[iEatPowder]

Thanks Stevent and iEatPowder
for answering my previous question =D

Well, I have something else to ask you's now xD
This time, it's based on me..haha.

What is a good way to confess to a guy?
A way which won't make things too awkward between each other,
and a way that doesn't make the guy think "OMGGG;; she likes me" *runs away* kinda like thing ><
Hmmm, the only method I really have is text messaging..but I can try other methods

What can the girl say?
Meaning, I don't want to only say "I like you" and thats it.
Something that doesn't make the girl sound like she's in love with the guy and freak him out.
Something simple I guess?

Sorrii xD
I'm just kinda out in whoop whopp land atm ._____.

Thanks again <3

You know, to answer both your questions, sometimes you don't need to say anything at all. I think body language can be very effective, possibly even more so than words. When you flirt with a guy, just throw smiles his way. You can touch him subtly... like if you guys are walking somewhere, just wrap your arm around his and make it look like you're just pulling him somewhere. You can tell him it's cute the way he does certain things. Just try not to do these things with everyone, so he knows only he's receiving this "special" treatment (for a lack of better words). These seem reasonbly simple, yes? And I don't think they'd freak him out. I wouldn't recommend text messaging, cause it's kind of detached and impersonal. But hey, it's your interest, not mine. Best of luck.


@ strawberrii chuuu - you're most welcome.

[Emerald Snow]

You know, to answer both your questions, sometimes you don't need to say anything at all. I think body language can be very effective, possibly even more so than words. When you flirt with a guy, just throw smiles his way. You can touch him subtly... like if you guys are walking somewhere, just wrap your arm around his and make it look like you're just pulling him somewhere. You can tell him it's cute the way he does certain things. Just try not to do these things with everyone, so he knows only he's receiving this "special" treatment (for a lack of better words). These seem reasonbly simple, yes? And I don't think they'd freak him out. I wouldn't recommend text messaging, cause it's kind of detached and impersonal. But hey, it's your interest, not mine. Best of luck.
@ strawberrii chuuu - you're most welcome.

Body language is nice but IMO, some guys are pretty dense (or they simply don't know what the girl means) so giving such obvious hints alone like that might not work. angel_b3k, you might want to do the body language suggestion and tell it straight up to him also. Just as long as you don't sound obsessive or too desperate, I think most guys would be flattered first off. Good luck. =)

[angel_b3k]

You know, to answer both your questions, sometimes you don't need to say anything at all. I think body language can be very effective, possibly even more so than words. When you flirt with a guy, just throw smiles his way. You can touch him subtly... like if you guys are walking somewhere, just wrap your arm around his and make it look like you're just pulling him somewhere. You can tell him it's cute the way he does certain things. Just try not to do these things with everyone, so he knows only he's receiving this "special" treatment (for a lack of better words). These seem reasonbly simple, yes? And I don't think they'd freak him out. I wouldn't recommend text messaging, cause it's kind of detached and impersonal. But hey, it's your interest, not mine. Best of luck.
@ strawberrii chuuu - you're most welcome.

I rekon your suggestion is very sweet and yes, what I wanted, it's very simple too. ^^
But the thing is...its too late to do that now, cause I basically do that to a lot of guys
I'm pretty open up to guys so yeah..there's really no 'special' way I can treat one..haha.
And I agree that text messaging isn't a very good way..
that's why I'm asking..hehe.
Thanks again <333

Body language is nice but IMO, some guys are pretty dense (or they simply don't know what the girl means) so giving such obvious hints alone like that might not work. angel_b3k, you might want to do the body language suggestion and tell it straight up to him also. Just as long as you don't sound obsessive or too desperate, I think most guys would be flattered first off. Good luck. =)

As above, I can't really do that cause I do that to many guys..hehe.
Maybe I'm a flirt? I don't think so...haha xD
Back on topic..errrmmm,
Have you got any suggestions on what I can say?
Like...what would and what wouldn't freak you guys out if a girl confessed? haha.

Thankssss again so much <3

[Inevitable]

Why don't guys hold your hand or hug you in front of their friends?

