[VindictusDame]

I HAVE ONE QUESTION : Why do A smiles at B, says hello, ask how are you, says goodbye to B but never talks to B when his friends are arounD them?

[Inevitable]

I HAVE ONE QUESTION : Why do A smiles at B, says hello, ask how are you, says goodbye to B but never talks to B when his friends are arounD them?

A doesn't want his friends to speculate that he may have interest in B. Lots of guys would rather keep their feelings to themselves, plus.. lots of guys like to tease people when they know/think that they like someone. you know, the "oOOOooOoOo" sound that people make, well at least in the US.

[birainy]

hes making himself pretty clear.......he doesnt have any feelings for u

dude.. he's so freaking confusing.

he told his girl bestfriend, which is a friend of mine... that he liked me and just 30% more and he'll fall in love with me..

what the freak?

[hked]

dude.. he's so freaking confusing.

he told his girl bestfriend, which is a friend of mine... that he liked me and just 30% more and he'll fall in love with me..

what the freak?

ye but if he liked you, he wouldnt say anything that'll make u doubt his feelings for u

[malljclay]

How do guys distinguish a girl from dress sexy and dressing like a slut?




LMBO

[miss adorablexd]

1. why are all guys horrible human beings ? lol

2. do all guys feeel insecure when the girl talks to someone they liked before and kissed(becuase of dare games) but are still good friends knowing that the other guy has no feelings for the girl ? becuase my boyfriend doesnt like me talking to the guy .. and sometimes i find it annoyng. (becuase i know me and that guy will never happen.)

3. Do guys get jealous easily in general?

4. i guess my guy is really sensitive. but he gets mad at me a lot so i always have to apologize to him.. but sometimes i forget that he doesnt like whatever i did and i still do it anyway and he gets mad at me again. do you think its his problem or mine? even tho i know i should keep in mind that he doesnt like it. but shouldnt he just think of it as "thats how she is" and let it go.. i thought in relationships both sides gotta put up with each others flaws.

[Laxntiga]

How do guys distinguish a girl from dress sexy and dressing like a slut?
LMBO

The way she talks, acts, walks. Have some class. Girls would probably say.. omg she's wearing such revealing clothes! SLUT! lol, all girls want attention, some want more and some will go further to get recognized. You dress classy and still be sexy, leave some for the guys imagination.

1. why are all guys horrible human beings ? lol

2. do all guys feeel insecure when the girl talks to someone they liked before and kissed(becuase of dare games) but are still good friends knowing that the other guy has no feelings for the girl ? becuase my boyfriend doesnt like me talking to the guy .. and sometimes i find it annoyng. (becuase i know me and that guy will never happen.)

3. Do guys get jealous easily in general?

4. i guess my guy is really sensitive. but he gets mad at me a lot so i always have to apologize to him.. but sometimes i forget that he doesnt like whatever i did and i still do it anyway and he gets mad at me again. do you think its his problem or mine? even tho i know i should keep in mind that he doesnt like it. but shouldnt he just think of it as "thats how she is" and let it go.. i thought in relationships both sides gotta put up with each others flaws.

1. This is not true, I am not horrible, I am a guy.

2. uhhhh, I wouldn't. Maybe you should explain the situation to your bf so he doesn't feel so unsecure.

3. Relationships are a give-and-take, you and him both should learn to work it out and compromise on specific things. If you realllllllllly liked him would you change your behavior for him? Do you think he would for you? Women say they can train their men........ but in reality, men dont change. I believe women just see it differently.

[vompy]

Okay boy likes girl. Boy want to find out more about the girl, so he does. And he finds that she can take care of herself, she makes her own money doesn't need anyone else, she has her head on right, and she has a good future. All the sudden the boy doesn't want to be with the girl anymore, why?

[hibari]

I don't know any of his friends... but if I did I would have definitely asked them. Argh soo the methods i mentioned are too stalkerish...
I sent him a text asking him to tell me if he doesn't want to see my anymore, not just by ignoring me. And he never responded!
BTW, my friend also experienced this too. This guy showed so much interest in her, then he never contacted her again. She tried to contact him, but he barely answered. She gave up in the end.

So should I just stop wondering and trying guys?

i've never heard of a guy being like this to his girlfriend. what kind of boyfrined doesn't introduce his girlfriend to his friends? If you know who his friends are and they perhaps attend the same school as you then you can casually stop them and ask really nicely whats up with your boyfriend. If not, just give up on him. if he ever really liked you while you guys were dating he wouldn't be treating you this way. he's not worth your time, there are better fish in the sea.

