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#1451 User is offline   <3 bubeehlicious 

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 09:10 PM

so.. this may seem like a stupid question but yeah it got me wondering..

well anyways, is it safe to say that a guy is not interested say if he got a girl's email for two days n does not email her or add her on msn?



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Posted 27 June 2007 - 09:12 PM

QUOTE(강유미 @ Jun 27 2007, 01:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Haunt or hunt? Because we don't shoot girls down.
Oh, I get it.

Actually, I don't get it.


like find out more about you, and try to get in contact with you.
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#1453 User is offline   brianie1004 

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 09:17 PM

why does some men persue the relationship for the heck of it when HE KNOWS its pointless (pointless on the guy side not the girl). n it gives the girl HOPE that it would actually WORK OUT. when everything gets complicated like how the guy IMAGINE it will be, he just walk away without even trying to work it out. the girl on the other hand was left with a broken heart and been wondering what the h.ell went wrong.

WHY??!?!?!

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#1454 User is offline   Stevent 

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 09:18 PM

QUOTE(j'adoreAZNpop @ Jun 28 2007, 12:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey again guys~ i have two questions~

1. plz tell if the following email is in a casual and "just two classmates hanging out" style or not lol

"hey ____, thanks for dance at prom! and here's our pic! ... (insert link)... sorry the quality turned out so blurry :S
newayz, do you wanna chill sometime? are you interested in a lunch+movie this july 3?"

or should i leave out the pic part since i think it might offend him?

"hey ____, thanks for dance at prom! do you wanna chill sometime? are you interested in a lunch+movie this july 3?"

2. if he says yes, should we just arrive seperately at the restaurant?

Do you like this guy or have a thing for him? Sorry to burst your bubble, but he just doesnt seem that interested in you. But, if what you said is true that you just want to be his friend, then just tell him here's the prom pictures and tell him that you guys should kick it sometime. If he responds with a "Yeah, we should" then tell him about the movie get together.

QUOTE(<3 bubeehlicious @ Jun 28 2007, 12:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so.. this may seem like a stupid question but yeah it got me wondering..

well anyways, is it safe to say that a guy is not interested say if he got a girl's email for two days n does not email her or add her on msn?

there is a lot of variables that come into effect. He's busy, out of town, no access to the internet, playing the waiting game, etc...
QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 09:31 PM

How do you make your ex stop calling you?
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Posted 27 June 2007 - 09:39 PM

what does it mean when a guy tells you that he has an "invisible girlfriend"? huh.gif

I met this guy at a bonfire about a month ago & we ended up becoming pretty good friends. But then, out of nowhere, he says he wants to bring dinner to me one day while I'm at work because he says I'm too unhealthy. sleep.gif lol i asked him "won't your gf mind if you're bringing dinner to other girls? shouldn't you be out having dinner with her?" His response: "She's like an invisible gf. She exists. She won't care if we have dinner together."

...i don't get it. he lost me somewhere between the invisible gf existing thing...someone care to translate what this guy is is talking about? XP


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Posted 28 June 2007 - 01:47 AM

QUOTE(Sp0iL3d_Br8t @ Jun 27 2007, 10:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How do you make your ex stop calling you?
first of all, don't take advice lol; take everything with a grain of salt.Tell him to:stop calling or you'll call the police.stop calling or you'll call your parents on him.stop calling or you'll get some guys to make him stop callinghey, I want to use a strap-on you LMAO (most guys will run)hey, I just got pregnant by you (most young guys will run)and the expensive way to get out of it, call the company to block his phone number.
QUOTE(kathy @ Jun 27 2007, 10:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what does it mean when a guy tells you that he has an "invisible girlfriend"? huh.gif I met this guy at a bonfire about a month ago & we ended up becoming pretty good friends. But then, out of nowhere, he says he wants to bring dinner to me one day while I'm at work because he says I'm too unhealthy. sleep.gif lol i asked him "won't your gf mind if you're bringing dinner to other girls? shouldn't you be out having dinner with her?" His response: "She's like an invisible gf. She exists. She won't care if we have dinner together." ...i don't get it. he lost me somewhere between the invisible gf existing thing...someone care to translate what this guy is is talking about? XP
I really don't know (honest)but what I got from your post is that he's taking advantage of his gf and his gf trust in him. Fellas can you answer this one?


