[DaAzNkIgGa627]

WTH is this about????!!:

Guy:
1. Pretends to like girl's best friend to get the girl and best friend to fight over him.
2. Guy reads note I wrote him. Doesn't reply. Sees me at graduation and acts like I'm not there.
Then later on goes, "Why didn't she talk to me about it?" (Referring to the note.)
3. After reading note, guy asks my friend for my number multiple times to talk about it and then says, "Ahhh! No, I don't want her number! Why would I want her number?" everytime he asked for it. (WTH??)
4. Guy kept the note and was caught looking at it twice by his little sis.

Why the hell are you guys so confusing???

1. Guy is an arrogant idiot who thinks that he is just that awesome... ignore him
2. What did you write in the note. If you said you liked him, he probably feels awkward in that situation.
3. Guy is nervous? Or again he thinks he's just that awesome
4. Guy is nervous? Or again he thinks he's just that awesome.

this would vary guy to guy, but i wanna get a general idea..

so say that u went on vacation out of the country for 2 wks & u come back to find out that ur gf of 7 months who u are in love with cheated on u with 2 guys. is it over? would u take her back if she promises she'll change?

i`ve talked to my friend (the guy), told him she`s not worth it & he should move on and he agreed he would break it off but she still calls him/goes over to his place ALL THE TIME cuz she wants to be w/ him so he took her back when she promised she`ll change
but she hasn`t. she still treats him like crap & is hella shady like deleting texts from guys she gets right away saying they are nothing, just friends. my friend gets SO upset.. i hate seeing him hurt so much.

is there anything i can do to help him? or is it something he just has to figure out on his own??

WOW..... 2 guys... in 2 weeks.... Wow if I was the guy I'd be pretty pissed.... I mean even though 7 months isn't that long of a time, it's enough of a time where you feel a definite connection. And just to be gone 2 weeks.... People don't change easily. But if he's that blind to his love... than dissuade him subtly. He might misdirect his anger at his friends. Do it subtly, comfort him, but in the end he has to figure out for himself.

But if I was the guy... Wow.... That really suck for him =/

[PoooBear]

Question;

Should I tell my boyfriend that he's my first boyfriend, first real kiss, first basically everything to do with relationships? (I dunno about first love, it's a bit extreme for the short time we've been together, it feels like forever though) Or would that just freak him out? I'm kinda scared that it will make me sound vulnerable and inexperienced :/ since he's had girlfriends before.

[jihyepii]

what does it mean if the boyfriend rarely calls you

[Ashi]

Why are guys so perverted? I asked my boyfriend the question, and he basically told me that guys get hard/horny all the time, even when they're not around girls, or just hanging with their buddies, or for no specific reason at all. And he's prefectly straight.

And just how "special" do guys feel when they're a girl's first?

And why do guys go telling off to their friends when they first lose their virginity or take away a girl's virginity? That's just....grr!

And how long after a guy's relationship will he eventually get over his first love?

[Inevitable]

Question;

Should I tell my boyfriend that he's my first boyfriend, first real kiss, first basically everything to do with relationships? (I dunno about first love, it's a bit extreme for the short time we've been together, it feels like forever though) Or would that just freak him out? I'm kinda scared that it will make me sound vulnerable and inexperienced :/ since he's had girlfriends before.

To me personally, it wouldn't matter and i'd actually prefer the 'non experienced'. If there isn't any real reason to tell him that you are his first, then I suggest not telling him unless he asks. It shouldn't matter either way, though.

what does it mean if the boyfriend rarely calls you

There can be many reasons for this, but since I dont know the whole story, i'll take a wild guess and say he's very busy.

Why are guys so perverted? I asked my boyfriend the question, and he basically told me that guys get hard/horny all the time, even when they're not around girls, or just hanging with their buddies, or for no specific reason at all. And he's prefectly straight.

And just how "special" do guys feel when they're a girl's first?

And why do guys go telling off to their friends when they first lose their virginity or take away a girl's virginity? That's just....grr!

And how long after a guy's relationship will he eventually get over his first love?

Yeah it happens. It's random sometimes, lots of guys even wake up with morning woodys. I don't know about the whole feeling horny around buddies cause i've never experienced that, especially in a group of guys. But yeah, we're not really perverted, we just have no control sometimes.