[sahdanghayohx33]

i have some questions that would like to be answered
if some dont fall in with the topic please ignore if have too
1. whenever im at the movies with my boyfriend he always tends to "knee" me does that mean anything? and after he does that he just looks at me..
2. his little sister and i used to play around with each other all the timee..best friends..now that i go out with her brother. she hates me. why??
3. oh movies again..we've gone to the movies together 39845 times. but never alone.. always with his friends and me. is he scared to go just alone with me?
4. and last one..my boyfriends frriends always flirt with me infront of my boyfriend. i think trying to make him jealous. why do you guys do that??

[ms. rachellica]

Probably. If I wanted something I'd say it. But.... I could test the girl to see how much she knows me, if she loved me she'd get me car parts =)

omg that's perfect! he's really into cars. the thing is can u suggest something i cud get him? coz i'm not a gear head, so i wudn't kno what i'm buying LOL

[*smilez_for_me]

if a guy friend likes u, wouldnt he be the one to start conversations and intiate somthing? keep in mind they are friends and have no problem talking to each other... if he doesnt do anything is it that they are not interested and want u to forget abt them?

[philophobia.]

i have so many questions to be answered.

1. after a break up from a long time relationship (which was really going well.. till the day the broke up) how do guys normally feel?

2. will a guy ever love his ex again after they broke up and he says he's over her and is completely done with and only sees her as a friend.?

3. why are guys soo confusing -_____-;;?

4. if a guy told you he loves you.. forever.. & you were the first..? how does he get over it so faST? roflmao.


sorry ; if i dont make sense in some of the questions i asked.

[Slug]

if a guy friend likes u, wouldnt he be the one to start conversations and intiate somthing? keep in mind they are friends and have no problem talking to each other... if he doesnt do anything is it that they are not interested and want u to forget abt them?

When a guy friend likes you, he usually tries really hard to impress you and initiate conversation. He'll probably make the first move, unless.. he knows the girl doesn't like him and he doesn't want to get rejected, so he then avoids conversation. It's not that he doesn't like you anymore, it's that he's afraid you'll reject him and then have the awkwardness settle in.

i have so many questions to be answered.

1. after a break up from a long time relationship (which was really going well.. till the day the broke up) how do guys normally feel?

2. will a guy ever love his ex again after they broke up and he says he's over her and is completely done with and only sees her as a friend.?

3. why are guys soo confusing -_____-;;?

4. if a guy told you he loves you.. forever.. & you were the first..? how does he get over it so faST? roflmao.
sorry ; if i dont make sense in some of the questions i asked.

1. Guys feel like shiet and they really miss the girl. That's only natural.
2. If a guy and girl break up and are still "friends" one or the other will still have feelings for the other. It's inevitable.
3. The real question is: why are girls so confusing?
4. If a guy tells you he loves you, forever, and that you were his first, then it's likely just a lie so that he can get into your panties.

[Sapphire852]

I HAVE ONE QUESTION : Why do A smiles at B, says hello, ask how are you, says goodbye to B but never talks to B when his friends are arounD them?

B probably doesnt really know A's friends that well, and if he just walks into that crowd, it'll be kinda awkward if he only talks to A.

How do guys distinguish a girl from dress sexy and dressing like a slut?
LMBO

it's about the action of the girl, and dressing sexy doesnt always require the girl to reveal her body

1. why are all guys horrible human beings ? lol

2. do all guys feeel insecure when the girl talks to someone they liked before and kissed(becuase of dare games) but are still good friends knowing that the other guy has no feelings for the girl ? becuase my boyfriend doesnt like me talking to the guy .. and sometimes i find it annoyng. (becuase i know me and that guy will never happen.)

3. Do guys get jealous easily in general?

4. i guess my guy is really sensitive. but he gets mad at me a lot so i always have to apologize to him.. but sometimes i forget that he doesnt like whatever i did and i still do it anyway and he gets mad at me again. do you think its his problem or mine? even tho i know i should keep in mind that he doesnt like it. but shouldnt he just think of it as "thats how she is" and let it go.. i thought in relationships both sides gotta put up with each others flaws.

1. we're not.
2. some do, but the bf doesnt know that there's nothing between those two for sure.
3.it's not a guy or girl thing... jealousy varies from person to person
4.you're right, a relationship should be two sided, if whatever it is that is bothering him, is part of "who you are", and you're not hurting people or anything seriously bad, then you guys really need to talk it over and work something out.