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Posted 28 June 2007 - 01:58 AM

Quick question: (maybe not) tongue.gif

Is it a sign he likes you if it's obvious he signs on and off MSN in sync with your sign in and off time (right after you sign in and goes offline a few moments after you go offline). And yes, I do wait around to see if he does it. ph34r.gif
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#1459 User is offline   bLiSSfUL<3 

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 02:46 AM

This guy I'm kinda (not really, just interested) seeing totally blurts out, "damn, you're so fine" randomly to me.
I was wearing a top and a jacket, nothing really hot about it.
Like he doesnt do it once, he does it like.. 3 times in one hour.
I tell him to shuttup cause it's weird.. am I being insecure? or is he just playing with me.
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Posted 28 June 2007 - 10:02 AM

QUOTE(<vanity> @ Jun 28 2007, 04:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Quick question: (maybe not) tongue.gif

Is it a sign he likes you if it's obvious he signs on and off MSN in sync with your sign in and off time (right after you sign in and goes offline a few moments after you go offline). And yes, I do wait around to see if he does it. ph34r.gif


Yes..... Enough said... At the very least (very very least) he has no one better to talk to than you. He's your favorite person to talk to. So he probably really likes you. Because I kind of do that to girls I like (creepy as it may sound) so yes he does like you.

QUOTE(bLiSSfUL<3 @ Jun 28 2007, 05:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
This guy I'm kinda (not really, just interested) seeing totally blurts out, "damn, you're so fine" randomly to me.
I was wearing a top and a jacket, nothing really hot about it.
Like he doesnt do it once, he does it like.. 3 times in one hour.
I tell him to shuttup cause it's weird.. am I being insecure? or is he just playing with me.

Hmmm.... he's probably a little uncomfortable around you and goes around complimenting you because that's his fallback plan. Maybe he's just teasing you, but it really depends I guess.


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Posted 28 June 2007 - 10:43 AM

Lol this is pretty cool read first couple pages smile.gif I'll help out as well
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#1462 User is offline   j'adoreAZNpop 

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 11:32 AM

if a girl from class adds you on facebook but also adds you on MSN messenger (you got your email displayed on your facebook page), would you be freaked out?
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Posted 28 June 2007 - 11:59 AM

QUOTE(Osakagrl @ Jun 27 2007, 09:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Re-Post: ^^;;

Ok, So I followed the advice of a reply here and i was going to kiss my bf. And then...........i chickened out. but the suprising thing was before i was about to go home, my bf suddenly kissed me! I was so so happy! We both said we loved each other, hugged goodbye and then i went home. but then a weird thing happened.....once i got home...usually my bf IMMEDIATLY logs onto MSN and then he talks to me...but this time he didnt. he didnt talk to me at all.....and all he would do is send me messages when i was offline. now my bf is a super shy guy but does that have anything to do with his behavior? It was my first kiss ever so I am just confused at these signs and I automatically think the worst :X

I find that incredibly cute haha
I say you're fine. Maybe the reason he didn't sign in right away is because you two have both moved onto the next level. What you two IMed each other now is expressed by kissing (or more intimate level) ^_ ~
Just don't forget to encourage him for his good behavior. Encouragement from a girlfriend gives so much confidence to guys!

QUOTE(kodou @ Jun 27 2007, 09:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
err i'm a girl and i actually want to watch transformers :]

anyway, this has probably been asked several times.
what do guys feel about girls who've never had boyfriends before?
nothing? or do they feel special? elaborate please :]

I'm actually dating a girl that's never had a boyfriend before.
It has its good sides and not so good sides.
I feel like she's very honest and open about what she does with me and how she feels about me.
I also like how she takes everything we do into perspective and makes every little thing something to remember.
It's great to know that you were the first to go to a park together, hold hands in a more intimate way, kiss, etc.
It's cute because I don't have much experience either, but she relies on me to lead.
Its really cute to see her so nervous, but curious about this "boyfriend" person of hers. It makes me want to do my best.
But I do feel like she's a little insecure.
I consistently have to remind her that I have focused so much attention on her that it's impossible for me to want or desire another girl. Not that this is a bad thing, but I do take things a lot slower with her. Even though I feel as though we've passed the point where we can go to the next level, I want to make sure that she's 100% ready to get to the next level too. Requires a LOT of patience and guesstimating.

