[hked]

Lol... yeah, guys can be that lazy, and then some. I set up a pulley system and strings in my room so I wouldn't have to get out of bed to turn off the light. I'd simply just pull a string that tugs on the light switch.

thats a great idea, im gonna set one up now =X..a few metres is too much for my poor legs

[megaSTEPxo]

Ok I am quoting this from the Ask Me Anything thread and I thought it was interesting but since it was answered by a girl, I want some opinions from the guys.

I can't really answer the second question but I can definitely tell that he likes her. It's pretty obvious since he's finding so many ways to get connected with her in a way. But I don't know if guys usually do this to girls they seem to be POTENTIAL girlfriends. potential girlfriends or not, they would probably want them as their girlfriend not as close friends. It'll be even more weird if that guy was trying very hard to be the girl's CLOSE FRIEND instead of being that girl's boyfriend.

So how exactly can you tell if the guy wants to be the girl's bf instead of his close friend??

I am pretty clueless in this area since I am nice to everyone.. and most of the times, I am more interested in being friends w. the person more (since I don't have many guy friends).. but now I am worried that my niceness might be giving the wrong vibe *.*

[unik]

hey guys. im new here but i have a question.

let's just say i have an ex of about 5 yrs who moved far far away and we havent made any kind of contact for about 4 yrs now. well we were kindda on a break, we didnt really say it's over or anthing when he left. but 2 yrs later, he came back to see me and found out that i was going out with another guy. so yea we stopped keeping in touch for 4 yrs until recently he came back to visit and we met up right after he arrived. here is the thing, he came with his gf and i dont have a bf at the moment. im not sure wat kindda relationship he has with that girl. but well we talked just like old time and somehow he asked me if i would wait 4 him to come back in another 5 yrs or so. i still didnt give him an answer and he left. i still didnt email him or talk to him for about another week later after he was gone cuz i was still trying to figure everything out. but the thing is he didnt even try to contact me either. its been almost 2 months since he left me again and ive been trying to reach him but couldnt. seems like hes ignoring me again. hes ignoring all his friends here also. its like hes having another life or somthing. thats what im guessing. so my question is. Does he love his current gf? Is he playing with my feelings? hes always ignore me to 4get about me in the past. my friend whos also his friend emailed him and he didnt reply to it either. can he be that bz to not even bother checking his email to see if i sent anything? oh we were each other first love and i know he really did love me and i guess i hurt him alot when i went out with another guy. What should i do guys? Thanks for your help.

[CriticalHit]

Sometimes when I see a guy crying, I don't know what to do...

If YOU were crying and one of your girl friends saw you, what would you want them to do? Pretend not to see and keep walking? Comfort you?

[mojomunkeez]

Sometimes when I see a guy crying, I don't know what to do...

If YOU were crying and one of your girl friends saw you, what would you want them to do? Pretend not to see and keep walking? Comfort you?

Of course I would want her comfort me. Actually, it would be nice for a girl friend to see me cry, I think it will help her understand my psyche better.

[poopiness]

Sometimes when I see a guy crying, I don't know what to do...

If YOU were crying and one of your girl friends saw you, what would you want them to do? Pretend not to see and keep walking? Comfort you?

a hug, because if I let you see me cry, I want you to hug me.

[lily-chan]

This really sounds stupid but... my ex just added me on facebook after we haven't talked for months. On his picture, there is a clear picture of him and his gf (they started going out almost right after we broke up). Is he doing it to shove it in my face?

[mojomunkeez]

This really sounds stupid but... my ex just added me on facebook after we haven't talked for months. On his picture, there is a clear picture of him and his gf (they started going out almost right after we broke up). Is he doing it to shove it in my face?

I wouldn't worry about it too much if I were you. He probably has the picture up because he really likes his current girlfriend, not because he wants you shove it in your face. There aren't many guys that are crass enough to have that picture just to show his ex up.

[SweetTea]

hey guys, i'm a little bit curious of something. why do guys talk about themselves so much? i know not all guys are like this but....does that mean theyre not interested of me? i mean, this guy talks to me on a DAILY BASIS but he doesnt seem so interested whenever i talk about myself.

I read that guys feel like they want to be the center of the universe.
They want that attention or something. And I read that you can take
advantage of that by saying, "Yes, uh-huh, oh really?! WoW!" and
they'll want to talk to you more. LAWL

[lily-chan]

Mojomunkeez:
I'm okay with the fact that he really likes his current girlfriend. But why is he adding me? I haven't talked to him in ages and I'm quite sure he knows that it's because of the breakup (and the the fact that he got himself a new girlfriend quite quickly).

[ultaeja]

Guys, when you're in a relationship with a girl and you love her and she loves you. Everything is perfect in your relationship with your gf. Then out of the blue, your good friend, whom is a girl, confesses to you? What are your reactions? Would you comfort them? Ignore them?

[Stevent]

Guys, when you're in a relationship with a girl and you love her and she loves you. Everything is perfect in your relationship with your gf. Then out of the blue, your good friend, whom is a girl, confesses to you? What are your reactions? Would you comfort them? Ignore them?

I would be taken back a little, but would let her down easy. Of course the friendship after that would not be the same as it was before. Also, I wouldnt let my gf know because then she would make me drop her as a friend, that is if this girl is a good friend of mines.

