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#151 CIRee

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 04:03 PM

QUOTE(pencil_geeks* @ May 17 2007, 04:59 PM)

okay.. do guys know when they cross the like as far as crazy/stalker status? i.e: when they texts, IMs, calls you too much or does a girl has to tell him that. that's hard for me to tell people like that things because i'm quiet terse. i hurt people w. my words because i cant beat around the bush.

guys like that are clueless.

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#152 chishifu

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 05:16 PM

QUOTE(impulsive* @ May 17 2007, 01:58 PM)

Why do guys tell girls to eat but they won't eat? <<

And

Girls tell their friends/S.S to sleep but they end getting mad, why?

to your first question... because when guys eat... it isn't pretty. Girls on the other hand just eat salads all day so it's ok

to your second question... i have no idea why girls do that.

QUOTE(xxkklxx @ May 17 2007, 06:40 AM)

another question =D haha see if can tackle this...

why does a guy who has a gf for like 3yrs still treat a close friend(girl) more than a friend...? as in they make it seem like they love their friend more than thier gf...but really he loves his gf more o.O and no he's not a player....

because gf's come and go but a close female friend will always be there for you

#153 BuckNasty

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 05:17 PM

QUOTE(hippiehop @ May 17 2007, 02:34 PM)

How big of a deal is losing virginity for a guy?

Depends on the guy.
I know guys who've cared less and I know guys who took it really seriously.

QUOTE(momoiro pescii)

1. Do guys take "pride" in their facial hair? Some guys I know are too stubborn to shave their beard off.
2. What crosses their minds while they're talking to girls face-to-face usually?
3. From my experience, it seems as if guys (surprisingly) observe everything about a girl's face. Is this true for most men?

1. We take pride in everything. Clean cut is the way to go though.
2. "Don't make an ass of yourself, don't make an ass of yourself"
3. I observe based on how much I "feel" the girl. Guys have this tendency to not pay attention to details, but once in awhile we will.

Of course, the idea that Kobe is better than Jordan -- or even the best player in this league -- is as repugnant to some folks as a rectal exam. - Jemele Hill, ESPN

#154 haibaragi

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 05:22 PM

what does it mean when a guy notices every little detail about you? this guy in my calc class (haha, nice class to pick up chicks) asks me questions like "have you lost weight" or "what is wrong with your flip flops, they're mutant" (they're zebra print in baby blue) and other shi*t. sometimes i even catch him looking at my legs when i wear minidresses

i donno what to make of it all since he has a gf

#155 BuckNasty

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 05:27 PM

QUOTE(haibaragi @ May 17 2007, 06:22 PM)

i donno what to make of it all since he has a gf

What does it mean when a guy takes time to observe every little detail?
Pretty obvious to me.

Anyway, how do the ladies feel when they catch a guy checking them out? I'm guilty of this.

Of course, the idea that Kobe is better than Jordan -- or even the best player in this league -- is as repugnant to some folks as a rectal exam. - Jemele Hill, ESPN

#156 Bellatrix

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 05:30 PM

What if your best guy friend says I love you and then laughs and says yeah right. What is going through his mind? Do guys joke about those things easily? Or is he afraid something might go wrong with that?

There will never be a winner to the battle of the sexes; there is too much fraternizing with the enemy. -Henry Kissinger

#157 chishifu

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 05:35 PM

QUOTE(Bellatrix @ May 17 2007, 06:30 PM)

very dependent upon the guy, but I personally don't joke about those things. As he's your best friend, it's up to your best judgment.

#158 BuckNasty

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 05:37 PM

QUOTE(Bellatrix @ May 17 2007, 06:30 PM)

I don't believe in platonic relationships.
So I think someone is hiding something.

Of course, the idea that Kobe is better than Jordan -- or even the best player in this league -- is as repugnant to some folks as a rectal exam. - Jemele Hill, ESPN

#159 Stevent

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 05:42 PM

QUOTE(Bellatrix @ May 17 2007, 08:30 PM)

His motives were probabilty just to make a joke to lighten the mood. Yes, we do joke about these things easily since we do have commitment issues. I don't know what you are trying to say in your last question.

QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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#160 Bellatrix

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 05:57 PM

QUOTE(Stevent @ May 17 2007, 08:42 PM)

The thing that bothers me a bit is that he does joke around but he's never joked about love until that moment.

the last part of my question is... is he taking what he said back in case I freak out and run away from him? Like is he afraid of losing the friendship if he said that?

There will never be a winner to the battle of the sexes; there is too much fraternizing with the enemy. -Henry Kissinger

#161 xreminisce

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 06:00 PM

[1] whats with guys and "the new girl"?
[2] erms- what does it mean when a guy talks to you on the phone til like 4 am and says stuff like
"yur the only girl i ever had feelings for" or "yur teh only one that mattered to me"- but when you ask
him about who he likes- he denies, denies, denies. then when we talk he mentions a second try and i luagh it off and
say "you and i both know it'll never happen"... and he replies in a weird voice ._." (oh yeah- hes my ex to >.> and he went out with BOTH of my best friends after we broke up *cough*_

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#162 Stevent

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 06:07 PM

QUOTE(Bellatrix @ May 17 2007, 08:57 PM)

He is taking it back because it is sort of a way of him telling you that he loves you, but doesnt want the mushy effect to happen so he says it in a k=jokingliy way. Not very much that he is afraid of losing the friendship, it's how you would interpret what he said.

QUOTE(xreminisce @ May 17 2007, 09:00 PM)

1) new girl = new opportunities
2) the answer is all in the context.

QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 06:13 PM

Oh my gah! Finally!!! A guy's pov on stuff! xD

How do I show a guy that I hate having to be the one to lower my pride [ie. spoiling him (like actually just do anything he asks me to do), ask for forgiveness (even if I didn't do shiiit), always have to watch for his mood and act according to it, etc.] all the time- without hurting his pride?

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EDIT|| Why do guys feel the need to show off their new girls?

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#164 BuckNasty

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 06:15 PM

QUOTE(-JAYee_o4 @ May 17 2007, 07:13 PM)

You know this sounds like a conversation I would have with my friend about his girl.
Just tell the guy. Straight up. If he gets butthurt...then damn, not much of a guy if you ask me.

Of course, the idea that Kobe is better than Jordan -- or even the best player in this league -- is as repugnant to some folks as a rectal exam. - Jemele Hill, ESPN

#165 Stevent

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 06:16 PM

QUOTE(-JAYee_o4 @ May 17 2007, 09:13 PM)

stop giving into his request.

QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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#166 hiswendy

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 06:17 PM

Wow fast reply too! =) Thanks. If he gets mad at me, I'm blaming you *fist shake in the air* LOL I kid. xD I appreciate your advice, and I'll try. If he gets mad... LOL, well, he always does anyway ._.

EDIT|| stevent: But but buuuuuut...!!!

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#167 BuckNasty

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 06:18 PM

QUOTE(-JAYee_o4 @ May 17 2007, 07:13 PM)

EDIT|| Why do guys feel the need to show off their new girls?

Because every man's dream is a trophy wife.

Of course, the idea that Kobe is better than Jordan -- or even the best player in this league -- is as repugnant to some folks as a rectal exam. - Jemele Hill, ESPN

#168 hiswendy

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 06:19 PM

QUOTE(BuckNasty @ May 17 2007, 10:18 PM)

Because every man's dream is a trophy wife.

Ahh. Understandable. xD

Aww, hahaha, I feel special! LOL Thank you!

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#169 Stevent

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 06:26 PM

QUOTE(-JAYee_o4 @ May 17 2007, 09:17 PM)

but what? Us guys are really simple. If you dont get us what we need, we just go get it ourselves. He is just lazy just like another guy out there.

QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 17 May 2007 - 06:29 PM

QUOTE(Stevent @ May 17 2007, 10:26 PM)

but what? Us guys are really simple. If you dont get us what we need, we just go get it ourselves. He is just lazy just like another guy out there.

It's not actually getting an actual item that he asks me to get... or something like that. And AWW, he'll get mad >__< ..O__o I've turned into such a big wuss. TT_TT

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