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#2101 User is offline   jshat4 

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Posted 14 April 2009 - 07:21 PM

Lol it's ok blue shoe, I think I get what you're saying. The issue is that everyone wants to be politically correct to different things and they all have different sensitivities, so it's just so much easier for mods to be PC about everything. Which makes it sometimes suffocating, but what can you do.
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Posted 14 April 2009 - 07:25 PM

QUOTE (blue_shoe @ Apr 14 2009, 04:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The mod here are really TYRANNICAL and RIDICULOUS! Not all, but MOST. It is a shame.

Forget about the past warning. I'm only going to talk about my most recent warning.


The mod that you are speaking of in this incident is actually someone that is extreamly fair and has been for as long as I've been on this forum.

QUOTE (blue_shoe @ Apr 14 2009, 04:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How are you going to get mad just because I said I notice more white beggar on the street??? I don't care if it is true or not, but that's what I see. I want to know how come they are getting it hit hard by the recession than people of color? Someone said maybe it's because of my neighborhood and I realize that it is probably is.

When you look for a pattern you find one. The truth is, if you weren't racist, you wouldn't even see the color of someone's skin. It's when you use their race as the basis for your impression of that person that creates the situation where you're viewed as a "racist". Let's be honest here, you scream to the high heavens that you give them money, well good for you but you aren't the only person that has given money to the homeless (the term begger is even worse to use because it just implies that you look down at them.) They are down on their luck and a helping hand is a good thing, but I don't think any of them would ever appreciate being called a begger. I've given countless people money, god help me if I can target only one race group and I live an area where one race is pretty dominate. It's not the race that matters, it's the fact that another human being needs help. Maybe you see more people down on their luck and asking for help - that doesn't mean you should just target one race and call it out.

QUOTE (blue_shoe @ Apr 14 2009, 04:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I said please excuse the stereotype meaning I'm not trying to be a racist, I just want to know why. I knew some of you people like jump to conclusion and like to accuse others so I said "please excuse the stereotype". Because I would think the recession hits all races equally. I wouldn't know because I'm not good with all those stuffs. Then soompi members jump in and say I'm trying to be a racist. Maybe I am that stupid that I don't know why. Heck I don't even know what you mean by trolling but out of context I am going to assume you mean I am trying to be condescending. How are you people going to accuse me of something because of one question I ask. You don't even have any valid evidence.

Then you go and tell me I am insensitive to those people for asking those question. I want you to know the reason I notice more beggars especially Caucasian in my case is because I always give money to beggars.


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PS: just because you said to excuse the sterotyping doesn't mean that you can be excused for your comments. That's like me saying, "please excuse this insult, but your mother is fat and ugly." guess what? I'm still going to get smacked for saying those words to someone.

QUOTE (blue_shoe @ Apr 14 2009, 04:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I want to punch that mod who warned me in the face and the people who accused me of stuffs. I really do because you know what people like to say they're not racist this and that but the one that makes the most noise about not being racist and stuffs are really the most racist ones!

Now after reading that and you still want to ban me then go ahead, but letting other people talk down on me without valid reason and warning me over something that is so ridiculous because you accuse of something I am not makes me mad!

PS: I'm so glad I notice more white beggars. Maybe I would have gotten double warning if I said I notice more korean beggars! CHILLL!


It wasn't the race you used, it was the fact that you even noticed the stinking race. Get off of your high horse and actually grow up and look around you. You ask ignorant questions and when someone calls you on it - you call it condesending and you turn it around to say that we're racist? Lets face the facts here, nobody here has pinpointed a race to any specific class for anything from the "truly rich" being this race or that race. You have a right to your opinion and your questions but when you voice them on a public forum in an offensive manner, be ready to deal with the consiquences. Maybe you honestly have not had enough exposure to the world and have been so sheltered that you have an inability to interact with other people without offending them - maybe it's a language barrier, whatever it is - get off of your high horse, stop thinking that you're better or more intelligent than anyone else here and learn something from it. Apologize for your mistake and move on instead of throwing a temper tantrum and expecting the rest of us to feel bad about it. Not one thing was said in that post about what you said that wasn't true.

