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Ask The Fellas discuss about behaviors and relationships from male P.O.V.

#2401 User is offline   [HyuNi] 

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Posted 26 July 2007 - 05:29 AM

QUOTE(thetimeisright @ Jul 25 2007, 05:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if a girl is close friends with a guy, wat r some clues as to that the guy mite like the grl more than a friend??
have any of u guys have had crushes on one of ur closest female friends, and if so how did it turn out??
THANKSSSS

I had a crush on a really close female friend one time and ended up "seeing" her. Honestly, I think it was good to get it out of the way, but was destined to not last. When you have a crush, it's like you believe that person is so perfect, but once you start dating them, you realize that they are human too. I found out real fast that so many things were incompatible with us and so did she.

QUOTE(Stevent @ Jul 25 2007, 08:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
shy guys typically dont go for girls that can get alot of attention because they themselves dont want the extra attention. I think the average girl is what every guy is looking for.

I couldn't have said it better. kudos Stevent

QUOTE(ultaeja @ Jul 25 2007, 11:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
-Guys, when you first told your mom that you had a "girlfriend" what was their reaction?

She was like, "But you know that no one can love you more than Mom & Dad, right?" haha It was funny and cute, but it was also sad because I knew she really meant it. I bet in the back of their minds they were thinking, "FINALLY! After 22 years, he found someone!" haha

My parents realize that I wouldn't be dating just any girl, so when I did tell them that I was in a relationship, they trusted that the girl was someone special. My parents are happy for me, but I sense that they are a little saddened because their baby boy is growing up. haha

QUOTE(beckii @ Jul 26 2007, 04:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if you're a guy and u havent lost ur v plates, is that a huge blow to ur masculinity? as in....are u likely to pay out one of ur friends for not sleeping with a chick? or would u actualy respect ur friend for not losing it....seems like most guys think its necessary to lose their v plates asap..

I find it odd is this culture that the girl is valued higher if they stay pure and "clean" until marriage while the guy needs "experience." This isn't just perptuated by just guys, I think a lot of females believe or accept this too.
As for me, I really haven't gotten to that level yet and I'm not in a rush to get there either. It doesn't mean that I'm going to be parading through the streets saying I'm a virgin. A lot of guys who brag about how many girls they've been with most likely are lying and making up things to boost their masculinity, or they are wanting to feel accepted by others by being "one of those guys."

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Posted 26 July 2007 - 05:32 AM

QUOTE(ultaeja @ Jul 26 2007, 12:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
-Guys, when you first told your mom that you had a "girlfriend" what was their reaction?
They said, "What?! You're only 11 years old!!!"
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#2403 User is offline   DaAzNkIgGa627 

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Posted 26 July 2007 - 08:20 AM

QUOTE(ultaeja @ Jul 25 2007, 11:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
-Guys, when you first told your mom that you had a "girlfriend" what was their reaction?


When I had my first friend that was a girl, they were very shocked...... =P... They thought I was anti-social =P
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Posted 26 July 2007 - 09:12 AM

I don't know if it's been asked yet but how come guys never ask for directions? LOL.
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Posted 26 July 2007 - 09:16 AM

QUOTE(atlantisprincess @ Jul 26 2007, 12:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't know if it's been asked yet but how come guys never ask for directions? LOL.

It's a pride issue. We feel like we can get there one way or another, sooner or later, we don't need anyone else's help. Especially not in front of a woman.
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#2406 User is offline   DaAzNkIgGa627 

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Posted 26 July 2007 - 09:39 AM

QUOTE(atlantisprincess @ Jul 26 2007, 12:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't know if it's been asked yet but how come guys never ask for directions? LOL.


Do you want to seem weak? Stupid? No... our ego beats the little reason we posses =P
Also guys are stubborn we think we're always right... Hmm.... I love it how there is a recurring theme in these questions... why do guys have too much ego?
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Posted 26 July 2007 - 09:47 AM

if a random guy usually pays more attention/talks to to your friend when hes talking to you and your right next to her, does that mean he finds her more attractive?


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Posted 26 July 2007 - 09:49 AM

QUOTE(bonitagirlx @ Jul 26 2007, 01:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if a random guy usually pays more attention/talks to to your friend when hes talking to you and your right next to her, does that mean he finds her more attractive?
Sometimes, it's the other way around. He's doing that to get more attention from you.
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#2409 User is offline   chiluvskk 

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Posted 26 July 2007 - 10:04 AM

you know when a guy's friend always teases or goes "ooooohh" when he likes someone?
do they do the same if they thought a girl had interest in the guy?
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Posted 26 July 2007 - 10:05 AM

What do guys like more?

