[monchichi]

Question:

My ex once said to me that he would love to tie me up to a chair and lock me up or something freaky like that. He was never the emo type.

And apparently, my friend's bfonce said to her that he loved her so much that he would like to lock her up in a cupboard o_o He was a pretty normal person too.

Do all guys harbour some secret S&M bondage-type-sick-fantasy about their gfs or girls in general? Or are my ex and my friend's bf just weird people?

[hked]

Are all guys dirty minded..? loL..just curious

yes.......well a lot of guys anyway

Question:

My ex once said to me that he would love to tie me up to a chair and lock me up or something freaky like that. He was never the emo type.

And apparently, my friend's bfonce said to her that he loved her so much that he would like to lock her up in a cupboard o_o He was a pretty normal person too.

Do all guys harbour some secret S&M bondage-type-sick-fantasy about their gfs or girls in general? Or are my ex and my friend's bf just weird people?

lmao bondage style.....no..that guy is weird

I'm curious... how much of an age gap would be the limit for you guys? And would it make a difference if she will be turning 18 soon?

Second question, I don't really know how to word this.. so here goes. If one day you meet someone, and the age gap between the two of you is more than what you've "set", would you go for it anyway? Would there be a chance that you would fall for her or not at all?

Let's hope that made sense HAHA! wink.gif

*1 im willing to date someone 1-2 years older than me ... and the fact that she will be turning 18 soon is not a matter.. i would think females would see age difference (as in guy being younger) as more of a problem =\

*2 it really depends on the degree of interest i have in her, and whether shes willing to return the love ^^. i mean i kno a lot of girls who will never go out with a guy younger.

[Volatile_Soul]

why does my bf's ex keep calling him, even though he says he's told her not to! and he i think still secretly calls her? am i being paranoid?

[chubbycheeks]

I am not a guy.. but I really want to comment on this
Maybe the girl he likes is YOU?
and he's just trying to see how your reaction is??

nah i know who the girl is LOL i wondered about that too

[Inevitable]

At first I thought something big must have happened that made him really busy so I never questioned it. I relied on phone calls and texts for about a week into the whole thing but then when he wasn't calling back or replying back to my texts I tried to see him in person. When I went to go see him he's not home or when my 'brother' had a party I thought I'd see him there considering they are best friends but I find out he left early. He left like practically a minute right before I got there. I couldn't get there early enough because I had work so yeah. He knows the times I work, so this gave me an even bigger blow because he's avoiding me. I kind of want to punch the living daylights out of him if I do see him.

I don't really know what to do anymore really. I mean a friendship is a two way street right? It can't just be one person doing everything.

Umm about the punching thing hahaha...from my one hour 'session' with my punching bag, it's deformed now because I kept on punching at one side. There is like this crater LOL.

Thanks for the input buddy =)

yeah friendship definitely has to have a mutual agreement to work.

I feel bad for your punching bag (runs)

&no problem, glad to help

why does my bf's ex keep calling him, even though he says he's told her not to! and he i think still secretly calls her? am i being paranoid?

maybe they're really close, or she wants to get back with him/trying to win him back. you arent being paranoid, i'd talk to him and ask him to stop answering her calls since he told her not to call

[birainy]

I had a guy I totally crushed on for 3 years..

after i told myself i didn't like him anymore, we started to get close and stuff, coz we're like classmates..

he knows that I had a major crush on him, and he's always teasing me that I still like him now.

he even wants me to sit with him during stat class!

I caught him twice staring at me weirdly, the 1st one he averted his eyes quickly, the 2nd one he just stared eventhough he already knows that I see him staring at me..

He has a girlfriend and all, but he likes to hold my hand and pretend we're lovers and stuff during stat class.. but after awhile, he suddenly pushes me away again and insults me..

bec. he thinks i still like him, he says that friends is what all we'll ever be, I mean, i get annoyed sometimes coz he always jumps to conclusions that everybody has a crush on him!!

he says that I'm his girl bestfriend that's why he's saying his secrets to me..

he's so confusing... what do you guys think?

but I think he really doesn't feel anything..

[hked]

I had a guy I totally crushed on for 3 years..

after i told myself i didn't like him anymore, we started to get close and stuff, coz we're like classmates..

he knows that I had a major crush on him, and he's always teasing me that I still like him now.

he even wants me to sit with him during stat class!

I caught him twice staring at me weirdly, the 1st one he averted his eyes quickly, the 2nd one he just stared eventhough he already knows that I see him staring at me..

He has a girlfriend and all, but he likes to hold my hand and pretend we're lovers and stuff during stat class.. but after awhile, he suddenly pushes me away again and insults me..

bec. he thinks i still like him, he says that friends is what all we'll ever be, I mean, i get annoyed sometimes coz he always jumps to conclusions that everybody has a crush on him!!

he says that I'm his girl bestfriend that's why he's saying his secrets to me..

he's so confusing... what do you guys think?

but I think he really doesn't feel anything..

hes making himself pretty clear.......he doesnt have any feelings for u

[sockrahtease]

What's your favorite song to make-out to, and why?

[cavil.]

Question:

My ex once said to me that he would love to tie me up to a chair and lock me up or something freaky like that. He was never the emo type.

And apparently, my friend's bfonce said to her that he loved her so much that he would like to lock her up in a cupboard o_o He was a pretty normal person too.

Do all guys harbour some secret S&M bondage-type-sick-fantasy about their gfs or girls in general? Or are my ex and my friend's bf just weird people?