If you look at the way you phrased the question it was non chalant and ignorant. It was insenstive and to anyone out there could have suggested a person that honestly was racist or just didn't care. You are not superior to anyone here or anyone that may not have a home that you're giving money to - you just had more blessings than that person. Get over yourself and learn something from the mods and the people that posted that waht you said was offensive instead of saying things like you want to "punch" them, seriously - are you in your 20's? The last time I actually said those words to anyone, I was 15.

QUOTE (blue_shoe @ Apr 14 2009, 04:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
AFTER writing all of that I realize why bother? When you talk to stupid people, it's not like they're going to understand. Hence, forget it. I'm outta here. There must be a forum with better members out there. And I know many people agree, they're just too afraid to say so.


I remember you from a few years ago - you came on this section and did the exact same thing. You posted things that offended a lot of people here and when everyone came down on you for it - you cried out that you were being abused and you wouldn't come back. Well you're back, I would hope that you would have learned something from the first time and learned to be more sensitve about the things you post but I guess not. Not everyone has to have the same opinons and not everyone is as PC as everyone else but there is a line that should not be crossed and you crossed it with that post. From the use of the word "begger" to targeting a race, you offended a lot of a people. Instead of just letting it go and knowing to not say it anymore - you call everyone stupid. That right there, proves your immaturity. No, people are not going to understand your temper tantrums or your threats or fits, that's like giving into a 5 year old who constantly screams and yells for random things, whether right or wrong. Eventually, the screaming and yelling gets annoying and you just ignore the kid.

I really do hope you find a forum with people that have the same opinons, soompi has been here for 11 years and it'll be here for 11 more. If you don't like it, if you don't agree with everyone on here - sorry for that. If you find yourself wanting to come back here and you haven't been banned for your ignorant comments then I would hope that you would learn to watch your words and learn from the diverse opinions on here instead of taking it like you're being abused.
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#2103 User is offline   jshat4 

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Posted 14 April 2009 - 07:42 PM

I think people should chillax. Seriously, it's not a huge huge deal that people need to go all emotional about. I used to get all mad too when I read annoying things on forums that people posted, but now if there is an ignore poster option, I use it. And if not, I try to just ignore it unless it's a personal attack. Because seriously, not everyone is going to see the same way you do and getting all tied up abotu it is a waste of everyone's time.
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Posted 14 April 2009 - 08:00 PM

Getting a root canal at the dentist tomorrow. Yay.
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Posted 14 April 2009 - 08:07 PM

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Posted 14 April 2009 - 09:41 PM

I'm trying to figure out....exactly what I did to deserve all this. I am trying to rationalize it as some sort of payment for all the good things that are in my life right now. But the bad easily washes out the good.

So basically I am left with the bad.

And I'm trying very very hard to understand this...understand any/all of this. Why am I sitting here typing this at this point? Why am I 'here'? And most of all, why do I need to go through this?
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Posted 14 April 2009 - 10:23 PM

I'm getting sick!! SICKK!
I haven't gotten sick in a long time!!!
Ahhhhhh.


QUOTE (GTB @ Apr 14 2009, 07:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It is even worse when people twice my age (the Baby Boomers) getting more action than I am.


i won't mention my situation on THAT ;D, but we should start a "Pity Us" club on soompi = * [. I found out yet again that one of my close friends just got freshly engaged. Ugh.


QUOTE (-_- @ Apr 14 2009, 10:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Getting a root canal at the dentist tomorrow. Yay.



that sounds lovely. don't have too much fun at the dentist dear~ wahhaha. =P
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Posted 14 April 2009 - 10:31 PM

... everyone has a bf but me... i want one too
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Posted 14 April 2009 - 10:40 PM

Stupid apartment building, why do I have to get approval to get timber floors put in? Doesn't the floor cement have enough noise dampeners? And waiting a month for approval? Screw that!!

