[&rea]

How hard is it for a guy to not stare at a girl's chest?
I went in for training at work today, and the manager was staring at my chest more than he was looking me in the eye
(I was wearing a low v-neck WITH a tube top underneath, just so you know )

[xsunyoung]

so as young kids, i've been told that a guy was interested in a girl if he bothered her..is that true?

i have the WEIRDEST friend who is throwing me off BIG time..his actions are so weird! he can't say hi to me when i'm with my friends nonetheless when he's with his crowd, and he gets angry at me for the strangest reasons..but he calls me and gets upset easily..he's seriously weird! hahaha. basically, how do you know when a guy is interested?

what do you guys look for first in girls?

[Stevent]

When a guys says that he likes you, does he mean it or not? Or does it depend on the situation? O_O?
Guys, what's your reaction when your friendgirl/gf shows you pics of girls and say, "She's so pretty and she's so slim! OMG, like, she's also really hot! ^^"

1) Why do girls overanalyze the situation? He likes you plain and simple.
2) If it is my gf, Ill say that she is prettier so that I can score brownie points, but if it is a friend that is a girl, Ill agree with her.

why does he "pretend" to be angry? like he'll start fake arguments with me.. its annoying...

We dont know, we're not him. It could be from a wide range of things from immaturity to trying to break up with you.

okay, so when a guy tells another guy that he thinks you are "pretty cute" what is that suppose to mean...besides the obvious statement?
Does he like you or is he interested in you?

1) You are cute and has a slight interest in you.

kay, i went to the mall today cuz i just had to run errands and such. my boyfriend wanted to come but i told him its just and in-out errand that i'm not gonna be there long. he also wanted me to come to the mexx store with him but i said i didn't want to go because 1) there's no point in me going, just waste my time. i never by anything there and 2) didn't fee like going, i had other things to do....
he said it was rude of me not wanting him to come with me shopping and me not going with him to mexx when I as his girlfriend declined and one of my other girl friends went with him instead(she's a close girl friend with both he and i, there's nothing going on between the two, we're all good friends)

so to the guys,
do you find it rude if your girlfriend wants to do things on her own without you, when all you really wanna do is see her?

There is will be plenty of other opportunities to see my s/o later on, one time of not wanting to see her wont kill me. He's just being butt hurt.

Would you get mad if your gf put her education first before you?

no because education gets you ahead in life and I dont want to be the one that is holding her back.

My friend wants to know:

If a girl (who's your friend) tells you she likes one of your best friends, how would you react?
He's been your best friend since elementary school.
The guy has been acting like a major a-hole to her and now everyone else. -__-;;
And he's the one who introduced his best friend to her.
>_>

1) I would be "ok cool, what do you want me to do about it?"
2) if he's acting like an bubble gum to everyone then he really trying to act hard which will only make him look like a dumbass.

How hard is it for a guy to not stare at a girl's chest?
I went in for training at work today, and the manager was staring at my chest more than he was looking me in the eye
(I was wearing a low v-neck WITH a tube top underneath, just so you know )

1) We cant help where our eyes wander.

so as young kids, i've been told that a guy was interested in a girl if he bothered her..is that true?

i have the WEIRDEST friend who is throwing me off BIG time..his actions are so weird! he can't say hi to me when i'm with my friends nonetheless when he's with his crowd, and he gets angry at me for the strangest reasons..but he calls me and gets upset easily..he's seriously weird! hahaha. basically, how do you know when a guy is interested?

what do you guys look for first in girls?

1) To an extent if a guy bothers a girl, he may like her.
2) This question has been beaten to death. Examples: eye contact, smiling tries to get to know you, etc...
3) First is her appearance, then her personality, and then her attributes.

Mines is:
cute, fit body, cute smile, caring, independent, hard worker, smart, respectful, ability to cook

[MoiraElla]

sorry i dont know if this was asked yet but usually do boys think its a turn-off if girls eat A LOT?

[Rinn]

Ok i have a quick question

With my ex boyfriend (he was white, i dunno if that'll make a difference tho) and he introduced me to his whole family...his brothers, step sisters, mother, step mother, step father, etc etc. However, he refused to let me meet his friends! He told me about his friends and stuff, but whenever the opportunity arose, he never let me meet them. I know that this is a question that depends on the situation, but do you think there was a specific reason to this? (in other words, why would you do this?)

[yourstruly]

sorry i dont know if this was asked yet but usually do boys think its a turn-off if girls eat A LOT?

Oh don't worry about that. I eat like a bird and my boyfriend complains all th etime that i don't eat a thing. Actually, all the guys i've been on dates with were like eh. Guys prefer girls who eat, period. But not like digging into the food getting it all over the floor. I learn. .

