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#1751 User is offline   predator 

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Posted 05 July 2007 - 11:24 AM

Okay another question lol~
Do guys like girls who can dance?
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#1752 User is offline   The Fey 

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Posted 05 July 2007 - 03:38 PM

if a guy tells you he "hearts" you, wtf is that.?

I mean, wtf kind of cop-out saying is that, "I heart you." sheesh

Don't even say anything if you're going to say something stupid like that.
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Posted 05 July 2007 - 04:16 PM

QUOTE(kimseo @ Jul 5 2007, 01:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Would any of you guys ever cheat...even with the chance that you won't get caught?

No, cheating = a no no even if you could get a way with it. The guilt will eat away at you.

QUOTE(impulsive* @ Jul 5 2007, 01:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What do you think of girls who can't drive but doesn't depend on you as well?

it doesnt matter because I will do most of the driving anyways

QUOTE(x_happydimples @ Jul 5 2007, 02:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Okay another question lol~
Do guys like girls who can dance?

it doesnt matter to me

QUOTE(The Fey @ Jul 5 2007, 06:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if a guy tells you he "hearts" you, wtf is that.?

I mean, wtf kind of cop-out saying is that, "I heart you." sheesh

Don't even say anything if you're going to say something stupid like that.

blink.gif So...what are you asking specifically? From what I take, you already know what he means by saying that.
QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 05 July 2007 - 04:40 PM

would leaving a girl hanging during an instant message. for online games or ...etc.
be a sign of disinterest?



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Posted 05 July 2007 - 04:50 PM

QUOTE(cinnom0n @ Jul 5 2007, 07:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
would leaving a girl hanging during an instant message. for online games or ...etc.
be a sign of disinterest?

it's not really disinterest because he can get back to you in 5 minutes because you will still be there, whereas his character in the game that he is playing might die.
QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 05 July 2007 - 05:06 PM

QUOTE(Stevent @ Jul 5 2007, 08:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
blink.gif So...what are you asking specifically? From what I take, you already know what he means by saying that.


hahaha it just bothers me. i'm asking is that something meaningful that a guy would actually say?
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#1757 User is offline   Stevent 

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Posted 05 July 2007 - 05:09 PM

QUOTE(The Fey @ Jul 5 2007, 08:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hahaha it just bothers me. i'm asking is that something meaningful that a guy would actually say?

unless he was kidding, yes he meant it
QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 05 July 2007 - 05:10 PM

QUOTE(Stevent @ Jul 5 2007, 09:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
unless he was kidding, yes he meant it


lol and if he says it to just about EVERY girl? what about then? XD
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Posted 05 July 2007 - 06:27 PM

- What do you think about girls that are on diets?
- personally, pale girls or tanned girls?
- tatoo or no tatoo (for a girl)?
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Posted 05 July 2007 - 06:30 PM

QUOTE(The Fey @ Jul 5 2007, 06:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
lol and if he says it to just about EVERY girl? what about then? XD
he hearts just about every girl
QUOTE(lily-chan @ Jul 5 2007, 07:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
- What do you think about girls that are on diets?- personally, pale girls or tanned girls?- tatoo or no tatoo (for a girl)?

-as long as they arent ignorant about the diet theyre doing, and it's healthy, then I don't mind
-I prefer both, but not extremely tanned
-that would depend on the type of tattoo, not really a negative or positive for me though
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Posted 05 July 2007 - 06:43 PM

QUOTE(x_happydimples @ Jul 5 2007, 01:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Okay another question lol~
Do guys like girls who can dance?


hell yes strip dance rolleyes.gif lol j/k to be honest it does not matter if a girl can dance or not because it's not going to change anything in the relationship for me at least I don't know about the other guys out there.
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#1762 User is offline   kumoko 

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Posted 05 July 2007 - 07:09 PM

First time here...lol...

but, do guys hate quiet girls?? I mean, like, if a guy tries to talk to a girl and the girl barely speaks...?? xO mellow.gif
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Posted 05 July 2007 - 07:12 PM

hi guys,

just a scenario to ask u guys..i happen to know this guy, he has been very nice to me initially, smsing me everydae, asking me out for dines and movies, drinks...we can chat, but he is a very shy guy..always very deep in thoughts...when we talk, it always seem he wans to tell me something but he seems to hold back...

but recently, it seems that we arent talking anymore..it could be due to religion and age...he became very cold suddenly...though he still notices my actions and while i am speaking to others, i can feel that he is listening to too...

hmmm wats really up..? Why are guys so shy when they are near the ger they like? guys, will u always be in deep thoughts when u speak/interact with the ger u like?
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Posted 05 July 2007 - 07:20 PM

QUOTE(The Fey @ Jul 5 2007, 08:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
lol and if he says it to just about EVERY girl? what about then? XD

then obviously he's kidding if he can throw that term around.

QUOTE(lily-chan @ Jul 5 2007, 09:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
- What do you think about girls that are on diets?
- personally, pale girls or tanned girls?
- tatoo or no tatoo (for a girl)?

