[Laxntiga]

My question never got answered.. ._. I guess I'll just post it again. ^^;;

Be straight with him. Tell him you have no interest in dating him again. Tell him you moved on and he should as well.

..... freak.

recently ive grown this bad habit of slapping my boyfriend lightly AND jokingly whenever he embarrasses me XD xD

so he got super pissed off a few days ago, and he told me i needed to give him more respect.
other than not slapping him jokingly anymore, what other things would guy see as "showing respect"?

i've always let him do the decision making..
cooked for him when he got sick....
always cleaning up the kitchen/dining room after dinner with his family....
and other things..

but what are more "greater respect" things? ><"

i would like to be responded by more than one "fella" XD

He wants you to act "womanly" (I don't know what this means). I think you can start by and respecting his presence. No more slapping, no more talking back, no more arguing, no yelling, etc. Just be humble, naive, ignorant of everything, helpless and say "yes" to everything....... lol robot.


OR you can tell him TAKE-IT-OR-LEAVE-IT (this is the one I would do, if I was a girl).

[yuppieguppy]

for example..if boy1 likes you but boy2 which is boy1's good friend tells boy1 that he likes you & boy1 ends up kind of giving up his feelings b/c he doesn't want a girl to get in the way of their friendship. does that mean he never really liked you?

when two guys are such good friends does one get jealous or start getting feelings for the same girl as their friends?

my good girl friend and i were hanging out w/ a bunch of friends and the guy that i like. she told the guy that i liked you would look good with my friend(which is me) and he replied back in a jokingly way with "remember we dated and i broke up with you?" (while looking at me) what the heck does that mean?

how do guys feel about dating older girls as in 2 years older?

[Laxntiga]

^ can we get a diagram? That is really confusing.
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Ok, I re-read it like 5 times. Basically, its a love triangle and one of the guys 'gave up' because his friend like the girl first.

In my opinion, girls come and go. Good friends can last forever. No girl will come between my friends and me, unless she is my wife (which would mean I gave up my social life to begin with anyway.) Don't feel bad, you cant win them all.

Statement # 2.... clear up your writing please. From whatever I got out of it, it doesn't mean anything. He was just making talk or trying to flirt. You should have asked him "wait, I dumped you because you cheated on me with.... who was it again?" - make it fun and flirt RIGHT back.

I would date a woman 2 years older than me. Sex, free food, heck .... she's a noona, she has to treat ME. I provide a sense of security, fun, adventure, companionship.

[yuppieguppy]

^ can we get a diagram? That is really confusing.

for which one?

[Laxntiga]

for which one?

The first one, but nvm, I understood.

[Stevent]

for example..if boy1 likes you but boy2 which is boy1's good friend tells boy1 that he likes you & boy1 ends up kind of giving up his feelings b/c he doesn't want a girl to get in the way of their friendship. does that mean he never really liked you?

when two guys are such good friends does one get jealous or start getting feelings for the same girl as their friends?

my good girl friend and i were hanging out w/ a bunch of friends and the guy that i like. she told the guy that i liked you would look good with my friend(which is me) and he replied back in a jokingly way with "remember we dated and i broke up with you?" (while looking at me) what the heck does that mean?

how do guys feel about dating older girls as in 2 years older?

1) no, it means that no girl is worth giving up a friendship
2) no
3) he means that it may not work out
4) dont mind at all, for me, a 5 year age gap is the limit.

[lily-chan]

Do you guys believe that a girl whom you wouldn't qualify as attractive at first, could become prettier if you had feelings for them?

What's up with you guys and cars? What's so interesting about them? (And no answers with "same thing as why you girls like shopping and makeup")

[Stevent]

Do you guys believe that a girl whom you wouldn't qualify as attractive at first, could become prettier if you had feelings for them?

What's up with you guys and cars? What's so interesting about them? (And no answers with "same thing as why you girls like shopping and makeup")

1) if we start to develop feelings for the girl later, physical appearances wouldnt be an issue
2) we love tinkering with stuff. it's the same thing as why you girls like shopping and makeup but it's a guy thing, we love getting down and dirty

[rachellee39]

which is worse for a guy?
1. getting turned down when asking a girl out for a date.
2. after the first date, getting a message from her that you're a nice friend and she would like it to stay that way.

[LA_BELLA]

wtf is up with guys who seem interested in you and even talk about you to other people...

but then they don't pick up their damn cellphone or answer back in emails?

are they just really not interested, playing hard to get, busy, what is it?

[Inevitable]

which is worse for a guy?
1. getting turned down when asking a girl out for a date.
2. after the first date, getting a message from her that you're a nice friend and she would like it to stay that way.

This is very difficult because both would suck. IMO I think 2 would be worse because the guy was given a chance and they'd feel like they failed to leave a good impression on the girl. It'd be one of those "ugh.. i shouldve done.. this.. that.. etc."

wtf is up with guys who seem interested in you and even talk about you to other people...

but then they don't pick up their damn cellphone or answer back in emails?

are they just really not interested, playing hard to get, busy, what is it?

