[Azngel]

THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR TAKING THIS!!!!!!!!!!!! I NEVER EXPECTED THIS MANY REPLIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!


here it goes...

Males

1. Sex: Male
2. Age:
3. Ethnicity:

Part I
4. Growing up did your father or other male members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a man or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes/No, explain
5. Did your father or other male members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a man should only marry a woman)? Yes/No, explain
6. In your house, did the man of your household (father, brother, uncle, etc�) do most if not all of the house work (i.e. mowing lawns, fixing cars) and other work that society considers to be part of a man�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain
7. Did you see your mother partake in any �man�s work� (i.e. fixing the plumbing, fixing the roof, changing car oil)? Yes/No, explain


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a female member? Yes/No, explain
9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a female should perform? Yes/No, explain
10. Do you believe that it is wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain
11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a man� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain




Females

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age:
3. Ethnicity:

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes/No, explain
5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? Yes/No, explain
6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain
7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes/No, explain


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member? Yes/No, explain
9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes/No, explain
10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain
11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain


THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE SURVEY! and if you didnt take it, THANK YOU FOR LOOKING

[tinil-galia]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 15
3. Ethnicity: Chinese-Indonesian.

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society?
YES.
5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)?
YES.
6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility?
YES.
7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)?
YES.

Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member?
YES. It's like restrictions kind of thing from the elders...
9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform?
NO. It's not fair how males always thinks that certain things should be done by females only. Thus, I do not believe that certain things should only be done only by males. Because both females and males are not much of a difference.
10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay?
NO. It's not wrong to be gay because people have feelings and feelings can't be controlled. I'm not saying that I'm gay or anything but in my opinion, being gay is not wrong. It's people's freedom if they want to be gay. It's wrong to stop people from being gay.
11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are?
NO. I act like myself. My parents would give me glares, nudges and things like that but I just find it irritating. What's the point of being someone you're not just to please other people. FIGHT FOR YOUR RIGHTS! HAHA!

[thatonegirl]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 19
3. Ethnicity: chinese

4. Yes, my parents always told me i'd need to know how to cook for my husband. and i needed to know how to clean the house.
5. no, they said as long as i'm happy they'll be happy.
6. my mom does a lot of the cleaning every weekend, and she cooks on the weekends too.
7. my dad used to do the cooking on the weekdays because my mom would get home from work later than him. he also does the laundry and used to fold the clothes.


Part II
8. no, i do whatever i want. but i guess if you consider car and mechanical stuff mens work, then i don't do that, but mainly because i don't understand it.
9. men should be handy =) fix things around the house, kill spiders.
10. no, i couldn't care less what others do with their lives, and it doesn't affect me in any way or bother me so it doesn't matter.
11. sometimes, i feel like i need to act more like a girl just so people don't think that i'm manly or something. but i'm not over the top girly. but other times, i don't want guys to think that i'm weak or anything so i'll try to be more confident.

[nobody knows]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 14
3. Ethnicity: Chinese and Taiwanese

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes/No, explain
no. My parents weren't TOO much about girls doing chores. But from time to time, my mom would tell me how I show do more housework and how my brother should mow the lawn. Sort of?
5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? Yes/No, explain
sort of. My mom would always say "because Chinese aren't normally homosexual, so this would be normal" about a situation where a girl dates a girl or whatever. I'm afraid to tell her I'm bi-curious because of this because I'm afraid she won't accept me.. as much?
6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain
yeah. From the time she got off from work to the time she slept, a majority of her activities was taking me or my brother to some extra curricular activity, cooking, cleaning, whatever. My dad just lazed around the house and asked me to fetch the remote for him. My mom says it's because he's the man that she lets him do this.
7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes/No, explain
only when my mom isn't home for the day would he cook. But since he lives in China, it's not very common that I see him. I wonder who does his laundry while he's there..


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member? Yes/No, explain
I've always wanted to try to mow the lawn, but my mom says I'm too weak for that. And that that's my brother's job.
9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes/No, explain
no. Girls are guys nowadays.. we're more equal. There's plenty of females who could easily beat up a guy without trying. Girls aren't as looked down as like in the past
10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain
it's not the person's choice, really. It's the way they were raised, etc. It's not wrong
11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain
I think that just the fact that I'm female and accept that fact proves that I'm a girl enough. I used to really hate being a girl, but now I'm okay with it

[LovexPoison]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 15
3. Ethnicity: Vietnamese

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society?