Okay boy likes girl. Boy want to find out more about the girl, so he does. And he finds that she can take care of herself, she makes her own money doesn't need anyone else, she has her head on right, and she has a good future. All the sudden the boy doesn't want to be with the girl anymore, why?

the guy feels inferior and threatened by a girl, and worries that the girl would either think he's not good enough for her, or if they were to become a couple, the girl might leave him at anytime to find a better guy.

i have some questions that would like to be answered
if some dont fall in with the topic please ignore if have too
1. whenever im at the movies with my boyfriend he always tends to "knee" me does that mean anything? and after he does that he just looks at me..
2. his little sister and i used to play around with each other all the timee..best friends..now that i go out with her brother. she hates me. why??
3. oh movies again..we've gone to the movies together 39845 times. but never alone.. always with his friends and me. is he scared to go just alone with me?
4. and last one..my boyfriends frriends always flirt with me infront of my boyfriend. i think trying to make him jealous. why do you guys do that??

1. he's bored and wants your attention
2. we're all guys here, you're gonna have to ask the little sisters in the "ask the ladies" thread.
3. he might be worried that when there;s only two people you guys might not have enough to talk about.
4. people draw the line of "flirting" that separates "being friendly" at different places

if a guy friend likes u, wouldnt he be the one to start conversations and intiate somthing? keep in mind they are friends and have no problem talking to each other... if he doesnt do anything is it that they are not interested and want u to forget abt them?

well, it could just be a small test the guy is doing, seeing if it's just one sided. if he's always the one starting the conversations, he might worry that he's actually bothering you, so he tries to just stay quiet for awhile and see if you'll initiation the conversation for a change.

i have so many questions to be answered.

1. after a break up from a long time relationship (which was really going well.. till the day the broke up) how do guys normally feel?

2. will a guy ever love his ex again after they broke up and he says he's over her and is completely done with and only sees her as a friend.?

3. why are guys soo confusing -_____-;;?

4. if a guy told you he loves you.. forever.. & you were the first..? how does he get over it so faST? roflmao.
sorry ; if i dont make sense in some of the questions i asked.

1. it varies from relationship to relationship, person to person, situation to situation, it's not really a guy or girl thing
2. same answer as above
3. because girls and boys are different, and couples dont communication enough
4. he was using his words lightly, without thinking of the actual meaning of the words

haha, such a long post =P

[megaSTEPxo]

well, it could just be a small test the guy is doing, seeing if it's just one sided. if he's always the one starting the conversations, he might worry that he's actually bothering you, so he tries to just stay quiet for awhile and see if you'll initiation the conversation for a change.

Say the guy messages the girl online.. and he asks what she's doing.
The girl says she's just chatting.
Would the guy take it the wrong way and feel a bit.. disappointed? Like thinking other ppl are more interesting to talk to them him?

[joongielove]

Another question from me. ^^;; Sorry.

If a guy treats both your parents with the most respect, and they love him[like, bringing them ice cream and stuff when they're watching from a corner and talking to them about how nice their daughter is...-.-;;], does that mean he genuinely wants to get the girls parents to like him so they won't kill him later on, or does he have another purpose?

[xLionHeartx]

If a guy treats both your parents with the most respect, and they love him[like, bringing them ice cream and stuff when they're watching from a corner and talking to them about how nice their daughter is...-.-;;], does that mean he genuinely wants to get the girls parents to like him so they won't kill him later on, or does he have another purpose?

I think in general, people would like to put off a good impression on their significant other's parents. He probably has good social skills to be able to uphold a conversation with your parents. I also think age matters, when you're like pre-teen/teenager, I think parents tend to think of it more as puppy love. As an adult, the relationship with the parents is more about them getting to know your significant other to see if they're a good match I think. I hope that helped. x)

[joongielove]

I think in general, people would like to put off a good impression on their significant other's parents. He probably has good social skills to be able to uphold a conversation with your parents. I also think age matters, when you're like pre-teen/teenager, I think parents tend to think of it more as puppy love. As an adult, the relationship with the parents is more about them getting to know your significant other to see if they're a good match I think. I hope that helped. x)

Yeah, that does. Him being so nice to my parents just freaks me out LOL

[Rini]

Don't know if this was asked but :What do you guys look for girls? XD Are y'all the same when it comes to the stereotype that all guys really wants hot girls? I mean come on some guys don't really look that hot...but yet they are so hard to get. What happens to us average girls? Some average girls gets bfs, alot of them, but some average girls don't even have luck. Got some advices for those girls like me!? XD!!!! Ekk this is so embarassing to ask.


edit// How about how to attract for a starting point?