[린다♥]

I'm really curious. My guy friend told me that one of his friend has been asking some stuff about me for a few times now.
& when my guy friend first introduced me to him, I noticed he was smiling a lot and just looked really nervous. Well, as time went by, i didn't talk to him and stuff whatsoever because I didn't have the chance. but when we would randomly see each other, he would look somewhere else. He sometimes looked as if he was kind of faking to look really hard because it just seemed really odd to me. Idk. We didn't greet each other because.. I don't know. But as for me, I didn't greet him because I felt akward. But then after whenever we would see each other, my guy friend will always give me back this news that he was asking a few stuff about me again. He told me he'd ask the same questions he's already asked before? Weird. So, my guy friend said that he questioned him straight-up if he was interested in me- and he replied saying no.
hm, it's really confusing. because honestly,... I don't know. haha.

[Stevent]

what are girls supposed to think when a guy is equally charming/nice in every way to all girls? (the type of guy who no doubt likes someone deep down but no one knows who since he acts the same to everyone) confusing, i know >.<

I think this question is more for the girls to answer, not the guys.

Are you guys scared of meeting the girl's parents? Puahaha, I dunno why this came to mind.

Yes, first impressions make a big impact.

If a guy is always asking to find more female friends
If a guy clearly stated in words, that he wants to be the only guy with a bunch of females at the movies
If he is friends with girls that don't go to his school
If he knows girls younger than his age, more than the same age or older
If he talks consistently to girls

......

is it possible that he's desperate? Oo
If not, what's happening to him?

Thanks <3

yes, his motives are just screaming desperation.

I'm really curious. My guy friend told me that one of his friend has been asking some stuff about me for a few times now.
& when my guy friend first introduced me to him, I noticed he was smiling a lot and just looked really nervous. Well, as time went by, i didn't talk to him and stuff whatsoever because I didn't have the chance. but when we would randomly see each other, he would look somewhere else. He sometimes looked as if he was kind of faking to look really hard because it just seemed really odd to me. Idk. We didn't greet each other because.. I don't know. But as for me, I didn't greet him because I felt akward. But then after whenever we would see each other, my guy friend will always give me back this news that he was asking a few stuff about me again. He told me he'd ask the same questions he's already asked before? Weird. So, my guy friend said that he questioned him straight-up if he was interested in me- and he replied saying no.
hm, it's really confusing. because honestly,... I don't know. haha.

he's lying, he's interested in you.

[CALI-sweetie]

so if a guy tells you he loves you, and you don't love him, what is a girl supposed to say? Thank you..?

[twinkle_l0ve]

are a lotta guys mean to their little sisters?
i help my brother out all the time.. i make him food, tell him what looks good or not, even lend him money!!!
but he's always bagging me out T_T;;
i call him up to ask for a ride home.. and he hangs up on me.. i call again and he purposely doesnt pick up
when guys are at the age of 20, do they grow to a new level of maturity and just lose touch with sibling affection?

[iEatPowder]

are a lotta guys mean to their little sisters?
i help my brother out all the time.. i make him food, tell him what looks good or not, even lend him money!!!
but he's always bagging me out T_T;;
when guys are at the age of 20, do they grow to a new level of maturity and just lose touch with sibling affection?

My little sister and I used to fight LIKE CRAZY when we were young. It got so bad, my parents took us to counseling. But after I graduated from high school, and left for college, I sincerely missed my sister because I'd only see her on holidays, and we've pretty much never fought since (which is four years now). We're pretty civil and polite with each other. Give it time.

[hoer]

are a lotta guys mean to their little sisters?
i help my brother out all the time.. i make him food, tell him what looks good or not, even lend him money!!!
but he's always bagging me out T_T;;
i call him up to ask for a ride home.. and he hangs up on me.. i call again and he purposely doesnt pick up
when guys are at the age of 20, do they grow to a new level of maturity and just lose touch with sibling affection?

Where can I adopt you?
I never wanted a little sister until now....

[iEatPowder]

I think this question is more for the girls to answer, not the guys.
Yes, first impressions make a big impact.
yes, his motives are just screaming desperation.
he's lying, he's interested in you.

I must say, I really dislike the way you "matter-of-factly," state your answers Stevent...

I normally don't like to start arguments, but you act like you're mister know-it-all through your words, when all of your answers are are biased and presumptuous and completely absolute. But if that's how you're getting through life, then who am I to judge? I just feel sorry for all the poor girls here who are actually listening to your half-assed advice and answers.. I honestly believe you're just giving the girls answers they want to hear... answers already implied in the way the questions were written.

