[iEatPowder]

Is a guy's virginity important to him? Or is it not? O_O.

Depends on the guy really. I lost it to someone i truly loved. I was in that relationship 10 months before we had sex. It was her first time too so it was all good. I was only 15 at the time, and boy was I happy. LOL :lol:but I have to add.. I really truly thought I would be with this girl forever. She moved away to college first and things went downhill from there.

Ok, I got a really retarded question for you guys so just don't laugh at me.I'm a gamer girl. I like games. I'm trying to dl a freaking game my guy friend sent me so i can play with him and his friends. Anyway, I really suck with technology and computers and I can't figure out how to open the ports for my torrent to work. I think I'm going to ask him to help me out.Now I kinda like the dude, just kinda and I don't want him to think I'm stupid. In most cases, would you guys think a girl is stupid? I'm an insecure person and I think too much...so yeah...And yes I do feel embarrassed for asking the question.

Nah... guys don't think girls are particularly stupid if they can't figure something technical out. I think he'd be glad to help.

[megaSTEPxo]

When you first meet a girl.. even just as a friend .. would you judge her by whether she's a gf material etc? or guys don't really think that until you've known her longer?

coz I was reading the girls thread and I realized we (girls) tend to do that right away (whether the guy is bf material).

[iEatPowder]

When you first meet a girl.. even just as a friend .. would you judge her by whether she's a gf material etc? or guys don't really think that until you've known her longer?

coz I was reading the girls thread and I realized we (girls) tend to do that right away (whether the guy is bf material).

I don't know about other guys, but I do that too. It's based on initial attraction. If I find her attractive, she's on the potential date list. But that can change once I get to know her. If there's something(s) about her personality I do not like, she can drop to the "friends" list or completely off my radar. Same goes with girls I am not initially attracted to. If I get to know her and I see her in a different light afterwards, she can get on the "potential date/relationship" list. Hope that helps!

[[HyuNi]]

When you first meet a girl.. even just as a friend .. would you judge her by whether she's a gf material etc? or guys don't really think that until you've known her longer?

coz I was reading the girls thread and I realized we (girls) tend to do that right away (whether the guy is bf material).

I'm like just what you assumed.

I don't really categorize girls right away if they are "girlfriend" material.
I just have a general impression that she's: funny, cute, good personaility, hot, pretty, etc.

I think I start to judge after we've met a couple times and had a chance to talk.
otherwise, I just think of that person as an aquaintance.

Can't trust first impressions.
Girls are too good at giving great first impressions... very elusive...

-John

[Rinrinn]

ieatpowder - thnx for the response!

[TrueColorS]

y did a guy make a promise to his ex-gf whom he hasnt seen in a few years that hes gonna come back to her when hes currently with another gf?

[CIRee]

y did a guy make a promise to his ex-gf whom he hasnt seen in a few years that hes gonna come back to her when hes currently with another gf?

Love can change people.

[MUGETSU]

okayy i met this guy and hes like really cute and stuff
and we've been talkin a lot these days
and like he wants to hang out like almost everyday at MY house
sometimes when my parents are home but mostly he wants to hang out when there not...
and he got really pissed off cuz i was talking to someone else besides him on the phone(it was a guy)
and he calls like every second like he calls me in the morning to wake me up and like right after he gets off from work and stuff...and i think im falling for him... ><

edit:
sorry...wat does this mean in a guys pov

he wants to have sex.

[kimseo]

Thanks to alllll the guys here <3

Mkay..so here's the situation.
These girls were telling me bull about my boyfriend (he was a girl, he is fake..) and I told them to *--- off and how could they make up that kind of crap when I know he's not? -0-; I told my boyfriend (this isn't the first time) and he said "Don't tell me these things, it makes me think you don't trust me," so I told him I would stop and never tell him and just ignore it. He seemed hurt so I told him I really, really do trust him and I would never trust those girls (because they're known to make up crap in the first place) and he's the only one I really trust, other then family. He told me he was hurt and tired of all the stuff that people say about it (he's pretty popular) and because of me he can't go out with other girls and such because he likes me a lot and other girls ask him all the time who I am and why can't he just leave me, blahblah (he's two years older than I am). He said I'm the first girl he ever really loved and I told him not to dump me and then he says "I'm sorry" and the leaves. >_>;; But today (it was yesterday), I looked at his profile on the messenger and it still has my name and telling other girls to leave him alone and I'm still on his other profile too...and I'm pretty certain he signed on while I was gone...

