[hiien]

Thanks for answering my questions. I got it now. Hmm, guys are complicated.

[Inevitable]

This is for my friend's friend. ^^;;

Let's say you have this girl that REALLY REALLY REALLY likes you but you don't have that sort of feelings for her. You told her many times face-to-face that you don't want to date her and you don't like her. Some people think she's kind of "obsessed" with you. And she knows that you don't like her yet she keeps on bothering you with text messages, chatting, etc. You would get annoyed sometimes and would want her to stop. The "face-to-face" talk failed, so what else would you do?

Thanks :3

Since the face-to-face talk didn't work, i'd probably just avoid her as much as possible in hopes that she gets over me.

do guys talk sh*t about their girlfriends to their friends? if yes, when and why?

everyone talks behind peoples back in some way or another, it's just how people work. I don't think guys OR girls talk sh*t about their gf/bf unless they did something stupid, but usually.. they're just venting about them, which is kinda like talking sh*t in a way.

[RiderKamen]

1. if a guy is jealous of u if u are with another guy is that a definite clue that he likes me?2. would a guy that's usually really flirty with girls and charming be kind of nervous and harder to talk to a girl if he likes her?

1. Most likely YES. Or he must really hate that guy 2. I would say yeah.

Why don't guys ever cry infront of the girl I mean its like ok it does'nt make you a less of a man infront of the girl. Actaully, I think it makes her like you more.

in 'society', it does make u less of a man and no it doesn't make a girl like u more (depending on the girl).

-What are reasons why guys cheat on their girlfriends?-When a guy likes a girl, does he just constantly stares O_O?

cause a guy that cheats aint satisfied with himself, they let temptation take over, and they selfish. YES.

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

This is for my friend's friend. ^^;;

Let's say you have this girl that REALLY REALLY REALLY likes you but you don't have that sort of feelings for her. You told her many times face-to-face that you don't want to date her and you don't like her. Some people think she's kind of "obsessed" with you. And she knows that you don't like her yet she keeps on bothering you with text messages, chatting, etc. You would get annoyed sometimes and would want her to stop. The "face-to-face" talk failed, so what else would you do?

Thanks :3

What did I do in this situation... I stopped talking to her.... I regret that decision... but that's what I did.

My explanation for my action. I just didn't want to lead her on. I felt as if I led her on too much, which I did... unknowingly, but I did... and yeah...

What I should've done is just surrounded myself with our mutual friends (we had many). Therefore it'd be kinda awkward if she made a move on me, and I'd always have an out so to speak.

[predator]

bff?

hahah thanks but no thanks


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i have a random questions..
what does it mean when a guy calls you beautiful?

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

hahah thanks but no thanks
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i have a random questions..
what does it mean when a guy calls you beautiful?

Let me tell you that I've never called a girl "beautiful" without actually having feelings for her and her being actually beautiful.

Although guys will throw around words such as hot, cute, maybe even pretty (though mainly the first 2) such words as beautiful, gorgeous, elegant are not used lightly and therefore should not be treated lightly.

My best guess is that he probably has some kind of feeling for you.

[predator]

Let me tell you that I've never called a girl "beautiful" without actually having feelings for her and her being actually beautiful.

Although guys will throw around words such as hot, cute, maybe even pretty (though mainly the first 2) such words as beautiful, gorgeous, elegant are not used lightly and therefore should not be treated lightly.

My best guess is that he probably has some kind of feeling for you.

...so how would guys define beautiful?
& please don't give me the definition from dictionary.com or something lol

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

...so how would guys define beautiful?
& please don't give me the definition from dictionary.com or something lol

Lol... do you want the honest definition....
Ok well my friend and I were talking about this a few months back and we came on this definition.
Beautiful is when a girl has a nice face, nice hair, is skinny, and has boobs, also she has to have some personality trait that is more confident yet femininely elegant. Cute we defined more as the first 3 physical trait and timid. Hot we pretty much got the the 4 physical traits, but it's more brash, more open.

[VindictusDame]

i'm curious. i had a crush on this guy... he doesn't know it. and today, when i went to his class, his friend (a friend of mine too) told me loudly that my crush thinks i'm nice and pretty... and when i turned to look at him, he was blushing heavily. it's kinda funny to see a guy like him blushed like that. and i asked my friend, "why are you making this kind of joke? see? you're making him blushed." i was trying to cover up my excitement... so i said that. and my friend asked him, "hey you told me that she's nice and pretty right?" then he blushed again. and i said to him, "erm hey! thanks for your compliment!" and i walked out of the class. do you guys think he will think that i dont like him?

