[angel_b3k]

Hello Guys! Thanks so much for doing this for us girls <3

I think this is the first time I've written in this thread..lol, can't remember xD
Anyway..I have a question.
I have feelings for this guy after I became closer friends with him this year.
At first, I'd texted him but he'd never reply..
I was closer yet I didn't talk to him much.
Then after one time we hang out with a couple of other friends..
he texted me a lot, and hangs around with me and my friends even when he's the only guy

That was quite a while ago and its still going on now.
Well, recently I asked him who he likes through text and he told me to guess..
but when I ask him at school he sometimes says guess and majority of the time he says he doesn't like anyone.
I continued to ask for like two days or so but still haven't got no answer outta his mouth! lol.
So yeah..I gave up. haha.

Two other things, I dunno if I'm overanalyzing or something..
I realise that he doesn't like having eye contact with me when we're having a serious conversation,
but when we joke around/laughing/flirt its just normal eye contact..haha.
Again, I dunno if I'm overanalyzing..
I've caught him a couple of times looking at me,
and I don't know if its because I was being stupid and looked like a retard then or for other reasons..haha

Okay. Sorry for the looonnnnnnggg post >< hehe
Basically I'm asking...
Is that usually how some guys show affection?
Would he be interested in me in that way,
or is it just me overanalyzing? haha.
I know a lot of girls do that in this thread..lol.

Thanks beforehand <3



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[joolee.]

Are there some signs you guys show to hint the girl that you're losing feelings / not interested anymore?

[fwnc_b!]

Girls that I find intimidating are the ones that not only look serious, but act serious at all times. This is usually a turn off for me because it makes me feel like they can't have fun and are always in serious mode. I know a few girls who always have that serious look, but when you talk to them, theyre really friendly and smile a lot. Smart girls arent intimidating to me. I find them to be cute. I guess some guys would be intimidated by girls who they think are smart because they're afraid that if they say the wrong thing, the girl would think that they were stupid and look down on them.

edit: actually serious/serious acting girls arent really intimidating, just people i try to avoid because for some reason they think they are higher than everyone else & theyre no fun. (not all girls, i'm speaking on behalf of the ones i've encountered who act that way). Things that i find intimidating in a girl for me would be the ones that I find extremely attractive because it's hard to focus and say things that make sense because i'm in oh and also female celebrities unless I have no idea who they are =)

No, only guys who think they are less than you and think they don't have a shot at you would think your intimidating. I mean think about it...... if they think you are smart, then they think they aren't as smart as you. There are always smarter people in this world than you, don't compare yourself to guys around your age, compare yourself to the greatest... newton, einstein, rockafeller, etc. etc.

Haha.. thanks... I need to let my guard down. it's always the self conscious thing is getting to me... I shouldn't go so far to einstein, that's a little too high... LOL..

[momoiro pescii]

Hey, don't you guys think this thread should be pinned? Just a thought.

[r3dalf]

Hello Guys! Thanks so much for doing this for us girls <3

I think this is the first time I've written in this thread..lol, can't remember xD
Anyway..I have a question.
I have feelings for this guy after I became closer friends with him this year.
At first, I'd texted him but he'd never reply..
I was closer yet I didn't talk to him much.
Then after one time we hang out with a couple of other friends..
he texted me a lot, and hangs around with me and my friends even when he's the only guy

That was quite a while ago and its still going on now.
Well, recently I asked him who he likes through text and he told me to guess..
but when I ask him at school he sometimes says guess and majority of the time he says he doesn't like anyone.
I continued to ask for like two days or so but still haven't got no answer outta his mouth! lol.
So yeah..I gave up. haha.

Two other things, I dunno if I'm overanalyzing or something..
I realise that he doesn't like having eye contact with me when we're having a serious conversation,
but when we joke around/laughing/flirt its just normal eye contact..haha.
Again, I dunno if I'm overanalyzing..
I've caught him a couple of times looking at me,
and I don't know if its because I was being stupid and looked like a retard then or for other reasons..haha

Okay. Sorry for the looonnnnnnggg post >< hehe
Basically I'm asking...
Is that usually how some guys show affection?
Would he be interested in me in that way,
or is it just me overanalyzing? haha.
I know a lot of girls do that in this thread..lol.

Thanks beforehand <3
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he is into you, most likely.
cause i'd ask the girl whom i like to guess if she asks who do i like.
the eye contact thing during serious convos=he's shy(or maybe it's his personality to run away when facing problems?)

maybe he's just testing some tactics or something u know. kind of a inconsistent guy.
otherwise, he's just plain shy.

is this a hot guy or something???

