[ultaeja]

Is plastic surgery on a girl a no-no? As in turn off? O_O? Like, even when the girl has more confidence, etc. [Kinda like in 200 pounds beauty O_O]

[j00n]

Is plastic surgery on a girl a no-no? As in turn off? O_O? Like, even when the girl has more confidence, etc. [Kinda like in 200 pounds beauty O_O]

For me what's more important is WHY they got the plastic surgery. I have no problem with some self improvement, heck we do that all the time by going to the gym, spa's, skin treatments, expensive shampoo's, perfumes, etc. We do this to make us feel good about ourselves, and to appeal to the opposite sex. Plastic surgery is essentially no different. Now don't mistake me here, i'm not saying you should go out and get a complete face restructuring, but getting double eyelid, or a nose job, or if you've been AA bra size all your life and want to get some naturally looking normal breast implants, than it's not a big deal to me. If you're getting plastic surgery to change everything because you hate who you are, than you need to find another way to come to terms with that.

Hmm,Guys,Suppose you were on vacation for a few weeks,then you got to meet a girl that's about your age,you two then became (good) friends -Also assuming you already have a GF...You both have a lot of things in commonlike you do the same things; have the same hobbies and such(that you don't share with your GF)But you still love your GF dearly.Then when you had to go back to your home country,you two use a messenger to chat online.Then suddenly one day,She confessed to you that she liked you all this time,Even though you have no such feelings for her whatsoever,How would you react? What would you do?Also in this case, what do you think would be the best way to confess? Even though there's no hope.Thanks (: (and yes I'm that pathetic T-T")

I think i would be honest, and forthright with her. I'd be flattered that she thinks she's in love with me, but that there's no way a relationship would work out and it's best she finds someone near her that has the same interests. A few weeks of being with someone is hardly enough time to really know them.

[moonk379]

Is plastic surgery on a girl a no-no? As in turn off? O_O? Like, even when the girl has more confidence, etc. [Kinda like in 200 pounds beauty O_O]

doesn't matter to me

[poopiness]

[Q.] Why do guys say they like chubby girls better than skinny girls,
but then they choose to go out with the stick?

What? I've never said that.

But guys say that because of the same reason everyone says they don't judge based on appearance.

Is plastic surgery on a girl a no-no? As in turn off? O_O? Like, even when the girl has more confidence, etc. [Kinda like in 200 pounds beauty O_O]

Plastic surgery is not a big deal for me. It's her body, if she's unhappy with it, then she can change it. I won't think any less or any more of her. Unless she does dangerous surgeries where she's risking her health then I'd try and advice her against doing it but it's ultimately her choice. At the end of the day, as long as she's still a nice person, I have no complaints.

I think I already know the answer to this, but thought I might as well ask...lol

When a guy wants to get back together with an ex and he says he's changed, how often is that true?

I'd say 20% of the time. It's very very very hard to change who you are, and it usually doesn't happen overnight. Most guys that says they've changed, probably believe they have [plus they miss the girl and wants her back], but it's really only for maybe a month or so and then their old habits kick back in. Some do change, and hence the 20%.

guys...do u prefer older or younger girl?? and why?

and why do like all korean or asian in general like older ppl?

Younger. I don't know. I guess I'm a kid at heart. It really depends on the girl, but usually it's younger that fits me more.

[kappow]

heya. Just wondering. Do guys mind if the girl theyre going out with is not a virgin? thankies. sorry if asked before!

[CodyPolieOlie]

heya. Just wondering. Do guys mind if the girl theyre going out with is not a virgin? thankies. sorry if asked before!

Hmmm. I myself wouldn't care as long as she didn't just go around sleeping with everyone...

[hked]

heya. Just wondering. Do guys mind if the girl theyre going out with is not a virgin? thankies. sorry if asked before!

dun care, as long as she doesnt go sleeping with other guys, when theyre with me =)

[JYSTYLE*]

why do guys always send a one-two word text when the girl texts one with ten words =x.

[rycebabii]

which one will the guy preferr or think she really loves him?
The girl that'll pour everything out, no pride no shame to always cling to the guy or the girl that rejected his proposal of being his other girlfriend and be his friend until he figures things out? I'm talking about two girl with different ways of showing their love...

how will you choose as a guy base on your feelings?

[xsilentangel]

so there's this guy i met on soompi, and we met from a gaming thread. anyways, he was a pretty cool guy at first, and he added me on myspace so i decided to accept. but he started IMing me more and more with boring stories and stuff. like everytime i had an excuse to go away or sign off, he IMed me saying something.. i even ended up blocking him and deleting him off myspace since i was so annoyed. before i deleted him, he always told me to post up pictures of myself on myspace, but i ended up deleting more pictures since i was freaked out. then he asked me to send him a picture of me smiling and then i was like "haha, no.".. and in my mind i was like .. and he keeps annoying me about PICS PICS PICS!! even when i block him on AIM, he added me on this game (counterstrike) and ended up messaging me on that.. and he asks me about my life but i always give him vague answers.. he always wants to like play online games with me too but i just make excuses also. i really thought he'd figure out i was annoyed but he just keeps blabbing.. i think he's just a lonely weird guy
what should i do?..should i just tell him to like STFU or stop all communication with him?

and i really hope he doesn't see this..

