[beckii]

ok so....

1.guys if you are a flirt, how would you show a girl u like how u feel? as opposed to your behaviour with any other girl..
2. if you liked a girl, and she said she wasnt sure how she felt about you, would u wait? or just get over it because u dont know if its going anywhere...
3. if you had interest in a close close friend, but realise you're a bad bf...would you change for her? or date other people because you dont want to hurt her...


hmm thats all i can think of. thanks!! appreciate if more than one person answers.

[Inevitable]

ok so....

1.guys if you are a flirt, how would you show a girl u like how u feel? as opposed to your behaviour with any other girl..
2. if you liked a girl, and she said she wasnt sure how she felt about you, would u wait? or just get over it because u dont know if its going anywhere...
3. if you had interest in a close close friend, but realise you're a bad bf...would you change for her? or date other people because you dont want to hurt her...
hmm thats all i can think of. thanks!! appreciate if more than one person answers.

1. She'd be treated with a lot more respect and i'd probably be more shy around her
2. I'd wait since the possibility is still there
3. If she was worth the change, then sure, i'd change. It isn't really good to be known as a 'bad boyfriend' anyways so it'd benefit the both of us

[poopiness]

ok so....

1.guys if you are a flirt, how would you show a girl u like how u feel? as opposed to your behaviour with any other girl..
2. if you liked a girl, and she said she wasnt sure how she felt about you, would u wait? or just get over it because u dont know if its going anywhere...
3. if you had interest in a close close friend, but realise you're a bad bf...would you change for her? or date other people because you dont want to hurt her...
hmm thats all i can think of. thanks!! appreciate if more than one person answers.

1) I'd be nervous around her. I'd do more than just flirt, such as doing a lot of stuff for her. I'd probably stop flirting with other girls. Any number of things.
2) I'd wait. I mean it's not like I can change how I feel, if I like you then I like you, I can't control my feelings.
3) I'd still date her. Hopefully she can make me a good bf.

[mojomunkeez]

ok so....

1.guys if you are a flirt, how would you show a girl u like how u feel? as opposed to your behaviour with any other girl..
2. if you liked a girl, and she said she wasnt sure how she felt about you, would u wait? or just get over it because u dont know if its going anywhere...
3. if you had interest in a close close friend, but realise you're a bad bf...would you change for her? or date other people because you dont want to hurt her...
hmm thats all i can think of. thanks!! appreciate if more than one person answers.

1. First, I would try to cut down on flirting with any other girls to show her that I can be nice, too.
2. I would wait. This actually has happened to me, more than once. It does hurt and take a toll after a while.
3. I would try to change for her. In fact, I think it would be easier to change for a close friend because you relationship is so layered. (friendship and romance)

[kayell]

Hmm.. there's this guy I've known for about a year. I was wondering if he did have feelings for me or still does based on the following ;
- When I hang out, he would somehow be found nearby (not in a stalker way). My friends noticed and teased that he liked me but when they asked him, he said "no" straight out.
- People said that we were "together" and he just gave a laugh.
- He's quiet near me face to face but when I'm on AIM, he talks to me a lot. There's many times where he starts talking about other girls randomly and how he thinks they're hot. (I'm assuming he's trying to get me jealous, what do you guys think?)
- In my AIM profile once, I copied and pasted a convo I had with a good guy friend on mine and in the convo, I said that my guy friend was cute. I'm assuming he read it because he didn't talk to me on AIM for like a day and a half.

Problem is, he talks to a lot of girls and I don't know if he's just toying with me. His myspace is basically all girls. Based on the stuff I listed, would you think I'm "just" a friend to him or a bit more?

thanks guys

[bongrayx]

Guys, I would appreciate it if multiple fellas answer this.

so I've been hanging out with this guy a few times now, introduced thru mutual friends. The last time I went out(a couple of friends and the guy), the guy and I had a lot of 1 on 1 time. Well, the guy and I were dancing with each other and while we were dancing, he suddenly pulls out a camera and wanted to take a pic with me (no, he was not drunk). So he put his arm around me and took the pic.
Note: He hasn't asked for my # so far, and has very little eye contact when he talks to me. A week later, he invited me to a party he was having and I went but we didn't really talk to each other during the party (we were all too busy playing video games).

basically, is he interested in me or not?

[pshnancy]

i've been reading this thread for a loong time and i'm still not done. haha. There's a lot of interesting Q&A in here. Since i'm only 14 and i probably won't even use most of these advice anytime soon, i still wanna thank the guys who answer them. ^^
Very starightforward and entertaining.

But i do have some questions:

1. how exactly does a girl give off a bad vibe??

2. What kind of perfume (if any) would you want a girl to smell like? ex. fruity, vanilla-y, citrus..?

3. When you see a girl and how she's dressed , what do you not like? that probably didn't make sense. Like for example, my brother can't stand dirty flip-flops kind of thing.