Are there some signs you guys show to hint the girl that you're losing feelings / not interested anymore?

no more sweet goodnight smses, no more calls, ignoring, dating other girls, etc.
otoh, some guys have many other different targets.

Are there some signs you guys show to hint the girl that you're losing feelings / not interested anymore?

no more sweet goodnight smses, no more calls, ignoring, dating other girls, etc.
otoh, some guys have many other different targets.

[DarkWaltz]

Are there some signs you guys show to hint the girl that you're losing feelings / not interested anymore?

We call less often and when we talk on the phone, we'd doing something else at the same time, when we're hanging out with you, you may have a feeling that we're not really "enjoying" the moment. In my case, sometimes, I'd be a bit sad to think about that because it's always hard to tell the girl directly and in all honesty.

Forgot to mention.

I know how girls HATE guys playing video games. Well, video games for guys is like shopping for girls.

Why do girls keep shopping? Because they're in constant need of clothes, because it brings the girls and their friends together, because it's fun and because they want to look good for the guys.

And for guys? Almost the same thing. If we play video games together, it strengthens our bonds between friends and make us feel like brothers. If we play alone, it makes us forget things in the real world and keeps us entertained. Well, it's just VERY fun. Guys are guys, so you girls have to accept that biologically predetermined male behavior.

[Miike]

there was a question like this on the ganji fashion thread
but do guys like girls who dress ganji?
ie; baggy hiphop clothes, hats, nike & adidas, etcetc

depends, some girls looks cute with it some dont, i like the girl if they can pull it off

[ultaeja]

OH! I have a question! CHOOSE. Don't say inbetween or anything. Just choose (cause I know most of you guys might say inbetween, or skinny but a lil' more meat, wahtever, just choose k? ^^;; I'm just curious.)

BONY-skinny girls VS. CHUBBY-CHUBBY girls.

[CIRee]

OH! I have a question! CHOOSE. Don't say inbetween or anything. Just choose (cause I know most of you guys might say inbetween, or skinny but a lil' more meat, wahtever, just choose k? ^^;; I'm just curious.)

BONY-skinny girls VS. CHUBBY-CHUBBY girls.

wow arent you demanding. It varies from guy to guy. Are you trying to bait one of these guys here because you actually want his opinion but dont want to ask him directly, so you do it subtlety?

[RiderKamen]

OH! I have a question! CHOOSE. Don't say inbetween or anything. Just choose (cause I know most of you guys might say inbetween, or skinny but a lil' more meat, wahtever, just choose k? ^^;; I'm just curious.)

BONY-skinny girls VS. CHUBBY-CHUBBY girls.

LOL

I'll say chubby like the last 5,000 times. That's what I prefer.
Not saying that I wouldn't date a skinny chick cause she could be the right person.
But there's something about being thick (not fat, there's a difference) that just makes me wanna hug them.

[ultaeja]

wow arent you demanding. It varies from guy to guy. Are you trying to bait one of these guys here because you actually want his opinion but dont want to ask him directly, so you do it subtlety?

Thanks for answering and Yes, I'm demanding (haha, I'll agree with that! XP) But no, I'm not trying to get one guy's opinion cause I don't want to ask him personally. <--- i don't even know any guys on this thread O_O.

LOL

I'll say chubby like the last 5,000 times. That's what I prefer.
Not saying that I wouldn't date a skinny chick cause she could be the right person.
But there's something about being thick (not fat, there's a difference) that just makes me wanna hug them.

OK! Thanks for answering!

[xreminisce]

We call less often and when we talk on the phone, we'd doing something else at the same time, when we're hanging out with you, you may have a feeling that we're not really "enjoying" the moment. In my case, sometimes, I'd be a bit sad to think about that because it's always hard to tell the girl directly and in all honesty.

Forgot to mention.

I know how girls HATE guys playing video games. Well, video games for guys is like shopping for girls.

Why do girls keep shopping? Because they're in constant need of clothes, because it brings the girls and their friends together, because it's fun and because they want to look good for the guys.

And for guys? Almost the same thing. If we play video games together, it strengthens our bonds between friends and make us feel like brothers. If we play alone, it makes us forget things in the real world and keeps us entertained. Well, it's just VERY fun. Guys are guys, so you girls have to accept that biologically predetermined male behavior.

haha {ima girl but this is} SOOO TRUE!
couldn't have said it better!!

[angel_b3k]

he is into you, most likely.
cause i'd ask the girl whom i like to guess if she asks who do i like.
the eye contact thing during serious convos=he's shy(or maybe it's his personality to run away when facing problems?)

maybe he's just testing some tactics or something u know. kind of a inconsistent guy.
otherwise, he's just plain shy.

is this a hot guy or something???

