[DarkWaltz]

1) Guys, let's say you like a girl. And then you find out one of your close friend also has feelings for her. How would you feel? Would you be bothered? Or not care?

2) Similar to first question. What if the other friend has no idea you had feelings for the girl. And you had no idea he liked her too. But then he asked her out and they are now together. Deep down, would you feel really hurt or would you just look at it as nothing much?

Hope it made sense. =]

1) I would have a talk with him about it first, and we'd probably have to come to an understanding if one of us should date her without having the other one hurt, or none dating at all. You know.

2) Obviously I'd be a bit hurt, but happy for my friend. There will be other girls anyway.

what do guys mean when they ask if u miss them or not ? even tho u only meet them for 2 weeks

Usually to see if you're interested or not, since they are as well. If not, I wouldn't see any point in asking unless they're playing you around.

when a guy talks to you alot,
then one day he stops talking to you,
what does that mean?

Lot of stuff can happen, can't really elaborate on that.

Today, at school, I had to sell one of my books to a new student. I found him kinda cute and he seemed like he wanted to talk to me even after the exchange. However, being me, I was so shy that I could only muster short sentences which probably made him think that I am very anti-social/didn't want to talk to him.

So... should I say 'hi' the next time I see him? And how should I do that without it being awkward? (haha, I'm kinda afraid he won't remember me and think I'm so random weird girl).

Girls have a good intuitive 6th sense. If you feel like he wanted to talk to you more, that's a good sign. Your reaction to him probably pushed him away a little bit, so he might have thought "bah, whatever, she must be taken or she's not interested" so he'll probably say hi to you next time, but that's it. It's up to you to show him that it's your turn that you want to talk to him now. Also, you can try to let him know you're that kind of person who doesn't open up easily to strangers for the first time. And he WILL remember you, don't worry.

[poopiness]

what do guys mean when they ask if u miss them or not ? even tho u only meet them for 2 weeks

THey want to know if you miss them. He's flirting and wants to know if you're interested.

[ultaeja]

1.] If a guy gets rejected, is it true that they won't keep trying?

2.] If a girl asks you your number/contact info/screen name/etc. would you guys assume that the girl is interested in you, or just mere 'i want to be your friend'?

^^;;

[poopiness]

1.] If a guy gets rejected, is it true that they won't keep trying?

2.] If a girl asks you your number/contact info/screen name/etc. would you guys assume that the girl is interested in you, or just mere 'i want to be your friend'?

^^;;

1. Depends on the guy. I would give up. Others might not.
2. I'd think she's interested. Since usually it's the guys that ask for the contact info.

[jkeezy88]

1.] If a guy gets rejected, is it true that they won't keep trying?

2.] If a girl asks you your number/contact info/screen name/etc. would you guys assume that the girl is interested in you, or just mere 'i want to be your friend'?

^^;;

1) depends on the girl.. if i feel like there can be something really good, then ill try a bit more: if not, then ill try and then say whatever.....

2) if a girl comes up to me and asks me for my number/etc...hen id think she was interested.....if i knew her for a litle while and she'd ask, id be skeptic about it....

[sWtB]

Does it mean anything when a guy barely talks to you when you're with a lot of ppl, but then is super eager to keep talking to you when you guys are alone,
asks you a lot of questions about yourself, eager to share his likes.... blehhh?
im just getting friendship and something more confused...
hopefully something like this wasnt asked... too lazy to read through them all.

[predator]

do guys feel weird when a girl talks about periods to them?

