Ask The Fellas discuss about behaviors and relationships from male P.O.V.
#2901
Posted 13 August 2007 - 01:30 PM
2.&& does a guy ever feel weird when a girl tells him that she likes him?
I would like more than one person answer forDifferent opinions please
Thankx very much in advance :]
#2902
Posted 13 August 2007 - 01:37 PM
2.&& does a guy ever feel weird when a girl tells him that she likes him?
I would like more than one person answer forDifferent opinions please
Thankx very much in advance :]
1. Disappointed, I'd be thinking... why didnt you tell me before?
2.no, it feels great.
#2903
Posted 13 August 2007 - 01:56 PM
amen.
and if your girlfriend got you something expensive (like..designer.. o_o) for an anniversary, how would you react? >_< especially if you gave her something super expensive, too. (i'm not trying to compete, i just thought it was really cute ^^;;; )
do guys ever get scared/worried that their girlfriend might dump them for someone else? o__o; (duh -3-) how would you show that?
thank you guys <3 i seriously love this thread haha ^^
1. Yeah, its got to do with being comfortable. Also, if i acted the way i did to my gf the same way i did with my buddies...she'd probably be really turned off. lol =P.
2. It depends on the thought...designer is nice and all, but more guys are simple and would probably prefer a thoughtful one. (I said most guys...most)
3. Depends on what their gf is doing...but yeah, im sure it happens.
#2904
Posted 13 August 2007 - 03:07 PM
While we first started dating he would ask my opinion on stuff like 'oh my friend called and needed advice bcause he likes this girl who's older than him.' So now I think it was actually for him...lol.
But why did he lie about it in the first place? >.< I'm sad he lied but I love him so much I'm okay with it unless he felt weird about our age difference... And how come he decided to tell me now? Does that mean he really loves me and everything?
#2905
Posted 13 August 2007 - 03:30 PM
While we first started dating he would ask my opinion on stuff like 'oh my friend called and needed advice bcause he likes this girl who's older than him.' So now I think it was actually for him...lol.
But why did he lie about it in the first place? >.< I'm sad he lied but I love him so much I'm okay with it unless he felt weird about our age difference... And how come he decided to tell me now? Does that mean he really loves me and everything?
hmm i think he lied about it in first place cuz most guys think most girls dont like guys who are younger than them. and the reason why he told you was becuz the relationship has gone to a higher lvl and he doesn't want the relationship to be based on a lie.
#2906
Posted 13 August 2007 - 03:38 PM
So should I wait until he calls or should I text/call him first and act casual..? I mean I don't want to look desperate AND I also don't want to wait around for him forever ya know?
#2907
Posted 13 August 2007 - 03:40 PM
and when i asked him to do this, he turns around and tells ME to stop seeing my best friend because "he doesnt like her"...
WHYYYYY
#2908
Posted 13 August 2007 - 04:43 PM
thanx! but still wondering.... do guys like "cute" girls or more like "hot" and "smexy" girls?

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#2909
Posted 13 August 2007 - 04:56 PM
#2910
Posted 13 August 2007 - 05:02 PM
and when i asked him to do this, he turns around and tells ME to stop seeing my best friend because "he doesnt like her"...
WHYYYYY
Having him see a "certain friend" doesn't directly effect you. His friend are his friends, just leave it alone.
It's personal taste.
constant flirting? I'm still trying to figure this out
#2911
Posted 13 August 2007 - 06:09 PM
#2912
Posted 13 August 2007 - 06:13 PM
The male species doesn't have a whole entire thought process compared to the female mind. There are some guys who hold grudges, some guys who are laid-back that let it go. As I am sure, there are as many males and females that hold grudges for longer period of times and short period of times. There are just people.
So yeah, guys do hold grudges, but it's not different from girls holding grudges on guys, you know. Also, it depends on what you do that causes the guy to hold that grudge.
#2913
Posted 13 August 2007 - 06:19 PM
thanx for taking ur time to answer my questions! even when they sound stupid~~

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#2914
Posted 13 August 2007 - 07:53 PM
Yes and no.
We don't forget, and bad memories aren't easily erased.
But we are more easily forgiving, more easily forgetful, but at the same time we can be more unforgiving when we are deeply hurt.
I personally don't hold grudges so to speak, but I change who I am around people whom I've had bad experiences, while I may not be cold I do not necessarily want to be around that person.
#2915
Posted 13 August 2007 - 07:58 PM
Just to add a bit more. A LOT of guys like a hot and sexy girl that (of course, looks good) can be cute at the same time. Having one over the other is a turn-off sometimes.
#2916
Posted 13 August 2007 - 08:36 PM
SO, GUYS, answer this if you can. Because I can never give her an answer and she'll keep bugging me.
There's a guy in her Korean class. (He's the only guy and there are 3 more girls besides her)
She said that he keeps looking at her during class and when class ends, he leaves the class quicker than her and when walking down the stairs, he talks to her.
Do you think that the guy likes her?
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And my question..
Guys, age range for your girl?