[krazie4adream]

what do guys think about plastic surgery (on a girl)? I once heard that that don't care, as long as the girl they're dating hasn't gotten plastic surgery. Also, what if it was a minor surgery, like double eyelids?

Just wondering, cause I want to have double eyelids done... -__-

hahaha..sorry to spam but...this is soo funny..
did u get this from 200lb Beauty???

lol..i wondered too, but i would never get plastic surgery so i guess it doesn't apply to me.
i think even u get the double eyelids done, some guys probably wouldn't really noticed.

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okies..more questions for the fellas ...ALOT of questions

1. If a guy[who isn't ur bf] gets protective, does that mean something? like if he goes like "don't wear that shirt with other guys, it's too low"

2. If a guy gets rejected, is it true that they won't keep trying?

3. If a girl asks you your number/contact info/screen name/etc. would you guys assume that the girl is interested in you, or just mere 'i want to be your friend'?

4. okies..this might be a stupid one, but::: Would u protect/speak up for ANY GIRL, [not ur gf, maybe a friend or even a stranger] if she gets harassed, verbally.

5. Do guys like vulernable/timid girls?

6. Does it mean anything if a guy asks for ur blood type? [and yeah~ he's korean.]

okies..have fun answering~

^ i want to know if it's a turn off if girls eat a lot too!! lol.

[RiderKamen]

hahaha..sorry to spam but...this is soo funny..
did u get this from 200lb Beauty???

lol..i wondered too, but i would never get plastic surgery so i guess it doesn't apply to me.
i think even u get the double eyelids done, some guys probably wouldn't really noticed.

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okies..more questions for the fellas ...ALOT of questions

1. If a guy[who isn't ur bf] gets protective, does that mean something? like if he goes like "don't wear that shirt with other guys, it's too low"

2. If a guy gets rejected, is it true that they won't keep trying?

3. If a girl asks you your number/contact info/screen name/etc. would you guys assume that the girl is interested in you, or just mere 'i want to be your friend'?

4. okies..this might be a stupid one, but::: Would u protect/speak up for ANY GIRL, [not ur gf, maybe a friend or even a stranger] if she gets harassed, verbally.

5. Do guys like vulernable/timid girls?

6. Does it mean anything if a guy asks for ur blood type? [and yeah~ he's korean.]

okies..have fun answering~

^ i want to know if it's a turn off if girls eat a lot too!! lol.

1. YES. You just better hope he aint a Curtis Taylor, Jr lol
2. Depends on the guy. Some women just like to be cruel just to make a guy work; some guys just can't take a no. It all depends on the person.
3.In general we assume getting anything from anybody is positive (whether we like it or not). Most of us at first will assume that the girl interested.
4. Yeah, even though people (male or female) get cowardly when it comes to certain situations, some of us will stand up and brace the consequence because we believe in what its right and we don't condone negativity.
5. The ones that do are usually human predators (prey on the weak). So watch out.
6.That dude is odd, its just him.
7.Depends on how & when she eats.

[RiderKamen]

why does he "pretend" to be angry? like he'll start fake arguments with me.. its annoying...

dude is insecure. Women do that mess, not guys.

Ok i have a quick question

With my ex boyfriend (he was white, i dunno if that'll make a difference tho) and he introduced me to his whole family...his brothers, step sisters, mother, step mother, step father, etc etc. However, he refused to let me meet his friends! He told me about his friends and stuff, but whenever the opportunity arose, he never let me meet them. I know that this is a question that depends on the situation, but do you think there was a specific reason to this? (in other words, why would you do this?)

yes there is a reason. We (as in everybody on this planet) don't know until you ask him.

It could be a number of possibilities

How hard is it for a guy to not stare at a girl's chest?
I went in for training at work today, and the manager was staring at my chest more than he was looking me in the eye
(I was wearing a low v-neck WITH a tube top underneath, just so you know )

If your cheastessesss is out there (like you can't ignore it), it doesn't matter if a guy or a GIRL (yes some women respect other women bodies lol).
In this guy case, he needs to learn some manners. Usually if a person wears a v-neck, the chest are going to hang out in the open (unless its green or a dark color) lol.

[minshoo]

just some questions

1.) if a guy buy a drink for a girl what is that mean?

2.) a guy is a close friend to my brother buying a drink for me? just becuz hes nice?

3.) would a close brother friend go for his shy sister?

