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#2901 User is offline   AnglLttlGr 

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Posted 13 August 2007 - 01:30 PM

1.How would a guy feel if a girl confess all her feelings to him after years of liking him?

2.&& does a guy ever feel weird when a girl tells him that she likes him?

I would like more than one person answer forDifferent opinions please

Thankx very much in advance :]
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 01:37 PM

QUOTE(AnglLttlGr @ Aug 13 2007, 02:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1.How would a guy feel if a girl confess all her feelings to him after years of liking him?

2.&& does a guy ever feel weird when a girl tells him that she likes him?

I would like more than one person answer forDifferent opinions please

Thankx very much in advance :]

1. Disappointed, I'd be thinking... why didnt you tell me before?
2.no, it feels great.
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 01:56 PM

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No its not true, most guys find it hard to express there feelings.


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can a guy be really outgoing and social with his friends (guys and girls) but shy when he's alone with his girlfriend..? ^^;
and if your girlfriend got you something expensive (like..designer.. o_o) for an anniversary, how would you react? >_< especially if you gave her something super expensive, too. (i'm not trying to compete, i just thought it was really cute ^^;;; )
do guys ever get scared/worried that their girlfriend might dump them for someone else? o__o; (duh -3-) how would you show that?

thank you guys <3 i seriously love this thread haha ^^


1. Yeah, its got to do with being comfortable. Also, if i acted the way i did to my gf the same way i did with my buddies...she'd probably be really turned off. lol =P.
2. It depends on the thought...designer is nice and all, but more guys are simple and would probably prefer a thoughtful one. (I said most guys...most)
3. Depends on what their gf is doing...but yeah, im sure it happens.
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#2904 User is offline   Memoriee 

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Posted 13 August 2007 - 03:07 PM

Recently my boyfriend of 2 months said he felt so bad lying to me this whole time about something and that he couldn't stand not telling me anymore... He said he's actually a year younger than me and that he was worried I would break up with him now because of it or because he lied. But it's gotten really serious between us and we love each other a lot and always spend time together. It feels like the perfect couple.

While we first started dating he would ask my opinion on stuff like 'oh my friend called and needed advice bcause he likes this girl who's older than him.' So now I think it was actually for him...lol.

But why did he lie about it in the first place? >.< I'm sad he lied but I love him so much I'm okay with it unless he felt weird about our age difference... And how come he decided to tell me now? Does that mean he really loves me and everything?

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Posted 13 August 2007 - 03:30 PM

QUOTE(Memoriee @ Aug 13 2007, 04:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Recently my boyfriend of 2 months said he felt so bad lying to me this whole time about something and that he couldn't stand not telling me anymore... He said he's actually a year younger than me and that he was worried I would break up with him now because of it or because he lied. But it's gotten really serious between us and we love each other a lot and always spend time together. It feels like the perfect couple.

While we first started dating he would ask my opinion on stuff like 'oh my friend called and needed advice bcause he likes this girl who's older than him.' So now I think it was actually for him...lol.

But why did he lie about it in the first place? >.< I'm sad he lied but I love him so much I'm okay with it unless he felt weird about our age difference... And how come he decided to tell me now? Does that mean he really loves me and everything?


hmm i think he lied about it in first place cuz most guys think most girls dont like guys who are younger than them. and the reason why he told you was becuz the relationship has gone to a higher lvl and he doesn't want the relationship to be based on a lie.
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 03:38 PM

QUOTE(Offspring89 @ Aug 13 2007, 01:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
This guy probably didnt call you the next day because he was embaressed about what happened the night before. He sounds like hes shy, and when he was drunk...he mustered up the nerve to call you. But when the day after arrived, he got nervous again (and probably embaressed) and didnt want to call you. Does sound like hes interested in you though wink.gif.


So should I wait until he calls or should I text/call him first and act casual..? I mean I don't want to look desperate AND I also don't want to wait around for him forever ya know?
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 03:40 PM

is it right to ask your boyfriend to stop seeing a certain friend that i dont like? i have reasons for not liking this person, but he doesnt seem to understand.

and when i asked him to do this, he turns around and tells ME to stop seeing my best friend because "he doesnt like her"...

WHYYYYY
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 04:43 PM

QUOTE(CIRee @ Aug 13 2007, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sometimes guy's will be nice an just say "cute" because they dont want to tell their friend that she "ugly" but if he honestly think you are cute then he think your cute. Nothing more.


thanx! but still wondering.... do guys like "cute" girls or more like "hot" and "smexy" girls?


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Posted 13 August 2007 - 04:56 PM

just wondering if a guy is in interested in a girl. what would they usually do? i just want to know what are the signs to look for.
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 05:02 PM

QUOTE(joeeece @ Aug 13 2007, 04:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
is it right to ask your boyfriend to stop seeing a certain friend that i dont like? i have reasons for not liking this person, but he doesnt seem to understand.

and when i asked him to do this, he turns around and tells ME to stop seeing my best friend because "he doesnt like her"...

