[han.]

COULD MORE THAN ONE PERSON ANSWER THIS PLEASE?

There is a friend(5 years older than me) who i've been exchanging emails with lately(a friend from school). The emails we have been sharing have been quite polite, with very personal details or worries over our families, friends.. our life.. basically. I have to admit that exchanging the emails was quite a RANDOM thing to do in the beginning because in real life we weren't THAT close.. but i just decided that he was being nice to me.. and theres nothing wrong with that. recently, he confessed that he is truly a very very, busy person.. (sleeps2-3 hrs a day, works everyday, goes to school everyday,comes home at 2 am at night) and that writing the long emails have definitley been a sacrifice. he admitted that he does not share such emails with everyone- and rarely gives people his time unless its very important. was he hinting something here?

in real life, not over the internet- i always knew that he had been fond of me- i dont mean he loves me or anything.. but his eyes, and the way that he looked at me - i knew that he just judged me as a good person and was always extra attentive to me. he's quite a shy, an intuitive guy in real life.. and in real life when we do have conversations- he stutters from shyness.. and seems to be nervous and runs out of things to say. i know it may be obvious.. or even not very obvious but was he suggesting something?
and from the beginning- exchanging emails between us when we don't particurley talk that much in real life.. was a bit.. odd.. and random.. my friend keeps telling me that when guys are extra, just that extra nice to you-its because they are interested in you. is this true?

he gave you his time, so it must be very important. he's interested but can't really figure out a way to get his point across, i guess because he's shy.

[Inevitable]

COULD MORE THAN ONE PERSON ANSWER THIS PLEASE?

There is a friend(5 years older than me) who i've been exchanging emails with lately(a friend from school). The emails we have been sharing have been quite polite, with very personal details or worries over our families, friends.. our life.. basically. I have to admit that exchanging the emails was quite a RANDOM thing to do in the beginning because in real life we weren't THAT close.. but i just decided that he was being nice to me.. and theres nothing wrong with that. recently, he confessed that he is truly a very very, busy person.. (sleeps2-3 hrs a day, works everyday, goes to school everyday,comes home at 2 am at night) and that writing the long emails have definitley been a sacrifice. he admitted that he does not share such emails with everyone- and rarely gives people his time unless its very important. was he hinting something here?

in real life, not over the internet- i always knew that he had been fond of me- i dont mean he loves me or anything.. but his eyes, and the way that he looked at me - i knew that he just judged me as a good person and was always extra attentive to me. he's quite a shy, an intuitive guy in real life.. and in real life when we do have conversations- he stutters from shyness.. and seems to be nervous and runs out of things to say. i know it may be obvious.. or even not very obvious but was he suggesting something?
and from the beginning- exchanging emails between us when we don't particurley talk that much in real life.. was a bit.. odd.. and random.. my friend keeps telling me that when guys are extra, just that extra nice to you-its because they are interested in you. is this true?

From what you said about him being a busy guy, I think he was trying to hint that he does have interest in you and would even sacrifice his time to e-mail you with long messages. Talking with each other online is a lot easier than real life because people are able to think about their responses whereas in real life, answers are expected immediately and sometimes those answers might not come out the way we want them to. Yeah, i'm pretty sure he's trying to hint that you are someone special to him even though he doesn't clearly show it in real life

Inevitable
thanks for that, i never thought of that possibility.

no problem =)

hahahaha awwww

haha you know it. I really gotta find that clip...

heh, edited cuz i thought the guy would see it..

do guys like corny stuff? i always thought they didn't..

Of course, this would really depend on the guy. If a girl did something corny for me, there's a good chance i'd like it just because it shows that they put a lot of thought and effort to do something that would catch my attention and it really shows that the girl cares enough to put herself in a position where she may be embarassed just to please me. Oh, the extent of how corny it is does have its limitations

[pencilsandrulers]

ONE: guys, will you get intimate with a girl you are not attracted to?

by attracted, i dont mean like/love, i mean atttraction, be it phyical attraction or slight small ''maybe i can consider her'' sort of feelings.

by intimate, i mean
a) hugging, leaning,
kissing,
c) i know this isnt really counted but, being nice and more attentive to her.

could you guys answer a b and c as seperate issues, thanks!