Depends on the guy, i'd feel pretty special, though.

"guy talk". I believe girls talk about this stuff too

You can't really calculate how long it will take for someone to get over their first love. Some relationships get very close, while some dont, even with that.. some guys move on faster than others, while others take years.

[faye2thesky]

Question;

Should I tell my boyfriend that he's my first boyfriend, first real kiss, first basically everything to do with relationships? (I dunno about first love, it's a bit extreme for the short time we've been together, it feels like forever though) Or would that just freak him out? I'm kinda scared that it will make me sound vulnerable and inexperienced :/ since he's had girlfriends before.

As a guy, it wouldn't matter. But I'm sure it's pretty good to know that he's the first you want to spend time together with.

what does it mean if the boyfriend rarely calls you

He probably just don't like phone calls and prefer either in-person or online. Personally, everytime I call my girl, there's always a 10 - 15 min block of time in our calls where we'd just sit there and listen to each other breathe and type to each other online ._."

Why are guys so perverted? I asked my boyfriend the question, and he basically told me that guys get hard/horny all the time, even when they're not around girls, or just hanging with their buddies, or for no specific reason at all. And he's prefectly straight.

And just how "special" do guys feel when they're a girl's first?

And why do guys go telling off to their friends when they first lose their virginity or take away a girl's virginity? That's just....grr!

And how long after a guy's relationship will he eventually get over his first love?

Guys aren't afraid to show that they're horny. C'mon, we talk about girls even when it's a sausage fest at some guy's garage and there's a fact/trivia saying that guys think about sex every 7 or so seconds. Is that really such a big surprise?

We feel pretty good unless it went really REALLY badly. You're trusting the guy with ur v-card and it's an honor for us.

lol, to us guys, getting laid or having done it seems like a big accomplishment. Unless it's by a prostitute or a slut then... not really. But I don't think we'd brag about taking girl's virginity... unless she's played hard to get, then it might seem like another accomplishment.

Depends on that guy, I've never gotten over my 1st, and now I'm back with her again.

[han.]

Why are guys so perverted? I asked my boyfriend the question, and he basically told me that guys get hard/horny all the time, even when they're not around girls, or just hanging with their buddies, or for no specific reason at all. And he's prefectly straight.

i don't think getting hard randomly would equal to being perverted. guys get hard all the time, even at the most random of times. i will say when i hang out with friends, i won't feel horny.

girls, here's something that you might not know. no matter where guys are, no matter what guys do, if they're around other guys, we will talk about girls. we just do.

guys aren't perverted, we're just ready to go at will.

[nelehan]

hmm.. from a male's P.O.V:
- do guys find an average, skinny girl with kind of a pudgey/"flabby"(sounds really unattractive) stomach.. a turn off?

[han.]

hmm.. from a male's P.O.V:
- do guys find a average, skinny girl with kind of a pudgey/"flabby"(sounds really unattractive) stomach.. a turn off?

if the girl's an average build, she's an average build.
i think girls are waaay to insecure about this supposed "fat" and "flab" hanging off of their stomachs and underarms. as long as it doesn't noticably stick out, it's all good. many guys hate stick skinny girls.

[mojomunkeez]

hmm.. from a male's P.O.V:
- do guys find a average, skinny girl with kind of a pudgey/"flabby"(sounds really unattractive) stomach.. a turn off?

As long as it doesn't prevent you from seeing your own toes, we really don't care.
Really.
In fact, I find it annoying that just about every girl in the world think that she's fat. You're not, okay? We like you the way you are.

[BoAayu]

Why are guys so perverted? I asked my boyfriend the question, and he basically told me that guys get hard/horny all the time, even when they're not around girls, or just hanging with their buddies, or for no specific reason at all. And he's prefectly straight.

Face it, All guys have this "problem" that we want to stare at the Hotties and get wood. Basically all us men are walking-Hard ons (ultra Lol), We keep it contained very well. Sometimes it depends on what you mean by 'pervert'. We all have different interpretations. Most people have no clue of that I'm a stealth perv, only a few of my close friends have don't even have any idea. I guess my easygoing, calm exterior has everyone fooled.