WHYYYYY

Having him see a "certain friend" doesn't directly effect you. His friend are his friends, just leave it alone.

QUOTE(pucapunipoemi @ Aug 13 2007, 05:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
thanx! but still wondering.... do guys like "cute" girls or more like "hot" and "smexy" girls?

It's personal taste.

QUOTE(minshoo @ Aug 13 2007, 05:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
just wondering if a guy is in interested in a girl. what would they usually do? i just want to know what are the signs to look for.

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Posted 13 August 2007 - 06:09 PM

Do guys hold grudges against girls O_O ?
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 06:13 PM

QUOTE(ultaeja @ Aug 13 2007, 09:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do guys hold grudges against girls O_O ?


The male species doesn't have a whole entire thought process compared to the female mind. There are some guys who hold grudges, some guys who are laid-back that let it go. As I am sure, there are as many males and females that hold grudges for longer period of times and short period of times. There are just people.

So yeah, guys do hold grudges, but it's not different from girls holding grudges on guys, you know. Also, it depends on what you do that causes the guy to hold that grudge.
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 06:19 PM

QUOTE(CIRee @ Aug 13 2007, 08:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It's personal taste.


thanx for taking ur time to answer my questions! even when they sound stupid~~ sweatingbullets.gif
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 07:53 PM

QUOTE(ultaeja @ Aug 13 2007, 09:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do guys hold grudges against girls O_O ?


Yes and no.

We don't forget, and bad memories aren't easily erased.

But we are more easily forgiving, more easily forgetful, but at the same time we can be more unforgiving when we are deeply hurt.

I personally don't hold grudges so to speak, but I change who I am around people whom I've had bad experiences, while I may not be cold I do not necessarily want to be around that person.
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 07:58 PM

QUOTE(pucapunipoemi @ Aug 13 2007, 07:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
thanx for taking ur time to answer my questions! even when they sound stupid~~ sweatingbullets.gif



Just to add a bit more. A LOT of guys like a hot and sexy girl that (of course, looks good) can be cute at the same time. Having one over the other is a turn-off sometimes.
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 08:36 PM

Hm. My friend keeps asking me this question....

SO, GUYS, answer this if you can. Because I can never give her an answer and she'll keep bugging me.

There's a guy in her Korean class. (He's the only guy and there are 3 more girls besides her)
She said that he keeps looking at her during class and when class ends, he leaves the class quicker than her and when walking down the stairs, he talks to her.
Do you think that the guy likes her?


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And my question..

Guys, age range for your girl?

Thanks so much (:
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 09:22 PM

QUOTE(AnglLttlGr @ Aug 13 2007, 04:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1.How would a guy feel if a girl confess all her feelings to him after years of liking him?

2.&& does a guy ever feel weird when a girl tells him that she likes him?

I would like more than one person answer forDifferent opinions please

Thankx very much in advance :]

1) Well, it depends whether I had feelings for her or not. If I did, I would be kind of down since at some point, we both felt the same thing for each other.
2) Yes, if the guy doesnt feel the same way about her.

QUOTE(ultaeja @ Aug 13 2007, 09:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do guys hold grudges against girls O_O ?

Saying no would be a hypocritical statement. It depends on the situation, if it's something very serious, then yes. If not, then no. I hold very little grudges because it just isnt worth carrying it around with me.

QUOTE(bishie_bashie @ Aug 13 2007, 11:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hm. My friend keeps asking me this question....

SO, GUYS, answer this if you can. Because I can never give her an answer and she'll keep bugging me.

There's a guy in her Korean class. (He's the only guy and there are 3 more girls besides her)
She said that he keeps looking at her during class and when class ends, he leaves the class quicker than her and when walking down the stairs, he talks to her.
Do you think that the guy likes her?
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And my question..

Guys, age range for your girl?

Thanks so much (:

1) He might, but from the current situation, he's showing very little signs. If he would talk to her more, ie both in class and out of class, then that would be a different story.
2) 5 year age gap; Requirement: 18 yrs of age.
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exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 13 August 2007 - 11:22 PM

QUOTE(xxxbabyyy @ Aug 13 2007, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
is it true, that guys dono how to love until they've been hurt?