Not all guys are like this, the guy is probably just not comfortable with public displays of affection at the moment, he may change, or just politely hint to him that you'd like your hand to be held or you want to be hugged so that he realizes what he's doing. Some guys just want to keep this strong/tough persona when theyre around their friends, so that can be another reason. A way to explain that he's not being a jerk is because he doesnt want his friends to feel uncomfortable. But yeah, just let the guy know, there's a good chance he'll listen when it comes to this.

[iEatPowder]

I rekon your suggestion is very sweet and yes, what I wanted, it's very simple too. ^^
But the thing is...its too late to do that now, cause I basically do that to a lot of guys
I'm pretty open up to guys so yeah..there's really no 'special' way I can treat one..haha.
And I agree that text messaging isn't a very good way..
that's why I'm asking..hehe.
Thanks again <333
As above, I can't really do that cause I do that to many guys..hehe.
Maybe I'm a flirt? I don't think so...haha xD
Back on topic..errrmmm,
Have you got any suggestions on what I can say?
Like...what would and what wouldn't freak you guys out if a girl confessed? haha.

Thankssss again so much <3

Just ask him if he wants to go out sometime, just the two of you. It's like Emerald Snow said, I'd still say he'd be more flattered than freaked.

[angel_b3k]

Just ask him if he wants to go out sometime, just the two of you. It's like Emerald Snow said, I'd still say he'd be more flattered than freaked.

A great idea =D haha.
He invited me to the movies with him alone before...but neh
We both couldn't make it *sigh*

Thank yews <33333

[mygroove]

hi fellas..just a question, if u like a gal, will u avoid her, like not lookin into her eyes, be cold to her?
I like this guy, last time we were so close in the past, we can talk really comfy, go out..but recently, we became distant, he is thinkin really deeply from his expressions...but he still tried his luck to get close to me, like leaning on me, touch me...hmmm..all these mixed signals are crazy man!!!

Any advisee? should i move on?

[Stevent]

Thanks Stevent and iEatPowder
for answering my previous question =D

Well, I have something else to ask you's now xD
This time, it's based on me..haha.

What is a good way to confess to a guy?
A way which won't make things too awkward between each other,
and a way that doesn't make the guy think "OMGGG;; she likes me" *runs away* kinda like thing ><
Hmmm, the only method I really have is text messaging..but I can try other methods

What can the girl say?
Meaning, I don't want to only say "I like you" and thats it.
Something that doesn't make the girl sound like she's in love with the guy and freak him out.
Something simple I guess?

Sorrii xD
I'm just kinda out in whoop whopp land atm ._____.

Thanks again <3

What you could do is just spend more time with him, and when you get comfortable enough, just give tell him how you really feel.
There's no right or wrong way about telling someone how you feel. There will always be an awkwardness when you tell someone you like them because you dont know how they will respond. The best method of telling someone you like them is face to face. You dont have to say "I like you", but more along the lines of "I have feelings for you" it's more subtle.

Why don't guys hold your hand or hug you in front of their friends?

those guys want to protect their image of being tough.

hi fellas..just a question, if u like a gal, will u avoid her, like not lookin into her eyes, be cold to her?
I like this guy, last time we were so close in the past, we can talk really comfy, go out..but recently, we became distant, he is thinkin really deeply from his expressions...but he still tried his luck to get close to me, like leaning on me, touch me...hmmm..all these mixed signals are crazy man!!!

Any advisee? should i move on?

I wouldnt want to avoid the girl that I'm crushing on her, it'll only create distance.
Do you have feelings for this guy? Because it seems like this guy has feelings for you. If both of your feelings are mutal, make the move.

[ekrystal]

I'd like to show my fiance how much I love him. I just want a suggestion of something creative to show him how much he means to me. I do tons already so let's see if someone can come up with something creative!