TWO: if a girl acepts an invitation to go out with you, not as a date because you didnt explicitly say that it was one, would you think/assume that she likes you?

could someone answer me please? thanks a mil!

Easy. 90% of the time he wants to be the bf. But you can pick it up in the way he acts. If he treats you more or less a guy, such as mean jokes, maybe abuse you a little, then he just wants to be friends. If he's kinda touchy, likes to hug, touches your hands, your hair, teases you but doesn't use any mean jokes like "you're retarded, dumb, fat, stupid,", and instead uses terms like "silly, dork, dorky, cute". Then he wants to be the bf. But like I said, the majority of the time he wants to be the BF, but then somehow he ends up being a BFF.

are the bolded words true for all guys, even if the guy calls the girl that in a rather pet name kinda way?

[lily-chan]

What do you guys mean when you say that a girl is immature?

[onesh0t]

Hello.
So guys...do you think a guy would like a girl who practically acts like a guy?
For example, she plays video games like soul calibour and time crisis, plays computer games like starcraft gunbound, spit in public, wear guys clothes (sometimes), joke at guy stuff, and just act like one of the guys.

Marry me?

....hahah, completely kidding, but yeah. Actually imo A LOT of guys like that A LOT. Girls tend to be i guess kind of shy to admit that since it's not "girly" enough, or so. I dunno....but i've seen quite a few happy couples that have gaming as a similar interest.

[faye2thesky]

Marry me?

....hahah, completely kidding, but yeah. Actually imo A LOT of guys like that A LOT. Girls tend to be i guess kind of shy to admit that since it's not "girly" enough, or so. I dunno....but i've seen quite a few happy couples that have gaming as a similar interest.

^ Yeah, seriously, a lot of guys prefer girls who understands a little bit of their world. Video games, cars, balling, etc. Personally, it's fun to play a game with ur girl and share the experience together. Gaming turns into a whole new ball game after that =]

Easy. 90% of the time he wants to be the bf. But you can pick it up in the way he acts. If he treats you more or less a guy, such as mean jokes, maybe abuse you a little, then he just wants to be friends. If he's kinda touchy, likes to hug, touches your hands, your hair, teases you but doesn't use any mean jokes like "you're retarded, dumb, fat, stupid,", and instead uses terms like "silly, dork, dorky, cute". Then he wants to be the bf. But like I said, the majority of the time he wants to be the BF, but then somehow he ends up being a BFF.

^ Actually, I use "fat" sometimes... but the girls I joke around with knows I'm joking. And dumb... and stupid... wow I'm a jerk.

Anyways, No, it doesn't apply to all guys. They can use whatever words they want while they're teasing. Personally, I use some words that might seem rude or just plain blunt, but I try to put it in a sense that I don't really mean it and that it's a spur-of-the-moment kind of joke and not aimed to hurt anyone. =]

[xcindyloooo]

If you do something that makes your s/o feel ignored and she walks away,
or kind of pushes you away when you try and hold her or kiss her,
how does that make you feel? Does it make you guys angry at your s/o for walking away,
does it send a message to you, or what?

ty :]

[faye2thesky]

If you do something that makes your s/o feel ignored and she walks away,or kind of pushes you away when you try and hold her or kiss her,how does that make you feel? Does it make you guys angry at your s/o for walking away,does it send a message to you, or what? ty :]

no, but it does hurt to have ur s/o just push you away like that. Best bet is to somehow let her know that she's still important to you, like just giving her another hug regardless of whether or not she tries to push u away but don't make it seem like you're desperate. (well, you kind of are, but not like rape-status or physically assaulting her)mine did that once, and I just held her and kissed her on the forehead while she took her anger out on me. In the end, she collapsed and just kinda gave up and asked why I did what I did.



Okay! Fellas, if any of you are still breathin and kickin...

anyways, how would u guys feel if ur s/o told u of a past ex and said that he's good in bed? like, she said that u'r okay, but different, so what would be your response/first reaction?

[The Conductor]

anyways, how would u guys feel if ur s/o told u of a past ex and said that he's good in bed? like, she said that u'r okay, but different, so what would be your response/first reaction?

