[cookiesncream]

I have a question!
Do you guys tend to treat and act differently towards each new girl that you've liked depending on their personality?
...does that make sense? O_o...
Like, if the girl (2) you like now has a different personality than the girl (1) you liked before, would you treat 2 different than you treated 1..or do u use like the same...tactics?

[r3dalf]

I have a question!
Do you guys tend to treat and act differently towards each new girl that you've liked depending on their personality?
...does that make sense? O_o...
Like, if the girl (2) you like now has a different personality than the girl (1) you liked before, would you treat 2 different than you treated 1..or do u use like the same...tactics?

girls that you've liked... :

i'd say it's different treatment and 'acting' for different types of personalities these 2 different girls have.
assuming they both look 8/10 each or 2/10 each(whatever, but they look attractive physically),
one could be very quiet, innocent and another one could be very cheerful, talkative, outgoing.

every1's unique.

[cookiesncream]

girls that you've liked... :

i'd say it's different treatment and 'acting' for different types of personalities these 2 different girls have.
assuming they both look 8/10 each or 2/10 each(whatever, but they look attractive physically),
one could be very quiet, innocent and another one could be very cheerful, talkative, outgoing.

every1's unique.

hmmmm, so does this mean you would use different ways of "chasing" a girl depending on her personality?

[snowberryy]

my boyfriend and i are long distance, and we rarely get to see each other. so because of that, both of us are sort of stressed out.
on top of that, we dont converse as much as we used to when we first started dating. (its been nearly 2 years).
the other day, my boyfriend asked me over the phone "how would you rate our relationship from 1-10, 1 being the worst?"
for some reason, i got upset by the question and never really answered it. he stayed off the subject for a bit.
several days later, he called me and told me that he was just really stressed out these days... and now he's "questioning our relationship".
it really upsets me cause even though we've been through some hard times together, we were doing pretty ok.
i suppose distance is probably the main factor.

anyone have suggestions? =/

[`Nivek]

my boyfriend and i are long distance, and we rarely get to see each other. so because of that, both of us are sort of stressed out.
on top of that, we dont converse as much as we used to when we first started dating. (its been nearly 2 years).
the other day, my boyfriend asked me over the phone "how would you rate our relationship from 1-10, 1 being the worst?"
for some reason, i got upset by the question and never really answered it. he stayed off the subject for a bit.
several days later, he called me and told me that he was just really stressed out these days... and now he's "questioning our relationship".
it really upsets me cause even though we've been through some hard times together, we were doing pretty ok.
i suppose distance is probably the main factor.

anyone have suggestions? =/

How often do you guys see each other?? Distance always is a big factor in LD relationships. Maybe you can go visit him sometime soon? Or maybe he can. Or you can help him pay for some of his trip or something.

[snowberryy]

^ its not exactly LONG distance, since i live in jersey while he lives in new york.

the thing is he is always busy (whether it be working at his dad's store or church work),
and i have strict parents who won't let me out til late (past 9 because i have no way of getting home and they dont trust me;).

the last time i went to see him (2-3 weeks ago), i had to go on a sunday. and he has church.
i spent an entire 12 hrs in church. 9am to 9pm. mostly because he got caught from his pastor and got dragged into other things.

a friend of mine has been telling me to just wait and be patient... because even though its hard now, the future will be much brighter.
however, this has been going on for nearly two years. i feel like i've put so much more into this relationship than my boyfriend has.

theres so much more that i can rant about, but just keeping it simple;;

[j'adoreAZNpop]

hey again guys! i have this question that wasnt answered

about this guy i asked just for dance, do i have to stay with him all the time? he wouldnt mind if i chat with him for few minutes and then leave to hang out with my friends right?
and what are ways i can do to talk to him without embarassing him in front of his friends?

