[moonk379]

Interesting lol...

Question:

Is it better for the girl to keep the convo going or is it better for the guy to do it?
Which do guys prefer?

i usually keep the convo goin but its nice when the girls try to keep it going as well

[mcsn]

i asked this before, but i am still confused.
i have a very great guy friend. he is my classmate and whenever we talk at school, we always end up talking about serious life issues and he always understand the way i feel so, i became to trust him and treat him as really an oppa whom i can look up to. so, i help him with school stuff etc.


now, it's vacation, he just called me asking me out to watch some musical, so i went out with him because he is a friend.
a few days later, he asked me out on a "date" i asked him, why? and he said, is it crazy to ask someone i like out on a date?
i dunno what he means by date? coz first and foremost... he is married...
i actually asked him before going to the musical, why he didn't ask his wife, and he said that his wife is in korea.. so.. and i am the first person he thought of asking. and i said yes, coz i think it was so nice of him to do that.

now i dunno..
we're gonna go out again this week.. (not yet sure..but there are plans..) and i am planning to talk to him about this..
coz some of our common friends (which are my close friends) say to me that i am just taking it seriously..that he is just being nice and he can never do such a thing! that when he ask me again, just go with him coz there's nothing to worry about. and they laughed at me for being so young and so serious.
so.. now..i don't know..

what does "date" mean? is it possible that he is just being friendly? and is there something that i should worry about? i am really confused, coz i don't wanna be accused of thinking malicious things.. (he might think i am thinking too much) i just don't wanna be in a situation where his wife will accuse me coz i don't feel anything for this guy but friendship.

[kelly]

he is horny
just bluntly saying it, i'm so serious

ARE u serious???? Iono I'm not a guy but w/e if ur not going to take my ? seriously....I feel he's not tat low of a person..I mean if tat was the case he would have busted a move on me all those times I ended up sleepin at his place I dun think all men are horndogs...

[predator]

i usually keep the convo goin but its nice when the girls try to keep it going as well

so then...
what would guys like girls to talk about? O.O

[natt2828]

Do shy guys like it when a hot or pretty girl asks them out to a date?

[Laxntiga]

wen you ask a guy why he's pissed he always replies

"nothing" or "nevermind ^"

reason?

Because explaining it to you will make us more angry and/or frustrated. Just forget it, we have big hearts and let time pass. Instead of trying to figure out why, instead bake him some cookies, make him food, take him out to make it all smooth, easy breezy again.

I was talking to my boyfriend. He said him and his ex did pretty much everything. What is that suppose to mean. I mean it can be interpreted in several ways but really from a guys point of view what does it actually mean .___.''

Well... first think in terms of sex. Then all the dating scenes, been to all the places he likes, she likes, did all the things as a couple that he likes, she likes, talked about everything he likes and she likes, etc. etc.

Thanks for answering my last question, I greatly appreciate it. ^-^ It's nice hearing a guy's input on this since I don't have close guy friends.

I have another question that I've been wondering, I hope I'm not asking too much. How could a girlfriend, on her part, try to keep the spark alive between you two? Are there things she could do or things to avoid? Thanks in advance.

lingerie store

say a girl has a crush on a guy who loves to play poker and bball. now and then the girl joins her crush and his boys in poker or knockout. say she wipes him out or eliminates him - would this guy get pissed? impressed? would the girl be lowering her chances to be his gf by playing with the boys, showing some masculinity, and in turn, taking away some of his?

the girl and guy are not close enough for the girl to tease the guy. in the past, she thought they were, but when she teased/mocked him just for fun, the guy got pretty pissed off. should the girl lay off (beat others if she can, just not him), so that he can feel macho?

The first part is a preference question. To me if a girl out performed me, I would want to hang out with her more and learn the tricks-of-the trade. Other guys might just get frustrated and angry (the overly competitive kind).

Second part, uhhhhhhhhh whats with the beating? Play nice and play fair, let the boys win sometimes. Its ok to have a few tricks up your sleeve. If you watch BLEACH, don't bankai all the time, like Madarame.

When does a girl start to get annoying?