Yes -- I was and still am constantly reminded that women must do household duties. It's not as though they imply that ONLY women should do it because they do think men should help as well, but they make it clear that it's primarily a woman's obligation.

5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? Yes/No, explain

Yes -- my parents adamantly oppose homosexuality and view it as a defect.

6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc…) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman’s responsibility? Yes/No, explain

Yes -- they always have. They cook and clean. The husbands help a lot too, of course, but as I said before, it's primarily the woman's duty.

7. Did you see your father partake in any “woman’s work” (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes/No, explain

Yes -- my father has helped wash dishes, cook, and set the table.

Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member? Yes/No, explain

Yes -- I don't like to mow the lawn or do any of those types of tasks.

9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes/No, explain

Yes -- mowing the lawn, changing the lightbulb, carrying heavy things, etc.

10. Do you believe it’s wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain

Absolutely not. I think as long as you're in love with a human being, it shouldn't matter which gender.

11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to “act like a girl” in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain

No -- I just like to be comfortable. If what I'm doing isn't particularly lady-like, it doesn't matter.

[girl armageddon]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 17
3. Ethnicity: Caucasian

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? NO

5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? No.

6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility? No for a while(and by while i mean years) my dad used to cook,clean,wash clothes, etc for my family.

7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes. look at the above answer.


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member? No. maybe it's because i was raised around nothing but guys but i really have no problem doing stuff that mainly guys do. i can easily go and mow the lawn as the next guy.

9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? No women can easily do "mens" work and sometimes do it better.

10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? No. love is love and it shouldn't matter if two people in love are of the same gender or not.

11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are? No all my female friends are tomboys. i'm not very girly so i would feel really uncomfortable trying to be a girly girl.

[sleepismytherapy]

1. Sex: Female
2. Age:17
3. Ethnicity:asian viet/chinese

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes/No, explain
Yes! they told me I have to act certain ways... take care of the family, and when I grow older I need to support the whole family at viet and stuff...

5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? Yes/No, explain
No, she told me that everybody is eqaul and it doesn't matter if they're gay or not... she told me that it okay.

6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain
YES! she cleans everything, and cook everything.... my day doesn't do mini cooper... except for working...


7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes/No, explain
hmmm... YES... once when my mother was away and he have to choice but to cook boiled eggs..,.


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member? Yes/No, explain
NO.not sure never really thought about that...

9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes/No, explain
no... i think they should do everything.... even giving birth... grrr

10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain
No. everybody deserve the rights to love whom they choose, it's only right that everyone else stay out of their personal lives.

11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain
No... what is "ACTING like a girl" anyways... i don't cook, clean, or wear make up...

[xmimihx]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 17
3. Ethnicity: korean

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society?
No. my mother never presses stereotypical women traits on me but she does tell me that when she was young or that in korea women are often the ones who cook and clean and do not work.
5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)?
Yes. it is a religious type of thing. my mother does not think that i should hate homosexual people, but she does press that it is a religiously wrong lifestyle.
6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility?
Yes. my mother does most of the housework, but my father shares the responsibility often
7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)?
Yes. cooking, cleaning. he cleans like a freak. he vacuums so much it's ridiculous. and he cooks the best food and he cleans the dishes alot


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member?
Hellz no.
9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes/No, explain
Yes. the ones that can only be done with a penis. =)
10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain
blah. it's tough right now. I had a best friend who was gay and when my mother found out she began to tell me that it was the wrong lifestyle to choose. And at this point i'm teetering on the fence. It's still a decision i have to make on wether i believe it is wrong or not....
11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain
haha no.

[sarah_luisa]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 17
3. Ethnicity: Filipino

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes, they thought me girls should learn to do household chores cause it'a necessity in living our lives


5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? No, we have gay friends.. actually my m0m and her siblings childhood friend

6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility? yes, cause there's more women than guys and usually guys in our family are either old and have job @night OR their toddlers

7. Did you see your father partake in any “woman�s work” (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes, my male cousins(sorry i don't have father) and uncle do know how to do "women's work"

Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member?yes, maybe i'm just being lazy

9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes, but i can't remember what

10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? no,

11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to “act like a girl” in order to feel good about who you are? n0, i'm already a girl with vgna and i do not crush on the same sex

[Smiley0.o]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 15 turning 16 in april! =DDD
3. Ethnicity: Vietnamese

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society?
Yes, they tell me when I don't sit properly, my behavior, and some other stuff.