Thanks so much (:
#2917
Posted 13 August 2007 - 09:22 PM
2.&& does a guy ever feel weird when a girl tells him that she likes him?
I would like more than one person answer forDifferent opinions please
Thankx very much in advance :]
1) Well, it depends whether I had feelings for her or not. If I did, I would be kind of down since at some point, we both felt the same thing for each other.
2) Yes, if the guy doesnt feel the same way about her.
Saying no would be a hypocritical statement. It depends on the situation, if it's something very serious, then yes. If not, then no. I hold very little grudges because it just isnt worth carrying it around with me.
SO, GUYS, answer this if you can. Because I can never give her an answer and she'll keep bugging me.
There's a guy in her Korean class. (He's the only guy and there are 3 more girls besides her)
She said that he keeps looking at her during class and when class ends, he leaves the class quicker than her and when walking down the stairs, he talks to her.
Do you think that the guy likes her?
-----
And my question..
Guys, age range for your girl?
Thanks so much (:
1) He might, but from the current situation, he's showing very little signs. If he would talk to her more, ie both in class and out of class, then that would be a different story.
2) 5 year age gap; Requirement: 18 yrs of age.
#2918
Posted 13 August 2007 - 11:22 PM
No, its not but alot of us find it harder to express our feelings. I do, for one, but I really don't look like the type of guy that has trouble expressing them =P
and if your girlfriend got you something expensive (like..designer.. o_o) for an anniversary, how would you react? >_< especially if you gave her something super expensive, too. (i'm not trying to compete, i just thought it was really cute ^^;;; )
do guys ever get scared/worried that their girlfriend might dump them for someone else? o__o; (duh -3-) how would you show that?
thank you guys <3 i seriously love this thread haha ^^
Yes, Thats me. I am very outgoing and social with my friends. More with the fellas then the females. But I still am more social with my female friends towards a gf. This is off course thru experience with ex's. If a gf was to get me something expensive, I would think they really care about me alot because they willingly spent so much money. I do believe that girls aim more towards money then guys. Not that there is anything wrong with that. If you really are a amazing gf, I guess we can get worried and think you might leave us. If we were super rich, that would be a different story
2.&& does a guy ever feel weird when a girl tells him that she likes him?
I would like more than one person answer forDifferent opinions please
Thankx very much in advance :]
1. If I think/feel we can make it happen, I will give it a shot off course.
2. No, we love it. it feels great. It might be harder for us to initiate on girls completely but its easy for us to reject. TRUTH
While we first started dating he would ask my opinion on stuff like 'oh my friend called and needed advice bcause he likes this girl who's older than him.' So now I think it was actually for him...lol.
But why did he lie about it in the first place? >.< I'm sad he lied but I love him so much I'm okay with it unless he felt weird about our age difference... And how come he decided to tell me now? Does that mean he really loves me and everything?
He thinks that girls like older men. Well, most girls do from what I heard. But yeahh, He now believes that you have both come to a point where his 1 year age different wouldnt affect you 2's relatonship.
and when i asked him to do this, he turns around and tells ME to stop seeing my best friend because "he doesnt like her"...
WHYYYYY
Yes but only if you have a good reason. Something like, his friend keeps flirting with you when he knows its wrong and you told him to stop because you dont like it. Otherwise, If you dont have a good reason, you should let it be. He will always have 'his' friends and you will always have 'yours'. You aren't bound to like all of them. Same for him.
They will adjust everything in her favor. You wanna see a certain movie coming out? You will be surprised with tickets.
Fosho. We definately do but we forgive faster then you ladies.
SO, GUYS, answer this if you can. Because I can never give her an answer and she'll keep bugging me.
There's a guy in her Korean class. (He's the only guy and there are 3 more girls besides her)
She said that he keeps looking at her during class and when class ends, he leaves the class quicker than her and when walking down the stairs, he talks to her.
Do you think that the guy likes her?
-----
And my question..
Guys, age range for your girl?
Thanks so much (:
He might be shy so he does it outside. Who knows. Maybe if she shows some other signs.
For me, Age range would be 3 years, I'm 20 right now, so 17-23.
#2919
Posted 14 August 2007 - 12:26 AM
Then I said something to him that made him really relieved. And he says "I love you ! You know, if i was attracted to you, i would so make out with you right now!"
Does he like me ? Cause he doesnt know how i feel.
I don't know what to think anymore.
#2920
Posted 14 August 2007 - 12:31 AM
also i got another question..
theres this guy that always teases me and randomly hits me.. and i catch him looking at me in dancing classes and in science.
. but some signs he gives seems like he doesnt like me.. and i think he doesnt. but in a way i think he do because there were rumours last year about it..
why i think he doesnt like me because i see him hanging with other girls(and he didnt know that i was looking), flirting, we dont talk often anymore[we talked alot beggining last year] .. he use to pick on me and tease me alot in the beggining of the year, but i kinder just ignored him.
is he just a flirt? or just likes to tease me? what do you think
























