[.sukaii.]

honestly, (this is just my opinion) but the kiss on the cheek went a little too far. Lots of people would consider that cheating. I think he has interest in you but doesnt want to lose his gf so he just flirts around with you, the thing is.. this is pretty wrong. You two should talk because it seems like he doesnt plan to stop flirting, and you wouldn't stop him if he did. I can be wrong, he might just be really 'nice' but I highly doubt that his gf would be okay if she knew all of this stuff was going on.

Thanks a lot for the answers (:
The thing is, he's a reaally nice guy (and of the shy type too).
And we're quite close friends. I don't know if the compliments of his are just him trying to be nice, but,
I wouldn't be surprised if he does this a lot, since he's really nice.
He told me he's really shy (since we're long distance, also him and his GF are too, don't worry, it's not an online relationship because we/they met in the summer) so I don't know about the flirting but yeah... I agree the kiss on the cheek went a little too far.

I'm not sure how to talk into him about this though...
I'm sure he would be weirded/freaked out. ><

A few facts:
- I'm 13, he's turning 15, and his GF is turning 16.
Basically, I'm younger than him and his GF is older.
- It's not until within 5 years from now that he and his GF (if they're still in love) can be no longer long-distance.
- We 3 live in 3 different countries each.
- It's not until within 2 years from now than me and him can be no longer long-distance (friends).
- I talk to him a lot about different things including him and his GF (I cheer for him when he talks about their long-distance, I give him love advice (hehee), I support his relationship (even though I'm secretly jealous), etc).

[f_ishie]

i'm sorry come again?

my guy friend and i were talking and we ended up getting in a fight and for some reason.. i confessed that i used to like him and i didn't mean to tell him that but i ended up telling him.. then later we were talking again and he asked me if i used to rly like him and i said yes and then told him to stop talking about it b/c it was embarrassing me to tell him esp b/c that was the first time i ever confessed to anyone.. but then i said but it's ok b/c i don't like u anymore and he said that sux for me.. wat does that mean?

[touche`]

A guy usually move on if the girl play hard to get, right? if so, you REALLY like this girl and she rejects you, would you still go after her?

[starstargumi3]

theres this guy that i've never met before but he knows some of my friends.. we talk online sometimes..
we were at the same place for like a whole day and i was too shy to say hi to him
he said hi to me first but i didn't think he was talking to me so i just ignored him
if you were that guy would u feel offended??

hmmm.. this seems like a stupid question to ask

[poopiness]

theres this guy that i've never met before but he knows some of my friends.. we talk online sometimes..
we were at the same place for like a whole day and i was too shy to say hi to him
he said hi to me first but i didn't think he was talking to me so i just ignored him
if you were that guy would u feel offended??

hmmm.. this seems like a stupid question to ask

I'd definitely be offended, or at least disappointed. I hate it when people ignore me.

A guy usually move on if the girl play hard to get, right? if so, you REALLY like this girl and she rejects you, would you still go after her?

I'd probably still have feelings for her. But go after her after she rejects me? Probably not.

my guy friend and i were talking and we ended up getting in a fight and for some reason.. i confessed that i used to like him and i didn't mean to tell him that but i ended up telling him.. then later we were talking again and he asked me if i used to rly like him and i said yes and then told him to stop talking about it b/c it was embarrassing me to tell him esp b/c that was the first time i ever confessed to anyone.. but then i said but it's ok b/c i don't like u anymore and he said that sux for me.. wat does that mean?

"that sucks for me" now is that me referring to you, or to him. Well either way, he could be hinting that he currently likes you. Considering that you said you don't like him anymore. However, it's always best just to ask him, I mean you've already confessed, it shouldn't be too big a deal to just ask him what he means by saying "that sucks for me"

how can you tell if a guy is serious about you?

before me and this guy started talking alot and i was kind of upset so he told me that i can always count on him. He told me he wanted me by his side. We kissed and went on a few dates.....but i sometimes i feel like i might get played o__O what do you think?

based on what you've just told me.... I have no idea. Test him, see if he really means it when he says you can always count on him. Other that you are just going to have to wait and see.