5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)?
No, because I am not, so they don't tell me about it. Only time when my sister sees those lesbian girls, then she starts to complain.

6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility?
Yes, that would be my mom since my sister moved out, and my grandma lives in Vietnam.


7. Did you see your father partake in any “woman�s work” (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)?
Yes, I had seen my dad washing dishes, but only for a few times and rare.

Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member?
No, I do it because I know I can do it, not looking for excuses. As for wishing part, it is only because I was lazy, I don't wish to do it if I don't want to.

9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform?
No, I couldn't think any of it yet.

10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? Yes, it is against God's law, but I don't hate them.

11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to “act like a girl” in order to feel good about who you are? No, I don't need to force myself because I alway act like a girl.

[Ethereal_Memories]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 16
3. Ethnicity: Asian (Korean)
4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes/No, explain
No; she once even told me that one of the reasons that they (my mother and father) moved to America from Korea was because they didn't want their children to grow up as they did; she didn't want me to be stuck in a gender role or be treated unequally.
5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? Yes/No, explain
Slightly, yes; they would not disown me if I came out as being lesbian, but they would be disappointed in a way.
6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain
Yes, but it is not as if my brother/dad believe that the work is "below them" in any sort of way; they will do it if they need to, but mostly the women do it.
7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes/No, explain
Yes, my father will cook when my mom is too busy, too tired, or away. Same for dishes.

Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member? Yes/No, explain
No, not at all.
9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes/No, explain
No. (Random side note: However there are some rare exceptions like: women should not try to get into the Navy SEALS; women are prohibitted for a reason. It's not just about equality; males and females are biologically different.)
10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain
No; it is their choice. However, I will not deny that I would feel very uncomfortable if a woman was to hit on me.
11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain
No; I do what I like.

[tuxed0sam]

i guess i'll be the first guy to do it.


1. Sex: Male
2. Age:23
3. Ethnicity:korean

Part I
4. Growing up did your father or other male members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a man or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes/No, explain
yeah. my dad would say things like men don't cry. he would say things here and there but nothing too consistent.

5. Did your father or other male members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a man should only marry a woman)? Yes/No, explain
it was never talked about in our family. we were always toldthat we had to marry a female for me and males for my sisters but nothing like "gays are wrong"

6. In your house, did the man of your household (father, brother, uncle, etc�) do most if not all of the house work (i.e. mowing lawns, fixing cars) and other work that society considers to be part of a man�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain
yeah. my dad did all the grunt work. he mowed the lawn, he fixed things, he moved big heavy things, he would be the protector etc


7. Did you see your mother partake in any �man�s work� (i.e. fixing the plumbing, fixing the roof, changing car oil)? Yes/No, explain
no. never

Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a female member? Yes/No, explain
yeah. when i was younger i was into dancing. i woudl do it in private a lot. now that i'm older i'm coming out of the "dancing closet" and i do a lot of dancing now. i'm also currently more and more finding an interst in fashion. i'm becoming more vocal about it but i would never truly go into it because its mainly a female area.

9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a female should perform? Yes/No, explain
giving birth? i do beleive that woman are naturally better '"mothers/caretakers" to children than men and by default i think because of natural tendendies a woman should be more of a caretaker. that's not to say that men can't do it.

10. Do you believe that it is wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain
i believe in the context of the constitution that people should be granted to be and do whatever they please.

11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a man� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain
no

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

Males

1. Sex: Male
2. Age: 14
3. Ethnicity: Korean

Part I
4. Growing up did your father or other male members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a man or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes/No, explain

Yes, men are not to be outspoken. They are supposed to be polite gentleman. Not nessicarily responsilbity, just with speaking and listening.

5. Did your father or other male members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a man should only marry a woman)? Yes/No, explain

Yes, but in an open way. (i.e. We do not believe gay marrige is right, yet we have nothing against gay marrige, and if they truly love each other who can stop them.)

