[DarkWaltz]

so to clarify the story:

my friend introduced me to this guy and she told me he was single/broken up with gf. I've only hung out with this guy twice so far and i'm not sure if there is a connection...
Anyway, I found him on myspace and on the marital status section, he put "in a relationship." In the "here for:" section, he only listed friends, networking. Please note: he updated his page a week ago and he does not know i looked at his page

If everything on his myspace is true, then this guy lied about himself being single. why is he being dishonest??

It's very risky to open your feelings to him when he just broke up with his girlfriend. He might use you or start liking you as a rebound to fill the "hole". Did he break up with his girlfriend after he updated? Or before? He might have just forgotten to re-update. Personal details on the internet are very silly. I remember reading a newspaper article regarding the relationship status on facebook, and its meaning. If I were you, I'd give some time and observe. If you find out he is dishonest, don't take any chances.

1. What's the deal with guys not wanting to be in a relationship with a girl (even though they like her) just because it's "summer", or so they say?

2. What thoughts are going through a guy's head when he's on the phone with a girl and suddenly there's silence?

1. I'm actually the opposite, summer is a great time to date. I'm guessing it's because they might want to have some time on their own with their friends, travel around, have some fun, and they don't feel they have the mental power to dedicate to someone. That's just my guess, because I'm not like that.

2. I'd think about anything to say to cut the silence. I tend to look around me to find something funny to say, or I just make funny noises to kill some time.

What kind of things do guys like to talk about during a conversation with a girl?

& what would they like to talk about during a conversation with a girl? O.O

Hey gif girl.

Well, it all depends on the guys. In my case, I try to talk about everything that's happening around me today, and I like to ask a lot about her as well. When I feel like it, I like to talk about deep subjects quite often, but some of my friends (girls) just cannot follow or are not the type to converse back on those things, so I have to keep funny or very casual sometimes. I'd like a girl to be funny and joking a lot, but she also has to be able to talk about deep subjects for a long time, and not just saying anything to try to make some sense, but actually think about it too. Most of the time it's always me speaking and they keep saying "yeah... yeah... that's right... i understand... true..." and it gets boring after a while when you're doing a monologue.

what do guys think of makeup (for an asian girl)?

alot? or
natural?
or none

I love girls without makeup, it looks so natural. Too much makeup is disgusting, but if it's a little bit, it's okay, though I'd prefer without.

[touche`]

I don't want to make a big fuss about this one but on July 1st, I was at a store (Champs) look for shoe. This couple came in and started to look for shoe.. The thing is, I was with my nephew, playing with him until the guy (who have a gf) say "what's up?" to me. I just thought it was weird. I'm not thinking, "Oh, he likes me" or whatever.. Why was it like that? He was trying to be friendly, right? XD And do you guys do that also? Hang out with your girlfriend but say "what's up" to some random girl? o_O

[Rinrinn]

hey guys, I have another question for all of you..
not that something like this happened before.. but i'm just curious.

Scenario:

Say... you are in a relationship with a girl already (note: it doesn't matter whether your gf treats you good, bad.. etcetc). You meet another girl later on in your life (while you are still in your relationship) but you treat her as a friend. However, to you, this girl seems better than your gf (in terms of personality, attitude, appearance.. etc). Sadly, you think to yourself that if you have waited long enough before going into a relationship, you would've met her and have her as your gf instead... but you could only have her as your friend and there is no reason to break up with your current gf because you don't want to break your gf's heart.

My questions are:
How would you feel about this? I don't know what's the best word to describe this feeling.. but would you feel a sense of regret that you didn't wait longer? (-- but i don't think 'regret' is the right word to use.. because you met that girl later on in your life) ... or what?? [edit:] do u think there is anything you could do?? o__O

Thnx!

[edit2:] sorry, i know this is a tough question/situation. =p

[Rinn]

so at work theres this guy (he's taiwanese american btw) and he gives off a lot of mixed signals. I'm not totally sure if he likes me or not. When I talk to him, he gets really shy and he's also offered to give me a ride back home from work from time to time but I'm not sure if he's doing that just to be friendly. However, a lot of the other boys at work tease him and I about liking each other, but I don't know if this is just because we're the only two asians working at the store or because they really see that I like him and he maybe likes me back. When they do this to him basically just gets embarrased or laughs. The thing is, he recently left a facebook message on my wall asking if me if i was going to my town's fireworks because his town's fireworks sucked. So i left him a message and I invited him to come to my town's fireworks. He then messaged me asking for my phone # and he later called me saying he'd let me know if he'd go or not tomorrow. From this whole scenario, do you think theres a possibility that he likes me or is he just being nice?