[黒人の詐欺師]

hey again guys! i have this question that wasnt answered

about this guy i asked just for dance, do i have to stay with him all the time? he wouldnt mind if i chat with him for few minutes and then leave to hang out with my friends right?
and what are ways i can do to talk to him without embarassing him in front of his friends?

i don't think he would be embarassed by you to his friends
a girl asking a guy for a dance? they would be proud
you don't have to stay with him all the time

[mcsn]

what does it mean if a close guy friend asks u out on a 'date'? and he is married? is he just being too friendly?

[Laxntiga]

hehe i copy and paste...but yea i get what you mean. and what is too overboard or subtle? good to know im not bitchy though ^^

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I do have a couple more questions >_<.

from my question " blah ... but i was wondering if you're up for dancing?", he knows i just ask for a dance right? not as prom date? and it's better this way since we arent' really close?

plus, would he mind if i don't stay with him all the time? his friends will definetely be there but i doubt he has a date since there's no female name under his table list.

and what are ways i can do to talk to him without embarassing him or making him shy in front of his friends?

Ok, you care WAY too much. Get your dance, ask him for a kiss on the cheek bc thats the fee for dancing with you. Go do your own thang. Stop thinking your b*tchy have some self confidence, stop caring so much what other people think about you. Its your life, you live the way you want it and do what you dam* please.

What do you find in a girl that is so intimidating? I have guys who are intimidated by me, I guess I tend to look serious esp with guys around. And some has that impression that I'm smart, like they think highly of me, is that really intimidating, really?

No, only guys who think they are less than you and think they don't have a shot at you would think your intimidating. I mean think about it...... if they think you are smart, then they think they aren't as smart as you. There are always smarter people in this world than you, don't compare yourself to guys around your age, compare yourself to the greatest... newton, einstein, rockafeller, etc. etc.

I have a question!
Do you guys tend to treat and act differently towards each new girl that you've liked depending on their personality?
...does that make sense? O_o...
Like, if the girl (2) you like now has a different personality than the girl (1) you liked before, would you treat 2 different than you treated 1..or do u use like the same...tactics?

If she was REALLLLLLY hot and worth my effort, yes of course I would treat her differently. I would talk, act, dress, move (body language) everything, I would do everything in my power to get her attention (subtly of course) and get to talk to her one on one and get some privacy. But then again I'm a player... not all guys would do this. As a matter of fact, I don't recommend other people do this. They should act they way they do so they would be comfortable and show their true selves and see if the girl was a right match for them. I'm saying be real, don't just put on an act to get into her pants.

my boyfriend and i are long distance, and we rarely get to see each other. so because of that, both of us are sort of stressed out.
on top of that, we dont converse as much as we used to when we first started dating. (its been nearly 2 years).
the other day, my boyfriend asked me over the phone "how would you rate our relationship from 1-10, 1 being the worst?"
for some reason, i got upset by the question and never really answered it. he stayed off the subject for a bit.
several days later, he called me and told me that he was just really stressed out these days... and now he's "questioning our relationship".
it really upsets me cause even though we've been through some hard times together, we were doing pretty ok.
i suppose distance is probably the main factor.

anyone have suggestions? =/

Surprise visits, send hand written letters (more personal), presents to show you care and think about him, try to spend more time together. Why don't you put in some effort to go see him and try to do things on your own to show him you care (more).

hey again guys! i have this question that wasnt answered

about this guy i asked just for dance, do i have to stay with him all the time? he wouldnt mind if i chat with him for few minutes and then leave to hang out with my friends right?
and what are ways i can do to talk to him without embarassing him in front of his friends?

Uhhhh pull him away from his friends and try to talk to him one on one? Say to his friends... hey guys, how are you guys tonight? blah blah blah, did you see blah blah blah? Oh isn't she so cute? blah blah blah, omg, sorry I been ignoring (insert the guys name you want), can I borrow him for a sec? *take his hand, lead to a quieter place"

what does it mean if a close guy friend asks u out on a 'date'? and he is married? is he just being too friendly?