Thats the ultimate way of disrespect, girls don't usually do that unless they want to break up or the guy to step up his game. My response will be go back to your ex, mini cooper thats alot of pressure for a guy, especially if she used to be with a horse of a guy and you are pony. you're screwed. Though I can't relate because sex with me is a form of art, always leave a lasting impressions after I am done

[JESS.]

ok well I just posted a thread about this, but i'll post here anyways to get a guy's POV.

a couple hrs ago, my boyfriend were talking about hanging out, but he said he needed to eat with his friends first (it was like 2pm) The day before, we already had plans to hang out. I told him to take his time because I was out with my bestfriend, but I'd be home as soon as I was done grabbing a drink with her. I told him to call. Then, later on, I saw on the newspaper that the stanley cup was at my city, and I texted my boyfriend because he's really into hockey. Then he calls me asking about it, and it was then he told me he'd talk to me later because he was playing cards with his friends. Jokingly, I said "I thought you were gonna hang out with me huh???????????" then he said that his friends would leave after 7pm. So I would have never known he was playing cards with his friends if I didn't text him about the stanley cup... And I'd be just waiting for him like an idiot. I don't know if I should be angry or not because I do hang out with him almost everyday and I do take up most of his time.. But the fact that we had PLANS..... I feel as if he should of asked me if he can play cards? Not that I'm controlling his life.. but I don't know, How should I deal? Can I be mad?

Thanks fellas =)


edit: HE ALWAYS does this.. And I feel as if we need to not hang out as much, and we need time to miss each other. Should I say that to him? "I think we need to time miss each other" Sounds so harsh tho.

[luvjunjin0819]

*to the poster of this topic* why haven't u been on MSN mister??? that's what i wanna knoe.


and i have no other questions!

[The Conductor]

ok well I just posted a thread about this, but i'll post here anyways to get a guy's POV.

a couple hrs ago, my boyfriend were talking about hanging out, but he said he needed to eat with his friends first (it was like 2pm) The day before, we already had plans to hang out. I told him to take his time because I was out with my bestfriend, but I'd be home as soon as I was done grabbing a drink with her. I told him to call. Then, later on, I saw on the newspaper that the stanley cup was at my city, and I texted my boyfriend because he's really into hockey. Then he calls me asking about it, and it was then he told me he'd talk to me later because he was playing cards with his friends. Jokingly, I said "I thought you were gonna hang out with me huh???????????" then he said that his friends would leave after 7pm. So I would have never known he was playing cards with his friends if I didn't text him about the stanley cup... And I'd be just waiting for him like an idiot. I don't know if I should be angry or not because I do hang out with him almost everyday and I do take up most of his time.. But the fact that we had PLANS..... I feel as if he should of asked me if he can play cards? Not that I'm controlling his life.. but I don't know, How should I deal? Can I be mad?

Thanks fellas =)

Nothing to fuss about, just make sure you guys communicate better, let him know that if he's going to delay the date to let you know first.

[ultaeja]

Guys, why would you fight with your sister? As in punching, pushing and kicking, etc? Just because your sister asked you to do your job?

[phoeki666]

How do you win over a player? Is there any specific X factor that can subdue a player?

[BoatsAndBirds]

Guys, why would you fight with your sister? As in punching, pushing and kicking, etc? Just because your sister asked you to do your job?

I don't know about other guys, but I don't. I guess you should have known this already but guys have this thing called "Pride". Is this his little sister? because that would add a bit more to it. We don't like to be told what to do, yes, it's something that's gonna kill us one day. But then again, this all depends on individuals, there are men who are afraid of his wife.


Advice: Ask a little nicer maybe? and if you could, make it sound like a favor, not like you're telling him what to do.

How do you win over a player? Is there any specific X factor that can subdue a player?

Players are players. They can't picture themself with just one girl.

X factors:
1)threaten to cut his balls off if you see him with another girl.
2)tease him, please him, then do it all over again.

haha i'm just kidding, that's all bs. there is no such thing.

like I said, a player's a player. He just has to outgrow his own immaturity.

[kdclk313]

Guys, why would you fight with your sister? As in punching, pushing and kicking, etc? Just because your sister asked you to do your job?

well maybe he got caught at a bad time
if they fight constantly, then there is a problem with the relationship
or he just really hates work

[takki_fanatic]

if you have a girlfriend already, would you consider other girls?

