hey guys, all my guy friends say when a guy is nice and mean to the girl at the same time means that he likes the girl, it's just that when he is mean he's trying to act cool and be tough. They also said that there is no such thing as a nice guy. When a guy is nice to a girl, he wants to get on her good side. They also said, there is no nice guy friend either, the guy likes you if he's a guy friend who is nice. What do you guys have to say w/ all the things my guy friend said.
Heh.... amen...
Nice guys... exist... only to a certain point XD.... Well let me take that back... alot of people use a nice guy act to get with a girl, but there are genuinely nice guys... just... not a lot of them XD
But it's pretty true... just a little overgeneralizing... although not much
Why the fellas play video games all night?
Why men try to keep their mate close?
1. because you won't play with us : p
2. because you have a tendency to make every business your own and take things personal
Because.... video games are an output of anger.... XD
And also guys are fairly loyal to their friends... they view their girlfriend and friends usually in 2 different catagories... (But on the bright side... as the girl you get your own category by yourself XD)
ok.. yesterday i talked to this guy friend of mine that i haven`t talked to for a while. i was sorta busy doing stuff so i couldn`t really talk so i told him to wait a while. oh, this was online. he is going somewhere soon so i probably wouldn`t have another opportunity to talk to him at all for a while. then he`s like.. i`m gonna go and i was like why.. we didn`t even talk yet hold on. but he kept saying he`s leaving and stuff. i was kinda mad since we`d probably not be able to see or talk to eachother for a long time and yet he wants to leave so easily..
then he`s like 'does talking to me make you happy?'
i didn`t really know how to respond b/c i didn`t want to give him the idea that i like him or w/e cause i don`t. so i was like.. umm ur fun to talk too. then he`s like you sound like you have a crush on me or something.
in my head i was like.. 'wtf!' then i just tried to joke it off saying 'ok let`s try not to sound so conceited~'
after that, we actually got to talk and he like started to joke around making fun of me and stuff and then be like 'i`m just kidding you know i love you' he said that like.. about 3 times. -.- then he`s like i know you love me too. wtf i couldn`t tell if he was joking around or if he really meant it inside.
i was wondering if he was acting like this because he thinks i like him now or something or did he already like me. he just started acting really different afterwards and i felt kinda awkward...
whenever i talk to other guys too.. he`ll be like 'oh that guy likes you, you better watch out.' is he being jealous or just messing with me? i can`t tell if he`s joking around or being serious half the time.
He probably likes you... lol guys just add that into their conversations if they like the girl but are too afraid to tell her.. I love you in a joking fashion.. this way you can give them the idea without giving them the idea and that way they might get the idea and develop feelings for you... (Hope you understood what I was saying... I'm kinda tired XD...)
And if he makes fun of you with other guys while asking if he makes you happy... then he likes you.... He was also trying to see how you responded when he said he was going...
im sorri but this gonna be a long post
Can I ask you a question since I'm really interested in this guy but i dont want to scare him away.
Okay, I just met this guy because he's my grandmom's dentsist. He's actually a dental student, he's 27. I just turned 21 in April. We've been talking, but I guess its just socializing? I tried to ask him questions and he answered. He sometimes ask me questions also. But it seemed like I start the conversation more than him. Since he's working, so I didn't want to disturb him. But when I have the chance I would. We were talking about school and he told me that before he didnt know what he wanted to do. He told me that he took 3 years off from school and now hes back going to a dental school and just 2 more years till he graduates. Then he told me hes 27 and he brought up that his birthday is Tuesday. So, on Monday I went online to find him an e-card to send it to him, which I did. He called me on Monday to remind to schedule for my grandmom. I didnt call him till today(wednesday). To tell you the truth I really didn't have the guts to call. Anyway, in the end I called him and wished him happy birthday and asked him how it was. He told me it was great and that he went out the whole weekends. Then for some reason I got nervous cuz he didnt say anything else, so I started to ask him about the scheduling for my grandmom. Then after all that, I got the confidence to ask him if he got my ecard yet or not. He said no not yet. I cant remember what else we said but like couple seconds later I said bye and he said keep in touch. And oh, later he texted message me and said sorry and that he didnt get it and probably because his email filtered it
. But he said 'Thank you so much tho!'
When I take my grandmom to the appointment, he always smiling and looks like hes really happy to see us. I dont know if hes being friendly or just really excited to see us because hes from Louisiana and he doesnt know alot of vietnamese in Maryland.
I'm interested in him but I don't know if he's interested in me or not. Am I being to aggressive? I mean those things that I did should give him some hints right? pls tell me wat you think? wat should i do next? i dont want to sound so desperate
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edit.
I send him a message saying that Im playing tennis with my friends next weekend and would he like to join.
he texted back and said.
'Sorri i just left school. Im not gonna be around labor day weekends. thanx tho!'
I was disappointed. but i understand its labor day weekend. but should i keep bothering him? lol i sound like a stalker. I dont want to give him pressure and the impression that im so easy and that i do this to any guys. Actually, hes the first that feel that confident enough to do these kind of things. Im like the shy type, dont talk much, and usually just stare
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I think i write enough. wow sorri for the long post. i've never written anything this long
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It just sounds like he's being polite. He's politely turned down the tennis invitation (although that probably is a genuine scheduling conflict because it is labour day weekend and getting organized for school) He never leads the conversation, just advances it in a friendly manner. He was probably smiling because I mean that's part of his job... To be friendly around patients...
I say don't advance on him too much, but just stay around him and see how it goes ^.^
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