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

hmm.. from a male's P.O.V:
- do guys find a average, skinny girl with kind of a pudgey/"flabby"(sounds really unattractive) stomach.. a turn off?

Well let's put it this way... it's not a turn off unless when you move, it moves up more than like 10 inches....
No seriously, like we're not THAT shallow. There are guys who find slightly pudgy girls more attractive due to their seemingly babyish like features. (I'm one of those guys) Skinny girls... they seem..... I dunno... I think it's kind of weird to be honest.

So yeah it depends on the guy, and even guys who are more attracted to skinny girls won't have a problem. Especially if you have a cute face =P

[rooss]

why are guys SO stubborn?
whenever they fight with a girl, they never think anything is their fault.
and why dont they ever apologize first?
does it have something to do with their pride?

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

why are guys SO stubborn?
whenever they fight with a girl, they never think anything is there fault.
and why dont they ever apologize first?
does it have something to do with their pride?

Hehe... called our ego ^.^

[faye2thesky]

why are guys SO stubborn?
whenever they fight with a girl, they never think anything is their fault.
and why dont they ever apologize first?
does it have something to do with their pride?

lol... my girl says that to me so many times when I won't go to sleep till she logs off after 3 or 4am...

sometimes it depends on what we fight about. personally, I fight her about her sleeping habits because she constantly whine about dark eye circles and dizzy spells. but otherwise, ego plays a big role.

[Bk.]

for guys who lived in/been to korea...

how do guys in korea and guys in the states compare?

[perfectinvasions]

Do guys mind if their girlfriends/ friends obsess about other guys (like singers or actors)?

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

for guys who lived in/been to korea...

how do guys in korea and guys in the states compare?

Not sure what you mean?

Guys in Korea... wear glasses.

Guys in America... wear glasses at a much smaller rate....

Guys in Korea... like soccer

Guys in America... dislike soccer...

I mean guys are guys no matter which country they are from. I'm not exactly sure what the question is?

I think Koreans in general are different from Americans in that Koreans in general live a different lifestyle y'know. Like there is more parent pressure, a lot more emphasis on things other than social interactions which causes some kids to seem cold because they haven't been exposed to situations where social skills are widely needed. Of course I mean this is completely generalizing... Just disregard this whole thing I guess... I'm just rambling when I have no idea what I'm talking about XD


To perfectinvasions
Not really... guys have celebrity crushes too

[kimseo]

for guys who lived in/been to korea...

how do guys in korea and guys in the states compare?

I'm not a guy, but I know guys in Korea are..em..more mature (mentally/physically) in my experience (i can explain more if you want me to). I can't say it's entirely that way though ;; Just the guys I know. (note, my guy friends in korea are not studybugs. they hate studying and they arn't pressured by parents..). What do you mean by compare? Personality or looks? ;; There's not much difference either way. But I found out that people in America don't take jokes as easily as my friends in Korea do. My guy friends (girls too..) in America get offended more easily. Like when I make fun of them they don't know it's a joke. -__-v

You can't really make a general comparison though. ;;; Either way they're guys. >_<

[nelehan]

if the girl's an average build, she's an average build.
i think girls are waaay to insecure about this supposed "fat" and "flab" hanging off of their stomachs and underarms. as long as it doesn't noticably stick out, it's all good. many guys hate stick skinny girls.

As long as it doesn't prevent you from seeing your own toes, we really don't care.
Really.
In fact, I find it annoying that just about every girl in the world think that she's fat. You're not, okay? We like you the way you are.

Well let's put it this way... it's not a turn off unless when you move, it moves up more than like 10 inches....
No seriously, like we're not THAT shallow. There are guys who find slightly pudgy girls more attractive due to their seemingly babyish like features. (I'm one of those guys) Skinny girls... they seem..... I dunno... I think it's kind of weird to be honest.

So yeah it depends on the guy, and even guys who are more attracted to skinny girls won't have a problem. Especially if you have a cute face =P

thanks guys for answering my question
haha honestly.. i don't think i'm fat or anything like that- i'm happy the way i look right now
i just asked out of curiousity.
i find stick skinny girls quite annoying too (unless they're just naturally like that and can't help it).