[sweetl0ve]

do guys prefer a sweet or funny girl? thank yoU!~ ^__________^

[Stevent]

I don't want to make a big fuss about this one but on July 1st, I was at a store (Champs) look for shoe. This couple came in and started to look for shoe.. The thing is, I was with my nephew, playing with him until the guy (who have a gf) say "what's up?" to me. I just thought it was weird. I'm not thinking, "Oh, he likes me" or whatever.. Why was it like that? He was trying to be friendly, right? XD And do you guys do that also? Hang out with your girlfriend but say "what's up" to some random girl? o_O

He was just being friendly. He probably thought you worked there since you were helping a little kid.

hey guys, I have another question for all of you..
not that something like this happened before.. but i'm just curious.

Scenario:

Say... you are in a relationship with a girl already (note: it doesn't matter whether your gf treats you good, bad.. etcetc). You meet another girl later on in your life (while you are still in your relationship) but you treat her as a friend. However, to you, this girl seems better than your gf (in terms of personality, attitude, appearance.. etc). Sadly, you think to yourself that if you have waited long enough before going into a relationship, you would've met her and have her as your gf instead... but you could only have her as your friend and there is no reason to break up with your current gf because you don't want to break your gf's heart.

My questions are:
How would you feel about this? I don't know what's the best word to describe this feeling.. but would you feel a sense of regret that you didn't wait longer? (-- but i don't think 'regret' is the right word to use.. because you met that girl later on in your life) ... or what?? [edit:] do u think there is anything you could do?? o__O

Thnx!

[edit2:] sorry, i know this is a tough question/situation. =p

^ it's not really that tough at all.
1) I would feel happy because I know that as long as I have her as a friend, that's just one step closer to having her as my future gf should the current relationship turn sour.
2) Well you cant really predict the future. Whats the point of waiting when you dont know who comes and goes; and while you're waiting, many opportunities pass you by.
3) There really is nothing you can do...at the moment.

so at work theres this guy (he's taiwanese american btw) and he gives off a lot of mixed signals. I'm not totally sure if he likes me or not. When I talk to him, he gets really shy and he's also offered to give me a ride back home from work from time to time but I'm not sure if he's doing that just to be friendly. However, a lot of the other boys at work tease him and I about liking each other, but I don't know if this is just because we're the only two asians working at the store or because they really see that I like him and he maybe likes me back. When they do this to him basically just gets embarrased or laughs. The thing is, he recently left a facebook message on my wall asking if me if i was going to my town's fireworks because his town's fireworks sucked. So i left him a message and I invited him to come to my town's fireworks. He then messaged me asking for my phone # and he later called me saying he'd let me know if he'd go or not tomorrow. From this whole scenario, do you think theres a possibility that he likes me or is he just being nice?

He has an interest in you.

do guys prefer a sweet or funny girl? thank yoU!~ ^__________^

Why cant I have both

[iWiShIwAsAsIaN]

ok, so my bf broke up with me when he decided he wasnt ready for a relationship. now the only reason he was thinking about it was because his ex threw a fit because she thought we were talking about her and said she couldnt be his friend anymore.

how do you get "not ready for a relationship" out of "the world revolves around me, so i cant be your friend"???

yes, that is his ex, but he didnt say he wasnt over her. he is. we talked about this BEFORE we started going out.

[suahSEEyu]

do alot of guys think that...

girls that are their friends sister.. off limits?

[lily-chan]

I've got a silly question here hehe. Are any of you guys going to admit that you like strawberry ice cream even though its pink? Hehe, my cousins refuse to eat strawberry ice cream because they say its too girly... but I know that deep inside, they love it xD.

[hked]

do alot of guys think that...

girls that are their friends sister.. off limits?

no...not for me anyway


and abt the strawberry ice cream....no..i wont not eat strawberry icecream just coz its pink,

[iEatPowder]

I've got a silly question here hehe. Are any of you guys going to admit that you like strawberry ice cream even though its pink? Hehe, my cousins refuse to eat strawberry ice cream because they say its too girly... but I know that deep inside, they love it xD.

how old is he?!?! grow the heck up!

[lily-chan]

^ lol. they're around 14-15 (still very young). I guess they still have the rights to be like that haha. So from what I'm hearing you're the kind of guy that would walk proudly with pink ice cream? Nice =P~

hked: what? you won't not eat = you will not not eat = you will eat? is that what you meant?