[`LANE]

do guys feel weird when a girl talks about periods to them?

lol. my ex-bf got shivers whenever i talked about it.


my turn!

so. this guy and girl, its clear that they both like each other. the girl has told some of her friends about him, and 2 of her friends have said something like, "are you sure your not his girlfriend already?!" or "wow u sound like his girlfriend", and these were just recent. well it was like last week, it was a late friday night/early morning saturday.. the guy asks the girl what do u do when 3 people tell u that they like u ? she says well its happening to her now & he proceeds to tell the girl that at work 3 girls told him that they liked him, & that 1 of the girls is not bad looking and she seems cool and such. he says he likes meeting new people and such and hasn't been dating for 3-4 years now and now that some people tells him that they like him he feels a bit lonely but gets mad because he says hes stupid for feeling lonely for coming a while being alone and single. he then goes on to say.. but then theres no one that i know, that there is worth being with. except for that 1 girl he had told her about but that one girl already had a bf and she just stopped talking to him so he just stopped talking to her, and the girl feels.. sad ? throughout this, but then he says that there is also her, but shes so far away and underage.

nowadays they haven't been talking so much on the fone(he's busy, sleepy, sick & his cell charger isn't working correctly) and when they do he starts to realize that she feels sad whenever he says he has to go. *skips ahead* anyway, usually if its the last convo of the nite, before he hangs up the fone he wishes a "good nite cutie" and gives a kiss. and she realizes hes starting to call her "baby" (which is new to her), its been 2-3 times since he slipped it.. trying to be slick with it lol. apparently there has been several times whereas he has mentioned that he feels lonely, he wants to cuddle, he wants a hug, etc. and the girl tells him to go find a girl and he gets sad and quiet about it and just says nvm. the girl asks him what ? and to tell her. and then she realizes he indicating that he wants her.

is he really wanting her as his girlfriend ? or does he just want her to fill in his lonely space ? both are single ^^ she has said she feels sad whenever he mentions other beautiful girls and such at work, etc. this might seem similar to the other but, is he starting to see her as his girlfriend ? whats up with the urge to want to be with her and calling her baby and such.
(^^ sorry its long, didn't know how to make it shorter without leaving out some details)


ANOTHER QUESTION;
how do u guys feel about whorey 14-yr olds ? my friend is one .___. and i don't even know how many guys have she banged, i find it so unattractive yet.. shes banged so many and i'm pretty sure all those guys know about her. DISGUSTING is what i think, yet i'm still her friend.

[Mia.v]

when you stare at girls you're interested in, would you like her to shoot you a smile or two some time? there's this guy who i'm pretty sure is interested in me (sounds weird for me to say it myself..) and whenever he seems to want to make eye contacts, i tend to turn away cus i'm shy.. T.T

[supertammie]

So... this guy in my english class keeps flirting with me. (Calling me beautiful, etc... I don't even know his name!)
I have no interest in him ><' and I have no idea how to deal with him.
He put his arm around me the other day, and I didn't even realize it until the girl sitting next to me was giggling.
*blushes

I asked a guy friend of mine what I should do, but he was no help. >.> (He thought it was funny...)

Can I get some help please?

[jaejae]

What are some things SHY guys do, when they're interested in a girl?!
i.e What kind of subtle hints?

[poopiness]

Does it mean anything when a guy barely talks to you when you're with a lot of ppl, but then is super eager to keep talking to you when you guys are alone,
asks you a lot of questions about yourself, eager to share his likes.... blehhh?
im just getting friendship and something more confused...
hopefully something like this wasnt asked... too lazy to read through them all.

because he's shy! He doesn't want to ask you personal questions and share personal things with other people around. He still likes you it seems.

So... this guy in my english class keeps flirting with me. (Calling me beautiful, etc... I don't even know his name!)
I have no interest in him ><' and I have no idea how to deal with him.
He put his arm around me the other day, and I didn't even realize it until the girl sitting next to me was giggling.
*blushes

I asked a guy friend of mine what I should do, but he was no help. >.> (He thought it was funny...)

Can I get some help please?

tell him you don't feel comfortable. Don't do it in front of people, he might get defensive. Or do it in front of people if you don't care . Anyways, be honest with him, tell him you're not interested, and he makes you feel uncomfortable when he does that stuff. Either that or don't respond to him at all, like AT ALL! until he loses interest. I'd still recommend honesty.

when you stare at girls you're interested in, would you like her to shoot you a smile or two some time? there's this guy who i'm pretty sure is interested in me (sounds weird for me to say it myself..) and whenever he seems to want to make eye contacts, i tend to turn away cus i'm shy.. T.T

Give eye contacts back. Smile! SMILE! SMILE!! Let him know that you are interested too, since it seems you are. Or if you turn away, smile first then turn away!! AND THEN START TALKING!!

how do u guys feel about whorey 14-yr olds ? my friend is one .___. and i don't even know how many guys have she banged, i find it so unattractive yet.. shes banged so many and i'm pretty sure all those guys know about her. DISGUSTING is what i think, yet i'm still her friend.

