[onesh0t]

^I think that question was already asked. It was something along the lines of "yes, but not as much as girls".

Anyways. How do guys feel when your gf is wearing mini skirts in public and other guys look at her?

if i was there i'd be like "yup, that's my gf, keep looking...i know she's hot, but she's mine."

Would you guys ever fall for or even hit on your girlfriend's best friend...?

He's my friend, too, but not that great of a friend (I met him only a couple months ago). He keeps telling his girlfriend, my best friend for almost 10 years, to always bring me along in whatever they do, and he always initiates conversation to me more then his girlfriend, and apologizes to me when he makes me mad but doesn't apologize to her when he makes her mad. -.- It frustrates me because he knows that I have a boyfriend and I have no feelings for any other guys, but if I tell my bf he's just going to beat the crap out of him so that doesn't help...
Even my best friend thinks that he likes me or something. Should I ask him about it, tell him to leave me alone...or what? o_o; Or should she? I can't ignore him since he goes to my school and if I chill with my friend, he has to come along...
If I do tell my boyfriend, since he told me to tell him if any guy hits on me, etc., would he have the right to get mad? o_o They don't know eachother.

This is so confusing -0-; He won't leave me alone even though I ignore him or give him hints that I'm not interested.
Thanks if you can help ^^*

Just tell him straight out that your not interested in him and your in a relationship yourself and completely happy with it.

[baoi]

1. how clingy is TOO CLINGY. and what's the LIMIT of being clingy? Like a girl can hold your arm for like a walk down the street and that's it, walk around the mall, all day and all night???

2. Why do you want the girls to hang up the phone first? If she does, does it make you manlier? You're just making us stay up really long hours!

3. What's your percentage of TRUST in your girl when she says she's studying??

4. Girls that are like your homeboys are sooo cool, but you would never date them, why is that?

5. I hear that a lot of guys like cute girls, define cute. (stupid, clumsy, adorable looking??, dresses clean cut.... etc??)


hehe.. sorry... i keep asking and asking many many questions.

[`Babykisses]

Hey Fellas.

I recently met this guy at work, like a week ago give or take a few days. So we ended up talking a lot, since I’m usually lonely at a register and he operates the ride. [I work at a amusement park] well anyways, in person he is a totally different person like he is sweet and stuff, like a person I could hang out with and have a good time. On msn he is just too sweet and too nice, like he tells me how I’m so gorgeous and so kind to everyone, and it makes me feel rather uncomfortable because I know I’m not those things. But I don’t know how to tell him to stop, without hurting his feelings.

I'm also not sure if he is looking for a relationship, If he is, like I don't mind going out with him.. but he is going away to university this coming September, and I'll be in my 3rd year of high school, so whats the possibility of this relationship lasting.

Advice please, and thank you (:

[xoxokisses]

if your girlfriend did something wrong, say she was attracted to this guy and talked to him on the phone and didn't listen to you when you tried to stop her, but in the end, she knew she made a big mistake and she felt really terrible about and she even told you that she was attracted to this guy. would you appreciate her honesty? i mean, she didn't have to tell you but she believed that trust was important and she didn't want to lie and because she loved you, that's why she told you. would you forgive her? and say that you really loved your girlfriend like a LOT. or you just can't take it and break it off?

[hyunsyng]

Hey Fellas.

I recently met this guy at work, like a week ago give or take a few days. So we ended up talking a lot, since I’m usually lonely at a register and he operates the ride. [I work at a amusement park] well anyways, in person he is a totally different person like he is sweet and stuff, like a person I could hang out with and have a good time. On msn he is just too sweet and too nice, like he tells me how I’m so gorgeous and so kind to everyone, and it makes me feel rather uncomfortable because I know I’m not those things. But I don’t know how to tell him to stop, without hurting his feelings.

I'm also not sure if he is looking for a relationship, If he is, like I don't mind going out with him.. but he is going away to university this coming September, and I'll be in my 3rd year of high school, so whats the possibility of this relationship lasting.

