QUOTE(xshanshanx @ Jul 2 2007, 11:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
im sorry if this sounds like a stupid question, but what does it mean when a guy just randomly sits next to you? yesterday was the first day of summer classes, and most of us dont know eachother. There was a whole room of empty chairs and basically the girls went on one side and the guys went on the other. i didnt really care where i sat so i just sat away from everyone, but this one guy chose a seat one away from me, but then he looked up at me and decided to sit right next to me. He kept lookin at me like he wanted to talk, but then this girl introduced herself to me and i didnt have the time to talk to the guy because we had to switch to the lecture hall because the room was way too small to fit everyone.
I didnt get to talk to him after that, but does it mean anything if he decided to sit next to me? i mean there were a LOT of empty seats... i asked my bro about this already and he said the guy probably just wanted a seat and didnt want to be lonely. I did notice that the guy was very shy and didnt talk a lot.
It all depends on the situation, but it could mean anything. You think a lot, lol, you're just like me. Just try to find a good opportunity to talk to him, i.e. asking him for an eraser or something, then start talking about casual things. Try not to think too much and just go for it, it's the best way.
QUOTE(lily-chan @ Jul 2 2007, 11:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do you guys sometimes get teased/laughed at by your other guy friends when you choose an average looking girl over a more attractive girl? Or are you more likely to choose the more attractive girl in fear of being laughed at? (peer pressure would be the words).
I'd go for whoever I'd love most. I don't choose based on other people's decisions, but on mine. If I love the average looking girl, then I'll go with her. And, if my guy friends joke about it, it's understandable because between friends, we always want to have fun and tease each other. Plus, they don't even know the girl so they judging solely on looks.
QUOTE(kimchii @ Jul 2 2007, 07:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I like this guy...
me- korean, turned 16
him- chinese, going on 22 and in uni... LOL
we work at the same place and we have conversed a few times... and i want to ask him out tomorrow! haha is that weird?
he knows i'm 16, and he knows that i know how old HE is... so is that too big of a gap?
when we talk i can feel that he's interested too, but i'm not 100% sure... since the place we can "talk" is our break room and there's always a lot of other ppl around >_>;;;
he says i'm too tall for my age and that i don't look it XD
so what do you guys think? should i give it a shot? haha thanks.
me- korean, turned 16
him- chinese, going on 22 and in uni... LOL
we work at the same place and we have conversed a few times... and i want to ask him out tomorrow! haha is that weird?
he knows i'm 16, and he knows that i know how old HE is... so is that too big of a gap?
when we talk i can feel that he's interested too, but i'm not 100% sure... since the place we can "talk" is our break room and there's always a lot of other ppl around >_>;;;
he says i'm too tall for my age and that i don't look it XD
so what do you guys think? should i give it a shot? haha thanks.
That's a big gap! 7 years, wow. But, it depends on your maturity as well. My philosophy is that we live only once. I'd give it a shot, because I'd have nothing to lose. However, if he turns you down, and you'll feel a bit embarassed, you'll see him everyday, so you'll have to keep your head high and think of it as just a little try. Don't take refusal personally. You'll regret more by not doing anything than by trying. That's just how I think. You'll get a lift off your chest. Good luck!
since im 6' already
its so hard. i try to talk/make conversations by asking questions but they just answers my question. thats pretty much it :X
you were in a camera booth, c) there were other people there.