[Inevitable]

just some questions

1.) if a guy buy a drink for a girl what is that mean?
Honestly, you looked thirsty, or you asked for a drink =P

2.) a guy is a close friend to my brother buying a drink for me? just becuz hes nice?
It can be just because he's nice. He might have a slight attraction to you, but it's too early to tell if that's the only sign he's given

3.) would a close brother friend go for his shy sister?
haha.. i just read your thread a few minutes ago.. Close brother friend does have the possibility to go for his shy sister. Depending on whether or not your brother is protective, he may not like the idea at first. If theyre really close, there should be enough trust for him to be okay with it. Not his decision anyways. All in all, "opposites attract" (you mentioned he was outgoing/you're shy) so there is a possibility. Try not to think too highly of the situation, wait for more signs for assurance. (I'm thinking you want someone to say that he is very much interested in you but from the information you've given, it's still a bit too early to tell. Not trying to be mean, just honest. But I wish you the best of luck!! It can happen!)

hm... didn't even notice I replied in the quote too lazy to change it, sorry I havent slept.. that caffeine. Good luck though

[minshoo]

i do sound a little desperate huh? lol no hurt feeling. its just that im really inexperience about these things. but i guess just stay being friend is the best right now. right?

and thanx for answering my questions.

[yourstruly]

Question!

My boyfriend hangs out with his friends often and when he talks about who he went with to places and stuff, he always leaves out a name. A girl. Should I be worried?

[r3dalf]

Question!

My boyfriend hangs out with his friends often and when he talks about who he went with to places and stuff, he always leaves out a name. A girl. Should I be worried?

case 1 : yeah. definitely. A name, if u're referring to ONE name. he's having such fun that he could remember the names. especially girls'.

case 2 : you 2 are close(as all couples are; so u guys talk bout everything, maybe u guys talk openly all the time?) n he's letting you know where he's been n who this , who that. so, he doesn't want u to worry by informing you of everything.

he has good social life btw.

[star.DUST]

Ok, if a guy was in a long relationship, and then gets dumped and hurt in the process.
How do you get him to trust you? But then what if something pops
up, say he's leading other girls on [maybe including you] and says he's fallen for
you, yet has also fallen for an old friend who's going through the same situation as
he once did. AND he's only leading the other girls on just because they like
him for what he does. What the hell do you do?

[*taM.taM]

At what age do you think
is weird that a girl has never had a boyfriend?
thanks. =)

[RiderKamen]

At what age do you think
is weird that a girl has never had a boyfriend?
thanks. =)

ummm 30 and beyond.
Some people just don't care what age you are as long as you have something that interesting about you.

There are women in their 30, 40's, and even a little in the 50's getting married.

Ok, if a guy was in a long relationship, and then gets dumped and hurt in the process.
How do you get him to trust you? But then what if something pops
up, say he's leading other girls on [maybe including you] and says he's fallen for
you, yet has also fallen for an old friend who's going through the same situation as
he once did. AND he's only leading the other girls on just because they like
him for what he does. What the hell do you do?

you can't. He's got to take the road to trust.
If the guy wants you, he'll go after you. All you can do is back up and let him decide.

[YUNA!]

I asked this question before, but I wanted more than one "fella" to answer...
I guess ppl got mixed up with all these questions ^^

ANYWAYS, back to the question.

Say you and your girlfriend are really serious in your relationship. Then you ask your girlfriend to show you more respect.
What kind of acts show respect? >_____<

I've:
- cooked him meals when he was sick
- waken up at 7am every day to call him after his graveyard shifts
- let him be the decision maker

but... it's still not making him happy ><~~~~~~ I dont know what YOU GUY'S view of respect is~~~ ^^

[黒人の詐欺師]

Ok, if a guy was in a long relationship, and then gets dumped and hurt in the process.
How do you get him to trust you? But then what if something pops
up, say he's leading other girls on [maybe including you] and says he's fallen for
you, yet has also fallen for an old friend who's going through the same situation as
he once did. AND he's only leading the other girls on just because they like
him for what he does. What the hell do you do?

you forget him. everything that you said about him screams sex. sex. sex.

[RiderKamen]

I asked this question before, but I wanted more than one "fella" to answer...
I guess ppl got mixed up with all these questions ^^

ANYWAYS, back to the question.

Say you and your girlfriend are really serious in your relationship. Then you ask your girlfriend to show you more respect.
What kind of acts show respect? >_____<

I've:
- cooked him meals when he was sick
- waken up at 7am every day to call him after his graveyard shifts
- let him be the decision maker

but... it's still not making him happy ><~~~~~~ I dont know what YOU GUY'S view of respect is~~~ ^^

TO ME, this dude sounds like he's never going to be satisfied.

What you did would be enough for me to appreciate and respect somebody.