1) as long as they are trying to eat healthy
2) tanned
2) either way, but if a girl has tattoos all over her body then it's a turn off

QUOTE(kumoko @ Jul 5 2007, 10:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
First time here...lol...

but, do guys hate quiet girls?? I mean, like, if a guy tries to talk to a girl and the girl barely speaks...?? xO mellow.gif

no, it'll take some time and hard work, but im pretty sure I can crack open her shell

QUOTE(mygroove @ Jul 5 2007, 10:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hi guys,

just a scenario to ask u guys..i happen to know this guy, he has been very nice to me initially, smsing me everydae, asking me out for dines and movies, drinks...we can chat, but he is a very shy guy..always very deep in thoughts...when we talk, it always seem he wans to tell me something but he seems to hold back...

but recently, it seems that we arent talking anymore..it could be due to religion and age...he became very cold suddenly...though he still notices my actions and while i am speaking to others, i can feel that he is listening to too...

hmmm wats really up..? Why are guys so shy when they are near the ger they like? guys, will u always be in deep thoughts when u speak/interact with the ger u like?

1) Not sure because we have to be him, in order to tell you what's wrong with him
2) confidence issues
3) No, Ill pay more attention to her and zone out later on my own time.
QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 05 July 2007 - 07:30 PM

here's my long story with my question :] sorry. :

I went out with this guy who was a year younger than me @ church. One of the guys who is 2 years younger than me would keep on talking about him to others or start a topic about him whenever I'm around to either piss me off or annoy me. Those topics were either about oh he's probably cheating with another girl in korea (cause he went to korea for the summer), or he's a player blah blah. I just laughed or shook it off cause I didn't want to mind those things. Well, after a year? we broke up. The kid who would always be talking about the guy I went out with, I guess kind of matured. He doesn't joke around a lot but started to act more considerate and sincere? It was really awkward cause he likes to make fun of me like call me names or pat my head and such. One sunday, at church, he was tired so he came by and sat next to me. He was bored and asked to play with my cell. All of a sudden he wanted to take a picture, and I dread taking pictures cause I come out really bad. I kept on saying no and such but he forcefully grabbed my head pulled it towards him and took a picture of him kissing my cheek. I didn't think he would really do that but he did so I was just kind of like ok...and he kept on laughing like it was some joke. I kind of just thought ok so he's playing around so what, I guess he does that at school blah blah. Another sunday came around and he asked if I wanted to go with him to wash his car? since I had nothing to do I was like ok sure why not, of course his brother tagged along. After the car wash, we dropped his brother back at church cause his brother had to play the drums for 3rd service and we just drove to his house cause he said he had to pick some guitar equipments. While in the car, he just kind of grabbed my hand, and held it? I pulled it out and just jokingly said how my hands are too pale blah blah old, blah blah, but he grabbed it again and was saying how my hands were so small, like a baby's, and it looks like it was going to break. When he held my hand it wasnt just holding, he was kind of like feeling it? Don't know how to describe it. I just pulled it out again, and he stopped. All he kept on saying was how I was so tiny and such. Let me also add on that he has a girlfriend.
Now, I don't see him at church a lot cause I leave early, but whenever I do run into him, he would grab my hand and touch my cheek, and of course I would pull back and try to start a convo. I was just wondering if he's messing with me right now or not. He has a girlfriend and maybe he's just touchy, friendly like that. I've known him since 7th grade, and I never ever understood or got this kid. It's hard to tell. I mean I would think he used to like me, but then he would act differently from his usual touchy self? So I would think it was just a misunderstanding.
Sorry for this long post,
I just want this to be clarified since I've been wondering for a while now.

Also, his brother who's a year younger than him is really touchy, and says "i love you" to me cause he's bored? That's his explanation. Whenever I ask him to stop saying that cause it's so NeuhGgee (like so buttery? I don't know how to explain it :]) He'll say, it's cause I'm bored. He grabs my hand and looks directly at me to say "i love you" And he to has a girlfriend.
Are these two messing with me or what?

Thanks for your time guys :]

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Posted 05 July 2007 - 09:11 PM

First time actually asking something here..

If an older guy thinks of a girl as a little sister, is that the end of their relationship? Or in other words, would it not work out?
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Posted 05 July 2007 - 09:13 PM

ok random questions......

-What do you, personally, as an individual look for in a girl? (i know all guys are diff..i'm asking you..!) Both personality and apperance wise?

-would u be turned off.. if a girl grew up from a troubled family?(although she seems fine..her whole family appears to have issues..)

-Girls all think a lot.. if ur gf who u love, appears to think TOO much..would it annoy u..?

-If you have feelings for a girl.. but its obvious that she isnt interested in you.. would u easily give up and move on to someone else with more potential of a relationship?

-How do you want us to "flirt" with you? being the shy type girl... it's a burden in trying to "flirt" with someone... would smiling/eye contacting be considered flirting?


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Posted 05 July 2007 - 10:17 PM

QUOTE(beinspired @ Jul 5 2007, 10:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ok random questions......

-What do you, personally, as an individual look for in a girl? (i know all guys are diff..i'm asking you..!) Both personality and apperance wise?

-would u be turned off.. if a girl grew up from a troubled family?(although she seems fine..her whole family appears to have issues..)

