[1,2,3-iloveyou]

Theres this guy at school and I thought he was pretty cute. We took notice of eachother cuz he would always walk into the wrong classroom... XD soo, then one time.. i poked himm on this online site thing.. and we started to talk.. online.. then on msn.. one dayy we decided to hangout.. and we had a connection. That night, he told me that he liked me..i wasnt quite sure because he told me rather quickly... soo i told him to wait.. we wouldnt talk much at school.. and we held hands..and then he told me that he really liked me.. ..but the next day.. and the day after that.. we didnt talk much.. and on the day when we were supposed to hang out, he told me that he lost feelings.. an there was no reason for this .. he juss suddenly lost his feelings for me.. and he felt it after a day when we were being really affectionate towards eachother..
is it possible for a guy to suddenly lose feelings for someone.. juss soo suddenly and soo randomly..
btw, he never had a gf.. and he doesnt play wit feelings
I don't know what i shud doo..
all i did was smile for him even when he told me
i told him i still liked him a lot..
and i wanna let go... cuz its hurting me.. but.. on the other hand.. i can't.. because i still like him a lot..
Is there still a chance that he may have a lil bit of feelings left for me..
or..
will he ever like me again?
Should I let go.. or hangon..?
Or shud i move on.. but still keep him as an option <-- btw.. very hard to do

[Stevent]

Theres this guy at school and I thought he was pretty cute. We took notice of eachother cuz he would always walk into the wrong classroom... XD soo, then one time.. i poked himm on this online site thing.. and we started to talk.. online.. then on msn.. one dayy we decided to hangout.. and we had a connection. That night, he told me that he liked me..i wasnt quite sure because he told me rather quickly... soo i told him to wait.. we wouldnt talk much at school.. and we held hands..and then he told me that he really liked me.. ..but the next day.. and the day after that.. we didnt talk much.. and on the day when we were supposed to hang out, he told me that he lost feelings.. an there was no reason for this .. he juss suddenly lost his feelings for me.. and he felt it after a day when we were being really affectionate towards eachother..
is it possible for a guy to suddenly lose feelings for someone.. juss soo suddenly and soo randomly..
btw, he never had a gf.. and he doesnt play wit feelings
I don't know what i shud doo..
all i did was smile for him even when he told me
i told him i still liked him a lot..
and i wanna let go... cuz its hurting me.. but.. on the other hand.. i can't.. because i still like him a lot..
Is there still a chance that he may have a lil bit of feelings left for me..
or..
will he ever like me again?
Should I let go.. or hangon..?
Or shud i move on.. but still keep him as an option <-- btw.. very hard to do

he's an odd ball. he didnt really like you, more of an infatuation if he can lose feelings for you in 1 day.

[1,2,3-iloveyou]

lol.. yeahh
iono. but i still really like himm..
hmm maybe i shud post a thread on tis..

[Stevent]

lol.. yeahh
iono. but i still really like himm..
hmm maybe i shud post a thread on tis..

Im not saying that you cant like him, Im saying that for him, it was just an infatuation. Well, let me use this as an example, have you seen Green Tea -3's threads?

[destinedisaster00]

I have a close guy friend who tells me stuff about his relationships. After a break up (he broke up with her), he spent a day counting how many people liked him in his lifetime. He was being really really REALLY cocky, and saying that he could get any girl that he wanted. Is this just to reassure his self-esteem, or is he the only one who does this?

Also, when my guy friends are talking to me, sometimes all they do is look at my erm... humps (meaning the top ones). Can they not help it? Is it just a habit and they just don't notice because it's really uncomfortable.. >.> haha yea

[1,2,3-iloveyou]

Im not saying that you cant like him, Im saying that for him, it was just an infatuation. Well, let me use this as an example, have you seen Green Tea -3's threads?

nopee...
if its just an infatuation for him..
that means.. he cud like me back again rite?

[Stevent]

I have a close guy friend who tells me stuff about his relationships. After a break up (he broke up with her), he spent a day counting how many people liked him in his lifetime. He was being really really REALLY cocky, and saying that he could get any girl that he wanted. Is this just to reassure his self-esteem, or is he the only one who does this?

