[Laxntiga]

is it normal that my bf enjoys being out with his friends more than being with me =_=

Yes, dont yo get sick of your bf sometimes?

if you met this person a few days ago and he just starts to say HI everytime he sees you then does it meanhe likes you? or no?

No, they are just being friendly and wants to acknowledge that you know each other. Kind of like a greeting. If he/she likes you.... they might stick around longer to chat, ask you how you are doing, what your doing later this week, some funny thing that just happened to them etc. etc. (However, just-friends also do it too).

hey again guys~ thanks a lot for previous answers but i still have a little problem...

after my crush replied ""We're still filming. I'm moving to ***** . But it actually is alot more fun than it sounds. And yes, I'm going to prom"

i emailed back

"haha yea i think so too. i heard it's a great place for outdoor activities~ should be an interesting experience .
and about prom, im going to arrive with some friends but i was wondering if you're up for dancing?"

if he says no, what is a good reply to tell him i'm cool with his decision, hope we are still friends/everything's still cool between us, hope he won't feel awkward on prom night?

If he says "no" to dancing tell him its ok, that you can forgive him that he cant dance and that you'll see him there and that you look forward to prom.

[Elee]

All my guy friends are starting to like me.
I used to be ok with it.. but now its really starting to bug me.
I thought about distancing myself from them, but i cant do it, since i have more guy friends than girls (i get along with guys more)


I mean, i dont get it, i'm not even that pretty, so why me ?
I've told them all before, that i want to be single for a while.. because i dont wanna go around and getting myself hurt, and i dont want another friendship at risk.

Its just.. crazy !
I dont know why. I try not to send them signals and stuff. I dont flirt much, and i just want to let them know that i just want to be friends. But all of a sudden theyr all confessing. If i start liking one, all will get mad, and my whole group of friends will be broken apart, and i dont want it to happen.

HELP ?!

[moonk379]

All my guy friends are starting to like me.
I used to be ok with it.. but now its really starting to bug me.
I thought about distancing myself from them, but i cant do it, since i have more guy friends than girls (i get along with guys more)
I mean, i dont get it, i'm not even that pretty, so why me ?
I've told them all before, that i want to be single for a while.. because i dont wanna go around and getting myself hurt, and i dont want another friendship at risk.

Its just.. crazy !
I dont know why. I try not to send them signals and stuff. I dont flirt much, and i just want to let them know that i just want to be friends. But all of a sudden theyr all confessing. If i start liking one, all will get mad, and my whole group of friends will be broken apart, and i dont want it to happen.

HELP ?!

sounds more like a game they are playin to see who can get the girl..

[infinity]

How can you tell if a guy is sincere or just plaaying around?

[littoqtxlinda]

how many times do guys think about sex?
i heard somewhere that guys thought about sex atleast 200 times a day.

Just wondering...

[hyuunn]

do guys like it when their girlfriend gets jealous?

[CIRee]

How can you tell if a guy is sincere or just plaaying around?

you can't. Unless you are very good at reading people.

how many times do guys think about sex?
i heard somewhere that guys thought about sex atleast 200 times a day.

Just wondering...

We dont actually think about sex, we just think we want to have sex.

do guys like it when their girlfriend gets jealous?

It depends on the person.

[j'adoreAZNpop]

Thanks again moonk379, Inevitable, Stevent and Laxntiga!

so my crush has replied with exactly "sure y not" to this email

"haha yea i think so too. i heard it's a great place for outdoor activities~ should be an interesting experience .
and about prom, im going to arrive with some friends but i was wondering if you're up for dancing?"

im thinking of replying " cool ^^ see you there!".. not too overboard?

and how can i know he meant it without feeling pity for me? he knows i meant dancing together right?
and did he say that out of politeness and will ditch me later? :S (sorry if i offend someone >_<)

also today i saw him and a friend in lib studying for chem... i was helping out as lib assistant... really coincidence!
the laptop used to scan the books was close to his table so i was kinda facing him but he didnt say hi and i didnt say hi either LOL
i was shy so i try not to face him and the lib was kinda crowded. was he shy too or ?

[gurly-yang]

Ok, so um, my BF was asking me how far I've gone in a relationship. I've had my first kiss BUT I've never actually gone as far as tongues and saliva. OH and no we haven't gotten to that part. I guess I'm afraid of what he's going to think because I know he's "experienced" and that he thinks I am too. IDK. I'm also scared that he might compare me with his ex or something. What should I do? Should I tell him that I'm not that type of girl? IDK.