Advice please, and thank you (:

It definitely seems like he's interested in you. Is he really sweet and stuff to EVERY OTHER girl? Or just you? If it's just you, it's a pretty clear sign that he's taken a liking to you. HOWEVER, the fact that he's going away for college is probably going to go totally against you. Let me tell, you long distance relationships do NOT work unless you are totally committed and are willing to sacrifice. And since your relationship will be fairly new, you guys will not have developed your relationship fully enough for him to want to be very committed. I mean, of course, that may not be the case, but if he's going to be a freshman in college, he's going to be meeting a LOT of new girls. If any one of those girls interests him, he's going to want to go with her since she IS a lot closer to him after all.

if your girlfriend did something wrong, say she was attracted to this guy and talked to him on the phone and didn't listen to you when you tried to stop her, but in the end, she knew she made a big mistake and she felt really terrible about and she even told you that she was attracted to this guy. would you appreciate her honesty? i mean, she didn't have to tell you but she believed that trust was important and she didn't want to lie and because she loved you, that's why she told you. would you forgive her? and say that you really loved your girlfriend like a LOT. or you just can't take it and break it off?

Personally, I would rather know the truth, so I would appreciate the honesty. However, if I were that guy, I would be a bit skeptical of my girlfriend. She told she LOVES me, yet still went ahead and talked to some other guy that she was attracted to? What was the point of doing that at all? If she's attracted to him, more than likely, she would be flirting in some way or another. If she really loved me, an event like that really would not have taken place. So I'd probably tell that she doesn't actually love me. But if I really loved the girl back, I would probably try to give it another chance, but things won't be the same. I would have this thought in the back of my mind that she just may be flirting with other guys when I'm not around.

[unik]

hey i think my question was skipped. so here it is again. thanks in advance ya'll=]

let's just say i have an ex of about 5 yrs who moved far far away and we havent made any kind of contact for about 4 yrs now. well we were kindda on a break, we didnt really say it's over or anthing when he left. but 2 yrs later, he came back to see me and found out that i was going out with another guy. so yea we stopped keeping in touch for 4 yrs until recently he came back to visit and we met up right after he arrived. here is the thing, he came with his gf and i dont have a bf at the moment. im not sure wat kindda relationship he has with that girl. but well we talked just like old time and somehow he asked me if i would wait 4 him to come back in another 5 yrs or so. i still didnt give him an answer and he left. i still didnt email him or talk to him for about another week later after he was gone cuz i was still trying to figure everything out. but the thing is he didnt even try to contact me either. its been almost 2 months since he left me again and ive been trying to reach him but couldnt. seems like hes ignoring me again. hes ignoring all his friends here also. its like hes having another life or somthing. thats what im guessing. so my question is. Does he love his current gf? Is he playing with my feelings? hes always ignore me to 4get about me in the past. my friend whos also his friend emailed him and he didnt reply to it either. can he be that bz to not even bother checking his email to see if i sent anything? oh we were each other first love and i know he really did love me and i guess i hurt him alot when i went out with another guy. What should i do guys?

[520Shawn]

my question:
My bf always compares me with other girls....It makes me feel so bad bc i feel like i'm not good enough for him. Yesterday he wanted to kiss me before going home but i was a little pissed at him for talking bout this other girl so i said "ok fine i'll get myself another guy(name), he's so much better than u" afterwards he just grew silent. i asked him wut's wrong and he said that he doesn't like it when i talk about other guys. so i said fine, what'll make u feel better. he said 'nothing'.....we sat there in his car for 5 minutes and i was there trying to cheer him up. i told him i was just joking........he just ignored me so i just go out of car and left. He made me hella pissed! So ignored all his calls......... I don't know wut to do..... He apologized....... but should i forgive him? i mean he can talk bout other girls but i can't? I feel bad too.

