemed like she wanted to verify that she was ''better'' than the WG...

anyway...

my rant: ....well..um..right now i don't really have one..lol but i'm sure i will later

[JJM]

I love the L&R forum. Such young, bright, inquisitive minds. *sarcasm* Watch me get ostracized from the L&R forum for this remark if one of them wanders into this thread.

I just treat it like a guilty pleasure. It's like Flava of Love and I Love New York. Don't want to watch it, but can't look away or turn the channel.

[Tr710]

Stupid e-mail not working again!! This has been going on for a week already!!!

Edit: generalization and stereotyping piss me off and this forum is infested with people who keep on doing it. Are they too lazy to use their brain to think or something??!

[Nightmare]

People get on my nerve; the people who are soo quick to the point finger. They're quick to turn the tables on on another person as though they've caused the problem. They get more angry when the problem is rooted from them. Even when it's just an accident they're quick to blame another person. I hate people who can't take up their mistake and likes to play the blame game.

[JF21©]

generalization and stereotyping piss me off and this forum is infested with people who keep on doing it. Are they too lazy to use their brain to think or something??!

and you just figured that out now?!

[HERMIT]

and you just figured that out now?!

now, now - let's not generalize that Tr710 wasn't using his brain in figuring this out ....

[Tr710]

and you just figured that out now?!

Nay, t'was long ago. I just feel like saying it now.

[Emerald Snow]

I'm at the point in life where I realize that the life that I've planned out for myself all this time, the ideal life that culture and society has hammered over and over in my mind, might not be the life I want...I'm not sure if I'd be happy or not. Do I really want to be like those millions of working drones out there, all those people who hate their jobs, their lives, and themselves?

Man I'm sleepy.

[jurassic5]

it's spring....why does it have to be cold and filled with snow flurries?


why do my Phillies suck in April?

[xkiseki]

ranting....

i'm about to graduate from college and i havent heard from a single law school i've applied to. now my stupid uncle is going around telling everyone family he's skeptical whether or not i'll even graduate because he thinks i'm an idiot. i don't know why he bothers to talk when he's in his late forties unhappily married with no children, living with his dad.

i'm just upset that things aren't goinga s planned for me, and my family is pressuring me about my plans for the future. damn, i hate getting older.