Sorry, but I don't get what you mean by 'inconsistent guy'? lol.
I think he is pretty shy and quiet compared to many other guys,
but at times he's got his loudness.

Ummm, hard question.
I don't think he's hot..cute I guess?
Not a lot of girls bug after him..so I guess he's not hot in most people's eyes.
Does that answer your question? lol

Thanks <3

[xxtine_21]

hey fellas,
my friend wants to ask "if a guy likes 2 girls... is he worth fighting for?"

[lavender_girl]

Like what angel_b3k said, thanks for answering our questions. Just wanan say how much I appreciatee you guys' time for helping us out

[embol]

My bf purposely annoys me by talking about how "hott" other girls are in front of me. Initially, it didn't bother me because those girls were usually not that attractive, and I understood that his intentions were entirely to make me jealous. I'm usually pretty laid back in a relationship, and I don't reveal my feelings much either, so maybe he feels the need for attention? Anyway, things like that become old really fast, and I'm just sick of it.
How do I tell him to cut the crap without coming off as "jealous." I personally don't think I'm jealous, I'm just annoyed and I wish he would respect me more by stop being so immature. On the other hand, he thinks that I'm jealous when I'm just pissed that he doesn't stop even though I've told him so many times.

[RiderKamen]

hey fellas,
my friend wants to ask "if a guy likes 2 girls... is he worth fighting for?"

first of all a person can't like two people. They probably are selfish.
If a guy wants you, he'll go after you and leave other person alone.

My bf purposely annoys me by talking about how "hott" other girls are in front of me. Initially, it didn't bother me because those girls were usually not that attractive, and I understood that his intentions were entirely to make me jealous. I'm usually pretty laid back in a relationship, and I don't reveal my feelings much either, so maybe he feels the need for attention? Anyway, things like that become old really fast, and I'm just sick of it.
How do I tell him to cut the crap without coming off as "jealous." I personally don't think I'm jealous, I'm just annoyed and I wish he would respect me more by stop being so immature. On the other hand, he thinks that I'm jealous when I'm just pissed that he doesn't stop even though I've told him so many times.

why don't you tell him the same thing that you put in your post?
IMO explain how you feel again first and then set boundaries

[star.DUST]

I invited this guy to a BBQ we had at the bech.
It was a mixture between friends and family [my family]
He said things were kind of awkward. (because he didn't know anyone)

I agree... it was kind of awkward, but
now he's being kind of distant.

EXPLAIN!! please : )

[moonk379]

I invited this guy to a BBQ we had at the bech.
It was a mixture between friends and family [my family]
He said things were kind of awkward. (because he didn't know anyone)

I agree... it was kind of awkward, but
now he's being kind of distant.

EXPLAIN!! please : )

hmmm maybe he talked wit your dad? =] or maybe hes distancin himself becuz he realizes how akward he gets when hes around your family and stuff so hes not tryin to get close to you. or maybe you just think hes bein distant when hes not

[Moody]

ok now you tell me he never liked me more than just a friend..

i kno this is a long read but please bare with me ..........

I was talking to this guy. To me it was just a friends type thing,yet i dont think he saw it like that . We talked for months he'll call daily sometimes 5-6 times a day. Months go by and he decided to ask me " how do you feel about me?". I said like a friend more like a brother if anything , and guess what he says "oh youll changed your mind and never call me your bro". I said nooo i dont think so. Dont think he took me seriously when i said that .

Brithday came and hoildays passed and ill get roses and a bunch of crap[gifts] on my door step. Ill call and say thanks, and to never do that again. btw did i mention he lives 3-5 hrs away from me ? Well he came to visit , which he said many of his friends would come to visit the city. I did let him knows that if he[and friends] were around to feel free to give me a call ill show him around the place. Well he sure did call with a "surprise" .... he shows up alone!

I didnt like that surprise. I did see him for 2 hrs to show him around . And said i had to get back to my personal life,w/ my soon to be bf. I did tell him i liked someone, yet he never did "back off". Anyways soon after the whole visting me crap he said that he got all teary and didnt want to leave, wanting to stay longer. Hell no i wanted him gone! I told him many times if you like me more than a just a friend then you have to forget it. I see you as a brother ! Yet he says noo i dont feel that way [cough cough* bs I was told by his cousin ,best friend/ friends that he liked me a lot]

Few days later things were official with my now bf, and the kid got all " who what where why when".. questioning going on.Dude stopped calling, erased my number and tells all of his friend im a SL*T?

whos wrong here?
how is he going to tell me he never liked me more than just a friend. obviously his little feelings got hurt.

ohhhhh guysss