[have_faith]

hi. *waves* thanks first for even reading this x) its really long =/

so i have this situation tat makes me all weird o.o i guess i need some opinions so i can have closure.

story is: i recently broke up with my bf of 5 months. in the beginning it was all ooo and ahhh and wat not. we nvr fought but we did have some problems. mostly its him trying to figure out his feelings and stuff. so i was left sad and crying a lot cause i really liked him and he was taking me on an emotional roller coaster. anywhoo. we overcame the issues usually with me saying tat no matter wat im there for him and tat we should go with watever is best for us. he finally asked me out like 6 months after we started talking. we nvr really saw each other a lot cause im not allowed out a lot plus no bf. (strict azn parents) but it was ok in the beginning. everything was great but i got hurt again and the last time tat i was hurt it was because i found out he was flirting with other girls. i think its ok if he looks at other girls cause its not like he doesnt have eyes and other girls arent pretty. i can understand tat but going as far as touching them is a no no. after tat incident i confronted him and we continued with our relationship. as time went by i realized tat the feeling wasnt the same anymore and tat i was holding on to nothing. so i broke it off with him. he told me tat he kinda knew it was gonna happen. i was all O.O was it because i was avoiding him. and he said no it was since the beginning of the relationship! wtf. he said he knew cause i nvr closed my eyes when he kissed me. my thing is, if u knew then why did u continue and talked as if we were gonna be together forever. i dun regret breaking if off but im feeling angry because of wat he said. and his reaction. he seem to not have cared at all. it was just oh i kinda knew and im gonna go now. the way he said it and the feeling was just watever. it made me feel bad because just the other day he was telling me how much he loved me and wat not. then the next day on his facebook on the top friends thing there i was bumped alllll the way down. even after his first ex. i thought wow i must not mean as much as i thought to him. but then again it is just facebook right? he also changed his thing to looking for friendship and a relationship. does tat mean tat he just wants to be in a relationship? to be able to say he has a girlfriend? cause tats wat i feel like i was to him. now he is re-kindling his relationship with his ex. maybe he nvr got over her? aiya i dunno. i do know i need to get over this though, i am the one tat ended it. wat do you guys think. sorry for the rant. i kinda needed to vent too >.<

[xtiinee]

When your girlfriends' say, like, mushy stuff to you, do you guys get uncomfortable? I know that most girls get all "Awwww" when guys say stuff like that to them but it could be different for guys. I don't wanna say things to my boyfriend that might make him uncomfortable lol.

[poopiness]

When your girlfriends' say, like, mushy stuff to you, do you guys get uncomfortable? I know that most girls get all "Awwww" when guys say stuff like that to them but it could be different for guys. I don't wanna say things to my boyfriend that might make him uncomfortable lol.

how mushy are we talking? Give me an example.

[hyunsyng]

hey i think my question was skipped. so here it is again. thanks in advance ya'll=]

let's just say i have an ex of about 5 yrs who moved far far away and we havent made any kind of contact for about 4 yrs now. well we were kindda on a break, we didnt really say it's over or anthing when he left. but 2 yrs later, he came back to see me and found out that i was going out with another guy. so yea we stopped keeping in touch for 4 yrs until recently he came back to visit and we met up right after he arrived. here is the thing, he came with his gf and i dont have a bf at the moment. im not sure wat kindda relationship he has with that girl. but well we talked just like old time and somehow he asked me if i would wait 4 him to come back in another 5 yrs or so. i still didnt give him an answer and he left. i still didnt email him or talk to him for about another week later after he was gone cuz i was still trying to figure everything out. but the thing is he didnt even try to contact me either. its been almost 2 months since he left me again and ive been trying to reach him but couldnt. seems like hes ignoring me again. hes ignoring all his friends here also. its like hes having another life or somthing. thats what im guessing. so my question is. Does he love his current gf? Is he playing with my feelings? hes always ignore me to 4get about me in the past. my friend whos also his friend emailed him and he didnt reply to it either. can he be that bz to not even bother checking his email to see if i sent anything? oh we were each other first love and i know he really did love me and i guess i hurt him alot when i went out with another guy. What should i do guys?

Well, the reason he brought his girlfriend with him was to probably give a statement like, "you're not the ONLY one who's tried to move on." Chances are that despite him having a girlfriend, he may still have some lingering feelings for you, hence why he asked you to wait for him. I'm not sure what the atmosphere of the situation was like when he asked you this, but I'm going to assume that he was serious. But in anycase, when it took you a while to answer him back, I suppose he took that as a rejection of sorts. So as far as HE'S concerned, I would think that he thinks you're playing HIS feelings. And it's always easier to run away from things than to face it head on. Since he lives so far away from you, it'll be ESPECIALLY easier for him to just ignore you (maybe to get over you?) and not do anything. At the moment, there's nothing you can do until he finally decides to contact you back. Good luck.

