anyone has 6TH SENSE / FEELINGS fr eps 9 & 10 for direct download? my torrent is taking so long...it's killing me...
i just came from bai du and have been reading the different points of view over there...someone wrote about XQ and ZS inner thoughts and feelings...for those who can read chinese here they are:
XQ:
http://tieba.baidu.com/f?kz=326046707ZS:
http://tieba.baidu.com/f?kz=326431566i have been thinking about the 3 characters and as much as it pains me to see XQ treated that way, seeing ZS pains me a bit more...and reading the thoughts from bai du actually, at some point made me cry...
a lot of people say ZS is cold, unfeeling, like a robot, and QT will even tell him he is not qualified to be somebody's husband cause he does not have what it takes to be one. XQ will also accuse him of never loving her...isn't he pitiful? people saying he doesn't know how to love, he does not love when all the while he has been trying his best to love in the way that he can. to many his ways maybe not enough, but just the same that's his way as everyone has their own way of dealing with things. and talking about love, does QT love XQ? i don't think so. what he is passionate about is his idea of what a marriage should be like and thus having that picture in his mind he sees ZS and XQ and how their relationship does not fit his category. then he starts to 'like' XQ...telling her he will take care of her and she should forget about someone as unfeeling as ZS. can that be called love? i think he pities her more than anything. QT can only see things through XQ. he does not have any idea what things ZS had to go through to be able to get to where he is today. Why he is the way he is, he has no idea what ZS & XQ had to go through to reach where they are today either.
as early as ISWAK ZS has already told XQ that he really likes her, and through his own ways tried to show her. many people say that in their relationship it is only XQ who gives. i disagree. starting from ISWAK ZS has been giving to XQ. his ways may not be as obvious as XQ but nonetheless he is giving. that is why in ISWAK ep19 when XQ asked him if he really likes her and wants to be with her he asked her back if through the things he did and his actions, wasn't he obvious? the difference between them is confidence. ZS is confident of XQ love for him but XQ is not confident of ZS. isn't that what ZS has been telling her again and again? 'you have to be confident of yourself' and up to this point it seems XQ hasn't learned of confidence yet. it's not a crime though....after all both ZS and XQ are still learning about life and marriage...ZS himself said so in episode 3 when he told her that all the blame should be on him for letting her feel unsafe. he should have talked to her earlier and made her understand. it's just that when it comes to having and handling relationships he still ha a whole lot to learn...and to that XQ agreed....
initially i liked QT but the more i think about it i think ZS was right to say he went too far with his meddling. which husband in his right mind would agree to having another man take his drunk wife home even if he is there? Which husband would want to hear another man’s name come out of his wife’s mouth especially when the wife is so wooried about how the other man will react to her actions? which husband would want to see another man take care of his wife when that man looks like he wants to kiss his wife? which husband would accept another man's words especially if those words say tha he can love and care for your wife better than you do? which husband who is worried about whether his wife got lost or not would want to see his wife happily coming home with another man just when he so worriedly hurriedly got out of the house to look for you? which husband would want to see his wife defend another man in front of him and other people when that man has no right to meddle between you in the first place?
like what Jiang mama said, ZS is too intelligent he can see through people, he can even see what the future could be like. that is why he treats XQ differently...he wants her to grow because he knows her best. he knows she can do better even when she doubts herself so many times. He can tell what she is thinking about just but looking at her…he knows something is not right with her without even looking at her and just by hearing her voice…
the ZS i see is like a child who has just begun to learn about life and living. all his life he has been in hiw own world where everyone sees him as a perfect person. maybe he appears that way, but ZS before XQ appeared was just an image living up to how other people perceive him to be. it was only after he met XQ that he started to live life. it took him 3 years to admit to himself and the world that the girl he loves and wants to spend the rest of his life with is XQ...all of a sudden, unwillingly he was married off and had to start a new life just when he has started to learn about living itself. a man can not change over night but i can clearly see that he is trying. it's not obvious to many but the little things he does are te most important things. he does not need other people to see how he cares for XQ what matters is he is there when she needs him to be. When she wanted to make top 100, he helped her even if unwillingly, when she invited her class for him to teach them for exams, he taught them even if it was so tiring for him, when she was being taken advantage of in the bus he came to her rescue, when she was a nervous wreck when his brother got hospitalized he was there to thank her and hug her while she cried, when she was proposed to by another man he was there to take her back and made it clear to the other guy that she was his, when she was kneeling asking for forgiveness he stayed with her even if she asked him to go, he was there when she was injured or fainted and made sure she is alright, he was there to help her at tennis camp at every opportunity that she needed his help, he was the one who told off that other woman that compared to his wife, she is nothing, he was there to look for her when she got lost in guam, he was the one who took her to his school report and in front of everyone introduced her as his wife, he was the one who encouraged her at times she wanted to give up on some things, he was the one who told his brother not to bully his wife, he was te one to help her student study when she can no longer continue to teach her, he was the one who continues to keep the bedside lamp open even if he can not sleep well with the lights on, he was the one who gave her the most comfort when she had a false pregnancy, he was the only one who did not cuddle her like a child when she found out she couldn’t graduate cause what he wanted was for her to grow and be more certain about the future, he was the one who shared his food with her when she dropped hers on the table during their date, he was the one who took her home when she was dead drunk, he was te one who was able to make her see things a little bit beyond what she usually sees cause he wants her to grow with him. His glances, his little smiles, his gentle voice all brought out by her, all just for her…
ZS is not perfect nor is he a god, he needs time and space to grow as well...the person who should know that the most is XQ...after all it is to her whom he was able to tell things that he hasn't told anyone, not even his mom...i was just thinking after all the years they have been together how can she still say he never loved her?
Before, I hated the fact that XQ was always so clumsy. And hated the fact that ZS always treated her so badly. But I think that's the beauty of it. Man, imagine the most clumsy and faithful girl winning the heart of her beloved because of her undying and persistent love for him finally won his heart again is interesting. (Quite idealistic here, not sure if we found such love in real life, but oh well, we have a smart dude going crazy or...seemingly going crazy soon lolz in ep. 10).
~Enter for a Good Time~ 
) a good thing that at least now the writers is showing the other side of ZS that he also feels jealousy, etc... can't wait for episode 11 this sunday 
Posted 19 February 2008 - 06:51 AM