So is it over? T_T That's what I've been worrying about all day...
Should I just give him time to calm down? My guy friend said he was just pissed off and to let him think..

[Stevent]

Is a guy's virginity important to him? Or is it not? O_O.

to me it is a big deal. I rather wait until Im married.

Ok, I got a really retarded question for you guys so just don't laugh at me.

I'm a gamer girl. I like games. I'm trying to dl a freaking game my guy friend sent me so i can play with him and his friends. Anyway, I really suck with technology and computers and I can't figure out how to open the ports for my torrent to work. I think I'm going to ask him to help me out.

Now I kinda like the dude, just kinda and I don't want him to think I'm stupid. In most cases, would you guys think a girl is stupid? I'm an insecure person and I think too much...so yeah...

And yes I do feel embarrassed for asking the question.

No, I wouldnt categorized someone who doesnt know how to use technology dump or stupid because not everyone knows how to use the technology nowadays. Everything is more complicated then how it was years before. You cant blame yourself for something that you have no control over. I doubt that the guy you like would think that you are stupid.

Thanks to alllll the guys here <3

Mkay..so here's the situation.
These girls were telling me bull about my boyfriend (he was a girl, he is fake..) and I told them to *--- off and how could they make up that kind of crap when I know he's not? -0-; I told my boyfriend (this isn't the first time) and he said "Don't tell me these things, it makes me think you don't trust me," so I told him I would stop and never tell him and just ignore it. He seemed hurt so I told him I really, really do trust him and I would never trust those girls (because they're known to make up crap in the first place) and he's the only one I really trust, other then family. He told me he was hurt and tired of all the stuff that people say about it (he's pretty popular) and because of me he can't go out with other girls and such because he likes me a lot and other girls ask him all the time who I am and why can't he just leave me, blahblah (he's two years older than I am). He said I'm the first girl he ever really loved and I told him not to dump me and then he says "I'm sorry" and the leaves. >_>;; But today (it was yesterday), I looked at his profile on the messenger and it still has my name and telling other girls to leave him alone and I'm still on his other profile too...and I'm pretty certain he signed on while I was gone...

So is it over? T_T That's what I've been worrying about all day...
Should I just give him time to calm down? My guy friend said he was just pissed off and to let him think..

I dont think it's over, just give him some time to think. He's just stressed because of the rumors about him. Once he clears his head, he'll talk to you. Give him about a week, give or take. Some people are just asses these days.

[kimseo]

Ack, thanks Stevent.
I guess I'll just let him think for a while.

[lilcookiex3]

Why do guys tend to act differently towards their girlfriends and their friends?
And does a friendly kiss on the cheek mean cheating?

[moblastin]

Why do guys tend to act differently towards their girlfriends and their friends?
And does a friendly kiss on the cheek mean cheating?

because they get uncomfortable a little maybe?? i never had that problem so i dont really no, but no a peck on the chek dsnt sound like cheating to me

[cavil.]

Why do guys tend to act differently towards their girlfriends and their friends?

Emotional instability, psychological disruptions, androgen influences, MTV-oriented marketing effects, misogynistic subliminal messaging, being horny, indie lyrics, something called "rap", off-setting from series of romantic movies, and because their social behaviors differ towards one person to another because they have this wild idea that this person likes one particular attitude, so when you open up some other part of you, they're completely in shock.

So, in conclusion, because guys are humans and humans are stupid.

And does a friendly kiss on the cheek mean cheating?

No. Absolutely not! If that counts, then so far, I have cheated with two French teachers, dozens and dozens of elderly women, and Sea World dolphins.