Also, when my guy friends are talking to me, sometimes all they do is look at my erm... humps (meaning the top ones). Can they not help it? Is it just a habit and they just don't notice because it's really uncomfortable.. >.> haha yea

1) he's doing it to boost his self esteem since he just got out of a relationship and re-entering the market.
2) We are guys, what do you expect?

nopee...
if its just an infatuation for him..
that means.. he cud like me back again rite?

it's a 50/50 chance.

[1,2,3-iloveyou]

if its a 50/50 chance.. then im still so confused
haha cuz wut he said was " i don't feel anything right now..." right now.. he didnt say he WONT EVER like me backk
he said feelings are unpredictable..
this makes me hang on

-- btw, i told him today how i felt..
like i felt really bad cuz i wanna let go. but i cant kind of thing
but then he had to go offline..
my friend suggested that I shouldnt mention it..
and one day he will wonder if i still like him or not..
and she said.. by telling him that.. i'm digging my own grave..
like im telling him im ready to let go..
and he wont think about coming back to mee..

[yuppieguppy]

couple questions...

why do guys call girls drunk late at night?

so, this guy has a gf and starts talking to me. eventually they break up. we date... we just stop talking... he goes back to her....but doesn't think i know. we talk again...i find out he broke up w/ her... i lose interest b/c of what he did last time... he goes back to her... i run into him through mutual friends...but he doesn't introduce me to her....they break up....he calls me...but i'm like what the heck....recently found out he's with a new girl b/c friends ran into him randomly.. he never tells me when he has a gf...

what the hell is up with this guy?
why doesn't he ever introduce me to his gf's?
why does he not want me to know he has a gf?

[RiderKamen]

couple questions...

why do guys call girls drunk late at night?

so, this guy has a gf and starts talking to me. eventually they break up. we date... we just stop talking... he goes back to her....but doesn't think i know. we talk again...i find out he broke up w/ her... i lose interest b/c of what he did last time... he goes back to her... i run into him through mutual friends...but he doesn't introduce me to her....they break up....he calls me...but i'm like what the heck....recently found out he's with a new girl b/c friends ran into him randomly.. he never tells me when he has a gf...

what the hell is up with this guy?
why doesn't he ever introduce me to his gf's?
why does he not want me to know he has a gf?

cause he was drunk lol and people will follow their feelings when they are drunk.

and what I got from your story is that the guy is very hurt and he needs to heal alone. It seems that the guy thinks he will get healed by moving to another girl (right after the previous relationship has ended).

[Laxntiga]

he's an odd ball. he didnt really like you, more of an infatuation if he can lose feelings for you in 1 day.

Agreed.

I have a close guy friend who tells me stuff about his relationships. After a break up (he broke up with her), he spent a day counting how many people liked him in his lifetime. He was being really really REALLY cocky, and saying that he could get any girl that he wanted. Is this just to reassure his self-esteem, or is he the only one who does this?

Also, when my guy friends are talking to me, sometimes all they do is look at my erm... humps (meaning the top ones). Can they not help it? Is it just a habit and they just don't notice because it's really uncomfortable.. >.> haha yea

We do it to build ourselves up, but maybe who knows, maybe he CAN get anyone he "wants".
We get sidetracked.

if its a 50/50 chance.. then im still so confused
haha cuz wut he said was " i don't feel anything right now..." right now.. he didnt say he WONT EVER like me backk
he said feelings are unpredictable..
this makes me hang on

-- btw, i told him today how i felt..
like i felt really bad cuz i wanna let go. but i cant kind of thing
but then he had to go offline..
my friend suggested that I shouldnt mention it..
and one day he will wonder if i still like him or not..
and she said.. by telling him that.. i'm digging my own grave..
like im telling him im ready to let go..
and he wont think about coming back to mee..

Is this a question? Stop being so desperate. If you want sympathy ask the girls. If you want answers and solutions, you came to the right place. Just tell him that your feelings have changed, maybe you guys were just kidding yoursevles in wishful thinking. There are millions of other guys out there.

couple questions...

why do guys call girls drunk late at night?

so, this guy has a gf and starts talking to me. eventually they break up. we date... we just stop talking... he goes back to her....but doesn't think i know. we talk again...i find out he broke up w/ her... i lose interest b/c of what he did last time... he goes back to her... i run into him through mutual friends...but he doesn't introduce me to her....they break up....he calls me...but i'm like what the heck....recently found out he's with a new girl b/c friends ran into him randomly.. he never tells me when he has a gf...

what the hell is up with this guy?
why doesn't he ever introduce me to his gf's?
why does he not want me to know he has a gf?