[moonk379]

my question:My bf always compares me with other girls....It makes me feel so bad bc i feel like i'm not good enough for him. Yesterday he wanted to kiss me before going home but i was a little pissed at him for talking bout this other girl so i said "ok fine i'll get myself another guy(name), he's so much better than u" afterwards he just grew silent. i asked him wut's wrong and he said that he doesn't like it when i talk about other guys. so i said fine, what'll make u feel better. he said 'nothing'.....we sat there in his car for 5 minutes and i was there trying to cheer him up. i told him i was just joking........he just ignored me so i just go out of car and left. He made me hella pissed! So ignored all his calls......... I don't know wut to do..... He apologized....... but should i forgive him? i mean he can talk bout other girls but i can't? I feel bad too.

u should talk to him about him talkin about other girls if its botherin you that much.

hi. *waves* thanks first for even reading this x) its really long =/so i have this situation tat makes me all weird o.o i guess i need some opinions so i can have closure.story is: i recently broke up with my bf of 5 months. in the beginning it was all ooo and ahhh and wat not. we nvr fought but we did have some problems. mostly its him trying to figure out his feelings and stuff. so i was left sad and crying a lot cause i really liked him and he was taking me on an emotional roller coaster. anywhoo. we overcame the issues usually with me saying tat no matter wat im there for him and tat we should go with watever is best for us. he finally asked me out like 6 months after we started talking. we nvr really saw each other a lot cause im not allowed out a lot plus no bf. (strict azn parents) but it was ok in the beginning. everything was great but i got hurt again and the last time tat i was hurt it was because i found out he was flirting with other girls. i think its ok if he looks at other girls cause its not like he doesnt have eyes and other girls arent pretty. i can understand tat but going as far as touching them is a no no. after tat incident i confronted him and we continued with our relationship. as time went by i realized tat the feeling wasnt the same anymore and tat i was holding on to nothing. so i broke it off with him. he told me tat he kinda knew it was gonna happen. i was all O.O was it because i was avoiding him. and he said no it was since the beginning of the relationship! wtf. he said he knew cause i nvr closed my eyes when he kissed me. my thing is, if u knew then why did u continue and talked as if we were gonna be together forever. i dun regret breaking if off but im feeling angry because of wat he said. and his reaction. he seem to not have cared at all. it was just oh i kinda knew and im gonna go now. the way he said it and the feeling was just watever. it made me feel bad because just the other day he was telling me how much he loved me and wat not. then the next day on his facebook on the top friends thing there i was bumped alllll the way down. even after his first ex. i thought wow i must not mean as much as i thought to him. but then again it is just facebook right? he also changed his thing to looking for friendship and a relationship. does tat mean tat he just wants to be in a relationship? to be able to say he has a girlfriend? cause tats wat i feel like i was to him. now he is re-kindling his relationship with his ex. maybe he nvr got over her? aiya i dunno. i do know i need to get over this though, i am the one tat ended it. wat do you guys think. sorry for the rant. i kinda needed to vent too >.<

cliffnotes plz lol

[AnglLttlGr]

1.What does it mean when a guy says : anything you want
Does it mean something? If so, what would it be?

2. Also, what does it mean when you having seen a dude friend for a couple years, and when you talk to him , the first thing he says is: WOW, girlname it's been a long time.
? Does it mean anything?

I would like more than one person to answer this please to get different opinions.

thank you guys in advance. :]

[Clix]

1.What does it mean when a guy says : anything you want
Does it mean something? If so, what would it be?

2. Also, what does it mean when you having seen a dude friend for a couple years, and when you talk to him , the first thing he says is: WOW, girlname it's been a long time.
? Does it mean anything?