[faye2thesky]

Guys, when you're in a relationship with a girl and you love her and she loves you. Everything is perfect in your relationship with your gf. Then out of the blue, your good friend, whom is a girl, confesses to you? What are your reactions? Would you comfort them? Ignore them?

Let the friend down easy, don't involve ur gf AT ALL. yeah, wat the guy above me said about not being the same afterwards, but it's better than a frontal rejection.

[MoiraElla]

sometimes guys can be self-absorbed. Sometimes they may find what you say boring. Sometimes, they can't really relate to what you're talking about. Doesn't mean they're not interested though. I mean they're still talking to you. If they weren't interested in you, they probably wouldn't be speaking to you. I make an effort to ask for a girl's opinion or what she thinks first and then elaborate. Very useful for making conversation =).

I guess I can see your point but the guy I talk to, every time I mention about something that has to deal with me. he just laughs or something, he doesn't bother to ask any questions. I guess everything i can say might not relate to him but in some cases, he should at least ask questions! It pretty much bothers me since all he talks about is himself and his exes. wtheck. Like we spend HOURS just talking about him. ergggh...it's a turn off LOL~ i mean, we don't even know each other very well. but I KNOW A LOT OF HIM than he knows more than me.

I read that guys feel like they want to be the center of the universe.
They want that attention or something. And I read that you can take
advantage of that by saying, "Yes, uh-huh, oh really?! WoW!" and
they'll want to talk to you more. LAWL

Oh! that's what I do! HHAhaa, but I don't do it intensionally. I guess I should stop saying those then. aahah

[Sapphire852]

Guys, when you're in a relationship with a girl and you love her and she loves you. Everything is perfect in your relationship with your gf. Then out of the blue, your good friend, whom is a girl, confesses to you? What are your reactions? Would you comfort them? Ignore them?

i'm pretty sure i could've at least seen some signs of her liking me, so i dunt think i'll be THAT shocked, but it's important to make sure that everything between me and her is clear (that we're just friends), whether or not i ignore them, would depend on how well she takes the the "making sure we're just friends" talk.

[beinspired]

There is a friend(5 years older than me) who i've been exchanging emails with lately(a friend from school). The emails we have been sharing have been quite polite, with very personal details or worries over our families, friends.. our life.. basically. I have to admit that exchanging the emails was quite a RANDOM thing to do in the beginning because in real life we weren't THAT close.. but i just decided that he was being nice to me.. and theres nothing wrong with that. recently, he confessed that he is truly a very very, busy person.. (sleeps2-3 hrs a day, works everyday, goes to school everyday,comes home at 2 am at night) and that writing the long emails have definitley been a sacrifice. he admitted that he does not share such emails with everyone- and rarely gives people his time unless its very important. was he hinting something here?

in real life, not over the internet- i always knew that he had been fond of me- i dont mean he loves me or anything.. but his eyes, and the way that he looked at me - i knew that he just judged me as a good person and was always extra attentive to me. he's quite a shy, an intuitive guy in real life.. and in real life when we do have conversations- he stutters from shyness.. and seems to be nervous and runs out of things to say. i know it may be obvious.. or even not very obvious but was he suggesting something?
and from the beginning- exchanging emails between us when we don't particurley talk that much in real life.. was a bit.. odd.. and random.. my friend keeps telling me that when guys are extra, just that extra nice to you-its because they are interested in you. is this true?

[mojomunkeez]

There is a friend(5 years older than me) who i've been exchanging emails with lately(a friend from school). The emails we have been sharing have been quite polite, with very personal details or worries over our families, friends.. our life.. basically. I have to admit that exchanging the emails was quite a RANDOM thing to do in the beginning because in real life we weren't THAT close.. but i just decided that he was being nice to me.. and theres nothing wrong with that. recently, he confessed that he is truly a very very, busy person.. (sleeps2-3 hrs a day, works everyday, goes to school everyday,comes home at 2 am at night) and that writing the long emails have definitley been a sacrifice. he admitted that he does not share such emails with everyone- and rarely gives people his time unless its very important. was he hinting something here?

in real life, not over the internet- i always knew that he had been fond of me- i dont mean he loves me or anything.. but his eyes, and the way that he looked at me - i knew that he just judged me as a good person and was always extra attentive to me. he's quite a shy, an intuitive guy in real life.. and in real life when we do have conversations- he stutters from shyness.. and seems to be nervous and runs out of things to say. i know it may be obvious.. or even not very obvious but was he suggesting something?
and from the beginning- exchanging emails between us when we don't particurley talk that much in real life.. was a bit.. odd.. and random.. my friend keeps telling me that when guys are extra, just that extra nice to you-its because they are interested in you. is this true?

There's a definite possibility. Dig deeper, fish a little.

[beinspired]

There's a definite possibility. Dig deeper, fish a little.

What do you mean digdeeper,fish a little?

[mojomunkeez]

What do you mean digdeeper,fish a little?

Well, do you want to know if he really likes you? Drop a few hints, "lay a trap" if you will. Maybe he'll come out and say it.

[crannyannyfran]

okay so say you liked this girl. you were like madly in love with her and what not and say i suggest you ask her out and blabh blah and you were hesitant at first but i pushed you into doing it... k now say that the girl rejects you.. would you get mad at me?