I feel a bit bad for her [especially if the guys are older, way older], and that is if the guys are just using her. If they're not just using her, and she honestly wants to do it, then I see nothing wrong with it. I do hope she uses protection though, it could be dangerous. It's her life and her body, she can do whatever she wants with it. I wouldn't label her as a w-h-o-r-e. I mean she's not selling her body, at least I hope not. So how do I feel? A little bad, because it's likely the guys are using her, but that's it, it's her life.

[flysaex3]

omg you're kidding me right

this thread existed here on soompi the whole time?
omg.. o_o

this is what i get for not being active on soompi
for a one full year.

the year that i had dated the most confusing, unpredictable,
dense, shy guy i've ever dated.



i'll come back with questions once i get some sleep

[y_yuen12]

some questions =)

1. if a girl and a guy are friends, not very close friends, and the girl hints to the guy that she likes him..
if the guy doesn't like the girl, would he keep talking to her or avoid her?
if the guy does like the girl, what kind of reactions would he give? (if the guy was the shy-ish type)

2. how thick are guys really when it comes to a girl's hints?

3. if a girl you like was watching you play a sport, would you try and show off?
or would you be nervous and end up playing badly?

thank you!

[poopiness]

some questions =)

1. if a girl and a guy are friends, not very close friends, and the girl hints to the guy that she likes him..
if the guy doesn't like the girl, would he keep talking to her or avoid her?
if the guy does like the girl, what kind of reactions would he give? (if the guy was the shy-ish type)

2. how thick are guys really when it comes to a girl's hints?

3. if a girl you like was watching you play a sport, would you try and show off?
or would you be nervous and end up playing badly?

thank you!

1)If he doesn't like the girl, I really can't say. I would personally still talk to her, but be careful not the lead her on.
If the guy is shy and likes the girl, he might not give any reaction. Because shy guys usually don't have the confidence,
and so they don't want to misinterpret the hint. Unless she confesses he might not do anything about it. But if he was
to do something about it, he would probably talk to her more, send hints he feels the same.

2)Again, depends on the guy. I could pick up most hints but not all. Some can't pick up any hints at all, and some knows exactly what the girl is thinking.

3) I'd try to show off, but i'd be nervous so end up messing up and playing badly anyways.

[boda]

are there some guys in the world that find girls that are not girly-girls but not a tomboy, so a in between a girly-girl and a tomboy attractive?? or do guys just want girls to act like girls.....

[han.]

are there some guys in the world that find girls that are not girly-girls but not a tomboy, so a in between a girly-girl and a tomboy attractive?? or do guys just want girls to act like girls.....

just be yourself.

[poopiness]

are there some guys in the world that find girls that are not girly-girls but not a tomboy, so a in between a girly-girl and a tomboy attractive?? or do guys just want girls to act like girls.....

I usually like girls to act like girls. Why? because if they acted like boys, and i liked them, I'd have to reconsider my sexuality.
But of course there are guys that like girls who are tomboys, and even more that like girls in between. You have nothing to worry about.

[Kennedy]

'Kay.

I don't like boys who are extremely sensitive to the point where I wonder if he is a boy or not and I don't like them when they... cling... These types of boys are extremely irritating.

Does that make me a bad person?
And are you one of those boys?

[poopiness]

'Kay.

I don't like boys who are extremely sensitive to the point where I wonder if he is a boy or not and I don't like them when they... cling... These types of boys are extremely irritating.

Does that make me a bad person?
And are you one of those boys?

You're not a bad person. It's pretty normal. Just like guys who don't like girls who act too manly, girls don't like guys who are girly.
Am I one of those boys? I have no idea. I like to think I'm more sensitive than most, but overly sensitive? I can't tell.