-Girls all think a lot.. if ur gf who u love, appears to think TOO much..would it annoy u..?

-If you have feelings for a girl.. but its obvious that she isnt interested in you.. would u easily give up and move on to someone else with more potential of a relationship?

-How do you want us to "flirt" with you? being the shy type girl... it's a burden in trying to "flirt" with someone... would smiling/eye contacting be considered flirting?



1. I'm looking at hobbies and interest. If a girl have some the same interests as I, then I'm more prone to go after her.
looks, a nice smile always gets me. The one thing I notice about girls, celebs, and etc. that I find attractive; all of them have a roundness to them.

2. It all depends on the family whether I'm affected by their behavior or not.

3. Yeah, you gotta know something.

4. If I did what i could, then I gotta move on to the next girl that will take interest in me.

5. I wouldn't know cause girls don't flirt with me LOL

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Posted 05 July 2007 - 10:20 PM

what do you do to show a girl you're pretty interested in her?...
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Posted 05 July 2007 - 10:41 PM

QUOTE(hpnotiq @ Jul 5 2007, 10:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
First time actually asking something here..If an older guy thinks of a girl as a little sister, is that the end of their relationship? Or in other words, would it not work out?
it depends on him lol I've met some cooky folks lolpersonally, I wouldn't even date somebody that I consider a sister or even be around lol
QUOTE(xsilentangel @ Jul 5 2007, 11:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what do you do to show a girl you're pretty interested in her?...
approach her.invite her to some thing (like the movies, restaurant, and etc.)
QUOTE(kyungJ @ Jul 5 2007, 08:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
here's my long story with my question :] sorry. :I went out with this guy who was a year younger than me @ church. One of the guys who is 2 years younger than me would keep on talking about him to others or start a topic about him whenever I'm around to either piss me off or annoy me. Those topics were either about oh he's probably cheating with another girl in korea (cause he went to korea for the summer), or he's a player blah blah. I just laughed or shook it off cause I didn't want to mind those things. Well, after a year? we broke up. The kid who would always be talking about the guy I went out with, I guess kind of matured. He doesn't joke around a lot but started to act more considerate and sincere? It was really awkward cause he likes to make fun of me like call me names or pat my head and such. One sunday, at church, he was tired so he came by and sat next to me. He was bored and asked to play with my cell. All of a sudden he wanted to take a picture, and I dread taking pictures cause I come out really bad. I kept on saying no and such but he forcefully grabbed my head pulled it towards him and took a picture of him kissing my cheek. I didn't think he would really do that but he did so I was just kind of like ok...and he kept on laughing like it was some joke. I kind of just thought ok so he's playing around so what, I guess he does that at school blah blah. Another sunday came around and he asked if I wanted to go with him to wash his car? since I had nothing to do I was like ok sure why not, of course his brother tagged along. After the car wash, we dropped his brother back at church cause his brother had to play the drums for 3rd service and we just drove to his house cause he said he had to pick some guitar equipments. While in the car, he just kind of grabbed my hand, and held it? I pulled it out and just jokingly said how my hands are too pale blah blah old, blah blah, but he grabbed it again and was saying how my hands were so small, like a baby's, and it looks like it was going to break. When he held my hand it wasnt just holding, he was kind of like feeling it? Don't know how to describe it. I just pulled it out again, and he stopped. All he kept on saying was how I was so tiny and such. Let me also add on that he has a girlfriend. Now, I don't see him at church a lot cause I leave early, but whenever I do run into him, he would grab my hand and touch my cheek, and of course I would pull back and try to start a convo. I was just wondering if he's messing with me right now or not. He has a girlfriend and maybe he's just touchy, friendly like that. I've known him since 7th grade, and I never ever understood or got this kid. It's hard to tell. I mean I would think he used to like me, but then he would act differently from his usual touchy self? So I would think it was just a misunderstanding. Sorry for this long post, I just want this to be clarified since I've been wondering for a while now. Also, his brother who's a year younger than him is really touchy, and says "i love you" to me cause he's bored? That's his explanation. Whenever I ask him to stop saying that cause it's so NeuhGgee (like so buttery? I don't know how to explain it :]) He'll say, it's cause I'm bored. He grabs my hand and looks directly at me to say "i love you" And he to has a girlfriend. Are these two messing with me or what? Thanks for your time guys :]
from your story, yes.Dude is greedy, he was instigating and doing all that flashy moves just to get you. And it sounds like the other brother is trying to beat him (the bro with gf) to the punch.but at the end of the day, its your choice.
QUOTE(kumoko @ Jul 5 2007, 08:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
First time here...lol...but, do guys hate quiet girls?? I mean, like, if a guy tries to talk to a girl and the girl barely speaks...?? xO mellow.gif
for some reason, it makes me curious (of course depending on the girl).If I'm trying to get to know her but she's being mad conservative, its time for me to go.
QUOTE(x_happydimples @ Jul 5 2007, 12:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Okay another question lol~Do guys like girls who can dance?
IMO The ones that don't are the ones that are afraid of losing to another guy or they just don't want to dance (cause their embarrassed of their dancing skills lol).
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