And did you even bother reading the first question in the group you answered? It's clearly meant for guys who are like she explained (or guys who know a guy like that)... how would a girl possibly know how to answer that question...

Let me RE-answer some of these questions... (Pay attention Stevent, you could actually learn something here.)

what are girls supposed to think when a guy is equally charming/nice in every way to all girls? (the type of guy who no doubt likes someone deep down but no one knows who since he acts the same to everyone) confusing, i know >.<

There's no real way of telling you what to think. You can think whatever you want about the guy. He could just be genuinely nice guy all-around. If you have no doubt about him liking someone deep down, then try becoming a closer friend, and maybe he'll spill his secret. All I can do is give suggestions though, because there is no right or wrong answer here.

Are you guys scared of meeting the girl's parents? Puahaha, I dunno why this came to mind.

If a guy has genuine intentions, and is mature enough to communicate with adults, there shouldn't be a problem with meeting the folks. I've personally never had a problem with meeting my girlfriend's parents, because I know who I am and I know I love their daughter. Sure they may throw some hard questions out, but it's nothing to be afraid of. I can see how it can be intimidating though, because parents want the best for their "little girl," so they have high expectations of the boyfriend. So again, it really depends on the sincerity, confidence, and overall level of comfort of the guy. One thing I do recommend though, is not forcing a guy who isn't ready to meet the parents to do so. That could possibly be disastrous.

If a guy is always asking to find more female friends
If a guy clearly stated in words, that he wants to be the only guy with a bunch of females at the movies
If he is friends with girls that don't go to his school
If he knows girls younger than his age, more than the same age or older
If he talks consistently to girls

......

is it possible that he's desperate? Oo
If not, what's happening to him?

Thanks <3

This guy can just like the company of women, but it is also possible that he's desperate. It's not unnatural for a person to like the company of the opposite sex. Most of my close friends in high school were girls, but I was not desperate. However, if he stated that he only wants to go to the movies with a bunch of girls, he could be a wannabe-pimp too and inflate his ego. Or he could be a natural ladies-man. There are plenty of possibilites. What I'm more curious about is to why you care so much about this guy


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[Inevitable]

so if a guy tells you he loves you, and you don't love him, what is a girl supposed to say? Thank you..?

lol that would probably kill his ego. just say something along the lines of, thanks but i cant say the same, yet (refer to 'worst responses to i love you thread')

are a lotta guys mean to their little sisters?
i help my brother out all the time.. i make him food, tell him what looks good or not, even lend him money!!!
but he's always bagging me out T_T;;
i call him up to ask for a ride home.. and he hangs up on me.. i call again and he purposely doesnt pick up
when guys are at the age of 20, do they grow to a new level of maturity and just lose touch with sibling affection?

he probably likes messing with you for some reason, i have friends who are mean to their little sister and some who are never mean to them. the losing sibling affection is not true, it depends on the situation, affection for siblings arent usually lost because of age, just paused because their life might be a little more busy than before.

[Nana544]

1) If you dream of seeing a girl at your school in your dreams alot and in those dreams, you and the girl are like lovers, what do you think of those dreams you have of that girl?

2) If you told a guy you dream about him and he told you that is "interesting", what does it mean?

-thanks to anyone who response

[iEatPowder]

1) If you dream of seeing a girl at your school in your dreams alot and in those dreams, you and the girl are like lovers, what do you think of those dreams you have of that girl?

2) If you told a guy you dream about him and he told you that is "interesting", what does it mean?

-thanks to anyone who response

Dreams are usually gateways to repressed emotions and recent memories, so there's probably some interest involved. But to what extent, no one can say for sure.

If I had a dream about a guy, I probably wouldn't tell him because he'd think I was a homosexual.

I think what you meant to say was "if YOU (a female) told a guy (like myself) you dreampt about him, and I said "interesting," what would it mean?" First of all, there's no real answer for this. I can't even begin to speculate at what interesting meant. If I heard the context and tone in which "interesting" was used, maybe I could give a guess, at best. Reading it in text means nothing and can't really be analyzed. =P

[predator]

Okay about that phone number thingy I posted a while back.

If I don't call him, will I hurt his ego?

[cavil.]

Okay about that phone number thingy I posted a while back.

If I don't call him, will I hurt his ego?

What ego? Just call him if you're interested. It's not a game, woman.