[Stevent]

ONE: guys, will you get intimate with a girl you are not attracted to?

by attracted, i dont mean like/love, i mean atttraction, be it phyical attraction or slight small ''maybe i can consider her'' sort of feelings.

by intimate, i mean
a) hugging and leaning,
kissing,
c) i know this isnt really counted but, being nice and more attentive to her.

could you guys answer a b and c as seperate issues, thanks!

TWO: if a girl acepts an invitation to go out with you, not as a date because you didnt explicitly say that it was one, would you think/assume that she likes you?

1a) hugging, I'm fine with; But what is leaning? If it's the same as hugging then yeah, I would be fine with it.
1b) kissing is off limits since I don't have an attraction to her on any level.
1c) I would give her the same kind of attention as any other friend, but if I had feelings for her, then I would give her more attention.

^ I hope that's how you wanted the question to be answered because your question seems confusing.

2) No because it's not a wise thing to do to jump to conclusions.

What do you guys mean when you say that a girl is immature?

Girls that like to cause drama, act like a 5 year old, being a spoiled brat, selfish, irrational 80% of the time, and annoying.

if you have a girlfriend already, would you consider other girls?

no, because I consider that being unfaithful. It means that I'm not investing all of my time and effort into making the relationship work.

[mz simmonz]

Q:

This guy and I are very flirty with each other (he initiated)..I know he is physically attracted to me but he doesn't know much about me. Now, I don't actually have real feelings for the guy, but I don't mind talking to him because the flirtaciousness is fun..but he's being kind of...aggressive? Like he's verryyy touchy feely, he wraps his arms around me a lot, tries to hold my hand, kisses me on my face, and when we're out late with a group of friends he only offers me a place to crash for the night..it's like he's trying to sleep with me or something..I've given NO indication that I would even want to sleep with him, or at least I don't personally feel that I give him that impression. Does me being friendly/flirty translate in his head that I want to have sex with him? because I dont. or maybe I'm reading his signs wrong, maybe he isn't trying to sleep with me lol but what the heck is he trying to do then? I don't think he actually has real feelings for me either because he doesn't know me or even tried to get to know me that well..I just think this is all fun and games but I'm NOT trying to take it further than that, emotionally or physically.

[yungstar]

If you do something that makes your s/o feel ignored and she walks away,
or kind of pushes you away when you try and hold her or kiss her,
how does that make you feel? Does it make you guys angry at your s/o for walking away,
does it send a message to you, or what?

ty :]

depends on what i did.
if my s/o's feelings of discontent is justifiable, then i'll feel bad and assault her with <3
if i think she's just overreacting, i'll give her a taste of her own medicine and ignore her!

anyways, how would u guys feel if ur s/o told u of a past ex and said that he's good in bed? like, she said that u'r okay, but different, so what would be your response/first reaction?

cry over my inadequacies and then stone cold stunna the broad!!

Guys, why would you fight with your sister? As in punching, pushing and kicking, etc? Just because your sister asked you to do your job?

could be due to her tone? or it could just be one of those days...

How do you win over a player? Is there any specific X factor that can subdue a player?

not possible. just have to hope that one day he will grow out of it and wait it out.

if you have a girlfriend already, would you consider other girls?

its possible, depends on a lot of factors. if me and said gf had previously agreed that our relationship is to remain monogamous, then i wouldn't otherwise, i think its fair game to consider other girls.

Q:
Does me being friendly/flirty translate in his head that I want to have sex with him? because I dont. or maybe I'm reading his signs wrong, maybe he isn't trying to sleep with me lol but what the heck is he trying to do then? I don't think he actually has real feelings for me either because he doesn't know me or even tried to get to know me that well..I just think this is all fun and games but I'm not trying to take it further than that, emotionally or physically.

yes, he thinks you wanna have sex with him. if i came on strong to a girl and she didn't give me an elbow to the face or equivalent, i would assume that she likes the attention. i'm not sure if this is his plan but he might try to lure you in with a platonic sleepover. before you know it, he's mounted you and you're loud shrieks and wild bucking will be misconstrued as signs of pleasure. proceed with caution!