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Does Ethnicity Come Into Play... when choosing a bf/gf?

#1 User is offline   Shecky 

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Posted 26 April 2007 - 05:53 AM

When it comes to choosing a bf or gf does it matter where they come from?
Do you or your friends like dark guys/girls or guys/girls with fair skin?
Also, is language a barrier?

or does none of the above apply to you..
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 06:19 AM

Yes, a girl must be east asian or thai for me.



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Posted 26 April 2007 - 06:37 AM

doesn't matter to me as long as I'm attracted to the him
and he has a good personality.

but I do tend to lean towards guys that are around the same
complexion as me. but it's not written in stone. you know?

my friends like white guys, as for language...I'll learn as much of his as I can and I'll help him understand english (if there's a problem). ^___^;

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Posted 26 April 2007 - 06:54 AM

I think every ethnicity prolly has atleast one person in it I would feel attracted to unsure.gif ..
Most guys I felt attracted to were either caucasian, pacific asian or latino though.. But that doesn't mean I've never seen a black, arabian or whatever I felt attracted towards before vicx.gif .. Oh and mixed people can be very attractive as well biggrin.gif !

And I don't really care about the language as long as it's a language I can understand smile.gif ..



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Posted 26 April 2007 - 06:56 AM

^ Like 7hearts said, it doesn`t matter as long as I`m attracted to them.
But sometimes it does play a role, but not for me partically. But I`m mostly
attracted to asian guys then other races, I don`t know why, but I mean I
wouldn`t mind dating someone who isn`t asian. For me it`s mostly about
how I feel about that person, then what ethnicity they are. Some people may
not agree, but that`s my opinion

Language isn`t a big deal. I love learning new languages =)
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 07:19 AM

it doesn't matter.i'll be glad someone want me.lol
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 07:20 AM

yea for me, its pretty much east asian.

wouldnt mind dating caucasian, but definitely not for anything long term.
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 07:45 AM

I've known some guys to say "anything with 2 legs and a heart beat" lol I found that funny.
but anyhoo I just noticed, while I was in the city today, that there isn't much interracial couples...
though I didn't go up to them and ask what ethnicity they were, I'd probably get beat up by the bf... sweatingbullets.gif
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 08:25 AM

It doesn't really matter to me.....
It just depend on who I was attracted to..and the personality counts.
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 08:38 AM

I think it does - mainly Asian.
I feel more attracted towards them.

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Posted 26 April 2007 - 08:39 AM

for friends, ethnicity doesn't matter but yes we'll tend to gravitate towards those of our own ethnicity.
for lovers, i THINK it matters to an extent because of acceptance of others as well like those in my family, but ultimately the most impt thing is to be happy and feel that you've made the RIGHT choice =)

Language however is something that i think we should have in common, otherwise you won't be on the same frequency level somehow. Like jokes related to language and stuff smile.gif
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 09:33 AM

for me... korean, japanese, or white tongue.gif

QUOTE(Shecky @ Apr 26 2007, 08:45 AM) View Post
I've known some guys to say "anything with 2 legs and a heart beat" lol I found that funny.
but anyhoo I just noticed, while I was in the city today, that there isn't much interracial couples...
though I didn't go up to them and ask what ethnicity they were, I'd probably get beat up by the bf... sweatingbullets.gif


alot of interracial couples in la.
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 09:54 AM

i would love to say i don`t care. but i actually do.

i`d rather choose someone asian.
i don`t mind dating other races but in the end i would want to marry asian

preferably taiwanese, korean, or japanese tho

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Posted 26 April 2007 - 10:31 AM

Ya, I don't go for darker girls.
That includes filipinos and vietnamese.

Doesn't look nice in my eyes.

Skin colour is very important to me.
Majority of caucasian skin tones don't appeal to me either.

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Posted 26 April 2007 - 11:03 AM

honesty yes cus i tend to imagine my ideal guy a certain ethnicity but usuallywhen i end up liking someone, the ethnicity never matters cus its usually not the ideal whatever. i'm just basically attracted to anyone regardless ethnicity tho i WANT a certain race sadly x-x
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 11:09 AM

Yup. I'm only attracted to ethnicities whose looks are closer to mine. (east asian)

I don't find myself attracted to others...
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 11:22 AM

Like someone else said, there's someone in every ethnicity who I'm attracted to. Whoever I fall in love with is whoever I fall in love with, but when basing someone on looks only, of course some people are attracted to other ethnicities than others. As for me, I'm more attracted to Asians and Mixed people lol. I'm least attracted to White people, Black people, and Latinos, lol. If I end up with a Latino, he just better be really modern >_> Also, I don't really fit in with Latinos so it'd be a bit odd.

Language isnt' really important, but if he doesn't speak English it'd be really hard, don't you think? But it doesn't really matter to me, language that is. ha ha
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 11:28 AM

I preferebly would date date/marry an asian(chinese,viet,flip, korean, japanese,thai ). But if it really really comes down to it , I'd date a caucasian maybe. But other then that Im more attracted to asians and I hang out with a lot of asians so I feel more connected with them
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 11:29 AM

yes because
im not allowed to date
black, mexican, vietnamese race.
soo i look for others when i see those race i consider them as friends
i dont see them datable.. if that's a word =P

language if they're REALLLLLLLLLLLy FOB where its all "wtf are you saying" then i wouldnt even speak to them
communication is important .......not really lol understanding them is lol
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Posted 26 April 2007 - 11:35 AM

For me...nope!

I like boys boys all types of bois smile.gif

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