[thisisapigg]

is there anything i can do (words, actions, anything!!!) to stop my boyfriend from being mean to me? i want him to treat me like a GIRLFRIEND and not just one of the stupid guys. i don't even think he acts like this way with his friends but i rarely see him with his friends. just today when i said, "maybe you should drink some water" because it was really hot, he said "don't tell me what to do. i'll do what i want!" he does this ALL THE TIME and i'm only trying to help.

i talked about this to him once. when he thinks he's being blamed and accused of something, he acts really defensive and turns it against me.

am i just a being a wuss or is something wrong? he WAS nice before. now he's a jerk.

[Inevitable]

is there anything i can do (words, actions, anything!!!) to stop my boyfriend from being mean to me? i want him to treat me like a GIRLFRIEND and not just one of the stupid guys. i don't even think he acts like this way with his friends but i rarely see him with his friends. just today when i said, "maybe you should drink some water" because it was really hot, he said "don't tell me what to do. i'll do what i want!" he does this ALL THE TIME and i'm only trying to help.

i talked about this to him once. when he thinks he's being blamed and accused of something, he acts really defensive and turns it against me.

am i just a being a wuss or is something wrong? he WAS nice before. now he's a jerk.

he seems a little immature(no offense), but i've witnessed many guys treat their gf's like 'one of the guys'. I can see how you feel he's being a jerk. I think the way you talk to him can have a lot to do with it. If you said the "maybe you should drink some water" thing with an annoyed look or if it came off sounding sarcastic, then he probably took it that way. Hmm.. I think you should really have a talk to him, mention how you understand that he wants to treat you like one of the guys, but he shouldn't overdue it because you arent one of the guys, you're his girlfriend. Since he gets really defensive, talk to him really nicely so that he doesnt feel attacked. hope that helps good luck

[baybeekarmie]

why do guys say and does one thing with you and when asked by his bestfriend whom is totally in love with you they say another and deny the whole thing? and then later on confront you for saying something about it?

why do they do/says one thing but then infront of people they act the complete other way around?

(i.e. he goes to hang out with you whom is his ex girlfriend and then when his crazy in love with you bestfriend asks him about it casually.. he flips out and denys the whole thing then makes a scene out of it by confronting you later on in privacy)
(i.e. he goes to hang out with you every night and tells you not to tell his bestfriend whom is also your bestfriend... and then he gets all emotional talk with you and then somehow somewhere he slips a kiss in and says he cant help it because he misses you and that he cant do that around his bestfriend nor can he hug you.. and do all the little things he use to do with you when you guys were together.. )

[atsirac]

how long does a guy need to get over a breakup? i know this is kinda subjective but would appreciate any answers i get. =x

[Inevitable]

why do guys say and does one thing with you and when asked by his bestfriend whom is totally in love with you they say another and deny the whole thing? and then later on confront you for saying something about it?

why do they do/says one thing but then infront of people they act the complete other way around?

-Um, the question is a little strange, but I think he does/says things with you and doesnt tell the other friend the truth because maybe his friend might be jealous that he was with you doing whatever it is that he had to lie about. He probably confronted you because he didnt want his friend to know, but now his friend knows and probably thinks he's a liar.

-he probably has different personalities set when hanging out with certain people

how long does a guy need to get over a breakup? i know this is kinda subjective but would appreciate any answers i get. =x

The intensity of the relationship will have a lot of impact on how the guy reacts after the break up. If it was a really loving relationship that ended for whatever reason, then it will probably take a while, if it was lame, he might get over it pretty fast. I don't think there's a definite answer for this, all people have their own way of coping

[iEatPowder]

The intensity of the relationship will have a lot of impact on how the guy reacts after the break up. If it was a really loving relationship that ended for whatever reason, then it will probably take a while, if it was lame, he might get over it pretty fast. I don't think there's a definite answer for this, all people have their own way of coping

That just about sums it up right there. Took me a good 4-5 years to really truly get over my ex. We were together for about 2 years. Other relationships that were a bit more shallow and less intimate, I had no problem getting over.