Ask him "do you think taking me out would be appropriate? Can I bring along your friend? Oh i haven't met your wife, how is she these days? Will she be comming?"

Don't be a home wrecker.

[lily-chan]

I often do sarcastic/mean comments when I'm around guys (of course, I'm only kidding around). Guys find me smart and funny... so why none of them are interested in me? Is it because they prefer sweet girly girls?

[xxtine_21]

Unless you have some feature on your face that brings attention, he is most likely interested in you. First you have to find out when he will be at the mall again, since he's a stranger and you have no clue what his name/number are. For your approach, try complimenting him and asking for his name and if he goes here(the mall) a lot, etc. Then remind him that you saw him before a month ago and hope that he remembers or itll be weird lol. I'm not sure how to approach, i've never actually did that with a stranger but I think that's how i'd do it. good luck

Hm, yeah that's what some of my girls suggested I do too but I just wanted to check for a guy's point of view.

well hes probably just chekin you out sayin things to his buddies like "ill hit" and stuff like that cuz thats wat me and my friends do and most of the time the guys will come up to you and ask for number if they are interested.

lol "i'll hit"

Thanks guys somethings are more clear now (:

[MoiraElla]

well hes probably just chekin you out sayin things to his buddies like "ill hit" and stuff like that cuz thats wat me and my friends do and most of the time the guys will come up to you and ask for number if they are interested.

ahahahah ugh boys are dogs. =P

[RiderKamen]

I often do sarcastic/mean comments when I'm around guys (of course, I'm only kidding around). Guys find me smart and funny... so why none of them are interested in me? Is it because they prefer sweet girly girls?

yeah lol

We guys want or want to respect women. Not the girl that act or put out "I know what guys like cause I hang around guys all the time" type of attitude.
You got to be yourself and the "the woman" that understands.

[`Nivek]

^ its not exactly LONG distance, since i live in jersey while he lives in new york.

the thing is he is always busy (whether it be working at his dad's store or church work),
and i have strict parents who won't let me out til late (past 9 because i have no way of getting home and they dont trust me;).

the last time i went to see him (2-3 weeks ago), i had to go on a sunday. and he has church.
i spent an entire 12 hrs in church. 9am to 9pm. mostly because he got caught from his pastor and got dragged into other things.

a friend of mine has been telling me to just wait and be patient... because even though its hard now, the future will be much brighter.
however, this has been going on for nearly two years. i feel like i've put so much more into this relationship than my boyfriend has.

theres so much more that i can rant about, but just keeping it simple;;

Has he ever visited you? If he's never visited you, I think maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship. If you feel that your boyfriend hasn't been putting enough effort into the relationship you should have a talk with him.

[misturrho]

why do guys pick other girls over the girl he really likes, situations such as homeis ex, the other girl(money&job)

[Stevent]

why do guys pick other girls over the girl he really likes, situations such as homeis ex, the other girl(money&job)

I dont get your question. Are you asking why we choose responsibility, such as jobs or something that makes money or friends over the girls we like? If so, then then the answer is in my question.

[misturrho]

I dont get your question. Are you asking why we choose responsibility, such as jobs or something that makes money or friends over the girls we like? If so, then then the answer is in my question.

sorta, i can see how you got confused. cuz there's a guy that picked every other girl but me but he's sprung for years about me. and the other one is he chose the whale prom queen (literally whale) cuz her sister is hookin him up with loan officier. i understand the money and family part cuz he really needs it, but i saw he wasn't tryin hard enough to be with me like he said and that job was the easy way out.

[touche`]

Do you think it's hot when a girl knows how to play an instrument?
I don't remember if I ask this before.. dang, I forgot.

[moonk379]

Do you think it's hot when a girl knows how to play an instrument?
I don't remember if I ask this before.. dang, I forgot.

i think its hot when girls know how to play instruments. such as piano and stuff like that