[Inevitable]

I'd like to show my fiance how much I love him. I just want a suggestion of something creative to show him how much he means to me. I do tons already so let's see if someone can come up with something creative!

if you play an instrument, write a song for him or learn a song that he knows/likes and take him to some restaurant or something and make arrangements to perform that song in front of him and the rest of the crowd. oh and before you do that, dedicate the song to him and let everyone in the room know how much you love him, i'm sure he'll greatly appreaciate it. if you can't sing well or mess up, it wont matter, the effort will overcome the flaws

[demllequ]

i was walking in the city with my boyfriend and i had these pattern stockings on under my skirt ( they kinda look like fishnets but with flowers if you get what i mean) and these ladies who walking pass kept looking at my stockings, i ask my boyfriend why they were staring and he was like "they think you're asking for it". when i asked my older sister she told me they probably thought the stockings looked nice.

why do guys always generalise things and say "you're asking for it" i dont get it.

[MARSHMELL0W]

GUYS,
does it honestly matter to you if your girlfriend shaves her i'mnotreallysureifit'sokayformetotypetheactualwordsoi'lljustbeimmatureandsayYOUKNOWWHERE

[DarkWaltz]

hi fellas..just a question, if u like a gal, will u avoid her, like not lookin into her eyes, be cold to her?
I like this guy, last time we were so close in the past, we can talk really comfy, go out..but recently, we became distant, he is thinkin really deeply from his expressions...but he still tried his luck to get close to me, like leaning on me, touch me...hmmm..all these mixed signals are crazy man!!!

Any advisee? should i move on?

Some guys are like that, while others will show it with no problems.Well, personally, if I'd avoid the girl, be cold to her and not look into her eyes, it's either because I know she likes another guy, or because she's not interested, or has a boyfriend.

[.sukaii.]

Guys,

If your family has arranged for you and the whole family
plus another stranger family (not really cause your parents know them)
to go on a vacation somewhere on the holidays,
and you were told there was a girl in the other family
that's younger/your age.

Would you take any interest at all?
(of course if you're single)

Thank you (:

- sukaii

[:: ShaDoW ::]

GUYS,
does it honestly matter to you if your girlfriend shaves her i'mnotreallysureifit'sokayformetotypetheactualwordsoi'lljustbeimmatureandsayYOUKNOWWHERE

i would prefer it if they did. in the end, its a matter of preference.

[강유미]

Guys,

If your family has arranged for you and the whole family
plus another stranger family (not really cause your parents know them)
to go on a vacation somewhere on the holidays,
and you were told there was a girl in the other family
that's younger/your age.

Would you take any interest at all?
(of course if you're single)

Thank you (:

- sukaii

I'd be interested, but not all desperate.
I'll just go with the flow and if the girl is seriously my style.
I'd thank my family later, for taking me there.

[iEatPowder]

GUYS,
does it honestly matter to you if your girlfriend shaves her i'mnotreallysureifit'sokayformetotypetheactualwordsoi'lljustbeimmatureandsayYOUKNOWWHERE

Some guys like the it clean, some like the air strip, and some just like it au natural.

Guys,

If your family has arranged for you and the whole family
plus another stranger family (not really cause your parents know them)
to go on a vacation somewhere on the holidays,
and you were told there was a girl in the other family
that's younger/your age.

Would you take any interest at all?
(of course if you're single)

Thank you (:

- sukaii

It would spark an interest. But I'd have to actually meet her, see what she looks like, and what her personality is all about. If we can't really relate then I'd just pass it up. If we do click, then I'd totally take the opportunity to get to know her better and stuff since I'm on vacation. Why not have the most fun possible?

[[HyuNi]]

i was walking in the city with my boyfriend and i had these pattern stockings on under my skirt ( they kinda look like fishnets but with flowers if you get what i mean) and these ladies who walking pass kept looking at my stockings, i ask my boyfriend why they were staring and he was like "they think you're asking for it". when i asked my older sister she told me they probably thought the stockings looked nice.

why do guys always generalise things and say "you're asking for it" i dont get it.

This reminds me of girls who wear those tight workout pants with big letterings of "JUICY" or "PRINCESS" or their school name, or sorority.
They say that they don't want you to look but it's there, out in the open, just asking to be seen.

You're wearing it because it looks cute, but you're also attracting attention. I think you know too...

-John

[la folie]

Are guys' butt harder/not as soft as girls'?

[ultaeja]

Is a guy's virginity important to him? Or is it not really important? O_O?