When they ask questions like this. This is a preference question, some guys have higher tolerance for annoyance and some don't. Me, I have almost no tolerance. If you're cute, guys will let it pass more often.

Okay, little stupid question here from my side:

It's okay to be this laid-back chick and not have loads of guy-friends right?
So why is it then I'm kinda envious when I see girls who have great personality (!) and loads of guys hanging around her just chillin'?

xD whuahaha, I guess it's okay not to have that many friends after all?

PS: d'you guys like bimbo-airheaded girls?

I hate bimbo's, with a passion. The laid-back chill chick isn't afraid to hang with the guys and speaks her mind, she probably shares some commonalities or interests with the guys she's hanging with as well.... prolly dealing with sports, beer, cars or other macho stuff like that.

Are guys embarrassed to date younger girls?
For example.. If they were a senior and the girl was a freshman in High school.

No, if we really like her we wouldn't be ashamed of everything. However, I hope there isn't a drastic age gap unless both parties are over the age of... lets say 21.

Interesting lol...

Question:

Is it better for the girl to keep the convo going or is it better for the guy to do it?
Which do guys prefer?

I personally don't really care. If something comes to mind i'll say it, if not then don't waste the air. Same goes for the girl, if she incessantly talks about nothing important she's going to get the gag order.

A guy tells you that he was in love wit his ex. gf thats why he couldn't let you be apart of his life but now he is over her and needs you. Is he foreal? Can he be trusted? b/c the whole time I knew him he was still in love wit her but now he said he is over her.

If he is a man and says its over, its over. Men have integrity.

i asked this before, but i am still confused.
i have a very great guy friend. he is my classmate and whenever we talk at school, we always end up talking about serious life issues and he always understand the way i feel so, i became to trust him and treat him as really an oppa whom i can look up to. so, i help him with school stuff etc.
now, it's vacation, he just called me asking me out to watch some musical, so i went out with him because he is a friend.
a few days later, he asked me out on a "date" i asked him, why? and he said, is it crazy to ask someone i like out on a date?
i dunno what he means by date? coz first and foremost... he is married...
i actually asked him before going to the musical, why he didn't ask his wife, and he said that his wife is in korea.. so.. and i am the first person he thought of asking. and i said yes, coz i think it was so nice of him to do that.

now i dunno..
we're gonna go out again this week.. (not yet sure..but there are plans..) and i am planning to talk to him about this..
coz some of our common friends (which are my close friends) say to me that i am just taking it seriously..that he is just being nice and he can never do such a thing! that when he ask me again, just go with him coz there's nothing to worry about. and they laughed at me for being so young and so serious.
so.. now..i don't know..

what does "date" mean? is it possible that he is just being friendly? and is there something that i should worry about? i am really confused, coz i don't wanna be accused of thinking malicious things.. (he might think i am thinking too much) i just don't wanna be in a situation where his wife will accuse me coz i don't feel anything for this guy but friendship.

Ok, I saw the word "friend" so I just skipped to the bottom. When I mean "date" it means I want to get to know you better and I want to provide you the opportunity to get to know me better. Its just meddling around to see if we are compatible. If we are, and I am attracted and interested maybe I'll ask you out again. Its ok to go out with someone, it doesn't mean you two are automatically a couple. If he asks to be exclusive and you agree, then you are bf and gf in a closed relationship.

Don't worry about hurting anyone's feelings, its stupid and a waste of time, people get over it with time. Enjoy the food, activities and company. It's a date, not marriage. Live life to the fullest, never settle and don't be afraid to get what you want.

[ditsy88]

I know guys find it cute when a girl approach them first. Let say if you and a girl make eyes contact across the room/hall/street for a few time, and the girl walk up to you and start a little convo. What should she say to make it sound friendly and not weird? I find it really hard to start a convo with a stranger. I have no idea what to talk about beside saying hello first. =/

[Laxntiga]

Do shy guys like it when a hot or pretty girl asks them out to a date?

Do shy girls like it when a hot or cute guy asks them out to a date?