I have some more questions but i'll ask it another time.

P.S. i'd like if at least two guys answer ^^ i gotta get myself ready for the "real" world

[CIRee]

Hmm.. there's this guy I've known for about a year. I was wondering if he did have feelings for me or still does based on the following ;
- When I hang out, he would somehow be found nearby (not in a stalker way). My friends noticed and teased that he liked me but when they asked him, he said "no" straight out.
- People said that we were "together" and he just gave a laugh.
- He's quiet near me face to face but when I'm on AIM, he talks to me a lot. There's many times where he starts talking about other girls randomly and how he thinks they're hot. (I'm assuming he's trying to get me jealous, what do you guys think?)
- In my AIM profile once, I copied and pasted a convo I had with a good guy friend on mine and in the convo, I said that my guy friend was cute. I'm assuming he read it because he didn't talk to me on AIM for like a day and a half.

Problem is, he talks to a lot of girls and I don't know if he's just toying with me. His myspace is basically all girls. Based on the stuff I listed, would you think I'm "just" a friend to him or a bit more?

thanks guys

it's all a game guy's like to play. You can play into it or just ignore it. If he likes you or not, its a mystery to me.

Guys, I would appreciate it if multiple fellas answer this.

so I've been hanging out with this guy a few times now, introduced thru mutual friends. The last time I went out(a couple of friends and the guy), the guy and I had a lot of 1 on 1 time. Well, the guy and I were dancing with each other and while we were dancing, he suddenly pulls out a camera and wanted to take a pic with me (no, he was not drunk). So he put his arm around me and took the pic.
Note: He hasn't asked for my # so far, and has very little eye contact when he talks to me. A week later, he invited me to a party he was having and I went but we didn't really talk to each other during the party (we were all too busy playing video games).

basically, is he interested in me or not?

He's probably just being friendly.

i've been reading this thread for a loong time and i'm still not done. haha. There's a lot of interesting Q&A in here. Since i'm only 14 and i probably won't even use most of these advice anytime soon, i still wanna thank the guys who answer them. ^^
Very starightforward and entertaining.

But i do have some questions:

1. how exactly does a girl give off a bad vibe??

2. What kind of perfume (if any) would you want a girl to smell like? ex. fruity, vanilla-y, citrus..?

3. When you see a girl and how she's dressed , what do you not like? that probably didn't make sense. Like for example, my brother can't stand dirty flip-flops kind of thing.

I have some more questions but i'll ask it another time.

P.S. i'd like if at least two guys answer ^^ i gotta get myself ready for the "real" world

1. having an attitude, giving a "WTF do you want!?" facial expression.
2.it doesn't matter, as long she smell nice.
3. every guy has there own pet peeve about girl fashion.

[lazibratt]

A guy likes a girl and they don't talk for a loong time and now they talk again but it's only for setting up their mutual friends together.. only that and nothing more.. well it seems like that. Is there any possiblity that the guy will like the girl again or is it hopeless?

[oriental_blossom]

i have a question... uhm why are guys late on a date even though they're the one's who picks the time and place?

YOU COMPLETE ME

[CIRee]

A guy likes a girl and they don't talk for a loong time and now they talk again but it's only for setting up their mutual friends together.. only that and nothing more.. well it seems like that. Is there any possiblity that the guy will like the girl again or is it hopeless?

If you know for sure the guy likes you then this opinion about you wont change. If you like him then go after him before another girl does.

i have a question... uhm why are guys late on a date even though they're the one's who picks the time and place?

because its a unwritten rule to be late.

[Yoshi.]

He is definitely showing interest, and possibly likes you from what you've said. I think he actually wants to take you out and possibly progress into a relationship

Oh...? Well... It's nice to know that he is showing interest but he said a couple of things that make me thought twice.. (Still, I do not like him) but he said that he is some-what showing interest in his girl friends? I don't want to assume him as a guy who is playing around either. A guy can have more then one crush AND he said that he is alittle bit mix in the head about me, him and the other girl.

[poopiness]

i have a question... uhm why are guys late on a date even though they're the one's who picks the time and place?

guys really don't manage their time very well. We don't really go to most places early. If it takes 30 mins to get somewhere, we'd leave 30 mins before the meeting time, maybe even later. So if there's traffic we're screwed.

[Sweet Lavender]

Guys, I asked my boyfriend if a hot girl were to lure him into having sex with her ( when he's single ), would he do her...? he replied with " yeah, why not? "

So... since we're together now, and a girl were to do that to him, do you think he would do it?

[xLionHeartx]

No, unless he's a douche.

Why wouldn't guys want a free ride with no strings attached?

[d0rkifiedxl0ser]

If a guy doesn't want to get off the phone with you, does that mean he's interested? How can you tell if a guy is still interested in you?