[stellabella]

I've been dating this guy for a while and we've talked about being in a relationship and everything, I really do like him but there are some things that are seriously holding me back. This is gonna make me sound kinda....shallow? but- I am pretty much the first girl he has ever even taken interest in so he really doesn't know how to handle the situation. So far I've been able to get him to open up to me emotionally, but physically...yeah

We've been dating for like 3 weeks and he hasn't tried to hold my hand, put his arms around me, kiss me, ANYTHING! It sounds kinda bad but this really bothers me. I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and he doesn't seem to be. What do you guys suggest I do to get him to open up? Obviously I'm probably gonna have to make the first move. And really it wouldn't be a problem or question if only he wasn't completely prude.

[CIRee]

I've been dating this guy for a while and we've talked about being in a relationship and everything, I really do like him but there are some things that are seriously holding me back. This is gonna make me sound kinda....shallow? but- I am pretty much the first girl he has ever even taken interest in so he really doesn't know how to handle the situation. So far I've been able to get him to open up to me emotionally, but physically...yeah

We've been dating for like 3 weeks and he hasn't tried to hold my hand, put his arms around me, kiss me, ANYTHING! It sounds kinda bad but this really bothers me. I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and he doesn't seem to be. What do you guys suggest I do to get him to open up? Obviously I'm probably gonna have to make the first move. And really it wouldn't be a problem or question if only he wasn't completely prude.

Give the guy a break, he has zero experience with girls. Most likely he feels that if he makes a move then he might be rejected. We all don't want to be rejected, worst feeling ever? maybe...

[iEatPowder]

I've been dating this guy for a while and we've talked about being in a relationship and everything, I really do like him but there are some things that are seriously holding me back. This is gonna make me sound kinda....shallow? but- I am pretty much the first girl he has ever even taken interest in so he really doesn't know how to handle the situation. So far I've been able to get him to open up to me emotionally, but physically...yeah

We've been dating for like 3 weeks and he hasn't tried to hold my hand, put his arms around me, kiss me, ANYTHING! It sounds kinda bad but this really bothers me. I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and he doesn't seem to be. What do you guys suggest I do to get him to open up? Obviously I'm probably gonna have to make the first move. And really it wouldn't be a problem or question if only he wasn't completely prude.

Massages. intimate ones. If I say anymore, it won't really be PG. Use your imagination.

Or you can have a tickle fight xD. I love me a good tickle fight. Things can progress from there. Use your imagination.

Wrestling matches. Those are fun. Things can progress from there. Again, use your imagination.

Lying on the couch/bed while watching a movie. Things can progress from there. You guessed it. Use your imagination.

These are all just a couple of suggestions to help your man loosen up a bit. You've obviously realized that you're going to have to make the first movie, so push it and test his limits. Be sure to ask him if he's comfortable. I'm sure you know the bases guys have for girls. Well, it can go both ways. If you get to first and things are okay, move on to second, and so on until you reach a base where you feel (or he says) he's uncomfortable with you stealing.

We talking baseball or sex?!

As far as holding hands and arms around you go... if he can't do that on his own, you might want to consider a new bf, cause he might be gay. =P JK! But if he were my son, I would be ashamed.

[Stevent]

I must say, I really dislike the way you "matter-of-factly," state your answers Stevent...

I normally don't like to start arguments, but you act like you're mister know-it-all through your words, when all of your answers are are biased and presumptuous and completely absolute. But if that's how you're getting through life, then who am I to judge? I just feel sorry for all the poor girls here who are actually listening to your half-assed advice and answers.. I honestly believe you're just giving the girls answers they want to hear... answers already implied in the way the questions were written.

And did you even bother reading the first question in the group you answered? It's clearly meant for guys who are like she explained (or guys who know a guy like that)... how would a girl possibly know how to answer that question...

Let me RE-answer some of these questions... (Pay attention Stevent, you could actually learn something here.)

I really dont care if you like my answers or not. I'm giving advice from where I'm coming from. These are views points coming from different guys based on different locations, ethnicity, and age. Just because my responses were no where near what you want to inform the ladies, doesnt mean that my opinions are wrong. Remember, it's just an opinion. And for saying that my responses were half assed answers was not the way to go about things. You have an option to give your view point on the current situation. But I guess you chose to say imply that I'm a know it all and that my words are absolute. I do not give responses on what a girl wants to hear, I give it based on my assessment. If you want me to elaborate on my reasoning then just ask, instead of being a cry baby about it.
And to answer your first question, yes I did read the question. Maybe you didnt comprehend what she was trying to say. She asked "What are girls supposed to think when a guy is equally charming/nice in every way to all girls? (the type of guy who no doubt likes someone deep down but no one knows who since he acts the same to everyone) confusing, i know >.<". So unless you have the mind of a female, you cant possibly answer that question. Nowhere in that question did I read "what do you GUYS think about a guy that is equally charming/nice." Obviously this question was directed towards the girls. Now, if she had revised her question to "what do you guys want girls to think when you act equally charming/nice to them" , that is when you could give your 2 cents.
I dont think I need to learn anything from a person who goes off critizing other people of their opinions.
Seriously if you have a problem with what I have said, you should have just gave your 2 cents instead of publicly stating you have a problem with what I had to say. Next time pm me instead. Unless you have a problem with that too.