I know guys find it cute when a girl approach them first. Let say if you and a girl make eyes contact across the room/hall/street for a few time, and the girl walk up to you and start a little convo. What should she say to make it sound friendly and not weird? I find it really hard to start a convo with a stranger. I have no idea what to talk about beside saying hello first. =/

"hey handsome, i saw you starring at me from across the room, you know......... its rude to just stare"

[chellenaruto1990]

if u have like a REALLY close guy friend, wat r some signs that he might like u?
like some general signs. or specific ones would be nice too. hehe.
second, wat do guys think of grls who eat alot and arent afraid to eat a lot? but shes skinny. is that okie?

[Laxntiga]

if u have like a REALLY close guy friend, wat r some signs that he might like u?
like some general signs. or specific ones would be nice too. hehe.
second, wat do guys think of grls who eat alot and arent afraid to eat a lot? but shes skinny. is that okie?

If the guy tries to kiss you or try to get some one-on-one time... you'll feel the sexual tension. The way he looks at you, his body language, his tone, etc. etc.
Depending on how much the girl eats... I mean if she eats everything in site, including my own food... we might have some trouble. I love skinny girls, esp who know how to eat (what to eat, how to eat) and cook.

[j'adoreAZNpop]

what's a good "just friends only" way to ask a guy to the movies (Ocean Thirteen for example)?
i just want to chill with him that's all...nothing romantic.

[moonk379]

what's a good "just friends only" way to ask a guy to the movies (Ocean Thirteen for example)?
i just want to chill with him that's all...nothing romantic.

hmmm if hes interested in you watsoever theres no way you can say lets go to movies without him thinkin otherwise so its best to go in 3's or more

[j'adoreAZNpop]

hey moonk379,

can i ask something like "hey ____, wanna chill and go see Ocean Thirteen on June 26?"
and if he says sure, ill then add "cool. do you have some friends interested as well?"

OR two questions together:

"hey ___, do you and some of your friends wanna chill and go see Ocean Thirteen on June 26?"

[ultaeja]

Would it be bad to tell a guy that you like him when he has his someone special already? Well, even if it's bad, do you guys think that the guy would still want to know? (sorry. Dumb question )

[RiderKamen]

Would it be bad to tell a guy that you like him when he has his someone special already? Well, even if it's bad, do you guys think that the guy would still want to know? (sorry. Dumb question )

uuuummm.

I really don't know how to answer this one either. It would just means he'll know what he didn't know lol
But props for you to have guts and say what's on your mind.

[the;andro]

is it okay to approach a guy? is it desperate? how do i do it in not a desperate manner?


what is the guy thinking if we met only for a few mins, and throughout a month after that ( we didnt keep in contact) he's asking my friend how i am doing and then asks for my msn (after 1 month), talks to me on msn, and asks for my number and says that we should go out together sometime. we have absolutely no clue about each other whatsoever.

[babigurl]

why do guys think about boobs and butts so much? i have been told it is a natural thing, it is registered in their heads without being taught. why is that? i just cant understand...

[dove]

how often do guys say they really like you and really mean it ?

[RiderKamen]

how often do guys say they really like you and really mean it ?

depends on the guy
I think us men in general are direct whether telling the truth or lying (not always true; but in general)

I know I'm straightfoward and some think I'm too serious lol

[Inevitable]

is it okay to approach a guy? is it desperate? how do i do it in not a desperate manner?
what is the guy thinking if we met only for a few mins, and throughout a month after that ( we didnt keep in contact) he's asking my friend how i am doing and then asks for my msn (after 1 month), talks to me on msn, and asks for my number and says that we should go out together sometime. we have absolutely no clue about each other whatsoever.

It's okay to approach a guy, not desperate at all. Just be yourself, don't try too hard to impress us.
He probably wants to learn more about you, probably catch up a little.

why do guys think about boobs and butts so much? i have been told it is a natural thing, it is registered in their heads without being taught. why is that? i just cant understand...

Because round things catch our eyes. I can't give a direct answer, not all guys think about boobs and butts all the time, but If i can take a guess, they're something we don't have (besides the butt) so it's automatically amusing. Although, some guys have manboobs, but boobs definitely look better on a girl. I guess the world may never know.