QUOTE(supertitious @ Jul 6 2007, 03:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I've been seeing this guy for awhile...
and we've done stuff but never really talked about 'us'
or anything. Aside from the lack of communication, we really
click in every way.. but sometimes he's just very quiet coz
I guess we see each other late.. and it kinda tires us out.
Anyhow.. recently we've talked about 'us' and
feelings were poured out so much in one night
and many nights for the two of us.. how he feels and how I feell..
and what we both want..
basically, he didnt open up
much throughout the relationship coz he wasnt
sure if he was ready.. at times he was, and wasnt..
Very unsure.. and very confused.. another thing
was that he wanted to be free and all.. and not sure if
he can be with someone at the moment. yet he says he
really wants to be with me and cares about me alot.
Hes never had to struggle so much until he's met me..
He even got very Emotional about it and all...
He also added that he didnt want to get too serious
coz he didnt want to hurt me nor did he wanna get hurt
At the stage of his life right now, he said hes not ready
to make deiciosns when in a realtionshiop.. rather he'd
do things on his own and be worry-free. He also said
how its really unfair that I put effort and he cant seem
to do the same.. basically its too bad that we both
met each other at the wrong time.. *sigh..
Anyhow, we are friends now.. we both laughed about it
and we both had an amazing conversation coming
to an agreement to be friends and what not..
and I am fine with it.. coz I cant force anyone either..
at least I know he said he'd try but in the end, I took it
back coz I dont wanna have to go through a realtionship
where I am the experiement for him.. and have me to
worry about him trying to NOT be worry-free and being
SO out there when hanging out with friends u know?
We still have alot of feelings for each other..
and we ended in VERY VERY GOOD TERMS
and Im just thinking how things
will turn out to be from here on..
It boggles me so much and its making
me ponder so much.. I just cant stop thinkng about how much
I want to hug him and snuggle with him whenever I see him..
coz I know we will still see each other and he promised he'd
call me some times here and there to talk and what not..
pls help... *sigh... anyone been in my situation? How did it go??
Guys perspective please..........
Right now, I say just let him do his thing for a while. The timing just seems really bad, sucks, but there's really nothing that can change that. He seems like he really cares, so I believe he will be there once you both are ready.
QUOTE(LAYDEE N @ Jul 6 2007, 06:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
who do guys tend to be nice in person to you then turn into a complete assh-le online?
online is a lot different from talking in person, he can be really occupied when he's online ex. games, chatting to others, watching who knows what, surfing, etc. so he has no priority to make doing one thing (chatting with you) more important than the other stuff he's doing
QUOTE(TM051405 @ Jul 6 2007, 06:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I have been with my bf for over two years now and I can really say that we have been through the thick n the thin to get where we are now... But I feel so confuse sometimes by what he tells me and really need a second opinion. About six months into our relationship I told him that I truly love him and that I have never felt this way about anyone in my life. I went on to tell him that one day down the road I want to be more than jus his gf. I wouldn't have ever been prepared for what he was bout to tell me, he told me that the only thing that he can ever see me is his gf and nothing more. I was very hurt, but I couldn't let go. Our relationship continue on with many more bumps to overcome. So recently we got into a conversation about the future, but it left me still confuse about what he really wants. He told me that one day he can imagine me becoming his wife. But then everytime I or someone mention about us getting married he is all upset and says that he doesn't need the pressure. I been through a lot for this relationship and for this guy. Does he really want a future with me or not?
He had mention to me something that kinda got to me... Am I being too senstive??? He said that if he never dated he would have never stop talking to all these girls that he talk to before to dated me. From what I understand he talk to at least two or three girls at a time and never had any reason to just settle down for one until he met me. None of his friends or bro understands why me of all person could change him. Then he goes on to say that if we ever break up he wonders if he would go back to the way he was. On top of that he says something that really stood out to me. He said that if he was with me now he would prolly having some type of relationship with his ex gf or he might be dating this girl that he was talking to before he met me. What does all of this mean?
He had mention to me something that kinda got to me... Am I being too senstive??? He said that if he never dated he would have never stop talking to all these girls that he talk to before to dated me. From what I understand he talk to at least two or three girls at a time and never had any reason to just settle down for one until he met me. None of his friends or bro understands why me of all person could change him. Then he goes on to say that if we ever break up he wonders if he would go back to the way he was. On top of that he says something that really stood out to me. He said that if he was with me now he would prolly having some type of relationship with his ex gf or he might be dating this girl that he was talking to before he met me. What does all of this mean?
he is afraid of commitment. He doesn't like the whole idea of it, but he has considered it.
last part means you came at the right time, because if you didn't, he'd have relations with the people he told you about up there.
you arent being too sensitive, i can understand how you feel since he stated that he doesnt see you as anything more than a gf. age would be a big factor to why he feels that way.
QUOTE(rachellee39 @ Jul 6 2007, 07:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hiya
this is not really about relationships but
I'm curious on guys opinions on
girls and their nail polish.
Does whether a girl wear nai polish or not affect your opinion of her? And in what way?
Do you prefer all natural and clean ( albeit no nail polish), or with nail polish?
And what about those heavy elaborate ones which are long and with with diamonds and drawings?
this is not really about relationships but
I'm curious on guys opinions on
girls and their nail polish.
Does whether a girl wear nai polish or not affect your opinion of her? And in what way?
Do you prefer all natural and clean ( albeit no nail polish), or with nail polish?
And what about those heavy elaborate ones which are long and with with diamonds and drawings?
Nail polish does not affect my opinion of a girl. She can be all natural or use nail polish, as long as her nails arent dirty. Those heavy elaborate ones are alright, i guess it'd be weird if she had those all the time because it seems like she wouldn't be able to do too with her hands cause her nails would always get in the way
honestly, for me at least, nails are not something my eyes automatically look for when I see a girl. It'd only be apparent if she literally put her hand in front of me
He's confusing me and my curiosity is getting the better of me, but I think if I ask him straight he'll either hate me more or get even more shy. We had quite a bit of mutual friends, so it will be awkward if he can't stand me. 
depends on guys.. some are quiet around girls they like and some aren't.