[CriticalHit]

What do guys think about drama queens?
And is there such thing as a drama king?

[missdiana45]

i dont care if she pays or not becuz if she pays then well free meal but it depneds on the girl. if she is your gf or watnot then i would most likely want to pay but if she was a friend then hell yeah ill let her pay lol

why dont you just ask the friend who introduced you to casually bring that subject up to that dude becuz i dont think ur givin enough information to conclude ne thing =/. and depends on guys.. some are quiet around girls they like and some aren't.

okay thanks! yeah my friends and i usually just take turns, but ill for sure let the guy pay if i'm on a date then (usually awkwardly offer )
the thing with the guy i decided that i'm just gonna leave it at what it is.. i see him as an acquaintance and i'm probably overthinking it and being curious..
thanks so much for ur advice, it was really helpful!

[lazibratt]

I didn't have time to look through all 94 pages so I hope these questions weren't repeated.

How long does it take a guy to get over a girl he likes exactly?
For me, it seems like I can get them to like me and then after a week or so their interest fades =/
I think it's probably how I always tease them and call them gay and stupid and what not but I can't suddenly be sweet to them or else I'll feel vulnerable ya know? I'm so weird ><. I normally tease people A LOT but I always smile after saying it so they should know i'm jking. I should soften up or something?

This refers to being online haha.
Umm if a guy likes a girl, would he give up his tv watching time or video gaming time just to talk to her? Also if he's busy, he would make time for her right?

And there's this one guy who I used to like but after that one period when we liked each other, we don't talk anymore. I realized I missed his friendship. If I initiate talking to him such as iming him or setting up a time when we should hang out again, would it seem that I want something more than a friendship because I don't?

I don't want to be thought of as the needy, desperate girl so I usually don't initiate anything when it comes to crushes. I let him im me, call me and if he doesn't comment me back I don't comment him. But during that period when he doesn't do any of those three.. I get a little bit sad. I'm so pathetic. seriously. haha
But with guys I see as friends, I can do all of those without feeling needy or what not. Should I just treat my crush as I treat my friends?

I have tonss of questions but a lot of my friends go on here and they'll realize i'm talking about "him" haha and question me like crazy >< haha. And I kinda want to keep it hush hush for now BUT Thanks in advance <3 seriously.

[CIRee]

I didn't have time to look through all 94 pages so I hope these questions weren't repeated.

How long does it take a guy to get over a girl he likes exactly?
For me, it seems like I can get them to like me and then after a week or so their interest fades =/
I think it's probably how I always tease them and call them gay and stupid and what not but I can't suddenly be sweet to them or else I'll feel vulnerable ya know? I'm so weird ><. I normally tease people A LOT but I always smile after saying it so they should know i'm jking. I should soften up or something?

This refers to being online haha.
Umm if a guy likes a girl, would he give up his tv watching time or video gaming time just to talk to her? Also if he's busy, he would make time for her right?

And there's this one guy who I used to like but after that one period when we liked each other, we don't talk anymore. I realized I missed his friendship. If I initiate talking to him such as iming him or setting up a time when we should hang out again, would it seem that I want something more than a friendship because I don't?

I don't want to be thought of as the needy, desperate girl so I usually don't initiate anything when it comes to crushes. I let him im me, call me and if he doesn't comment me back I don't comment him. But during that period when he doesn't do any of those three.. I get a little bit sad. I'm so pathetic. seriously. haha
But with guys I see as friends, I can do all of those without feeling needy or what not. Should I just treat my crush as I treat my friends?

I have tonss of questions but a lot of my friends go on here and they'll realize i'm talking about "him" haha and question me like crazy >< haha. And I kinda want to keep it hush hush for now BUT Thanks in advance <3 seriously.

The reason why guys lose interest of you so quickly is because you are not showing them that you find them attractive. The guy thinks you are just messing with him. Quit playing those stupid games, dont treat your crush like you treat your guy friends because he will think he's also one of your guy friends and will never find out. He go to another girl because you didn't open yourself up to him. Your fault not his.