[Simply_M3]

Wow...this thread grew like crazy!

But I have a question!

Well, a friend of a friend told my friend that he turned gay because he was getting tired of girls. I saw his picture and he's super duper hot. And so this leads to my question.

Would you ever get so sick and tired of girls that you'd turn gay?


Yes I know I am asking one heck of an off the wall kind of question but I've always wanted to know the kind of answers from all different kinds of guys.

[hked]

^ lol. they're around 14-15 (still very young). I guess they still have the rights to be like that haha. So from what I'm hearing you're the kind of guy that would walk proudly with pink ice cream? Nice =P~

hked: what? you won't not eat = you will not not eat = you will eat? is that what you meant?

lmao that sounds so complicated....basically ill eat anything regardless of the colour and the impression it gives off

QUESTION

k obviously im a guy, but im interested in knowing how other guys think abt this issue =\

so basically i have this friend, who talks on msn, but ALWAYS logs off without saying bye or nething, like heaps of times ...

chances are im being oversensitive =\.....

[Antz]

another question (:

what does it mean when a guy does something with another girl, but he doesn't do it with his girlfriend? for instance, he webcams with the girl but he has never webcammed with his girlfriend.

thanks boys (:

[inxomnia]

mah friend sed that there are three ways in which a guy shows he likes someone they are ;;

teasing them / being mean

being extremely nice

or

being extremely shy around them


----

is this true cos there are many guys in my grade who are always teasing me and i dun think they all like like me. theyre all making fun of me; making gay nicknames for me and picking on my height (im short ^^") like by resting their arms on my shoulder and trying to tower over me >.<"

and ill just be like -.- and they continue to do it and it provokes me to sook or pout etc and then they keep making fun of me >.<"

[h2o24]

Wow...this thread grew like crazy!

But I have a question!

Well, a friend of a friend told my friend that he turned gay because he was getting tired of girls. I saw his picture and he's super duper hot. And so this leads to my question.

Would you ever get so sick and tired of girls that you'd turn gay?
Yes I know I am asking one heck of an off the wall kind of question but I've always wanted to know the kind of answers from all different kinds of guys.

That will never happen. For me at least.

lmao that sounds so complicated....basically ill eat anything regardless of the colour and the impression it gives off

QUESTION

k obviously im a guy, but im interested in knowing how other guys think abt this issue =\

so basically i have this friend, who talks on msn, but ALWAYS logs off without saying bye or nething, like heaps of times ...

chances are im being oversensitive =\.....

yeah that's pretty rude, but you'll eventually get used to it if this friend always does it

another question (:

what does it mean when a guy does something with another girl, but he doesn't do it with his girlfriend? for instance, he webcams with the girl but he has never webcammed with his girlfriend.

thanks boys (:

either they're really close and he's already been doing that with the other girl, or something strange is going on. oh also, maybe the girlfriend never asked him to use the webcam, so he doesnt feel the need to.

[Inevitable]

mah friend sed that there are three ways in which a guy shows he likes someone they are ;;

teasing them / being mean

being extremely nice

or

being extremely shy around them
----

is this true cos there are many guys in my grade who are always teasing me and i dun think they all like like me. theyre all making fun of me; making gay nicknames for me and picking on my height (im short ^^") like by resting their arms on my shoulder and trying to tower over me >.<"

and ill just be like -.- and they continue to do it and it provokes me to sook or pout etc and then they keep making fun of me >.<"

what your friend said is somewhat true, but there are a lot more ways than just those. The guys picking on you seem to be young, so they're probably just messing with you

[angel_b3k]

I was wondering this...

Everyone knows how girls [or most girls] wait for a guy's text, call, reply etc.
Even if it isn't their special someone or even when they're not interested in that person.

But for guys...do they wait like what girls do?
Most of my guy friends take quite a while to reply to text messages..even when they text me first.
Is it because they don't want to seem like they're waiting or noticing..
or is it because they can't be bothered to reply ASAP?

Its been questioning me..haha
Thanks <3

[twinkle_l0ve]

QUESTION

k obviously im a guy, but im interested in knowing how other guys think abt this issue =\

so basically i have this friend, who talks on msn, but ALWAYS logs off without saying bye or nething, like heaps of times ...

chances are im being oversensitive =\.....

LOL awww.. thats funny and cute~
do it back to your friend!!