I would like more than one person to answer this please to get different opinions.

thank you guys in advance. :]

1. No.
2. No.

[CarolineKIM]

hmmm i have a question
so this guy who is like 6 years older than this girl hangs out with her alot. hes extremely nice to her and favors her a bit out of the other girls her age. they hang out alott. hes really caring and is warm to everyone. hes a really giving person. it seems hes just a bit nicer and cares a tad bit more for HER. sometimes he says things that a bf would say...maybe he just thinks of her as a little dongseng(sister) and is super duper dee doo nice too her
yeah well shes hella confused because she likes him a bit. so do you all think he thinks of her as a little sister?

[nyczalex]

When your girlfriends' say, like, mushy stuff to you, do you guys get uncomfortable? I know that most girls get all "Awwww" when guys say stuff like that to them but it could be different for guys. I don't wanna say things to my boyfriend that might make him uncomfortable lol.

I'm single at the moment but I had have my experiences. got 3 ex's. I never felt uncomftable when they said mushy stuff. 1 of my ex's did that alot. I do it back and tease them and we both enjoy it and we get some laughs.

hmmm i have a question
so this guy who is like 6 years older than this girl hangs out with her alot. hes extremely nice to her and favors her a bit out of the other girls her age. they hang out alott. hes really caring and is warm to everyone. hes a really giving person. it seems hes just a bit nicer and cares a tad bit more for HER. sometimes he says things that a bf would say...maybe he just thinks of her as a little dongseng(sister) and is super duper dee doo nice too her
yeah well shes hella confused because she likes him a bit. so do you all think he thinks of her as a little sister?

This is not really something we can answer. It ponders us just as much as her. If she really wonders, she should steup and find out. You can expect a direct answer from us.

if its the guy calling her out mostly, then its pretty much that the fella feels for her and not just like a sister.

[Inevitable]

1.What does it mean when a guy says : anything you want
Does it mean something? If so, what would it be?

2. Also, what does it mean when you having seen a dude friend for a couple years, and when you talk to him , the first thing he says is: WOW, girlname it's been a long time.
? Does it mean anything?

I would like more than one person to answer this please to get different opinions.

thank you guys in advance. :]

1. He means what he says, nothing much behind it

2. He likes to joke around, nothing much behind this either =)

[-trang-]

imagine this, a guy and a girl were dancing for the first time together at a club (an under18 one).. they are both facing the same direction so the girl is infront of the guy.. and the guys hands were waving near her waist so she kinda places her hand ontop of his so that theyre both holding onto her stomach area :S does that make sense so far? LOL! anyways.. yeah they were dancing like that for while..

then years later, them two are talking about old times and the guy talks to her about THAT night ages ago, and said that "i thought that you were a pretty and cute girl was contemplating whether or not to make a move, but seeing that you went out with *insertSOMEguysNAMEhere*, i dont go out with my enemys ex"

what exactly does he mean by that? was that a warning to me?

ps. this wouldve been more helpful to me BACK THEN but not now lol but i still want to know what he meant..

[Inevitable]

imagine this, a guy and a girl were dancing for the first time together at a club (an under18 one).. they are both facing the same direction so the girl is infront of the guy.. and the guys hands were waving near her waist so she kinda places her hand ontop of his so that theyre both holding onto her stomach area :S does that make sense so far? LOL! anyways.. yeah they were dancing like that for while..

then years later, them two are talking about old times and the guy talks to her about THAT night ages ago, and said that "i thought that you were a pretty and cute girl was contemplating whether or not to make a move, but seeing that you went out with *insertSOMEguysNAMEhere*, i dont go out with my enemys ex"

what exactly does he mean by that? was that a warning to me?

ps. this wouldve been more helpful to me BACK THEN but not now lol but i still want to know what he meant..

Basically, he had some interest in you and probably would have attempted to date you or become your boyfriend, but since you had a boyfriend that he was enemies with, he didn't want to bother going out with you. He probably has his own personal reasons for why he doesnt go out with the ex's of people he doesnt like

[LOVEspell.]

girl likes guy.
guy knows and is not interested.
girl knows guy is not interested

guy pretends he doesnt notice the girl
or look at her.

(btw, they never talked to each other)


what does this mean?