No, its not but alot of us find it harder to express our feelings. I do, for one, but I really don't look like the type of guy that has trouble expressing them =P

QUOTE(kimseo @ Aug 13 2007, 04:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
can a guy be really outgoing and social with his friends (guys and girls) but shy when he's alone with his girlfriend..? ^^;
and if your girlfriend got you something expensive (like..designer.. o_o) for an anniversary, how would you react? >_< especially if you gave her something super expensive, too. (i'm not trying to compete, i just thought it was really cute ^^;;; )
do guys ever get scared/worried that their girlfriend might dump them for someone else? o__o; (duh -3-) how would you show that?

thank you guys <3 i seriously love this thread haha ^^

Yes, Thats me. I am very outgoing and social with my friends. More with the fellas then the females. But I still am more social with my female friends towards a gf. This is off course thru experience with ex's. If a gf was to get me something expensive, I would think they really care about me alot because they willingly spent so much money. I do believe that girls aim more towards money then guys. Not that there is anything wrong with that. If you really are a amazing gf, I guess we can get worried and think you might leave us. If we were super rich, that would be a different story smile.gif

QUOTE(AnglLttlGr @ Aug 13 2007, 05:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1.How would a guy feel if a girl confess all her feelings to him after years of liking him?

2.&& does a guy ever feel weird when a girl tells him that she likes him?

I would like more than one person answer forDifferent opinions please

Thankx very much in advance :]

1. If I think/feel we can make it happen, I will give it a shot off course.
2. No, we love it. it feels great. It might be harder for us to initiate on girls completely but its easy for us to reject. TRUTH

QUOTE(Memoriee @ Aug 13 2007, 07:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Recently my boyfriend of 2 months said he felt so bad lying to me this whole time about something and that he couldn't stand not telling me anymore... He said he's actually a year younger than me and that he was worried I would break up with him now because of it or because he lied. But it's gotten really serious between us and we love each other a lot and always spend time together. It feels like the perfect couple.

While we first started dating he would ask my opinion on stuff like 'oh my friend called and needed advice bcause he likes this girl who's older than him.' So now I think it was actually for him...lol.

But why did he lie about it in the first place? >.< I'm sad he lied but I love him so much I'm okay with it unless he felt weird about our age difference... And how come he decided to tell me now? Does that mean he really loves me and everything?

He thinks that girls like older men. Well, most girls do from what I heard. But yeahh, He now believes that you have both come to a point where his 1 year age different wouldnt affect you 2's relatonship.


QUOTE(joeeece @ Aug 13 2007, 07:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
is it right to ask your boyfriend to stop seeing a certain friend that i dont like? i have reasons for not liking this person, but he doesnt seem to understand.

and when i asked him to do this, he turns around and tells ME to stop seeing my best friend because "he doesnt like her"...

WHYYYYY

Yes but only if you have a good reason. Something like, his friend keeps flirting with you when he knows its wrong and you told him to stop because you dont like it. Otherwise, If you dont have a good reason, you should let it be. He will always have 'his' friends and you will always have 'yours'. You aren't bound to like all of them. Same for him.

QUOTE(minshoo @ Aug 13 2007, 08:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
just wondering if a guy is in interested in a girl. what would they usually do? i just want to know what are the signs to look for.

They will adjust everything in her favor. You wanna see a certain movie coming out? You will be surprised with tickets.

QUOTE(ultaeja @ Aug 13 2007, 10:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do guys hold grudges against girls O_O ?

Fosho. We definately do but we forgive faster then you ladies.

QUOTE(bishie_bashie @ Aug 14 2007, 12:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hm. My friend keeps asking me this question....

SO, GUYS, answer this if you can. Because I can never give her an answer and she'll keep bugging me.

There's a guy in her Korean class. (He's the only guy and there are 3 more girls besides her)
She said that he keeps looking at her during class and when class ends, he leaves the class quicker than her and when walking down the stairs, he talks to her.
Do you think that the guy likes her?
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And my question..

Guys, age range for your girl?

Thanks so much (:

He might be shy so he does it outside. Who knows. Maybe if she shows some other signs.
For me, Age range would be 3 years, I'm 20 right now, so 17-23.
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Posted 14 August 2007 - 12:26 AM

The guy I like & I were playfully wrestling over a textbook, and he says "Stop or I'll bite your tongue!".

Then I said something to him that made him really relieved. And he says "I love you ! You know, if i was attracted to you, i would so make out with you right now!"

Does he like me ? Cause he doesnt know how i feel.

I don't know what to think anymore.
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Posted 14 August 2007 - 12:31 AM

smile.gif i would like to ask.. what does a guy do when he likes a girl.. but 2 other close friends like that girl too? would you.. give up on her? but the thing is.. that she really doesnt talk to those 2 guys its just that one spent one whole day with teh girl because of office duty and tutor. and the other guy just a a guy that talks to the girl often two years ago.... and theres many other guys that like the girl too yet she doesnt even talk to those other guys too


also i got another question..
theres this guy that always teases me and randomly hits me.. and i catch him looking at me in dancing classes and in science.
. but some signs he gives seems like he doesnt like me.. and i think he doesnt. but in a way i think he do because there were rumours last year about it..
why i think he doesnt like me because i see him hanging with other girls(and he didnt know that i was looking), flirting, we dont talk often anymore[we talked alot beggining last year] .. he use to pick on me and tease me alot in the beggining of the year, but i kinder just ignored him.
is he just a flirt? or just likes to tease me? what do you think



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