It's a great experience for me too, because I feel like she's the one worth waiting for.

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 12:24 PM

okay, my girl best friend asked my used-to-be guy best friend (who i was pretty close to) if he ever liked me and he said no because he can't like his best friend. but right now he has this new best friend (since he moved and it seems like he's not that close as in friendship) and he likes her. but he about me that he can't like his best friend but he likes his current best friend...so i'm confused...so is he making up excuses for not liking me?
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Posted 28 June 2007 - 01:30 PM

how would you guys feel if you had an exgf that is now neglecting and hates your guts cuz u were a total jerk and broke up in bad terms, but you had really liked her before? and what would you do about it? (like try to talk to her?)

and another question, how do you feel about girls hitting you (like for saying something stupid?) haha..

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 02:21 PM

QUOTE(Inevitable @ Jun 27 2007, 02:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think he may have gotten frightened by the way you reacted to the gift that him and your friends got you. I'm guessing he probably planned that for a while only to feel unappreciated by your reaction. Honestly, i'm thinking he wants a little apology, that's just my guess.



well actually i did apologize to him, because he got mad and actually threw the balloon that he got me away... so i followed him to his car and apologized to him, and explained to him that i was upset because i felt that he had 'led me on' by telling me he got me a gift that expensive when we're not really dating. so he tells me that if i wanted him to get me something i should have told him (which confused me because like i said i had ASSUMED he had gotten me something anyways based on what he said).

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 02:48 PM

1. Is it true that if a guy really likes a girl, they will ask her out?

2. Do guys believe in soulmate?

3. If a girl told you she dreamed about you, what will you do if you dreamed about her too? Will you think that you guys are soulmate???
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Posted 28 June 2007 - 03:08 PM

QUOTE(susongie @ Jun 28 2007, 05:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1. Is it true that if a guy really likes a girl, they will ask her out?

2. Do guys believe in soulmate?

3. If a girl told you she dreamed about you, what will you do if you dreamed about her too? Will you think that you guys are soulmate???


1. Absolutely incorrect.... Guys are too insecure, too nervous, and what not. Besides there are other factors... such as if she likes him back or not...

2. It depends on the guy, but most guys will say they do just to say that they do.... Most guys seem not to mean it (I'm judging this off my friends so don't kill me) Though there are guys that geniunely believe in it.

3. I dream about my friends, my friends dream about me..... No big deal nessicarily. But dreams are made up of your thoughts and feelings so it really depends also in which secnario you're put in.

Like my friend and I both had a dream where we saw each other at a baseball game and played catch... (She's a girl, and oddly enough we had very similar dreams) (Although it should be noted we actually were both going to a baseball game of both of our friends and I asked her if she would bring her glove to play catch....

So like situations like that doesn't mean she's my soulmate. But rather we had memories and feelings that accumulated into a dream that happened to be what we were planning to do.



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Posted 28 June 2007 - 03:08 PM

When a guy wants to get back together with an ex and he says he's changed, how often is that true?

QUOTE(blindboi @ May 16 2007, 07:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
never


well.. i wouldnt exactly say never... i mean i know a boi who really did o.O it's just RARE =]
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Posted 28 June 2007 - 03:26 PM

Here's are some questions for the Fellas out there...

Question 1:

How much older would you date a girl? And how much younger?


Question 2:

Say you have an ex-girlfriend who gets along better with you now that you guys are not a couple anymore... you get along with her wayyy better than you do with your current girlfriend, all the while your current girlfriend seems to be pms-y more and more and a bit ditzier than when you first hooked up. Would you be tempted to leave your current girlfriend and maybe have a potential in hooking up with your ex-girlfriend?


Question 3:

You have a girlfriend. She introduces you to her friends after dating you for few months. And you realize, one of her bestest friends is your perfect ideal girl that you've been dreaming about since your first wet dream. What would you do?


I await your reply =D

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