[poopiness]

If a guy doesn't want to get off the phone with you, does that mean he's interested? How can you tell if a guy is still interested in you?

interested in talking to you. But usually that means he's romantically interested too.

Guys, I asked my boyfriend if a hot girl were to lure him into having sex with her ( when he's single ), would he do her...? he replied with " yeah, why not? "

So... since we're together now, and a girl were to do that to him, do you think he would do it?

Aahahha you forget the "when he's single" part. He answered you honestly. I really don't see why a guy would not want to do the dirty with a hot girl, unless she's shady. Who knows, if a really really hot girl seduced him, and you weren't there, he might. It's hard to tell. It doesn't really matter if I think he would do it, it all depends on him. Ahaha but you shouldn't worry about these hypothetical situations, because unless your bf is rich, or smoking hot, there's not a high chance of a hot girl randomly seducing him and asking him to bang her.

A guy likes a girl and they don't talk for a loong time and now they talk again but it's only for setting up their mutual friends together.. only that and nothing more.. well it seems like that. Is there any possiblity that the guy will like the girl again or is it hopeless?

that all depends on you ;D. I'm assuming the girl mentioned here is you. So if you want it, don't wait for the possibility, go get it.

[Pur3Lif3]

1.guys if you are a flirt, how would you show a girl u like how u feel? as opposed to your behaviour with any other girl..
2. if you liked a girl, and she said she wasnt sure how she felt about you, would u wait? or just get over it because u dont know if its going anywhere...
3. if you had interest in a close close friend, but realise you're a bad bf...would you change for her? or date other people because you dont want to hurt her...

1. LOL thats a good question. A good way to determine whether or not a guy is interested in you is compare how he treats you and how he treats his other girls. If he acts differently towards you than to his other girls, then it can sometimes mean hes interested. Why would you want to date a big flirt anyhow?

2. It really depends how much i like her. I waited for my last ex-girlfriend =].

3. Date somebody else so you can mistreat them instead? lmao. Try to change, definately.

Hmm.. there's this guy I've known for about a year. I was wondering if he did have feelings for me or still does based on the following ;
- When I hang out, he would somehow be found nearby (not in a stalker way). My friends noticed and teased that he liked me but when they asked him, he said "no" straight out.
- People said that we were "together" and he just gave a laugh.
- He's quiet near me face to face but when I'm on AIM, he talks to me a lot. There's many times where he starts talking about other girls randomly and how he thinks they're hot. (I'm assuming he's trying to get me jealous, what do you guys think?)
- In my AIM profile once, I copied and pasted a convo I had with a good guy friend on mine and in the convo, I said that my guy friend was cute. I'm assuming he read it because he didn't talk to me on AIM for like a day and a half.

Its hard to tell...you say he talks to a lot of girls? The way he acts to you could easily be the same way he acts around other girls. Then again, most guys are very good at hiding it whenever they like someone, especially if they spend alot of time around girls. I say, wait it out and see what happens. Are you guys flirty on AIM? in person?

But i do have some questions:

1. how exactly does a girl give off a bad vibe??

2. What kind of perfume (if any) would you want a girl to smell like? ex. fruity, vanilla-y, citrus..?

3. When you see a girl and how she's dressed , what do you not like? that probably didn't make sense. Like for example, my brother can't stand dirty flip-flops kind of thing.

1. being cold. not being interested in the conversation. not making an effort to keep in touch. talking about other guys.
2. Uhh...any lol.
3. It all comes down to personal taste. I personally love girls w/ hats : ). But that could be just me.

because its a unwritten rule to be late.

It is!? Jeez's, im always on time and its girls that are always late. I personally HATE HATE HATE it when people are late...i think of it as a b1tch move to be honest (unless of course theres a good reason).

Guys, I asked my boyfriend if a hot girl were to lure him into having sex with her ( when he's single ), would he do her...? he replied with " yeah, why not? "

So... since we're together now, and a girl were to do that to him, do you think he would do it?

Not necessarily...but its always possible. Its impossible for me to determine. lol.

If a guy doesn't want to get off the phone with you, does that mean he's interested? How can you tell if a guy is still interested in you?

It means he likes talking to you, it could also mean hes interested...but its not a sure fire way to determine whether or not hes interested. try looking at other things that he does.

[ultaeja]

Hmm...

-What does it mean when a guy pats you on the head?
-(this is a dumb question, but--) Does it mean anything when a guy tells you about his pets?

[viffaye]

umm, this one guy like, he knows that i like him >< "
and he says that he likes me a bit ..
we're two years difference in age and like ..
he thinks itll be awkward cos im still young .. or something?
i dunno, so, should i just get over it and whatever?
because our relationship is getting no where
we're still normal friends