You not being phased by it just makes it hotter.

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

Are all guys dirty minded..? loL..just curious

Yes.... some of us hide it a lot better than others, and to be fair some guys are just rarely dirty minded

Question:

My ex once said to me that he would love to tie me up to a chair and lock me up or something freaky like that. He was never the emo type.

And apparently, my friend's bfonce said to her that he loved her so much that he would like to lock her up in a cupboard o_o He was a pretty normal person too.

Do all guys harbour some secret S&M bondage-type-sick-fantasy about their gfs or girls in general? Or are my ex and my friend's bf just weird people?

No... most guys do not have bondage fetishes....

I had a guy I totally crushed on for 3 years..

after i told myself i didn't like him anymore, we started to get close and stuff, coz we're like classmates..

he knows that I had a major crush on him, and he's always teasing me that I still like him now.

he even wants me to sit with him during stat class!

I caught him twice staring at me weirdly, the 1st one he averted his eyes quickly, the 2nd one he just stared eventhough he already knows that I see him staring at me..

He has a girlfriend and all, but he likes to hold my hand and pretend we're lovers and stuff during stat class.. but after awhile, he suddenly pushes me away again and insults me..

bec. he thinks i still like him, he says that friends is what all we'll ever be, I mean, i get annoyed sometimes coz he always jumps to conclusions that everybody has a crush on him!!

he says that I'm his girl bestfriend that's why he's saying his secrets to me..

he's so confusing... what do you guys think?

but I think he really doesn't feel anything..

He is kinda disturbing. He's egomanical and he believes he's a complete player..... Honestly that's the impression I get, I mean he flirts around with you and then takes it all back as if it was nothing, and just the way he handles himself is that of someone who believes he has this irresistible trait...... And yeah he doesn't like you, he's just adding to his ego...

[ivuson]

Question:

My ex once said to me that he would love to tie me up to a chair and lock me up or something freaky like that. He was never the emo type.

And apparently, my friend's bfonce said to her that he loved her so much that he would like to lock her up in a cupboard o_o He was a pretty normal person too.

Do all guys harbour some secret S&M bondage-type-sick-fantasy about their gfs or girls in general? Or are my ex and my friend's bf just weird people?

It's not so much a bondage statement per se...think of it more like he loves you so much that he doesn't ever want to let you go, I think the "lock me up" part is a way of him wishing he can guarantee that you'll stay with him forever. I've honestly told one of my girlfriends before that I wanted to chop her up and eat her so that she'll be with me forever...now did I mean that literally? Of course not, just in a moment where you feel intense love you say ridiculous things....Now if he buys a whip a arse-less leather chaps then you're on your own...

[machii]

another dumb question.

but i'm just curious.

i've heard of so many girls that make those "paper star jars" for guys.
they spend soo much time trying to make every star perfect-

but do guys really appreciate these kinds of things?

[what~the~vu]

another dumb question.

but i'm just curious.

i've heard of so many girls that make those "paper star jars" for guys.
they spend soo much time trying to make every star perfect-

but do guys really appreciate these kinds of things?

this one has been asked already, but it can be cool in the beginning. after awhile it just becomes paper weight...lol...but once in awhile it is meaningful to look at though

[ultaeja]

When a girl doesn't know how to cook, is that a turn off? O-o...

[mojomunkeez]

When a girl doesn't know how to cook, is that a turn off? O-o...

Not necessarily. I'm sure that the ideal girl for all guys knows how to cook, but that's not to say that we won't like you if you don't. But it might be a good idea to learn.

[tinamanning01]

so me and this guy are going out for a while but all of a sudden he becomes really shy again like when we first met. hes afraid to ask me to hangout bc hes scared to say something wrong and etc but im his girlfriend. why would he be scared? im waiting but i feel like i cant wiat for him to make up his mind. am i his girlfriend or not? what is the best way to approach him and confront him? i dont want to make him feel terrible.

[iEatPowder]

another dumb question.

but i'm just curious.

i've heard of so many girls that make those "paper star jars" for guys.
they spend soo much time trying to make every star perfect-

but do guys really appreciate these kinds of things?

I'm a practical guy, and I think those jars are a waste of time, effort, and space. They're practically useless aside from their aesthetic value, which isn't even all that much either.

When a girl doesn't know how to cook, is that a turn off? O-o...

You just better be damn good in bed.

so me and this guy are going out for a while but all of a sudden he becomes really shy again like when we first met. hes afraid to ask me to hangout bc hes scared to say something wrong and etc but im his girlfriend. why would he be scared? im waiting but i feel like i cant wiat for him to make up his mind. am i his girlfriend or not? what is the best way to approach him and confront him? i dont want to make him feel terrible.

why would that even happen? I've never even heard of something so strange where you revert backwards? He just sounds extremely insecure. Just tell him to man up. Put it in perspective for him and ask him why you'd want to be a in relationship where the guy is doubtful and timid. Ask him why he'd want a relationship where he was always uncomfortable around the girl, and if this is what he really wants.

[what~the~vu]

When a girl doesn't know how to cook, is that a turn off? O-o...

if i can cook more things than a girl can....then there is a big problem there..lol

[xsilentangel]

do guys actually like corny stuff? cuz i don't like that stuff and i cant imagine doing anything corny for a guy

[AngelsKiss]

WHY DO YOU GUYS GET MAD SO EASY for such a small thing. honestly why!