6. In your house, did the man of your household (father, brother, uncle, etc�) do most if not all of the house work (i.e. mowing lawns, fixing cars) and other work that society considers to be part of a man�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain

Yes, Umm... My mom's back sucks.... My dad's shoulder sucks.... So I'm doing everything

7. Did you see your mother partake in any �man�s work� (i.e. fixing the plumbing, fixing the roof, changing car oil)? Yes/No, explain

Yes, Mowing the lawn. That's about it.


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a female member? Yes/No, explain

No, I do stuff around the house that'd be more "femenine" (i.e. laundry, dishes etc.)

9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a female should perform? Yes/No, explain
Not nessicarily, except birth of course. I don't want to give birth to children etc.

10. Do you believe that it is wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain

No, If other animals are gay, humans biologically can be gay. And if they love each other, what's the difference from a hetrosexual couple loving each other?

11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a man� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain

No, I watch K-Dramas.

[kandi]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 18
3. Ethnicity:vietnamese

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? yes, my mother would always tell me that being a responsible daughter i need to know how to cook and eventually to b a good wife i'd need that skill also.

5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? Yes/No, explain yes, my mum says that those who are gay are not natural and have a mental disorder.

6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain yes, my mum does most of the housework like 90% and my grandmother when she was alive did all the housework.

7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes/No, explain yep he cleans the floor, does the laundry every week.


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member? Yes/No, explain yes, for example looking to buy a car, fixing a car..i leave it to my dad.

9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes/No, explain No, women can do whatever men are able to do. if i really had no choice i'd look for a car on my own.

10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain No, whatever floats your boat. ^^

11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain No, i'm as lazy around the house as the next guy,person.

[renzu_oni]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age:21
3. Ethnicity:Filipino

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society?
No. I lost my mom at the age of 10 and I don't remember hearing those things from her.
5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)?
No. I have uncles who are gay, heck I even have a cousin who we assume gay and he's only 7 years old. My family's pretty much open about these things and we support them.
6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility?
No. All the household chores is divided among everyone in the house.
7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)?
My dad does all the cooking and laundry. He also does the hemming for his and my brothers' pants.


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member?
The only reason why I find myself not doing certain things is because I'm lazy. But once in awhile, I do work at the yard and do crappy carpentry stuffs like my shoe rack which I still need to paint.
9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform?
No.
10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay?
No. Everyone has the right to express themselves.
11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are?
No.

[itrayya]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 19
3. Ethnicity: Hmong- American

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes/No, explain
YES!!! girls worked in the kitchen: cook, clean, everyone's laundry. took care of everything that was needed in the house. sew. everything.

5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? Yes/No, explain
NO. that was never mentioned. but always mention that when i marry my husband.... those kind of things. husband things. never mentioned being gay, etc.

6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain
Yes. in the house yes. women things. outside the house... garden... half and half with dad and brothers. they jobs my parents have, is not sex based.

7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes/No, explain
Yes. he would cook when my mom wasnt home or was busy. he would clean every now and then. he is able to do so.

Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member? Yes/No, explain
No. i was raised traditionally (girls should do all the kitchen work/ house work) and i was raised modern-ly (girls can do a boy job too).

9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes/No, explain
Yes. take out the trash. rake the yard. carry heavy things.... boy boy things like that.

10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain
No. only people say it is. who are people to put limits to the possibilities in this world. being gay is normal. it's part of life.

11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain
No. I act like myself. i was raised to do chores that i can and i do. and i was taught to be myself and be the best that i can be. and i believe that.

[kathymon.]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 17
3. Ethnicity: Chinese Russian [more chinese though]

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society?
Yes, to be able to cook and allthat stuff so i can take care of my family.
5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)?
Yes, my gran is christian and always tells me its a sin to be gay etc etc. My good friend is gay~~! lol
6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility?
Yes, my mom and gran clean the house everyday =.=''
7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)?
Yes, once in a while but my dad sucks at cooking [well some things he's good at]


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member?
Yes at the moment because i'm still not legal. But once i do, i wouldnt mind taking part in it. Why should guys have all the fun
9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform?
Nah. What men can do, women can do.
10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay?
According to my religion yes but to me i no, if they are gay let them be, its their choice and their lives, we shouldnt be butting in.
11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are?
No.