[onesh0t]

[Q.] Why do guys say they like chubby girls better than skinny girls,
but then they choose to go out with the stick?

ahhahaa....you bring up a great point...ahahha. xD Its because a good portion of guys are just that shallow.

Is plastic surgery on a girl a no-no? As in turn off? O_O? Like, even when the girl has more confidence, etc. [Kinda like in 200 pounds beauty O_O]

umm....preferably i guess i would like them to not have plastic surgery...even if they have little flaws in them. I dunno...kind of hard to explain

heya. Just wondering. Do guys mind if the girl theyre going out with is not a virgin? thankies. sorry if asked before!

personally, i dont mind at all. As long as she's not whoring the streets or so.

why do guys always send a one-two word text when the girl texts one with ten words =x.

cuz thats how we roll.

which one will the guy preferr or think she really loves him?
The girl that'll pour everything out, no pride no shame to always cling to the guy or the girl that rejected his proposal of being his other girlfriend and be his friend until he figures things out? I'm talking about two girl with different ways of showing their love...

how will you choose as a guy base on your feelings?

kind of hard to interpret, but i see where your coming from...

and truthfully some guys just like girls that "play hard to get." Just like a tragic story, of course there's the girl who's always there and always supportive, but until the guy fully realizes that (i'm assuming this) your there for him and always been...sadly you can't really do anything else except wait.

[moonk379]

so there's this guy i met on soompi, and we met from a gaming thread. anyways, he was a pretty cool guy at first, and he added me on myspace so i decided to accept. but he started IMing me more and more with boring stories and stuff. like everytime i had an excuse to go away or sign off, he IMed me saying something.. i even ended up blocking him and deleting him off myspace since i was so annoyed. before i deleted him, he always told me to post up pictures of myself on myspace, but i ended up deleting more pictures since i was freaked out. then he asked me to send him a picture of me smiling and then i was like "haha, no.".. and in my mind i was like .. and he keeps annoying me about PICS PICS PICS!! even when i block him on AIM, he added me on this game (counterstrike) and ended up messaging me on that.. and he asks me about my life but i always give him vague answers.. he always wants to like play online games with me too but i just make excuses also. i really thought he'd figure out i was annoyed but he just keeps blabbing.. i think he's just a lonely weird guywhat should i do?..should i just tell him to like STFU or stop all communication with him?and i really hope he doesn't see this..

yes you should. be direct! lol

why do guys always send a one-two word text when the girl texts one with ten words =x.

why girls have to text extra long? its just the way it is =]

[LAYDEE N]

why do guys have major mood swings? he's like happy one moment, mad the next, then sad and the cycle repeats?

[IATEYOU]

hello~!
wellll, one of my close girl friends that i met at a summer program recently underwent a surgery where she was in a coma for several days and became paralyzed in her legs (but is slowly regaining the use of her legs). Obviously, she is struggling through a difficult point in her life, especially after receiving the news of the death of her best friend and after struggling with depression, suicide, and bulimia. During the operation, the only thing that pulled her through was her bf, who told her that she would be alright etc and she lived, basically, for him.
now, we are back home after the summer program, but the bf, who she also met at the summer program, is still at the summer program and is cheating on her (this is not based on rumors) he is having sex with another girl and deleted my friend on facebook and refuses to talk to her in any way-- this is a guy my friend had planned her whole life with; they were planning to get married (i know, i know...)
my friend is very upset and she just wants to know whats going on; she wants to hear the truth from him himself. so she asked me to contact him via facebook or phone and ask him to call her and tell him what she has been going through.
i dont know him that well, i didnt really hang out with him during the summer program.
so, my question is:
will he become very angry that i contacted him about this? would you? i dont want to get involved in a mess, and i know that guys pretty much hate it when some girl comes up to him and says something like, "if you hurt her (his girlfriend) im going to effing kill you!"
im not going to say that, just "can you please contact her"
is this a "dont do"? because i just want my friend to get better (she hasnt eaten in 3 days) and i just want him to contact her, not get pissed at me.
((SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!!! ><))

[poopiness]

why do guys always send a one-two word text when the girl texts one with ten words =x.

I don't know how girls do it, but I can't text. It takes me 30 mins to write one text message. So that's probably why. But then it could just be that he's not that talkative. To get him to type more, ask questions, type something that will require him to answer with more than one word reply.

why do guys have major mood swings? he's like happy one moment, mad the next, then sad and the cycle repeats?