We call because we are bored.
He wants a security gf and wants you as his play toy. He probably wishes he had you, but cant afford to let go. Maybe his gf's are mindless, does everything he tells them and believes everything he says. Screw him, act like you don't want a bf and you just want to "date" and "date" a lot of other guys, as in you don't want to be exclusive. Keep your options open ya know? Single life FTW!

[CIRee]

I should start replying again, im lazy sue me

[yanshimkim]

So... My ex and I had a pretty messy breakup. It happened 2 years ago. I guess we were both immature... We started off as friends, then he asked me out and I turned him down. He cried and I felt bad for him, so I went out with him even though I liked someone else for 5 years (then, now it's 7 years :x). But I couldn't get myself to like him back and he admitted that he liked someone else (what kind of guy would ask a girl out if he liked someone else? ._.). So we broke up. I didn't mean to, but I broke up on his birthday (stupid of me for forgetting it was his birthday ._.). So... Yeah. He cried again. We haven't been talking since then. I thought it was awkward for us to go back to what we used to be before we started going out (you know, being friends).

But then he's been talking to me and sending me messages like "The girl on your profile pic is cute..." (That girl was me, btw :x)

What does this mean? ._. Is he trying to test if I have feelings for him? But I never liked him that way in the first place... I only liked him as a friend (and I thought I'd hurt him more if I turned him down but I guess I was wrong T_T). When I broke up with him, he tried to get back with me but I refused. :x

[LaydeeMel]

Why do guys think that drinking and getting wasted with the guys is fun?

[I mean i'm a bartender, but I don't see the point in consuming so much alcohol that you hurl within the next hour and start crashing into things. :x]

[CIRee]

Why do guys think that drinking and getting wasted with the guys is fun?

[I mean i'm a bartender, but I don't see the point in consuming so much alcohol that you hurl within the next hour and start crashing into things. :x]

boys will be boys. It takes out the stress in life i guess. why do i drink? because it feels ol'so goooooooooooooooooooood

[angelbride]

so me and my closest guy friend...
we talk rather often, [everyday, during the day]
but he always asks me if there's something _i_ want to talk about.
we can't just talk about 'nothing' or simple things.
is he just interested in being a therapist for me or something?
or does he not feel comfortable talking about himself?

[noodlenoodle]

why does it feel like my bf puts others before me? i.e his sister, his best friend, even people he doesnt even like a lot, etc.

anyway it hurts when i think over the times hes had to 'ditch' me for them. i've never stopped him from doing what he wants but i still feel a bit pissed off.

=) pls answer. its been troubling me for a while now.

[r3dalf]

so me and my closest guy friend...
we talk rather often, [everyday, during the day]
but he always asks me if there's something _i_ want to talk about.
we can't just talk about 'nothing' or simple things.
is he just interested in being a therapist for me or something?
or does he not feel comfortable talking about himself?

( _i_ = i thought u meant the middle finger )
as far as i know, this guy is interested in you; more than a friend.
my fren(a player) once said that to get a girl, the guy must always focus conversations bout the girl, not bout himself.

why does it feel like my bf puts others before me? i.e his sister, his best friend, even people he doesnt even like a lot, etc.

anyway it hurts when i think over the times hes had to 'ditch' me for them. i've never stopped him from doing what he wants but i still feel a bit pissed off.

=) pls answer. its been troubling me for a while now.

were those times (when he ditched u) really important?
if yeah, he's not being quite a responsible bf.
i get a feeling he's taking u for granted.

it's like :
once the guy has gotten the girl to like n love him,
all the good things, mushy, loving n caring the guy did initially to woo the girl decrease over time.
it happens sometimes. assess him.

[xx_lost_love_xx]

my and my ex broke up a while ago and we havent talked because of school/work and we are always busy
saturday at 3 a.m. he called me and told me he needed to talk to me the morning and asked if i still liked him, in the morning when i was about to met him up to talk to him he told me we can just talk about it online and asked why i liked him.
i answer the question he never responded, so i asked him why did you randomly ask my two questions and he goes nvm

what was the point of the phone call? and why ask me two questions only to give me a nvm? why randomly call me?

[Cin De]

can u trust anything a guy say when they are drunk and calling you over the phone???? '-'