Ask The Fellas discuss about behaviors and relationships from male P.O.V.
#1751
Posted 05 July 2007 - 11:24 AM
Do guys like girls who can dance?
#1752
Posted 05 July 2007 - 03:38 PM
I mean, wtf kind of cop-out saying is that, "I heart you." sheesh
Don't even say anything if you're going to say something stupid like that.
#1753
Posted 05 July 2007 - 04:16 PM
No, cheating = a no no even if you could get a way with it. The guilt will eat away at you.
it doesnt matter because I will do most of the driving anyways
Do guys like girls who can dance?
it doesnt matter to me
I mean, wtf kind of cop-out saying is that, "I heart you." sheesh
Don't even say anything if you're going to say something stupid like that.
#1755
Posted 05 July 2007 - 04:50 PM
be a sign of disinterest?
it's not really disinterest because he can get back to you in 5 minutes because you will still be there, whereas his character in the game that he is playing might die.
#1756
Posted 05 July 2007 - 05:06 PM
hahaha it just bothers me. i'm asking is that something meaningful that a guy would actually say?
#1757
Posted 05 July 2007 - 05:09 PM
unless he was kidding, yes he meant it
#1758
Posted 05 July 2007 - 05:10 PM
lol and if he says it to just about EVERY girl? what about then? XD
#1759
Posted 05 July 2007 - 06:27 PM
- personally, pale girls or tanned girls?
- tatoo or no tatoo (for a girl)?
**Locking up Pandora's Box**
#1760
Posted 05 July 2007 - 06:30 PM
-as long as they arent ignorant about the diet theyre doing, and it's healthy, then I don't mind
-I prefer both, but not extremely tanned
-that would depend on the type of tattoo, not really a negative or positive for me though
#1761
Posted 05 July 2007 - 06:43 PM
Do guys like girls who can dance?
hell yes strip dance
#1762
Posted 05 July 2007 - 07:09 PM
but, do guys hate quiet girls?? I mean, like, if a guy tries to talk to a girl and the girl barely speaks...?? xO
#1763
Posted 05 July 2007 - 07:12 PM
just a scenario to ask u guys..i happen to know this guy, he has been very nice to me initially, smsing me everydae, asking me out for dines and movies, drinks...we can chat, but he is a very shy guy..always very deep in thoughts...when we talk, it always seem he wans to tell me something but he seems to hold back...
but recently, it seems that we arent talking anymore..it could be due to religion and age...he became very cold suddenly...though he still notices my actions and while i am speaking to others, i can feel that he is listening to too...
hmmm wats really up..? Why are guys so shy when they are near the ger they like? guys, will u always be in deep thoughts when u speak/interact with the ger u like?
#1764
Posted 05 July 2007 - 07:20 PM
then obviously he's kidding if he can throw that term around.
- personally, pale girls or tanned girls?
- tatoo or no tatoo (for a girl)?
1) as long as they are trying to eat healthy
2) tanned
2) either way, but if a girl has tattoos all over her body then it's a turn off
but, do guys hate quiet girls?? I mean, like, if a guy tries to talk to a girl and the girl barely speaks...?? xO
no, it'll take some time and hard work, but im pretty sure I can crack open her shell
just a scenario to ask u guys..i happen to know this guy, he has been very nice to me initially, smsing me everydae, asking me out for dines and movies, drinks...we can chat, but he is a very shy guy..always very deep in thoughts...when we talk, it always seem he wans to tell me something but he seems to hold back...
but recently, it seems that we arent talking anymore..it could be due to religion and age...he became very cold suddenly...though he still notices my actions and while i am speaking to others, i can feel that he is listening to too...
hmmm wats really up..? Why are guys so shy when they are near the ger they like? guys, will u always be in deep thoughts when u speak/interact with the ger u like?
1) Not sure because we have to be him, in order to tell you what's wrong with him
2) confidence issues
3) No, Ill pay more attention to her and zone out later on my own time.