Carpet it is. >_<

And why am I sick? Stupid allergies/hayfever.
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Posted 14 April 2009 - 11:07 PM

I needed to mail something off to my grad school today and didn't get to because I wandered into the post office, saw the line/felt the evil aura, slowly backed away, and ran off before some cranky tax payer customer got mad at me.

note to self: don't go tomorrow either.
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Posted 14 April 2009 - 11:15 PM

I need a job. =(

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bad.
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Posted 15 April 2009 - 12:43 AM

Really, people, it's ok to pull off to the side of the road if you have a minor fender bender to trade information. Really, it is. The insurance company won't care. The police won't care. It certainly is safer for you. Plus, you won't piss off a hundred people for a little bit of paint that can be buffed off by the local car wash.
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Posted 15 April 2009 - 01:40 AM

- somebody#1:

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Give up kid. Liking a 누나(noona) of 3 years your senior will not work out...
I've seen it work out with one of my friends... but it's not gonna work with me. Some women find it cute to be dating dudes more than 2 years younger than them, but not for me. -____-
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Posted 15 April 2009 - 12:41 PM

YOU SUCK! You waited that long only to give up so quick. grrr...
I seriously need a new job.
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Posted 15 April 2009 - 05:14 PM

busy season is finally over!!!!!!!! 4/15 came and went. hallelujah.
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Posted 15 April 2009 - 07:02 PM

QUOTE (YUNA! @ Apr 15 2009, 01:23 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
that sounds lovely. don't have too much fun at the dentist dear~ wahhaha. =P


It wasn't bad at all. I'm scared of needles and before we began I told my dentist to hide the needle from me laugh.gif My dentist's really nice and works fast.



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Posted 15 April 2009 - 07:52 PM

Darn Mavericks!! phew.gif
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Posted 15 April 2009 - 08:14 PM

Art is difficult especially when I realize that I should have focused on one thing instead of thinning myself out with other stuff. I wish I had a mentor somewhere to tell me these things...
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Posted 15 April 2009 - 08:45 PM

gtb = golden thief bug? Anyway, writers block.
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Darn Mavericks!! phew.gif

That word is forever associated to Palin in my mind now. God damn.
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Posted 15 April 2009 - 08:54 PM

I heard from a friend that Cardavenue was a good place to buy gift cards at a discounted price because you're buying from other people. It's like eBay where you can bid on the cards and they also have a trading option. I ended up winning a bid on a PacSun card worth $35 for $15 and I emailed the guy telling him that I would like the numbers on the card through email and for him to mail it out. Well, he sent me an email telling me that I haven't paid yet when I have. So I screen printed my Paypal activity account and send it to him as proof because he was all like, "You need to show me proof. blah. blah. blah"

It's been two days and I never receive an email from him, so I emailed him again that if he wasn't going to reply to my emails he should just return my money. He finally emails back telling me that I should "Calm Down." and then making up excuses that he's a full time students and doesn't have every waking moment to reply to my emails. HELLO?! I'm a freakin' full time student with a TWO part-time jobs and a damn family to take care of! Of course I know how it would feel like but I still have 5 minutes to email you about something, especially when it's about an transaction!! What kind of shi.tty seller are you to avoid your buyer's question and tell them to "calm down" when they email you why you haven't replied? I work 7am-1pm, have classes from 1-5pm, and work again from 5-9pm. Oh, and I have to stay up and do homework for math and chemistry, but I still take 5 minutes out of my time to email you and I'm sure you can take 5 minutes out of your damn "busy" schedule to email me back.

OH! Stupid guy even have the nerve to tell me that I have to pay for shipping when it clearly state on the listing page that he's responsible for it. I better receive that gift card within a week or I'm going to start a Paypal dispute with this dumb bastard. fury.gif


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