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#301 User is offline   o1hunny 

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Posted 20 May 2007 - 12:42 PM

QUOTE(blindboi @ May 20 2007, 03:38 PM) View Post
He has this image his friend expect from him. He afraid of what his friends will say to him if he change that.

just wondering... usually does that have anything to do with like the guys feelings for the girl? like if he's more concerned about his image+reputation than his gf's feelings, does it mean that he doesn't really love his gf....or....
ahh i duno how to word this > <
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 12:47 PM

QUOTE(o1hunny @ May 20 2007, 01:42 PM) View Post
just wondering... usually does that have anything to do with like the guys feelings for the girl? like if he's more concerned about his image+reputation than his gf's feelings, does it mean that he doesn't really love his gf....or....
ahh i duno how to word this > <

His feeling wont change for the girl. The guy is more concern about his reputation, his ego is too big to change that.
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 12:53 PM

Girls who argue a lot of political issues and are really smart, is that a turn off since it hurts a guy's ego?
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 01:10 PM

QUOTE(xosweetie @ May 20 2007, 03:53 PM) View Post
Girls who argue a lot of political issues and are really smart, is that a turn off since it hurts a guy's ego?


no, that's actually a turn on. i would rather have a g/f who is smarter than me or just as smart, why would you want to be with a dumb girl? talking to an airhead is very boring.
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 01:19 PM

QUOTE(xosweetie @ May 20 2007, 03:53 PM) View Post
Girls who argue a lot of political issues and are really smart, is that a turn off since it hurts a guy's ego?

i like a really smart girl and politics it depends wat kind of guy ur talking about thoe cuz guys r different when it comes to smart girls
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 01:21 PM

QUOTE(whhhaaaaaaa @ May 20 2007, 03:10 PM) View Post
no, that's actually a turn on. i would rather have a g/f who is smarter than me or just as smart, why would you want to be with a dumb girl? talking to an airhead is very boring.



QUOTE(moblastin @ May 20 2007, 03:19 PM) View Post
i like a really smart girl and politics it depends wat kind of guy ur talking about thoe cuz guys r different when it comes to smart girls



I noticed asian guys (especially) tend to like cuter girls. Not dumb but average cute guys who are gentle and don't really have a opinion. Whatever is good for them.
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 01:37 PM

Thanks for answering my question. Now here's another one:

I know this happens to girls a lot, I just wanted to know if this happens to the guys also...

When a girl likes a guy but the guy doesn't like her back, and when the girl stops liking the guy, does he start to have feelings for her? I mean, I feel that it depends but it happens a lot.
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 02:05 PM

1) do guys mind if girls are taller than them by 1-2 in?
2) Do guys care if girls are smarter than them, by a lot?
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 02:18 PM

*edit* thanks for the help haha
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 02:40 PM

What do guys mean when they compliment girls using: hot, beautiful, stunning, cute, nice, perfect, pretty, sexy,.. etc. ? the hidden meanings to these
and do they expect a compliment in return or what kind of response is expected?
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 02:47 PM

2 years ago i did something stupid, i had sex with a guy i had no feelings for. but that was two years ago.
he called me throughout the years. and recently i just can't take it anymore. he called me past midnight and i was groggy
i basically told him i regretted sleeping with him. what would it do to a guy's ego, if a girl tells them that she regretted it?
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 06:04 PM

QUOTE(paulinee @ May 20 2007, 02:37 PM) View Post
Thanks for answering my question. Now here's another one:

I know this happens to girls a lot, I just wanted to know if this happens to the guys also...

When a girl likes a guy but the guy doesn't like her back, and when the girl stops liking the guy, does he start to have feelings for her? I mean, I feel that it depends but it happens a lot.

it depends on the situation, the guy will like the girls as an last resort.

QUOTE(sweetiegrl168 @ May 20 2007, 03:05 PM) View Post
1) do guys mind if girls are taller than them by 1-2 in?
2) Do guys care if girls are smarter than them, by a lot?

1. its preferences
2. not really. it's not a negative, i can tell you that


QUOTE(monkeytree200 @ May 20 2007, 03:40 PM) View Post
What do guys mean when they compliment girls using: hot, beautiful, stunning, cute, nice, perfect, pretty, sexy,.. etc. ? the hidden meanings to these
and do they expect a compliment in return or what kind of response is expected?

there is not hidden meaning behind compliments, take it literally. You dont have to give any response, a simple "thank you" is fine

QUOTE(LUVSSOURCREAM @ May 20 2007, 03:47 PM) View Post
2 years ago i did something stupid, i had sex with a guy i had no feelings for. but that was two years ago.
he called me throughout the years. and recently i just can't take it anymore. he called me past midnight and i was groggy
i basically told him i regretted sleeping with him. what would it do to a guy's ego, if a girl tells them that she regretted it?

all he care about is more sex.
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 06:08 PM

alrite thanks steven. how about this. is it possible for a guy to get along with his gf's friends when he currently hates them?


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Posted 20 May 2007 - 06:11 PM

Why do guys stand grls up even if they already knew ahead of time they will do that or not even show up?
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 06:16 PM

QUOTE(ms. rachellica @ May 20 2007, 07:08 PM) View Post
alrite thanks steven. how about this. is it possible for a guy to get along with his gf's friends when he currently hates them?

i dont see why not? unless are shady to him or his ego is too big.

QUOTE(kelly @ May 20 2007, 07:11 PM) View Post
Why do guys stand grls up even if they already knew ahead of time they will do that or not even show up?

because we are retarded ;D JK because they are too afraid to meet the girl.
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 06:18 PM

..i'm a girl &i stay up all night playing video games basically.
i adore them.

question: Why do some guys send mixed signals when it is clear that they don't want a relationship with you
& tend to have a big ego around their guy friends?
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 06:22 PM

QUOTE(blindboi @ May 20 2007, 10:16 PM) View Post
i dont see why not? unless are shady to him or his ego is too big.


hmm ok. well there's nothing shady about them. nd he's known for having a big ego.



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Posted 20 May 2007 - 06:35 PM

Haha I have a question that's been on my mind for years...

If a guy and a girl are dating and they decide to play a game (ie. basketball, volleyball, jitz, pool, etc), and both of them are athletic and competitive, would you want the girl to hold back and let the guy win? I know it would hurt the guy's ego if the girl won, but wouldn't it be a bigger burn if the guy found out the girl was holding back? lol biggrin.gif
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 06:40 PM

QUOTE(__ohdoctordoctor @ May 20 2007, 07:18 PM) View Post
..i'm a girl &i stay up all night playing video games basically.
i adore them.

question: Why do some guys send mixed signals when it is clear that they don't want a relationship with you
& tend to have a big ego around their guy friends?

first question, he just want to get into your pants, literally. second question. its a male dominance thing.

QUOTE(&rea @ May 20 2007, 07:35 PM) View Post
Haha I have a question that's been on my mind for years...

If a guy and a girl are dating and they decide to play a game (ie. basketball, volleyball, jitz, pool, etc), and both of them are athletic and competitive, would you want the girl to hold back and let the guy win? I know it would hurt the guy's ego if the girl won, but wouldn't it be a bigger burn if the guy found out the girl was holding back? lol biggrin.gif

yes. you dont need to hold back just to comfort his ego.
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Posted 20 May 2007 - 06:47 PM

What do guys think about girls who turn tomato red really easily?
What about girls who wear glasses? Is it a turn off?

I know it somewhat depends on preference, but it would help coming from 1-2 guys and their own preferences.
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