He could just be polar. But come on, girls have way more mood swings than guys do.

heya. Just wondering. Do guys mind if the girl theyre going out with is not a virgin? thankies. sorry if asked before!

I don't.

which one will the guy preferr or think she really loves him?
The girl that'll pour everything out, no pride no shame to always cling to the guy or the girl that rejected his proposal of being his other girlfriend and be his friend until he figures things out? I'm talking about two girl with different ways of showing their love...

how will you choose as a guy base on your feelings?

I prefer the girl to be straight foward. But at the end of the day, I'd have to feel the same for the girl too, so it doesn't really matter how she expresses it to me, just as long as I feel the same.

[eunjoooo]

There's this guy i met at an internship over the summer -- this is about the 4th week i've known him
but we've flirted a lot, i had so many great times with him, we constantly physically "hit" each other lol
and he pulls my hair all the time -- he's 2 years older than me too

the problem is, tomorrow's the last day of the program
i'm an outgoing person -- with strangers, friends
but i've never told a guy my feelings before, i'm nervous

i really can't tell whether he likes me or not -- sure, he's done many things that made me think that i actually had a chance with him
then again, he could be just friendly?
yet, if he did like me, would he make the move first?

we go to different schools, different grades, live an hour distance from each other -- through train

i don't know what to do. everybody tells me to just go for it, but i'm just nervous to tell him, afraid of what his reaction might be.

[T_I_N_A20]

I met this guy at my dad's grocery place last Monday. I was bagging groceries and the cashier asked him what does his Chinese tatoo means in English and from there, we start talking. We talked for about half and hour and we started looking into each other eyes and I could sense that he is interested in me and me too. I gave him hint about my age and that I'm going to be at my dad's grocery store more often this month (August). He said that he will visit me more often. I said ok. I also told him that I'm the boss daughter in this grocery store, I showed my dad and when we were about to leave, I asked for his name and I told him mine.

After this, I didn't come back at my dad's grocery store last week because I was working five days a week and I mentioned that I work at Tim Hortons. I came back this Monday hoping to see him again around 6pm-7pm like we last met. The cashier told me he visits twice last week but this week he didn't come.

I was wonder...

1) How come he doesn't come see me this week ? Often like he said or maybe he thought it will be a waste of time ?

2) Him not seeing me last two times he came at my dad's grocery store. Does it give him an impression that I'm not interested? Or something?

3) Should I give my email or # to the cashier so she could give it to him the next time she sees him? Or is better to give it to him in person ?

[poopiness]

I met this guy at my dad's grocery place last Monday. I was bagging groceries and the cashier asked him what does his Chinese tatoo means in English and from there, we start talking. We talked for about half and hour and we started looking into each other eyes and I could sense that he is interested in me and me too. I gave him hint about my age and that I'm going to be at my dad's grocery store more often this month (August). He said that he will visit me more often. I said ok. I also told him that I'm the boss daughter in this grocery store, I showed my dad and when we were about to leave, I asked for his name and I told him mine.

After this, I didn't come back at my dad's grocery store last week because I was working five days a week and I mentioned that I work at Tim Hortons. I came back this Monday hoping to see him again around 6pm-7pm like we last met. The cashier told me he visits twice last week but this week he didn't come.

I was wonder...

1) How come he doesn't come see me this week ? Often like he said or maybe he thought it will be a waste of time ?

2) Him not seeing me last two times he came at my dad's grocery store. Does it give him an impression that I'm not interested? Or something?

3) Should I give my email or # to the cashier so she could give it to him the next time she sees him? Or is better to give it to him in person ?

- WOW he came back twice!! I'm amazed. But yea, after coming twice and no sight of you, I think he feels that you're not interested anymore. Probably given up by now. But leave your contact info for him anyways, just in case he comes back. I mean worst that can happen is that he doesn't come back.

[passion.]

would you want your girlfriend to work at the same place you do? why/why not?

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

There's this guy i met at an internship over the summer -- this is about the 4th week i've known him
but we've flirted a lot, i had so many great times with him, we constantly physically "hit" each other lol
and he pulls my hair all the time -- he's 2 years older than me too

the problem is, tomorrow's the last day of the program
i'm an outgoing person -- with strangers, friends
but i've never told a guy my feelings before, i'm nervous

i really can't tell whether he likes me or not -- sure, he's done many things that made me think that i actually had a chance with him
then again, he could be just friendly?
yet, if he did like me, would he make the move first?

we go to different schools, different grades, live an hour distance from each other -- through train

i don't know what to do. everybody tells me to just go for it, but i'm just nervous to tell him, afraid of what his reaction might be.

If you're never going to see him again, then just go for it. What do you have to lose?

I mean worst comes to worst you don't see him again after he rejects you.

Just go for it.

would you want your girlfriend to work at the same place you do? why/why not?

I would, more time to spend with her ^.^