#1765
Posted 05 July 2007 - 07:30 PM
I went out with this guy who was a year younger than me @ church. One of the guys who is 2 years younger than me would keep on talking about him to others or start a topic about him whenever I'm around to either piss me off or annoy me. Those topics were either about oh he's probably cheating with another girl in korea (cause he went to korea for the summer), or he's a player blah blah. I just laughed or shook it off cause I didn't want to mind those things. Well, after a year? we broke up. The kid who would always be talking about the guy I went out with, I guess kind of matured. He doesn't joke around a lot but started to act more considerate and sincere? It was really awkward cause he likes to make fun of me like call me names or pat my head and such. One sunday, at church, he was tired so he came by and sat next to me. He was bored and asked to play with my cell. All of a sudden he wanted to take a picture, and I dread taking pictures cause I come out really bad. I kept on saying no and such but he forcefully grabbed my head pulled it towards him and took a picture of him kissing my cheek. I didn't think he would really do that but he did so I was just kind of like ok...and he kept on laughing like it was some joke. I kind of just thought ok so he's playing around so what, I guess he does that at school blah blah. Another sunday came around and he asked if I wanted to go with him to wash his car? since I had nothing to do I was like ok sure why not, of course his brother tagged along. After the car wash, we dropped his brother back at church cause his brother had to play the drums for 3rd service and we just drove to his house cause he said he had to pick some guitar equipments. While in the car, he just kind of grabbed my hand, and held it? I pulled it out and just jokingly said how my hands are too pale blah blah old, blah blah, but he grabbed it again and was saying how my hands were so small, like a baby's, and it looks like it was going to break. When he held my hand it wasnt just holding, he was kind of like feeling it? Don't know how to describe it. I just pulled it out again, and he stopped. All he kept on saying was how I was so tiny and such. Let me also add on that he has a girlfriend.
Now, I don't see him at church a lot cause I leave early, but whenever I do run into him, he would grab my hand and touch my cheek, and of course I would pull back and try to start a convo. I was just wondering if he's messing with me right now or not. He has a girlfriend and maybe he's just touchy, friendly like that. I've known him since 7th grade, and I never ever understood or got this kid. It's hard to tell. I mean I would think he used to like me, but then he would act differently from his usual touchy self? So I would think it was just a misunderstanding.
Sorry for this long post,
I just want this to be clarified since I've been wondering for a while now.
Also, his brother who's a year younger than him is really touchy, and says "i love you" to me cause he's bored? That's his explanation. Whenever I ask him to stop saying that cause it's so NeuhGgee (like so buttery? I don't know how to explain it :]) He'll say, it's cause I'm bored. He grabs my hand and looks directly at me to say "i love you" And he to has a girlfriend.
Are these two messing with me or what?
Thanks for your time guys :]
#1767
Posted 05 July 2007 - 09:13 PM
-What do you, personally, as an individual look for in a girl? (i know all guys are diff..i'm asking you..!) Both personality and apperance wise?
-would u be turned off.. if a girl grew up from a troubled family?(although she seems fine..her whole family appears to have issues..)
-Girls all think a lot.. if ur gf who u love, appears to think TOO much..would it annoy u..?
-If you have feelings for a girl.. but its obvious that she isnt interested in you.. would u easily give up and move on to someone else with more potential of a relationship?
-How do you want us to "flirt" with you? being the shy type girl... it's a burden in trying to "flirt" with someone... would smiling/eye contacting be considered flirting?
#1768
Posted 05 July 2007 - 10:17 PM
-What do you, personally, as an individual look for in a girl? (i know all guys are diff..i'm asking you..!) Both personality and apperance wise?
-would u be turned off.. if a girl grew up from a troubled family?(although she seems fine..her whole family appears to have issues..)
-Girls all think a lot.. if ur gf who u love, appears to think TOO much..would it annoy u..?
-If you have feelings for a girl.. but its obvious that she isnt interested in you.. would u easily give up and move on to someone else with more potential of a relationship?
-How do you want us to "flirt" with you? being the shy type girl... it's a burden in trying to "flirt" with someone... would smiling/eye contacting be considered flirting?
1. I'm looking at hobbies and interest. If a girl have some the same interests as I, then I'm more prone to go after her.
looks, a nice smile always gets me. The one thing I notice about girls, celebs, and etc. that I find attractive; all of them have a roundness to them.
2. It all depends on the family whether I'm affected by their behavior or not.
3. Yeah, you gotta know something.
4. If I did what i could, then I gotta move on to the next girl that will take interest in me.
5. I wouldn't know cause girls don't flirt with me LOL
#1769
Posted 05 July 2007 - 10:20 PM

#1770
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