[Stevent]

Thanks again moonk379, Inevitable, Stevent and Laxntiga!

so my crush has replied with exactly "sure y not" to this email

"haha yea i think so too. i heard it's a great place for outdoor activities~ should be an interesting experience .
and about prom, im going to arrive with some friends but i was wondering if you're up for dancing?"

im thinking of replying " cool ^^ see you there!".. not too overboard?

and how can i know he meant it without feeling pity for me? he knows i meant dancing together right?
and did he say that out of politeness and will ditch me later? :S (sorry if i offend someone >_<)

also today i saw him and a friend in lib studying for chem... i was helping out as lib assistant... really coincidence!
the laptop used to scan the books was close to his table so i was kinda facing him but he didnt say hi and i didnt say hi either LOL
i was shy so i try not to face him and the lib was kinda crowded. was he shy too or ?

No, just leave it at that. No need to reply since you got what you were aiming for.

Ok, so um, my BF was asking me how far I've gone in a relationship. I've had my first kiss BUT I've never actually gone as far as tongues and saliva. OH and no we haven't gotten to that part. I guess I'm afraid of what he's going to think because I know he's "experienced" and that he thinks I am too. IDK. I'm also scared that he might compare me with his ex or something. What should I do? Should I tell him that I'm not that type of girl? IDK.

You are overanalyzing things. Just tell him how you feel and that you are not that type of girl, if he really likes you, he should repect what you say.

[j'adoreAZNpop]

Stevent, should i ask him if he wants to chill somewhere before prom so we can know each other better? just as friends? so dancing wont be awkward?

and how can i find out he means what he said?

[Stevent]

Stevent, should i ask him if he wants to chill somewhere before prom so we can know each other better? just as friends? so dancing wont be awkward?

and how can i find out he means what he said?

well your group of friends can go someplace and chill before prom, so just ask him if he wants to go too.
Nobody can tell you what he means, only himself. You just have to wait until prom.

[sushiwhore]

just because a girl use to be fat doesn't mean for certain that she was lazy. imo.

alot of people use to be meaty back in the youngin days and they do plenty of runnin. so it's quite the bold statement to give negative points for something in the past where the age group doesn't really even concentrate on outer physical appearance. IF they can revert back to being lazy, they can just as well become hard working again, it swings both ways.

and just because someone's skinny doesn't mean that they're hardworking either, they can be just as lazy and strike the genetic lottery of not having any aftermath from the laziness.

big people can be beautiful. you don't have to be a size 0-4 to be beautiful. then again, guys go by the visual, just be careful that alot of girls do know how you really function and use it to their advantage.

it sounds very cliche, but a beautiful heart doesn't always come with a beautiful face~ if i girl accepts your past, you should accept theirs too, especially for something like this. everyone deserves a second chance and i'm pretty sure she did too when she lost weight or got thinner present day.

neways it's ur pov i respect it, just be more open-minded of people's past.

agreed

you sound too narrow minded and i dont care if you dont agree. if you care so much about ppl and how they look look at yourself and improve your imperfections instead of looking down on anothers PAST

to me they deserve positive points. they realized they had issues AND TRIED TO IMPROVE THEIR HEALTH AND APPEARANCE that to me is ++++ compared to a persn knowing they are big and continue to eat out or sit on their butt just surfing the web

[littoqtxlinda]

We dont actually think about sex, we just think we want to have sex.

haha thanx.

[Xoalilsinger]

do guys like girls with tatoos?

[Stevent]

do guys like girls with tatoos?

i dont see why not, unless she is a he but i have a tattoo. But if she has an excess of them then it's a no.

[Blu_Velvet_Sea]

I changed my facebook picture of myself. This guy I know commented and said "nice photo. you look like a 15yr old" moments later he deletes the comment. Why? Just curious...hahha not that big of a deal though.

[Stevent]

I changed my facebook picture of myself. This guy I know commented and said "nice photo. you look like a 15yr old" moments later he deletes the comment. Why? Just curious...hahha not that big of a deal though.

it can be a number of things

[Blu_Velvet_Sea]

it can be a number of things

ah yeah i guess so! hahah...

[Laxntiga]

All my guy friends are starting to like me.
I used to be ok with it.. but now its really starting to bug me.
I thought about distancing myself from them, but i cant do it, since i have more guy friends than girls (i get along with guys more)
I mean, i dont get it, i'm not even that pretty, so why me ?
I've told them all before, that i want to be single for a while.. because i dont wanna go around and getting myself hurt, and i dont want another friendship at risk.

Its just.. crazy !
I dont know why. I try not to send them signals and stuff. I dont flirt much, and i just want to let them know that i just want to be friends. But all of a sudden theyr all confessing. If i start liking one, all will get mad, and my whole group of friends will be broken apart, and i dont want it to happen.

HELP ?!

I think your full of yourself. Wait a week and see. If you dont have time, hang around a hotter girl with the same guys, see what happens.

How can you tell if a guy is sincere or just plaaying around?

You really cant............. unless you sleep with him. Dont bash me here, but if he sticks around girls, isn't he a guy that actually likes you?

how many times do guys think about sex?
i heard somewhere that guys thought about sex atleast 200 times a day.

Just wondering...

yeah we think about sex that much.