[lily-chan]

I have a friend. She's between plain and cute. She sometimes becomes overbearingly sticky with new people she meets (yes, I've heard testimonies from those people). Some people even told me that they find her annoying after a while (guys and girls). Yet she has had plenty of bfs.

If I were a guy, I would find it kinda annoying that some girl I just met sticks to me like glue. Do guys actually like sticky girls? Because if so... I'm doomed XD.

[nyczalex]

I have a friend. She's between plain and cute. She sometimes becomes overbearingly sticky with new people she meets (yes, I've heard testimonies from those people). Some people even told me that they find her annoying after a while (guys and girls). Yet she has had plenty of bfs.

If I were a guy, I would find it kinda annoying that some girl I just met sticks to me like glue. Do guys actually like sticky girls? Because if so... I'm doomed XD.

I mean yeah, we would like to be with you as much as possible but PLEASEEEEEE GIVE US SOME SPACE! Especially if I just met you, why are you sticking to me like that? Unless I find you attractive, then I can work with it but if you still stick like that all the time, problems are gonna occur.

[courterzzz]

So I broke up with my bf a few months ago,(the break up was mutual since we rarely could see each other, we're both really busy and go to diff schools btw) then a few weeks later he called me again with (I think) the intention of getting back with me considering the context of the conversation (he asked if i got a new bf, how he wished he could 'get over me' and talked about how much fun we had during the relationship etc.)..the thing is he either wants to get back or he asked to be friends with benefits (which I shut down!). Does that mean he doesnt really still like me and just wants to, I dunno get in my pants o.O or is he sincere and is just having trouble expressing himself?

Also, during the same phone conversation he said really I guess "mushy" stuff, like he'd never find another girl like me, he misses me, he wishes he could get over me, and "I know getting together again wouldnt really work but I want you to know you're an amzing girl and the times we had were truly awesome i mean that" then before we hung up he said he "meant everything he said" Yeah, my first thoughts were this is complete BS, because he like never said such mushy romantic stuff while we were actually going out. I dunno I'm really confused as to why he keeps calling and saying these things after we're broken up. My friends think he jsut misses having a gf and thats why hes saying these things to me. But i dunno, guys help me out?

[Crisco]

I have a friend. She's between plain and cute. She sometimes becomes overbearingly sticky with new people she meets (yes, I've heard testimonies from those people). Some people even told me that they find her annoying after a while (guys and girls). Yet she has had plenty of bfs.

If I were a guy, I would find it kinda annoying that some girl I just met sticks to me like glue. Do guys actually like sticky girls? Because if so... I'm doomed XD.

Depends on the personality of the person. The guy above me summed it up pretty well. Some guys are less tolerant of "sticky" girls than others. Me, for example, I think i'd prefer a sticky girl to a person who was complete opposite. But any girl (or guy) who is too sticky can cause some major relationship problems, because everyone needs their space. Had that happen once, eventually had to make little excuses so I can spend some time alone.

So I broke up with my bf a few months ago,(the break up was mutual since we rarely could see each other, we're both really busy and go to diff schools btw) then a few weeks later he called me again with (I think) the intention of getting back with me considering the context of the conversation (he asked if i got a new bf, how he wished he could 'get over me' and talked about how much fun we had during the relationship etc.)..the thing is he either wants to get back or he asked to be friends with benefits (which I shut down!). Does that mean he doesnt really still like me and just wants to, I dunno get in my pants o.O or is he sincere and is just having trouble expressing himself?