[yungstar]

hahah thanks but no thanks
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i have a random questions..
what does it mean when a guy calls you beautiful?

its over between us!
guys like to lie and tell girls what they like to hear... maybe thats it?
or you could just be pretty...
i would say that its the latter because your beauty has also stolen my heart

i'm curious. i had a crush on this guy... he doesn't know it. and today, when i went to his class, his friend (a friend of mine too) told me loudly that my crush thinks i'm nice and pretty... and when i turned to look at him, he was blushing heavily. it's kinda funny to see a guy like him blushed like that. and i asked my friend, "why are you making this kind of joke? see? you're making him blushed." i was trying to cover up my excitement... so i said that. and my friend asked him, "hey you told me that she's nice and pretty right?" then he blushed again. and i said to him, "erm hey! thanks for your compliment!" and i walked out of the class. do you guys think he will think that i dont like him?

depends on your tone and how he perceived it. more than likely, he probably still thinks that you like him but now he's probably even more intimidated by you... nice going!!
you should ask him out

[poopiness]

...so how would guys define beautiful?& please don't give me the definition from dictionary.com or something lol

Almost every guy has a different definition. So you just have to ask the individual.

i'm curious. i had a crush on this guy... he doesn't know it. and today, when i went to his class, his friend (a friend of mine too) told me loudly that my crush thinks i'm nice and pretty... and when i turned to look at him, he was blushing heavily. it's kinda funny to see a guy like him blushed like that. and i asked my friend, "why are you making this kind of joke? see? you're making him blushed." i was trying to cover up my excitement... so i said that. and my friend asked him, "hey you told me that she's nice and pretty right?" then he blushed again. and i said to him, "erm hey! thanks for your compliment!" and i walked out of the class. do you guys think he will think that i dont like him?

why are you worrying about that? Okay so you have a crush on him, he seems to have a crush on you. It's party time!!! Make it happen!

[han.]

Thanks for answering my questions. I got it now. Hmm, guys are complicated.

actually, guys are far from being complicated.

[hked]

i'm curious. i had a crush on this guy... he doesn't know it. and today, when i went to his class, his friend (a friend of mine too) told me loudly that my crush thinks i'm nice and pretty... and when i turned to look at him, he was blushing heavily. it's kinda funny to see a guy like him blushed like that. and i asked my friend, "why are you making this kind of joke? see? you're making him blushed." i was trying to cover up my excitement... so i said that. and my friend asked him, "hey you told me that she's nice and pretty right?" then he blushed again. and i said to him, "erm hey! thanks for your compliment!" and i walked out of the class. do you guys think he will think that i dont like him?

yes...i would thnk so,

[beckii]

ok so if a girl you knew likes/liked you [who you are/were very close to before this] starts to ignore you for no apparent reason, and you've been seeing some girls in the meantime...as a guy would u be likely to pick up something was wrong? or just get angry/get over the fact the girl is ignoring you and get on with your life? miss them even???

rofl sorry i think im being a bit vague. im ignoring the guy i like because its too hard for me to deal with how he behaves with girls, and i feel hes taking me for granted even tho im always there for him...but i wonder if he misses talking to me at all. i dont even kno if this is a proper question at all..

[poopiness]

ok so if a girl you knew likes/liked you [who you are/were very close to before this] starts to ignore you for no apparent reason, and you've been seeing some girls in the meantime...as a guy would u be likely to pick up something was wrong? or just get angry/get over the fact the girl is ignoring you and get on with your life? miss them even???

rofl sorry i think im being a bit vague. im ignoring the guy i like because its too hard for me to deal with how he behaves with girls, and i feel hes taking me for granted even tho im always there for him...but i wonder if he misses talking to me at all. i dont even kno if this is a proper question at all..

If all of a sudden you start ignoring me I'd pick up something was wrong.

Miss them? That depends on if I liked them, if yes then yes, if no then no. However if I did really like them I wouldn't be seeing other girls.

He is probably taking you for granted, but are you dating, seeing him? If not then he's free to do whatever he wants.