[Sp0iL3d_Br8t]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 19
3. Ethnicity: Chinese

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes/No, explain Yes, my mom always told me that being a lady means acting a certain way. Whenever I didn't act that way, which was very often, she would say I wasn't lady-like or I wasn't girl enough. She always told me to sit, act, and talk a certain way, avoid certain things.
5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? Yes/No, explain I don't think my mom has ever shown any bias towards gay men, or women.
6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain Some what, laundries are done by my mom, the housecleaning is split between my mom and I, and grocery shopping and cooking are done by my dad. Everything is pretty much equally distributed, though, my brother doesn't do anything.
7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes/No, explain Yes, read above.


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member? Yes/No, explain No, I don't think things should be split between males and females. If one sex wants to do the other thing, so be it.
9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes/No, explain ---
10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain No, I believe everybody should be able to choose their own preference, being born into a sex was not their choice, they should be able to fall in love without having to limit themselves.
11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain No, I don't feel the need to act like a girl wherever I am. I will act the way I want and if it's catagorized as male behavior, so be it.

[DanTat]

1. Sex: Male
2. Age: 18
3. Ethnicity: Chinese - mom / Vietnamese - dad

Part I
4. Growing up did your father or other male members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a man or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? not really, everyone in my family seems to just do their fair share
5. Did your father or other male members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a man should only marry a woman)? My dad looks down upon gay's. But i have heard no opinion from my mom
6. In your house, did the man of your household (father, brother, uncle, etc�) do most if not all of the house work (i.e. mowing lawns, fixing cars) and other work that society considers to be part of a man�s responsibility? no..., honestly, my dad acts like a pig, he does not do much around the house
7. Did you see your mother partake in any �man�s work� (i.e. fixing the plumbing, fixing the roof, changing car oil)? no, i dont think she bothered to learn how


Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a female member? no, i believe everyone should do their equal share
9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a female should perform? no, i do not think there is anything one gender can do better than the other (unless you are talking about physical stuff)
10. Do you believe that it is wrong to be gay? no, i believe everyone should do as they wish and not have resitrictions on it.
11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a man� in order to feel good about who you are? wha..., i dont think so, i hope not

[Yukita]

Part I
1. Sex: Female
2. Age: 18
3. Ethnicity: Asian, specifically Filipino

4. Growing up did your mother or other female members of your household constantly show or tell you that certain traits and responsibilities belong to a woman or otherwise give any indications that different genders have different roles in society? Yes/No, explain
Not really. I was raised with both Barbie dolls and GI Joes, little girly makeup boxes, Kitchen Littles, and BB guns.

5. Did your mother or other female members of your household tell you or give any other indications that being gay is not acceptable (i.e. a woman should only marry a man)? Yes/No, explain Not at all; my parents have gay friends.

6. In your house, did the woman of your household (mother, sister, grandma, etc�) do most if not all of the house work and other work that society considers to be part of a woman�s responsibility? Yes/No, explain
Not really, the housework was divided fairly equally in the home. When my grandmother was over (she was RARELY over when I was younger), she would do the work, though.

7. Did you see your father partake in any �woman�s work� (i.e. cooking, cleaning the dishes, sewing)? Yes/No, explain
Yep. Cooks with and without my mother, washes the dishes, and does the laundry with my mother. Sewing, I don't think I've ever seen him.



Part II
8. Do you find yourself not doing certain things that you wish to do because you feel that those tasks and/or responsibilities should only belong to a male member? Yes/No, explain
Nah, I'm just lazy. I don't even want to do the things that society tells me that a girl should do.

9. Are there tasks and responsibilities that you believe only a male should perform? Yes/No, explain
Uh, yes. Like.. insemination of ovules in a woman? I mean, I'm sure a woman scientist could do it, too, but... OKAY YOU GET MY POINT.

10. Do you believe it�s wrong to be gay? Yes/No, explain
It is absolutely fine to be gay. In fact, I hate it when people say "being gay is a choice" because no one would want to CHOOSE to be something that a majority of people hate publicly. Gay people are just as AMAZING as them straight peoples.

11. When at home or around others, do you feel the need to �act like a girl� in order to feel good about who you are? Yes/No, explain

Nah. I'm pretty manly. I do feel the need to put on makeup, though, because I like how it looks.


Hope that helps!