Also, during the same phone conversation he said really I guess "mushy" stuff, like he'd never find another girl like me, he misses me, he wishes he could get over me, and "I know getting together again wouldnt really work but I want you to know you're an amzing girl and the times we had were truly awesome i mean that" then before we hung up he said he "meant everything he said" Yeah, my first thoughts were this is complete BS, because he like never said such mushy romantic stuff while we were actually going out. I dunno I'm really confused as to why he keeps calling and saying these things after we're broken up. My friends think he jsut misses having a gf and thats why hes saying these things to me. But i dunno, guys help me out? Btw sry its such a long post haha i tend to rant when i dont know to word my feelings hehe

He's just feeling empty cause he doesn't have a girlfriend. I've actually said similar things that he said (without the friends with benefits part) to someone I really really cared about, and personally I wouldn't have (and didn't) say the things he said in the manner he did. The fact that he's saying things he usually doesn't say means that he is simply saying whatever works to try and get you back. I'm sure you two still care about each other, since it seems to be distance issues rather than kinks in the relationship. I go to school in NY and my home is in CA; so yeah, it sucks 99.9% of the time. He basically wants to get back into the relationship either becuase he feels weird that he doesn't have a GF or because he misses the physical aspect of the relationship (yes he wants to get into your pants).

If he had truly meant it, he would've said something on the lines of "distance doesn't matter. It's okay if we can't spend much time together, I just want to be with you and be supportive of you. I don't even want any of that physical stuff because that's not important and that's not why I love you" or another way he could've expressed himself is admitting that you're an amazing girl and that he wishes you to be happy no matter what path you choose and is only saying it to tie up loose ends rather than for his personal gain.

[f_ishie]

"that sucks for me" now is that me referring to you, or to him. Well either way, he could be hinting that he currently likes you. Considering that you said you don't like him anymore. However, it's always best just to ask him, I mean you've already confessed, it shouldn't be too big a deal to just ask him what he means by saying "that sucks for me"

the ME was referring 2 him.. and yea i asked him but he would not answer.. and then when i asked him if he liked anyone or if he did like anyone he said no.. htat's y i thought it was wierd that he said.. that sucks for me..

[itsmayyxd]

hey guys. is possible that a guy could be joking around if they said "I'm thinking about you" to a girl?

[Crisco]

hey guys. is possible that a guy could be joking around if they said "I'm thinking about you" to a girl?

yeah it's possible he could be joking, flirting, or actually likes you. Kinda need a context to know exactly what it means. I only use it when I have interest in a girl (and I use it quite rarely too, so a person who knows me well could pick it up pretty quickly).. soooo go by your instincts

[ultaeja]

Guys, what are some hints that lead you to think that a girl likes you? O_O....

[poopiness]

Guys, what are some hints that lead you to think that a girl likes you? O_O....

laughs at my jokes, even dumb ones, though I've never told a dumb joke, all my jokes were spectacular. Acts flirty. Giving me her number and telling me to call her. Will initiate a conversation with me. Touches my hand, arms and try to initiate skinship. Asking me to hang out. Etc.

hey guys. is possible that a guy could be joking around if they said "I'm thinking about you" to a girl?

is it possible? why not?
is it probable? probably not.

[Crisco]

Guys, what are some hints that lead you to think that a girl likes you? O_O....

Might wanna get answers from multiple people for this, not everyone catches the same things and everything interprets it different. I study kinesics (study of body language/facial expressions) as a hobby and so I can give a slightly more technical answer.