[pencilsandrulers]

guys are confusing, no matter who says that they arent. heehee

so, i have this friend of mine that i kinda like. thing is, i dont know if the feelings are mutual, as is the situation with so many of us girls here. said guy talks to me ONLY through AIM (instant messaging). we have met for about 5 months already. alright, so he smses me SOMETIMES. rarely.

what confuses me is that he always suggests meeting up ideas like ''i shall go send you off'', cause i was going for an exchange programe thing. BUT he NEVER does them! he'll mention them then wont ''follow up''. alright, so granted i dont give him alot of encouragement, i simply SORT OF say okay. not yes, okay. but STILL! by the way, we have talked everytime both of us are onlline, which is quite alot considering we hav ebeen talking since march. come to think of it, except today, now, infact. uh oh did i do smt wrong??

i guess i should mention that he is a guy with not a lot of self confidence, meaning that he isnt one of those flirt and friendly and confident with girls. ive hardly even seen him talk to girls much.

he also uh enquires about a friend of mine, whom he is also friends with, who sort of likes me. and he noticies when i sit with this other guy whom he used to think (before he knew me) that i liked. he would ask about them, if i like them (he teases me to get answers haha), if i would give a chance, that sort of thing. wouldnt count as a display of jealousy, i would say.

so, whats the deal with him?

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

guys are confusing, no matter who says that they arent. heehee

so, i have this friend of mine that i kinda like. thing is, i dont know if the feelings are mutual, as is the situation with so many of us girls here. said guy talks to me ONLY through AIM (instant messaging). we have met for about 5 months already. alright, so he messages me SOMETIMES. rarely.

what confuses me is that he always suggests meeting up ideas like ''i shall go send you off'', cause i was going for an exchange programe thing. BUT he NEVER does them! he'll mention them then wont ''follow up''. alright, so granted i dont give him alot of encouragement, i simply SORT OF say okay. not yes, okay. but STILL! by the way, we have talked everytime both of us are onlline, which is quite alot considering we hav ebeen talking since march. come to think of it, except today, now, infact. uh oh did i do smt wrong??

i guess i should mention that he is a guy with not a lot of self confidence, meaning that he isnt one of those flirt and friendly and confident with girls. ive hardly even seen him talk to girls much.

he also uh enquires about a friend of mine, whom he is also friends with, who sort of likes me. and he noticies when i sit with this other guy whom he used to think (before he knew me) that i liked. he would ask about them, if i like them (he teases me to get answers haha), if i would give a chance, that sort of thing. wouldnt count as a display of jealousy, i would say.

so, whats the deal with him?

Hmmm... wow this is confusing. If this guy was like me he likes you, then again he could be using the same signs to be indifferent to you. But my guess is that he likes you.

He doesn't message you, for me I sometimes do this to see if my feeling is mutual and see if the girl will contact me first (as you are doing)

Talks to you everyday: He doesn't HAVE to talk to you for 4 months. Even if he's nice if he would've gotten sick with you... he would've banned you/created a new username etc. etc.

How much he talks and how little he acts could be because he's shy, but my guess is that he's just flirting (read explanation below)

And even though the guy may seem like he has little confidence and wouldn't flirt... those are the guys that especially on the internet, in 1 on 1 conversations will be more comfortable to flirt. Behind every shy guy there is a guy that will be willing/ready to flirt.

Hmmm... the last one could again signify that he is into you because he notices these things (therefore he pays attention to you), but it could also mean that he's just egging you on to go after this guy because he seems to like you. (By he I mean the guy that sits by you)

To be honest.... this sounds exactly like me..... XD And he's probably into you. So yeah good luck ^.^

[cherryonken]

yo men,

ok hot guy gets on the bus now and again. Maybe its my paranoia but I think he has "noticed" me - sits behind me on an empty bus things like that, if I'm paranoid I don't care I'm a total nut - but my instincts tell me hes acting out of the ordinary, kinda doing subtle things to indicate something.

So how do I give him a sign that I won't bite and would like to get to know him, even if its not a dating thing he seems like an interesting guy. I don't like my smile so please don't say "smile at him."

[poopiness]

yo men,

ok hot guy gets on the bus now and again. Maybe its my paranoia but I think he has "noticed" me - sits behind me on an empty bus things like that, if I'm paranoid I don't care I'm a total nut - but my instincts tell me hes acting out of the ordinary, kinda doing subtle things to indicate something.

So how do I give him a sign that I won't bite and would like to get to know him, even if its not a dating thing he seems like an interesting guy. I don't like my smile so please don't say "smile at him."

seduce him. Get close to him. Rub your hands ALL over his body. give him a lap dance if possible. Either that or just say hi, and tell him that you've noticed he's been here a few times.

[cherryonken]

seduce him. Get close to him. Rub your hands ALL over his body. give him a lap dance if possible. Either that or just say hi, and tell him that you've noticed he's been here a few times.

hahaha you're funny.

and the latter - ok lets say i put on my spontaneity cap and say "hi" - don't guys get freaked out? Like "ok...stalker" He carried a guitar in a case one time, I could say "are you in a band?" oh god.