It can be a mixture of all of those. I know a lot of guys who get shocked when they find out that the girl they like may actually have interest towards them. They tend to shock up and not know what to do because they feel like wow, is this really happening? They ignore because they may be afraid that they will say/do something stupid and don't want to ruin things, but in reality theyre just annoying the girl and making them feel bad/lead on/etc. Once their confidence hits, they'll most likely reply.. some guys take longer than others.

[addickshun]

why isnt guys coming clean with the girl they are interested in?
playing hard?
shy?
scared of rejection?

[random azn]

Question:

Why are guys nice to you at first, then when you guys get together they become totally jerks?

[xkrn4lyfx]

Question:

Why are guys nice to you at first, then when you guys get together they become totally jerks?

wellz its kinda normal if anything
girls talk sh1t behind backs to show face and guys make fun of girls to show face
something called social behaviour or something

[Inevitable]

why isnt guys coming clean with the girl they are interested in?
playing hard?
shy?
scared of rejection?

Usually it's because they're afraid of rejection or they're shy. It's difficult for some guys to confess their feelings if they aren't sure that the s/o feels the same way.

[natt2828]

I have a MISSION to accomplish
So big boys out there, please help me out (:


I've been interested in this guy for a year,
but never talked to him & he has the following
traits && characteristics

-super duper quiet when he's not around friends
-talk/laughs a lot when he's around his friends
-he's actually pretty cute, nice body, nice sense of style
-super smart o___o
-shy [he never approach a girl first]
-&actually he's in the school football && hockey team.

I'm still surprised no girl chasing after him except me o___o
and the fact that he never dated
that's like.. whoaaa HOW COME?!

Anyways, my point is...
what are the ways to approach guy like him?
i was thinking of saying hi to him & ask his email so i can talk that way
but it would be weird since we'ver never talked before.

Any ideas or suggestions? (:

[r3dalf]

I have a MISSION to accomplish
So big boys out there, please help me out (:
I've been interested in this guy for a year,
but never talked to him & he has the following
traits && characteristics

-super duper quiet when he's not around friends
-talk/laughs a lot when he's around his friends
-he's actually pretty cute, nice body, nice sense of style
-super smart o___o
-shy [he never approach a girl first]
-&actually he's in the school football && hockey team.

I'm still surprised no girl chasing after him except me o___o
and the fact that he never dated
that's like.. whoaaa HOW COME?!

Anyways, my point is...
what are the ways to approach guy like him?
i was thinking of saying hi to him & ask his email so i can talk that way
but it would be weird since we'ver never talked before.

Any ideas or suggestions? (:

coz most girls don make the 1st move???
only u have the confidence 2 get things into action.

if this guy comes clean, go get him. (unless he's gay)

whatever ways in approaching (initiating 1st contact) is fine;
which guy wouldn't be over the rainbow if a girl comes to talk to him?!?! (then again, if he's gay)
following up later is most important.

i see many of my frens(gals) undergoing steady r'ships with their hot-all-in1-package bf so far.
[gals that approached the guy 1st]

[KEKEHEHE]

1. What do guys think of a pretty girl who's hands sweat

2. A guy loses interest in a girl over something else (sports/video games -.-) they don't talk/ignore eachother for months, would he ever be interested in her later?

3. A girl who has been your best friend and nothing more for a LONG TIME, and finally she confesses to you, what are the chances that you'd fall for her.

4. Shorts or skirts ? ;]

5. What are things girls do that makes guys go CRAZY?

thanks in advance :]

[Stevent]

I have a MISSION to accomplish
So big boys out there, please help me out (:
I've been interested in this guy for a year,
but never talked to him & he has the following
traits && characteristics

-super duper quiet when he's not around friends
-talk/laughs a lot when he's around his friends
-he's actually pretty cute, nice body, nice sense of style
-super smart o___o
-shy [he never approach a girl first]
-&actually he's in the school football && hockey team.

I'm still surprised no girl chasing after him except me o___o
and the fact that he never dated
that's like.. whoaaa HOW COME?!

Anyways, my point is...
what are the ways to approach guy like him?
i was thinking of saying hi to him & ask his email so i can talk that way
but it would be weird since we'ver never talked before.

Any ideas or suggestions? (:

well first, try to get to know him before asking for his email because as of right now, you two are strangers. Maybe go to one of his games and then try to find him afterwards to tell him how he did in the game.

1. What do guys think of a pretty girl who's hands sweat

2. A guy loses interest in a girl over something else (sports/video games -.-) they don't talk/ignore eachother for months, would he ever be interested in her later?

3. A girl who has been your best friend and nothing more for a LONG TIME, and finally she confesses to you, what are the chances that you'd fall for her.

4. Shorts or skirts ? ;]

5. What are things girls do that makes guys go CRAZY?

thanks in advance :]

1) everyone's hands sweat, so it's not a big of a deal
2) he might or might not; if a guy chooses games over a girl, he's a loser
3) best friends and relationships always end bad if they break up; I would not risk a long time friendship
4) both
5) as in annoying or a turn on? annoying: talking too much; turn on: a girl who knows how to cook

[tropical_star91]

Would a guy ever go out with a girl and not have any feelings for her whatsoever, but instead, have feelings for another girl?