The most important thing to understand is that it is not a "single" thing that proves you are interested in a guy. It is a multiple of things. It also doesn't apply to every girl, and every girl expresses each on a very very different level. Some are from studies others are from personal experience

More Noticeable things
- Girl touches/brushes/twirls (with finger) their hair
- Girl becomes very very self-aware (does things to look prettier)
- Rubs something; glass cup, arm, thigh, etc.
- Stutters
- catch her making frequent glances (either she is interested or guy has something on his face)
- quickly turns away when eye contact is made, usually turns face 180 degrees away (looks completely the other way)
- holds her eyes on you for longer than what a normal person would care to
- very frequently "looks around" with you within that range of view
- abnormally a lot of attention given to that particular guy (if the girl is outgoing or not shy)
- abnormally quiet towards only that guy (if the girl is towards the shy type)
- flirty (if the person isn't normally flirty. If she is always flirty, doesn't apply)
- avoids eye contact a lot or makes none at all (either she hates the guy or she likes the guy)
- skin contact by the girl (usually intentional on the girl's part)
- a surprise reflex when guy makes physical contact with the girl (any type of physical contact that hasn't happened between the two will usually work)

Less Noticeable things
- Lips pucker (gets big)
- Eyes dilate (this is actually 100% accurate, except how often do you get close enough to see a person's eyes?)
- Face blushes slightly
- Palm showing(?)... This apparently is also a 100% accurate thing, but I heard it is so difficult to actually catch that it is almost impossible to use as a tell
- Girl usually sits more upright... supposedly very frequently girls try to accentuate their chest; I could never tell though to be honest -.-;
- Crosses their legs... especially while wearing skirts or something that has thighs revealing (not a very accurate tell)

those are all that I can think of right now, i'll add more if i can remember some.

Edit note:
Most people are naturally intelligent enough to pick up on these cues at least on a subconscious level; most don't process or piece them together. Also the way girls (or guys) react like this is a very natural and spur-of-the-moment reaction which can be masked but really can't be eliminated. I know some girls are gonna read this and go "oh crap, I do this... I won't do it next time." That doesn't work at all! The guy will also pick up from the fact that you're not acting like a normal person should, and can also just as easily interpret that as a cue. (For example... being too stiff so that you don't do things written there)

[ultaeja]

^ hahahahah LOOOOOL<3 That's hilarious and now that I think of it... I do some of those stuff too ><! but yeah O_O, thanks for the info. It really helped a lot ^^;; you could add more if you want to I'LL READ<3333

[rotten_sherry]

avoids eye contact a lot or makes none at all (either she hates the guy or she likes the guy)

Ohohohoho....the point. I usually really like to do that, I do it absolutely like what you write, I like or hate the guy, I will do the same thing. But the difference just after that, I will blinking my eyes very quick if I like that guy, or I will smirking if I hate him ^o^ Ohohoho....you are very great!


SG Fighting!
xxx

[lovinrainydays]

if you still have sex with your ex after you broke up with her, does that mean the guy considers his ex his friend with benefits? or thats cuz you still have feeling for her and your use to do it with her? (since he did claims that he still likes her which she dun really know is true or not)

[x2heavenx]

How can I hint to a guy that I don't want him to call/text me?
There's a guy that keeps calling and texting... he says he's interested in me but I'm not at all.
So how can I sort of hint it to him without making our relationship awkward?

[shronie_x3]

why does he [one of my best friends] call me like 24/7 to talk about the girl he likes then later on says that he likes me now, but ends up going to the first girl when she says that she likes him back? did/does he really have feelings for me but likes the other girl more? whenever she`s online he`ll completely ignore me, well not ignore me but not talk that much but when she`s offline he`ll get mad at me if i don`t talk that much. -.-

whenever we`re on the phone [usually like for a ridiculously long time] there`s so many silent moments since we`ve been on for hours and run out of things to talk about. then when i say that i`ll hang up now cause he`s not talking, he won`t let me. also, when i try to sign off aim he`ll throw a fit and try to convince me to stay.

what is up with him?

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edit..

oh i thought of one more. what does it mean when a guys like... ummm here`s the convo

me: omg, i can`t sleep early anymore <-(it`s like 3 a.m while im writing this entry T_T)
him: thinking about me too much huh lol
me: haha right, maybe about how i`m gonna kill you <- (inside joke)
him: i knew you were gonna say that. i was kinda hoping you`d think about me without the killing part

is that basically saying he likes me?