Shy, or flirty girls???

Who do guys value more? shy or flirty girls?


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Posted 26 July 2007 - 10:58 AM

QUOTE(Rinrinn @ Jul 26 2007, 01:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just curious.
How would u know if a guy is playing with ur feelings?

(If I'm unclear/not specific enough, I'll restate it in detail later. There might be more to this question after I read some responses.)



QUOTE(faye2thesky @ Jul 26 2007, 01:23 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Uhh... it depends on the guy... but an easy way you can find out is to just approach them straight up and provoke them. Get them to talk about how they feel and they'll probably reveal themselves.


Provoke them & talk to them straight in the face? hmmm it might work...

anybody have any other ideas?
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Posted 26 July 2007 - 12:59 PM

QUOTE(Elee @ Jul 26 2007, 11:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What do guys like more?

Shy, or flirty girls???

Who do guys value more? shy or flirty girls?


for me i like flirty girls more cuz theyre more fun to be around and as for value umm hard to say
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#2413 User is offline   bonitagirlx 

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Posted 26 July 2007 - 03:13 PM

another question. sorry so curious~

have you ever tried to avoid a girl or sit really far away from her/run away from her even if she didnt even speak to you at all?

and you two dont even know each other have no relation whatsoever, but u just feel like running away?

and yea maybe once in a while youd run into each other but it would be entirely by coincidence and its not like shes trying to stalk you or anyhting?


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Posted 26 July 2007 - 04:09 PM


there's this guy that i like and he likes me too.

so last week he asked me to go to shoot pool...with his friends
then this week he asked me to go to the movies....with his friends. i dont know ANY of his friends and feel like its going to be mad awkward so i told him and hes like "well youll get to know them". i wanted to go alone with him but for some odd reason he keeps wanting me to meet his friends and stuff. like its weird... why does he keep inviting me places with his friends? does it mean something like he doesnt like me enough or is it that hes just shy??
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Posted 26 July 2007 - 04:15 PM

QUOTE(bonitagirlx @ Jul 26 2007, 04:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
another question. sorry so curious~

have you ever tried to avoid a girl or sit really far away from her/run away from her even if she didnt even speak to you at all?

and you two dont even know each other have no relation whatsoever, but u just feel like running away?

and yea maybe once in a while youd run into each other but it would be entirely by coincidence and its not like shes trying to stalk you or anyhting?

why would I do that for? Somebody must be scared of you biggrin.gif


QUOTE(tinamanning01 @ Jul 26 2007, 05:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
there's this guy that i like and he likes me too.

so last week he asked me to go to shoot pool...with his friends
then this week he asked me to go to the movies....with his friends. i dont know ANY of his friends and feel like its going to be mad awkward so i told him and hes like "well youll get to know them". i wanted to go alone with him but for some odd reason he keeps wanting me to meet his friends and stuff. like its weird... why does he keep inviting me places with his friends? does it mean something like he doesnt like me enough or is it that hes just shy??

He is too wussy to be alone with you. Tell him to man up for look for somebody else.

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Posted 26 July 2007 - 04:39 PM

I love my boyfriend...but sometimes i wish he'd be a bit more romantic...or spontaneous...

is there a way to help him learn romantic behavior???

I've tried the whole "watch a movie and if you see the guy doing something really romantic for the girl and say 'omg thats the sweetest thing!'" approach...doesnt work.
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Posted 26 July 2007 - 06:07 PM

I've known a great guy from my workplace 6 months back.After about 2 months, he resigned. His friend was the one who told me he likes me. His guy friend sometimes comes to our workplace.Well, both of us like each other. He still stays in contact with other colleagues but not me. That really saddens me. Recently, my colleague told me the guy's back for a short holiday and she asks me if I had a boyfriend, she said that the guy is a good bf material than his friend. When I asked her for the reason, she said she knows from her heart. I don't know why she said that since she don't know his friend well and doesn't work with him before. What does that mean?
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Posted 26 July 2007 - 06:32 PM

QUESTION:

How come a guy likes you but he just wouldn't say it.
Why is it so hard to tell a girl that he likes her....
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Posted 26 July 2007 - 06:43 PM

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Posted 26 July 2007 - 06:54 PM

QUOTE(520Shawn @ Jul 26 2007, 10:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUESTION:

How come a guy likes you but he just wouldn't say it.
Why is it so hard to tell a girl that he likes her....



I guess it depends on the guy but for me, I'm scared of rejection and also losing the friendship I've made (if any) with that person and I hate the awkward feeling later on if it doesn't work out. crazy.gif ph34r.gif

Why don't you girls tell us if you like us? haha sweatingbullets.gif

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